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GRACEGLORY:
First of all, men aren't 'afraid' of successful women. And high time we understood what real success is.

Men are allergic to the 'I make my own money so I don't need to respect you' energy, the weaponized independence that excuses zero accountability or basic femininity.

How can men be afraid of successful women, Men were raised and grew up around queens who built empires and still knew how to build a home. Men celebrate capable women. What they dodge is the arrogant ones who think a fat bank account buys them a free pass to act like men with worse attitudes.

Same reason high-value women ghost insecure broke boys who can't handle her shine. It's not success scaring anybody, it's garbage character hiding behind a fat bank account..

Secure men want partners, not competitors with chips on their shoulders. If that's 'intimidating,' stay single and keep telling yourself it's the men’s fear. The mirror doesn't lie."

"Men don't fear successful women.
They fear the bitter, contemptuous divas who think success = license to treat men like doormats.
You weaponize wins and wonder why winners keep walking.
It's not intimidation,it's standards.
weaponize wins, demand worship, then wonder why real men vanish.
It's not intimidation, it's nausea.
The mirror's brutal."

No man wants character defects packaged in designers.


These are successful women below

Hear ye! Hear ye!!

Host78:
A whole lot of rűbbïsh you wrote there.

First off, successful women are single because they are successful.

They are single because like every woman out there, they want to "date up".

Let's imagine this, when a man is successful, he doesn't look for a girl that is "on his level" or "higher" than him to start a relationship with her.

He can go to a filling station and see a girl there and start dating her.

Ronaldo was very successful and would have gotten to date any high value actress or model from anywhere in the world.

But he at the same time is flexible enough to go to a clothing store and pick one of the sales girl there and date her.

Women lack this flexibility. No matter how successful a woman is, she still wants to date a man who is "more successful" than her.

She'll never go to the gutter to pick any kind of man, even the one that will worship the ground she walks on.

Now this severely limits her options. For a woman who has N10million in her account, she's looking for a man with almost N50-100million in liquid cash.

She's looking up and there are only such a few of such men in the dating pool. It's like saying I as a guy will only date a girl who is earning N5m per month.

There are only such few girls in this country. If I put that as my mindset, anyone wise person will know that I'm ready to be single for a long time or for life.

Now, to the second part of this equation, and this is the usual problem with these women which they don't admit to themselves: the very "more successful" men that they want don't usually want them. .

There are many successful actresses in Nigeria, but do you think someone as successful as Davido wants to date them for their success?

If I'm a man and I'm earning N10m a month on this country, why should I care what my woman is earning when I want to pick a wife?

I can comfortably take care of any woman I want. Emphasise here is on "the woman I want".

No man in history has ever listed "success" or a specific naira figure when they are looking for a wife.

To most men, all you hear is "she must be beautiful, respectful, love me, submissive, does not cheat and speak softly"

And if any man ever mentions that his wife must be hardworking, it is usually in the area of keeping his house clean.

The reason why success is never a criteria for men looking for wives is very simple: a successful woman always wants a more successful man who will still pay for everything

Take for instance, regardless of how successful these actresses are, Davido understands that "spending" in the relationship will still fall on him because he's higher than them.

So, here's a dilemma, these women are hugely successful, they have bigger appetites, they want him to impress them. What exactly does he gain in return from dating such "successful" women?

Absolutely nothing.

The success of a woman does not benefit the more successful man she wants in any meaningful way.

So why should he date her when he could find someone prettier, someone who will be more grateful for his love?

The only way a successful woman can ascertain if men are intimidated by her is her going into the village and pickin a lowlife man or an Okada man or a cab man or a salesman and changing his life.

Let her pick such a man up, brush him up and give him the world and treat him like a king just as Ronaldo or Davido is treating their "poor" spouses like they are queens.

But then this almost will never happen.

Look at someone like DJ cuppy, everyday there are men in her comment section who will marry her and treat her like a queen.

Look at tiwa savage there are men who will willingly be her 'house' husband.

But regardless of success and the money these women have, they still want a bigger fish.

Cuppy always following Anthony Joshua up and down.

Now is Anthony Joshua intimidated by DJ cuppy? Of course not.

He's just not interested because she has nothing to offer him. Not virginity, not youth, nothing.

So, single successful women are not single because men are intimidated by them. They are single because of 4 simple things:

1. They lack flexibility in that they don't want to date downward

2. The men that are higher than them, don't desire them

3. They don't really know what men want because they chase success and once they get success, they think they have higher marketplace values.

4. And so they raise their standards, meanwhile men who meet such standards, don't want them back.

And so, they are at the top, with high standards and no one to chase after them instead of them doing the chasing.

When they are supposed to chase after Okada men, pick such Okada men and turn them to "house" husbands that they can provide for, just as Ronaldo picked a salesgirl and turn her into a wife.

These successful women are still looking to be chased by men who are richer. It's a joke.

This is a seminal piece.
Real critical thinking at play here.
Bravo!

pdppower:
Baba should not act saint now because he started the whole corruption thing

Don't be so predictable.
We are not talking about the "past".
Yes, he may have been a part of the issue, but does that detract from the truth of his statements?
Must we keep dwelling on the past?
Look to the future, therein lies salvation!

This habit of ALWAYS trying to render truth false by throwing shades at the proponents of such truths (rightly or wrongly) without considering the message is alarming and speaks to a mind that is absorbed in self deceit and slavish adoration of (wilful) ignorance.

WAKE UP!!!

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Exceed15:
Whoa beautiful

More like it!

Pure, simple commendation.

We need this more in times like this. It does not mean one is living in a fool's paradise, it just means in this instance for example, this poster chose to appreciate the effort of the Nigeria Army in this rendition rather than cast aspersions at their effort.

Please keep up the positivism!

helinues:
Nice

Standard choir wouldn't have done better. So many background notes

Even the drummers self no gree. Nice

Can't you guys just give a commendation without tainting it with "buts" and "ifs"? No matter how little, how infinitesimal, just a pure clean commendation for an effort.

It's really troubling. It speaks of a deep-rooted cynicism to life...you may not agree, but trust me, it can be so deep-rooted in our subconscious we don't even know we exhibit these traits.

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