₦airaland Forum

T0BY:
So op you fit wear joggers attend your friend wedding or traditional marriage?

Abeg epp me ask them well

ChildOfDoom:
Growing up, the awareness against HIV was high. With USAID and other NGOs involved in it, one could feel safe despite one's randy or promiscuous nature.

Agencies in hospitals in charge of the exercise were swift in attending to those who came for enquiries. Some of them moved to churches and companies to give sensitisation and free tests.

Now, little or no attention is given by international bodies to this ubiquitous disease, exposing the neglect of government to this critical problem over the years.

The new drug introduced to prevent AIDS for six months costs a huge sum of 75000 naira. The few free ones brought into Nigeria have been hijacked by a few.

I went to a General hospital to run 'free' routine HIV test (considering my intermittent philandering) and I was told i will now have to follow the general process of staying in line, purchasing hospital card and then wait for a doctor to recommend the test before the lab will attend to me. This wasn't so in the past.

I also hear of infected patients finding it hard to access the Antiretroviral drugs. Those of us who can't control our sexual urges and like to practise unsafe sex, are in trouble.

Long acting PrEP Lenacapavir don dey.
D take am every 6 months like JennyClay

oyoofong:
You have already solved your problem by identifying it.

Identifying d problem na only d first step of d long journey

Goodmarlian:
Since childhood I have always being a forgetful, hyperactive and talkative person, no matter how hard I tried to control this condition and worst of it is am a very disorganized and overly emotional person no matter how hard I try to control this weakness it was to no avail it seems that just who I am.

It has attracted so much criticism as a child that it destroyed my childhood because I lost my mom at the age of 7 she was our bread winner, so my family scattered up after her death so I went to live with my uncle and this condition really severed my relationship with my uncle's family because I was brought there to serve as a houseboy.

I couldn’t live up to expectation as a houseboy I was also losing money when I am sent to market, I always forget what I was sent to buy so the insult on me was on a daily basis.

I was a victim of verbal abuse for 3 years until it destroyed my self esteem totally, omo life has really being unfair to me I sometimes I regret being born into this cruel world.

The worst part of my life was my teenage years, I lacked self esteem and suffered severe inferiority complex. I was a totally withdrawn teenager I always compared myself to my peers and saw myself as shit, nobody understood me, not even my family, they were even my worst critics.

But all in all I believe I would have a better adulthood but that was a lie.

I am an adult now in my early 30s and experience and exposure has taught me a lot and I have improved my self esteem and feel a lot better about myself to some extent but I notice that those traits still persist. I am still a forgetful, talkative and restless person.

One day, I was scrolling through the TikTok pages and I discovered a video talking about the mental condition ADHD and it described my condition a 100 percent, that was the first time I knew I had a mental condition not normal.

It has affected my relationship with people.
The way I communicate and express myself was bad i have become a forced introvert and forced to stay alone because they wouldn’t like my personality.

I discovered it doesn’t have cure so I feel suicidal. I wish death could just take me soon so I can get some eternal peace I don’t even care about eternity or reincarnation I just wanna fade off into oblivion.

E no dey too late to see psychiatrist pronto,make dem analyze ur current state of mental health see how e bad reach make dem admit u for clinic.
when dem dey sure say psychosis no join am or d psychosis if at all e dey don calm down or finish, dem go transfer u to rehabilitation section for like minimum 6 months. I advice 18 months
make dem also check whether d thing gum for ur genes so that if e dey for ur genes, u go know and fit d educate any girl wey gree u of d risks of wetin d pikin wey she go born fit carry if she allow u give am belle.

GuestInfinity:
Physical abuse is physical abuse. He's beating her because he's angry. He would never beat his fellow man like that. He also beat his wife. He's a coward

It's sad that Nigerians like you have normalized physical abuse in the name of discipline. Go and google the negative effects of a parent physically abusing their child

I say daughter. where u see wife there?
read again
na abuse abi na discipline.
u dem been no d cane u? talk little of common slap.

BItt:
That is exactly why, as a man, you have to be the troublesome one. Although that role requires you to be financially stable and also have alot of male friends around you.

