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[quote author=Impregnable101 post=85742440][/quote]As your wife to be and as someone you have been dating for last three years now, how possible is it that you don't know when she's menstruating? Or she doesn't tell you about this?

As a guy, you should know when your girl is menstruating and when she's done with it. Don't shy away from it by looking away. It's for your own good. She might not be calculating it but you will and by this, she can't pin a pregnancy from another man on u.

For example, if she finished her period last two weeks and you touch her today and cum inside, she's surely going to be a mother provided deciding factors are okay. But if she finished her period yesterday and you have sex with her today, she won't get pregnant because she has just shed out her waiting egg in form of blood and there's no waiting egg to fertilize your semen inside her and your semen can't wait for 10-14 days to fertilize the next available egg her ovary will be releasing.

You girl is really mean. She had sex with another guy and she allowed the guy to cum inside her like she is a cum bucket when she knows she's almost a wife and she's asking you if you cum inside her to navigate how to pin the pregnancy on you.

You can deny that pregnancy when you get her to tell you the date she finished her period. If you can't do this, just know that ignorance on this kind of issue has made u a father even though you may not be the true father.

This kind of attitude always make men go mad. This kind of attitude gives good ladies bad names.

DieuDonee:
You're the exact female version of me.
You sis nothing wrong. You shouldn't change yourself for someone that's not willing to change for you.
Move on, you'll find someone else.

Continue dey give her wrong advice o.

Someone should change for her and she should never change for that person?

She never see person wey she go love wholeheartedly without stress.

Octopusssy:
Don't you know that many people don't practice what they preach?

Yes we hardly listen to what we preach. It's inherent I think except we hack ourselves and do some rewiring.

In this her story, we can conclude that she was lying to herself, telling herself she loves the guy but deep down she was not in love.

She could identify ways ladies can take to make their guys happy but she perhaps couldn't do some of these to her guy.

She wouldn't do these because she didn't want to be invested in that relationship so she felt okay to say 'fine' when her guy sensed true incompatibility between them and broke up with her.

She was never in love. I'm happy for the guy if what she wrote here is true.

Vortex369:
Do not cancel the marriage. It will affect the health of the baby, your baby. Let the child, your child to come down, first.

But create a marvelous excuse to keep off the wedding until after the child, your child is birthed. Be sure to have DNA result confirming you as a Father. That will be a great happiness.

Then -

Re-construct the emotion you have now, and monitor silently as a cat, and launch a frontal attack on both of them when caught, with so much noise and amplifications, only when you catch them.

The above show is to exonerate yourself for 'termination of the planned marriage'. Now you have just texts and your intuitions, and those are not admissible in any court, not even village council.

Be a man, people's wives are getting bleeped daily by men like you, who also have their own women, so we can not say that all fucckers are fuccking the singles. They are fuccking people's wives more than their own husbands. And the wives are always enjoying this 'so called LOVE'.

Marriage is an abnormal union. I do not think it was supposed to be for a life time. I think marriage contract should be just a year or 2, renewable by both parties, cos I know many of the married people reading this are cheating. I think all married people are cheating the rest are just lacking the opportunity to. Given the opportunity, everyone cheats.

Ha Ha.

Perfection abhors semicircles. I hope you have not cheated in the relationship.

I'm very sure if you are married now as we speak, then someone is banging ya husband.

Your assertion that everyone cheats is 75% true and that's A anyway. Based on this, we can say being possessive of ya partner is subtly wise.

SniperSmurf:
Two trillion dollars in naira is beyond comprehension. That is what US just spent on military hardware alone!

This narrative is misleading. Pls verify before you post. Thanks.

Dagrace01:
I like your constructive analysis, but this morning I read something about a guy who took a girl to Osun state for blood money, that's the level girls are pushing guys too. Yahoo boys, fraudsters, money ritualists are the ones capable of getting a gal into a relationship. While guys filled with prospects who struggle day in day out and getting stipends as ends meet can't be dated. At this pace the life of our youths are in jeopardy because success is now attributed to having flashy cars, living lavish lifestyles and wearing the latest designers that came from dirty source.

Our ladies are helping the guys to further make this place super-complicated. Our yeye government don make am complicated already.

