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iceberylin:
Wicked girls be like....

Hahahaha! Bro i tire.

Its cliche for most of us (guyz) to start improvising & do some spending this val in a bid to please our beloved 9ja women. (Love don't cost a thing huh? Not in 9ja). Oh well, abeg for a long time now its been stuffs like singlets & boxers for most of us. Very cheap (not up to shawama, treats & take away). Abeg make una surprise us this time & not with sex oh! (Expected sha). We know say na una treasure base. Hope am speaking the mind of my male folks. We do love our 9ja babes regardless. Happy St. Valentines day ahead people!

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If most guyz have a certain perception about our 9ja ladies then they're truths in it. Same way our men are known to be ego filled & traditionalist. Our ladies place too much emphasis & standards they often did not help contribute to in a man. It goes both ways.

How long have you been dating? How often does she call you? Does she have issues doing chores or ashamed of holding hands in public? If you get negative answers then she's either not into you or not convinced about you yet.

southniyikaye:
But how many times will people like you be corrected that it wasn't buhari who said baboon or whatever will be soaked in blood? It was a pdp member that said it and he has apologized..get ur facts stright before u come here to rant nonsense

why lie on Buhari's behalf? Don't you read newspapers? Ok what is the name of the PDP member & I'd give you the date he issued these statements in 2011.

nairalife2013:
Op, when I dey tell u, u no dey hear. Now shebi u dong run back home wid ya tail between ya legs like a little puppy in a lost battle! Ntorr!!!

And how exactly? Go find out from the source listed. Or was it not the same Buhari who said he'd make the country ungovernable? The Baboons would bleed to death if he loses? Are these all lies? Suit yourselves.

This is one reason Nigeria keeps having the same recycled leaders. The truth is so hard for them to chew.

Walahi Talahi! It takes much to convince a muslim family that you'll love, marry & cherish their daughter. I think its more of a religious problem than tribal.

Inter tribal marriages in Nigeria is fast becoming a norm but for Muslim Hausa ladies, its still a no go area especially if you're a christian. Why is this so? I find Hausa ladies much more respective & submissive even after a high degree of education to be honest.

FolarinLondon:
So u expected the man to stand against his people/Nigerians when you guys are the most opinionated, tribalistic and pathetic tribe in Nigeria. Trust me, I stand with him on this anytime and anyday.

I am yet to see any of your so called Igbo Elites/Elders apologising on behalf of Ndigbo for killing and maiming both military and civilian leaders of Northern extraction.

Go and read Nigeria history very well, not the ones written by your own bigoted progenitors though and If you are reasonable and unbiased person, you ll realise how funked up your progenitors were back in d days.

He does not owe you guys any apology; go to hell with your freaking votes; politically and economically done people.

Its folks like you (the Elite Hausa) that goes to mosque coercing other low life muslims to maim and kill Christians over hatred & envy. Am no politician nor a PDP supporter. Jonathan is not even Igbo & unlike you, am proud of my Igbo ancestors who stood firm & gave us wisdom to grow & survive turbulance(s) of any kind. Jonathan had 6years & the North (your fathers) had over 35 years with nothing to show. Whom the crown fits, let him wear it. Going to history like you mentioned, how did the Igbos elite kill your ancestors if truely they did? Were Aguyi Ironsi or Major Nzeogbu following orders? Was there a resolution? Are the Igbos responsible for violence in Iraq, Iran, Syria, Palestine, Pakistan, Kuwait, Afganistan and other Islamic nations? Tell yourself the truth. Yet the same Igbos are the backbone of your 'one Nigeria' economy.

jemype:
No link, no picture, no video, op the glory has departed from your life with this lie ooo.

Glory? Well you're as blind as the jews & don't have to believe. BBC hausa broadcast monitored in Kaduna.

papalnuncio:
are u sure he said this?

. BBC Hausa can give you full details.

Maj Gen Muhammadu Buhari has dropped the bombshell, on the reason he has been losing election in Igboland and parts of Nigeria where Igbos are residing, stating that it is because he was involved in the Nigerian civil war. …

The former dictator speaking today on BBC Hausa services monitored in kaduna, said with regrets that, “the igbos hate him for what happened during the Biafran war”. “I don’t have any regret, and at such do not owe any apology to them, infact if there is a repeat of the civil war again, I will kill more Igbos to save the country”.

The APC presidential candidate, added that this was the reason they never bothered to vote for him anywhere in Nigeria.

It is a shame, that a man that is aspiring to rule the whole country, not part of it, will talk in this manner. I support the APC gubernatorial candidate in Lagos, EDO & IMO states but the truth is, Buhari is behind boko haram & not worthy to Rule Nigeria.

@dapsy4u2: My brother it seems you're so jobless u spend time derailing threads instead of making meaningful contributions. Must be a pussy nigga. One controlled by his female(s). Go play elsewhere. You do not have to accept my ideology but its worse knowing you've got none. People argue to learn or agree.

Its plain for any sane person to read & digest. There are suggestions & facts real men can relate with.

