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prechbills1:
[s]Now I want to get something very clear.

I need attention and validation, exactly from who?
what sort of attention I'm I looking for and is nairaland a place to seek attention?.

Now get read this very well
Nairaland is a faceless forum, I don't know you neither do you know me.
Your attention or validation adds nothing to my life.
I don't give a fvck about your validation and existence.

Now this should be the last time you ever quote me on this forum.
I know the level of cabinets I conversiate with on nairaland, you're not and can never be among them.

You're jobless doesn't mean I'm and I'm gonna prove nothing to you.

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frankzone:
Mr eazy should be number one

Scholarsticchai:
3 of my names appeared

Scholarsticchai:

Scholarsticchai:

prechbills1:
I'm self employed.
ask for more details before you quote me with your broke ass next time.

mickeyenglish:



Hmm.. The same ladder you made use while ascending into stardom has been destroyed now,who helps you descend when the time comes? Like this popular Naija hit track i hear regularly now(i can't recall the name of the artiste) "no forget the ladder wey you take reach up ooh,one day you go need am ooh , you go need ooh"..something like that sha.
Mr 2kay and flavour..

The little stardom dey get inturn quicky blinds them from the fact that it wasn't entire by their own doing. The become oblivious to the very existence of them that made it all happen,thinking they could just walk away freely,having cheated another person. They become immune to the pain and agony they cost others.

Like the Lannisters would say :"a promise is a debt".You owe a debt, now you must fulfil your pledge. That's why there's Karma for Earthlings like this with little regards for deals.Even from the chats, she was so pompous and arrogant, so filled with herself as if she received Planet Mars as a Starprize from Project Fame.Now you have to go in search of another PR to help you deny the obvious, and i don't think another sane PR would be as dumb as to pick up the job after playing a fast one on another of their Comrades in arms.How ironic this life is.









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dairykidd:
Why u dey vex na... Ur own go come

Moving4:
but this video says otherwise


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2lXg7NnK1Y

Omihanifa:
Gossip machines

BiggerbossAmani:
am cool dear

Nothing much helped just that I was fed up with some rubbish talk here

BiggerbossAmani:
Divay22 how far

predmine20:
If you are a virgin and you got married to a non-virgin,you will die young due to the following reasons.

1. Non-virgins are promiscious in nature because once they taste the forbidden fruit they will keep going for more.

2. They will kill you with marathon sex because that is their calling in life as they chose their fate.

3. They are inveterate liars because they see you as a dunce for dating them.

4. They will divorce you later in the marriage because you can't satisfy their huge appetite for sex.

5. They will never be faithful to you as they will keep fvcking around as a pig and covering it with lies.

6. They don't value marriage as a sacred union,to them is a trap for stopping them for fvcking around.

Don't date them if you love your life and future.

7. Pls add yours.



lalasticlala fp?

greiboy:
who told you
You are just as lazy

NeeKlaus:
Check again. This time, carefully.

Tinamoore:
I just want to let out some of my pains and fesrs on this faceless forum .maybe it will give me some sort of relief.

I know that I am not a perfect person but i know that i gave my all to my marriage to make it work but it didn't work out.the whole thing is gradually wrecking me emotinally because of my two innocent children.

When I look back at the " good girl" life I have lived, I begin to wonder if its worth it.most times, I just want to do some "very bad things", so that the pains I passed through in my marriage will make sense to me. Why does bad things happen to good people.

Most times, I am scared if I am/ will make a good mother to my kids.can I successfully fill the vacuum of a father in their lives? Why my children? Why must they be caught in this web of ' single parenthood'.God!!! I am so scared of what the future holds for us.i worry about what will happen if my children dont turn out well.I try to be strong especially for my kids but at times I break down. This was never the plan I had for myself. What happened to my dreams?

For how long will I answer questions like: mummy, I want to speak with my daddy; mummy, why is daddy not living with us anymore; mummy, I miss my daddy.this are questions my children ask even though they haven't spent so much time with their father as he was abroad.In as much as I don't want to paint their father as a bad person, I also don't want to give them the impression that I am deliberately keeping them away from their father.so the questions get hard to answer.

How can a father abandon his own blood? No calls, emotional or financial commitment. I can deal with it, but its not easy for my kids.maybe its about the belief that" my children will eventually look for their father, their root".how about their education? Don't you care if your children are in school knowing fully well I am unemployed. God!! Please answer my prayers.

It's worse because I can't and will never go back to him. For if i do, he may cause me to commit suicide oneday. Twice , his actions made me raise knife to take my life. I loved him so much that he was my obsession. He was my first and only love.do I hate him now? No, I can never hate the one I once loved so much.I gave him time to change but it got worse.I know we all have our faults including me but not when a man makes his wife an " intimate stranger".

Life itself is not fair.so many questions and questions in my head that beg for answers.at times you need someone to just listen to you. At times i t gets too much for me that I just want to scream out loud.you cry so much and still don't feel any better.its worse because no one else truly knows what I am passing through emotionally.God bless my family for me but then my emotional pains is beyond them.

Do I feel any better writing this? honestly I don't know. Just want to write about how I am feeling. At times I want to loose faith/ hope in God but then I know its only him and myself that can help "me".

I am not new on nairaland.my old moniker is saponification but changed it when I lost my former email.

Amirullaha:
It's very possible sis...
I had the same opinion as yours before; until I was involved in the same dilemma some months ago...
I know how it's feels...
I've been there...