If you are hustling or currently broke, you must have a woman in your life. When you don't have a woman, its a failure and when you also don't have money, its a failure too.

I hate ladies that will say they hate broke guys but they are being bleeped constantly free by guys who know how the game is played. And these guys are not rich, they just know how to make these ladies think they are rich. nothing more.

Don't buy the narrative of 'get rich and women will flock around u' thing, this saying shows women are hoes literally. What is love then when people like saying this? It shows I can use my money to treat you like a hoe no matter how decent you think you are, treat u like shit and send you packing after all you wouldn't love me if I had no money.

When once a broke guy that has been treated like shit by ladies eventually gets rich, its very okay that he treats any girl that comes his way with disdain after fucking her.

Whether you have a woman or not doesn't stop you from making money. Money making is our mandate, that its not here now doesn't mean it wont be here. You are not dead yet. Don't let anyone make u feel like shit.

But can our ladies define a poor-broke guy?

0monnak0da:
Not school
Autistic people do not get jokes, sarcasm or parables
Their thinking is very concrete

This is deep o
Well, I didnt read anything o so I looked away.

itsme01:
as much as Ganduje seem to have excellent plans on infrastructure, this stupid policy renders him stupid, women hardly drive trycircle or bikes so men would still be in charge of driving women, and this defeats his agenda on segregation

He was not thinking well when he said this. He bent backward in mental reasoning when he made this law.

But Kano people are humans just like me and you but they will cease to be when they accept this law all because the governor is doing his work in terms of infrastructural development and earning his salary for it and they are shockingly praising him.

What sort of people do we have in this country gan na?

Godfullsam:
So you didn't understand the writer was mocking the governor for his senseless policy?

It's like you and ganduje are both senseless

Must you always talk when you notice something?

Leave the guy alone.

No be all of us pass through school.

EngrXrix:
Non of these big organizations really recruit from scratch. They already have candidates on ground to fill those advertised vacancies. Any vacant position announced is just for formality as required by law. Not because they need you . This I learnt the hard way. Go into business.

Hmmmmm

How does one digest this?

When luck smiles on you, you wouldn't believe this but when it is the other way, then you will admit,'inside life, some must suffer and some must enjoy.'

@OP
Its not over until its over.
'In the land of the losers, you shall win. ehn bo ma se wa niyen becos Oluwa is interested in your case'.

Baba, its not called toad. Toad is too unpleasant. That's a frog. Whether toad or frog, I can't even sniff it. Una dey chop when una no be Chinese people.

banom:
Oga should we spoon feed the broadcast before you know he said it. The broadcast is online, search for it...and accept NNAMDI KANU is bigger than you and your Hopeless tribe and one Nigeria.

Please spoonfeed the broadcast with evidence o.

I don't know if you expect people that read this to believe what you quoted he said. Baba provide proof. In his tweeter handle,nothing like that is found there.

life sha!!!!

He didnt win all this while with his own money and when he freestyled using bet9ja bonus, he won huge amount of money.

He is not lucky. If he takes it to court, he will lose so its a sorry case.

He will be lucky next time.

Please help me tell the guy to be strong. It doesn't end there.

BrokeFucker007:
Too many adults with toddlers brains, how will he pit a ring on it if he doesn't know if the lady is fit to be his wife?
Dont give vagina? what about his dlck? or is he giving her water? don't cook? how the hell is a man to know if his future wife can cook and feed their kids with delicious meals? cleaning? well na for guys that are dirty but what's the big deal in it? OK if you can't do all these for your boyfriend you should be single or become a lesbian.

makes nonsense being in a relationship and treating it like a business, I just have to stop here. Most of you the difference bw you and babies is that you all can talk, walk without falling, don't wear pampers and grown body parts.

NB: This is what most girls that have been hurt, dumped, scorned by their ex boyfriend or that are heartbroken or recovering from heartbreak or nursing ill will against their ex.
Most girls that are in love and are being treated like queens don't have this shitty and nauseating crap in their brains.
LADIES THAT ARE HAPPY WITH THEIR BOYFRIENDS DO ALL THESE JOYFULLY, op its easy to be a lesbian ;-).

May you live long with more grace and wisdom for this your response.