All one reads about these days in our beloved romance section is why sex? Guyz & sex, must there be sex? Noticed its often ladies of the early 20s class that bears this mindset the most. Now its cool to have male friends, visa viz but define it clearly. Stop leading us on, visiting a male friend in odd hours, being all alone in his room/your room, turning him on, giving hope, making him your problem solver (esp cash) & expect him not to make a move. Its no payback for good deeds but if he's nice & worth it please, the least u can do is fork him. Sex won't change anything if you're both matured, if u can't then please meet in open places only. I think you ladies enjoy the drama. 9ja babes na deem get this bad orientation the most. Try SA, Ghanian or ladies from other parts of the world. Very blunt & getting down aint no ish. If you're just friends they tell u straight up without fear of losing the company, aid or stuffs they gain from u. I TIRE. If say we fit, we guyz will just lockup for a year. Let's see lesbianism in full maturity or if you ladies can exist alone sef. We are ever ready sex driven beings. Take it or leave it.

At OP na only 9ja sugar mummy fit do this kind thing sef. Lol. To make things worse, giving us kpetus is like doing us a very huge favor. Like its not meant to be enjoyed or too much to ask. Mehn try dating foreign ladies and see the difference.

MTN is undoubtedly the most successful telecoms firm in Nigeria but they seem to be the most hated. Remember how they extorted Nigerians saying per second billing wasn't feasible anytime soon & selling sim cards for as high as 27k - 30(x)k. Not to mention poor voice service & disappearing airtime. Remember the win an airplane offer? Lol. These days most people i know do not take their offers or bonanzas serious. MTN we are wiser & please upgrade to 3G in Eziobodo - FUTO host community in IMO state. Its been over a decade with Edge as students in the area are fedup.

It goes both ways. We African men have got pride. Our ego often affects decision making. Now even an average lady with a degree will form like tolotolo for a guy who's more intelligent & promising just cos he didn't get the chance to pursue higher learning. Had a girl who's in the U.K doing her masters. No calls, sms, fb chat, skype or even mails since she left 9ja. Now imagine her expecting good countenance from me if ever we run into each other. Same masters program am pursuing here,

You have a point but even the courageous ones as u term it want basically the same thing. Truth is, most 9ja girls lack courtesy & respect for male folks. Often rude when approached. There are better ways to say no to a wooer but not in their case. Rejection is no fun sport. Guys are humans too & have feelings.

Dating this pretty lady who happens to be my cosine's ex girlfriend. Far from betrayal she's somehow related to my coz whom she was dating & i filled in the spot with consent from my coz. Turns out she's nice & i look beyond her imperfections as she does mine. No regrets & loving her daily but need general opinion before taking major steps. You know what they say; love is blind.

drnoel:
That's called rape

check your dictionary for the definition of rape. She begs for sex = mutual tidy. Warned against it anyway but its last resort if the babe is a scam. A lot of the guyz here are talking soft & forming nice guyz to gain feminine attention. It is what it is. If u wanna help her then be just friends, if she's dating u then forking u shouldn't be too much to ask for. She will eventuall someday & most 9ja girls lost their virginity to guyz who dey regret meeting anyway. Give to Cesar....

Spanish fly don finish for market? Mix it in her drink & watch her beg u for some good loving lol. But holdup, 8months? The relationship is still in its infancy. Pure motives 1st & figure out what u really want in the relationship. As much as this generation of girls dey mess up, forceful entry aint cool.

grocery:
Op, first start by arranging your write up

. Noted: Typed with a phone & am sure everyone understands the writeup. Manage the imperfection my dear. Na so men be. Lol

Ladies have a common problem of infidelity from their male counterparts. I threw a questions on NL saying ladies tell us (guyz) what you really need & got coarse answers. Now, in a bid to proffer tips for a long lasting relationship from men's point of view; here are my suggestions: 1. Do not make him your ATM machine. Earn your own cash or strive to. No man needs such. 2. Show class & be respectful to his family & friends. Introduce your family & friends to him in style not obvious booby trap. It scares us away oh! 3. Call at relaxed hours & leave sms during his rush hour. 4, Make him pay for bills when you go out (except his really broke) & see how well he utilizes cash when given a raise. 5. Surprise him with gifts, fruits & see to it that he meets your needs or tries to atleast. 6. Know his sex drive. If high, hmmm no stay too far 7. Allow him socialize but not late night stuff. Use body language or signs when in public. 8. Cook him meals, do his laundry, play indoor games with him & be good at atleast one game. Men respect smarter women more. Plus these things makes him fond of your company not just sex. 9. Never encourage a fight between him & his friend(s) or relatives. Rather calm him down & be his peace. 10. Talk career with him & see his prospects. You'd know if you're part of his plans or not.

delishpot:
Must a man fμck every woman he is close to.
Youths of today are perverted/spoilt sha.
As long as no one is using anyones head in the friendship no yawa.

. You musnt bang every woman yes! But why keep him around if you sense he's hitting on you. Letting him come too close is giving him hope.

Hello everyone. Been doing a great deal of reading on NL, i tend to wonder if there's any rational for wanting to keep guys or a guy whom a lady turned down sex. We all know our 9ja version of friendzone (doing all those stuff her bf should do without bleepin). Keep him at arms lenght, no pre-intimacy or going out on dates on his bill. Even try hooking him up if possible.

I do not understand why and how and Arab population will claim ownership o Jerusalem. Its plain to see that Jerusalem is owned b the Isrealites from Bible days (or other relevant history books) till date. This is what you get when you let Arabs or Muslims settle for too long on any territory. Same thing is going on in Kaduna, Benue, Kwara, Plateau and some parts of Kogi. They are even encroaching Enugu now. Islam i wonder if truely is a religion of peace...God help us.

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