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CalmElder:
I can but I hate it when I have to.

Nothing as liberating as being genuine

Yeah.. You're right..
You're just yourself too bad people take advantage of that

Precious101c:
Spending my life savings of almost 35million to build 10self contain apartment for rent, now my money has finished and I haven't completed the house. Am even struggling to eat now meanwhile I have 35million worth of uncompleted building , not rentable.

While not source for a place you can get a good amount of loan at least to complete maybe 3 or 5 apartment and rent it out and dedicate to paying back the loan within a certain period of time...

Don't say you can't.. Please try and look for.
Or you can sell 5 to complete the other 5 for yourself (if you're scared of owning anybody)

I hope the house is in a good location thou
Please think about it.. It's a huge risk but i have seen people doing it.. All the best.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Club Cubana is the answer. I worked there. If you have ever been there or clubbed there, then you'd understand how making thousands could be easy peasy in one night. I could make as much as 500k on a weekend. Then, I was like LAPO to family and friends. If you met me then to borrow you 1M, it would be readily available.

I was a teenage girl, naive and impressionable. I felt everyone had a good heart — like me. I would always help anyone who came to me having money problems. Anyone. I'd make sure you live la Vida loca as far as you came to me for help and I know you.

I had an admission to study in Finland, and then I got duped of over 5Ms by an agent. Sadly, this person was introduced to me by family. Till now, I don't know her whereabouts. I doled out uncountable monies doing giveaways without plans because I felt it would always be there. Even my parents were no good.

Do you know what it feels like to have over 9M in one minute and be stark broke in another? Sometimes, I sit and stare forlornly and just think I have nothing else to live for. When I tell people I'm depressed, they laugh at me and call me bipolar or make jest of me about being depressed. You don't understand it, mate. Like another Nairalander said, maybe I'm just still very weak and playing cowardice to snuff life out of me. Or maybe, I'm still very undecided. Time will tell.

Mind you, I have things going on for me but I can't forking move on. I hate everyone who I ever was there for. I hate them. I regret every forking thing I ever did for them. 😭. Maybe, I just had too many expectations. Just maybe. But, why should I not? I forking cared for them. Why shouldn't I?

I'm sorry about the epistle.

I'm so sorry about this babe..
Omo, to think this is what you carry inside of you day in and day out.
I pray life replenish all you did for others.

CalmElder:
I regret snubbing a very attractive 42 year old American lady because of 10 years difference in age.

I didn't know how to pretend.

I guess now you can pretend very well

Lol..
I had 0.002+ in my luno bitcoin wallet and also 0.2+ Ethereum
But panic made me sold everything before the bull run (because of the useless govt policy)

Oh, yes i at that time had a binance wallet and i had someone that was ready to teach me how to navigate it and also trade but i wasn't just interested....

Well, it was a case of not going into what you don't know or keen on knowing for me.

Bukola94:
same story, over 30yrs of marriage. moreover, my dad had 4wives. I came from a polygamy family. from grand fathers to dad.

It's almost getting to your turn 😎

Nazgul:
It's only Lagos. Cos I've been calling people based outside Lagos and they've all been complaining seriously about the epileptic power NEPA has been giving them...it's even worse in the SS and SE.

It certainly defiles the rainy season argument, cos Lagos is currently building her own power station and from what I'm hearing, they're already relieving some power stations of their heavy workloads so more stations are becoming free cos they wouldn't need to be regulated anymore since they're no longer being overworked. Hence the improved power supply

Lol@ your last paragraph. That's exactly what happened to me last night. I'm even projecting my units to finish by January next year. I don't have strength for this administration.

Add Port Harcourt to your Lagos mix

I'm even scared of the light now

seankafor:
how can one not allow people kiss their kids without sounding disrespectful

There's no way you won't sound disrespectful.. Just tell anyway or tell them to do on their cheek

Oluwaseunbandur:
Wished am married, my life would av been more better

Hmmmm

Oluwaseunbandur:
Ahahahaha, I sensed it na,


But seriously I don't like relationship when I know it won't end in marriage, maybe am the one always pushing for everything to work out which I am now realizing it's a big mistake

Don't tell me you're the OP and maybe this is just your alternate


Why not discuss with whoever you're dating... We all have a reason for dating. And again if you want marriage you should be going for whoever is ready for that also...

Oluwaseunbandur:
No relationship yet, not to talk of marriage

And how did you know that

QuizPay

How is your marriage going?

Oluwaseunbandur:
Lol, it's not me honestly, I haven't even created a thread before since I joined

Alright

Oluwaseunbandur:
Not at all, only commented

That doesn't just look like a comment..
Anyways

Oluwaseunbandur:
Am trying to move on, already concluded to move on, but not done in a day, I know before end of the year, would av forgotten about her

You're the op?

What are you still doing with her abeg

She doesn't rate you.. Move on

I can't measure her love for me o....

LEGALSER:
For 11 years you have been tolerating this? Divorce her and get another woman man.

You think divorce is that easy abi
And what makes you so sure the other woman he would marry won't do more than this

It might necessarily not be because of the money though...

Opening one side and sucking from it makes it extra sweeter

ImpregnaTor:
Many Nigerians know Avocado but they don't know it by the name Avocado, they call it something else. I guess why u have this thought

It's called pear 🍐
Na who don read English man book dey call am Avocado... Like the name sha

Twice a week for now...
When i get married, I would want it to be at least 3 or 4 times in a week...
I hope i marry a man that loves to eat, because I'm loving how to cook.

helinues:
I realized we Nigerians don't have recipe for food. I have been watching village cooking channel, likely India or Pakistan, when you see the ingredients those people add to their food, they must definitely live older than us

Omo
And they use everything natural
Omo, cooking so good

Flamezreal:
Constant sex makes you age faster.

Hmmmm

Loyalty is a self conscious, self decision and self discipline thing....
It has to do with you.

AmotekunSW:
You want him to notice you and then you enter his DM.

That thing wey you dey find, them no go give you chop.

What are you saying, because i don't understand

MasterShifu010:
My own wasn’t an ex , Twas a babe I wanted to just bang and move on , I banged her so hard , while I was banging her body began to shake , she held my head close to hers , and my ear close to her mouth , she whispered the words “ I love you , I love you , I love you “ , while her body shook , she kept saying this for like 60 seconds , … after that day , I ghosted her , saw her 6 months later , she begged me to Bleep , she told me that whenever she’s alone at home , her mind would just flash to that day I nacked her , she said she always thought about that day , she said I truly made her feel like a woman that day …

Oshe
Woman maker

I had to force myself to start cooking in school but thank God am enjoying it now .

And i try as much as possible to eat before going for my classes so as to avoid me buying anything in school..
So at most 2k that's if i have food at home...

Negroid001:
Y'all that date someone for six years, how una dey run am. Make una come teach me

Honestly ehn.
But sometimes guys do give us hint of not doing forever, na we just dey allow love dey carry us go where we no know..

First, you've to be intentional about moving on..
Second, try and start going out more often.. Do what makes you happy...Take pictures and keep telling yourself you'll be fine..
You don't have to jump into another relationship if you're not ready.. Take your time...

Something tells me he'll come back sha
Just don't be miserable abeg..