Op has been bleeped crazy by someone she chose but didn't choose her and has overworked herself trying to please him and unfortunately for her, she got dumped. In order to unwind, she decided to come here and spew nonsense.

For her mind now, she go think say her post is educative.

Davisk11:
how do you feel when your girl friend greets you on social media like " Morning, Noon or Evening" with no romantic words attached. mean while you always shower praises on her while greeting her in those period mentioned so far.

Make I tell u small lie

Your girlfriend likes u but na small like she get for u.
Your so called girlfriend of which I know she's not your girlfriend (as far as I know based on this, na you dey carry the title for head) doesn't like u. Forget say she give u pussy Bleep. If she can earn 'good morning darling', why cant she give 'good morning dear' back?

Your so called girlfriend uses this kind of greetings to tell guys she's attracted to that you are the one loving her not the other way round so she can't sent romantic greetings in chats to u. When they see it, they think na you dey toast their girl.

Baba you dey get stress love the girl? why she dey get stress to just send good morning dear give u? Don't ever choose girls, let them choose u if not them go dey treat u like say God no create u well. Stop telling yourself lies say she loves u. Love is freeéeeeéeeeeé

I can not even tolerate 'good morning' let alone you sending 'morning', 'evening', 'k' etc

MrBrownJay1:
nothing like spiritual attacks... all of this is simple unfortunate medical issues.
for example: if you simply get stabbed then you can easily be fixed, but many criminals know that putting poison on the blade (or simply wipe the blade with a potato) will greatly make the wound worse. nothing mystical here.

Google elephantiasis to educate yourself on the problem with giant legs.

Bro, there are things science can explain and things science will just term 'natural', inexplicable. Science can explain things when they are physical but can't when things transcend human knowledge.

How do u explain these scenarios?
A man dreamt about being attacked with a cutlass and woke up to see the wounds on his body.

There was a match that was played in Congo some years back which was shocking because there was a thunderous strike on the first opponents killing all eleven players and leaving the other eleven players unhurt.

Science will die explaining this.

Science doesn't even know anything. Science knows only 10% of things that exist to put it favorably.

If you see the power that be, you will just shrink away out of shock. Don't liken this place to a white man's land.

If you doubt, come down to imodi imosan or ijebu Igbo to learn better. There is no way you will these places without acknowledging things spiritual are superior while Science is doing boyi boyi.

I will conclude that you have not seen life in its raw form-that's why you can talk as you want

maiahsaiah:
You said what has building yourself got to do with dating? Do you think it’s only guys that get distracted when dating? Lol! Won’t say anything on that again.

I hope you saw where I said they should keep them as friends?

And remember it’s an advice. So anybody can yinmu if it doesn’t resonate with them.

When should I start dating guys aunty wa assuming I'm a lady and I'm seeking your advice?

maiahsaiah:
Stop dating guys, focus on building yourself. Learn a skill, make your money.

Listen to yourself again.
What has building yourself has to do with dating guys? You will miraculously have husbands.

Don't worry, keep doing this and you will day start using your hard earned money to pay for sex.

They should start dating animals cos guys love sex too much and animals won't Bleep them but lick their clits.

Some girls will just yinmu and pass though.

@op,
you go be virgin o.

The guy wey go marry u no go be your boyfriend o. Na ordinary friend e go be to u and miraculously become your husband later. No man born of a woman go date u and sex won't part of the reasons he likes u. Think about those ugly and shapeless ladies who don't have guys to remind them they exist.

Ladies can't just keep guys as friends whether they are working or not. Ladies don't like sex like that but they don't want it to stop once guys start it.

This thing is easy to write about. You are human.

Can u tell us that you have not had sex before and even if you did, you were raped?

We(men) will always want sex and you will always give us not because of the gifts but because you enjoy it more than we do.

Your writeup addresses the money part and sanctimoniously skipped the sex part to make it look like girls don't like sex or its a favor to men. Dont you want to have sex before marriage? Naso you holy reach?

You came here and tell us you make money for yourself so therefore guys should dey their dey. Na spirits dey tend to your natural sexual needs abi? If there is no sex, there won't be marriage. Only sissies would think otherwise.

You hear stories like, they had sex the first time they met and lived happily thereafter and they waited till marriage to have sex and the marriage crashed. Can't you see that even life doesn't understand itself. We just dey gamble am dey go.

AdeeT:
Abuse and curse me all you wished, the did is already done, the one I am not proud of, and never wished for to happen. I took all the blame, and only wanted a best idea/advice to safe landing.

My mind is pushing me towards visiting her to relate with her all that has happened. And again, another mind is telling me that all would be lost afterwards. I don't want to loose her, she's already an integral part of my life.

How best can I confront her without loosing her?

I don't blame you bro. Your lady trusted you and her friend but she forgot that the surge of your testosterone overwrites your reason. Her friend knew this and took advantage of it. I blame her for foolishly pairing fuel and fire and hoping that it won't catch fire. As you said, that ya lady has invested so much in you so for now, don't tell her now but have it in mind to tell her someday.

Luckysbab:
I hope you have invested on field marketing more than the Internet adverts?
Take a cue from Opay.

what about opay?

I've seen people post real shit online but I must admit this is a special shit. You took time to sit and write this rubbish mehn, your genius is at reverse state.

Norabay:
i hate poor guys

She will be forced to learn. if your daddy is rich like otedola, you would not talk like this. Some girls just don't want to use their head because they have pussy. Mhen, if you can wield pussy power, I can wield dick power.

When he's poor today and tomorrow he's rich, you would want to do familiarity with him, don't you think Amadioha should strike u death on just running the thoughts alone?

You didnt feel embarrassed coming here and saying you hate poor guys.

Should I interpret your sentence to u?

Ladies with no sex of a thing and a guy will fall for that? Ask am,na angels dey Bleep am?

You have urges to do other things but you don't have urge to have sex and a guy will accept this?

There are tiny percentage of ladies that can tell me this.

Its possible op has never dated a cute and plump girl before so he has to thread carefully not to offend her.

My guy, pussy na pussy. Dont let her intimidate you except you are a sissy.

Fountainofyouth:
Same way its not easy giving bj, you just have to give to receive, do you also know that the reason why some ladies love a man with a good head game is if he can make one orgasm through it, not every man is that talented, so there is no way a lady can leave that kind of guy.

I see and I get that you are one of the ladies you mentioned above. Like a guy because he can give u a mind blowing head not because of security.

Xsenga:
yes na, I enjoy it a lot.

Ladies with this head of a thing. smh for them. They will cheat on their men because one bastard can give them head. And if they are caught they quickly lay the blame at their guys' feet saying if you love me truly you should be free to give me head-job, u know I love it.

She's not in the mood for sex but tell you want to give her head, she will instantly be the mood and you can't say you are no longer interested.

Its not easy to give a lady a head job biko except her pussy can emit fragrance scent naturally.

Any reasonable lady here should admit the lady in question is rude and the guy was wrong.

There are characters we don't know we have. The lady in question probably didnt know she could act like that. I'm sure if she knew she wouldn't have acted like that.

The guy's insistence on having the front seat for a few minutes triggered that from her. How do you justify that?-for those that support the lady. She talked rudely to the driver that didn't offend her. I'm sure she should feel bad now for talking that way to the driver.

My guy don't cut her off. She was reacting badly to a situation; a situation she couldn't explain. You are learning her which is acceptable given how weak we are in character. You could get triggered to do something too tomorrow that's utterly unacceptable. All these are forgiveable.

The bigger problem here is if she doesn't feel bad about how she reacted that day like she doesn't care how the driver feel.

You were wrong and she was super wrong. Tell her you sorry because if you didnt have the front seat, she wouldn't know she could talk like that. Then she needs without being told to be outrightly remorseful about this.

So she can advice girls not fall for guys because of cash and gifts. Olodo girl

Four years ago she said she can't date a poor man and she doesnt want to build a relationship and now shes in a position to advise girls because she's seen life in its raw form. She can complain of wack sex. smh

The ladies are hearing and seeing but not comprehending. They must also pass through what you passed through with the false hope that it won't be their portion before they pair with sense inseparably.

Pettyprincess:
Are you tall handsome nd extremely rich?
Can spend your whole salary on me every month without demanding sex?

And she said this and didn't feel embarrassed? Mehn, never before have I seen haughtiness taken to a whole new height. Then you are left asking, who is her mentor?