Men who have their male friends around them often, their wives always coordinate well

if she d always see men wey ordinarily she no fit follow dem talk on d same level d parol with her husband as friends, why she no go coordinate?
Well, men suppose also learn d power of silent treatment e d make d women wan mad come turn investigator / detective.
ask pocohantas

christejames:
2027 seems to be cooking well






Data boys are you ready for the incoming shocks? 😂

Na distant third go still shock u like say 2023

TheGift:
As a Father, seeing that Man traumatize His child like that, just broke my heart.

Graduating from shouting, to insulting or hitting your child, is proof that you have lost control of the situation.

Retrace your steps. And no matter what, every thing must flow from and show unconditional love.

u d talk as if ur papa or mama never discipline u before.
well, na una d create d kind thing wey Gen Z be.
in fact, Gen Alpha go worse pass Gen Z, then the Beta wey follow alpha go even worse pass courtesy of lack of discipline from people like una
Spare d rod, spoil d child.

GuestInfinity:
What nonsense? Let that girl slap him like that. He's a coward. He will never slap his fellow man who's his size like that. It's his wife and daughter he knows how to slap. He's pathetic

Coward for disciplining a 13 year old who be him daughter?
Ur papa or mama never cane u before? then u d talk less of small small slap
Abi u think say na adult? because d kid don grow like agric fowl?

okeke6969:
Majority of women born in June are extremely wahala. Hmmm , no be small thing o! If you marry them, you don enter🥱🥱🥱

d JovialJune no Jovial at all

QuinQQ:
And she's supposed to just trust you

As if I no go follow dey inside

Eba50:
he has to go work for his own. Na so one guy come arrest e papa over sale of one of his upstairs.

abeg, tell me say dis one na joke

Arrest am sharp sharp.
D law is d law.
No Nigerian suppose own firearm again apart from hunters wey d use licensed hunting dane gun.
All former licenses dey revoked
dem pass that law for buhari regime
Go and verify

Person wey go put JovialJune for house, I pity am in advance

ogolemati:
which year did yarimo recruited you

I get direct access to presidency

Kalashnikov49:
Heart attacks everywhere

Yes, because of d risk of human lives crossing a deep body of water in locally constructed boats without life jackets on
we care for their lives

Obidients in mini-mass on campaign
see how reckless dem dey. dem no even fit wear life jacket.
if d boats capsize now and dem drown, dem go begin blame Tinubu
Peter Obi risking d lives of youth all for desperate ambition

I have been staring at the picture below and trying to understand.

ogolemati:
which post are looking forward to occupy for agbero union nairaland branch.

Special Nairaland Observer to d President

Parachoko:
Just imagine Tinubu made this kind of Statement

I tell u

ogolemati:
hope all is well with you.you have been repeating the topics on this forum since last week

Ogolemati dem tell me say u been d find me.

SixSeven:
The reporting is trash and I just read the news from a Ghanaian site that he has been arrested for assault on her, not the daughter. Mods who push stories to FP are agents of confusion too.

Exactly. but JovialJune no go gree wetin u talk

SixSeven:
Nana Akua Addo is 42 years old.

She was born on March 9, 1984.

Yes.
and na her d record d video and d talk for background while d husband d beat their daughter.
d man d beat her and him beat her? YES,
but people d do like say for d video wey dem post, na Nana d collect beating when na d daughter.
People like jovialjune wey want continue d dey very slow.

JovialJune:
Go to Ghana and ask her why dem beat her, everybody cant be as slow as you.

Go watch d video again slowly then come back come tell me who dey very very very slow
in fact if u continue with ur narrative after this, i go confirm say ur case dey beyond redemption.
chai

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utenwuson:
See as the man de slap like him pikin..... She no get brothers ni

for d video, no be nana d collect slap. na their daughter

Ushame:
She get mouth. Even on top slap, she still they insult the man

na d Nana d record oh and d talk o, d person wey him d discipline na their daughter.

Chukabiz:
Hmmm. This one wey one person just dey quote and insult everybody inside the thread.

u mean JovialJune wey no even know who the Nana be sef?
Na characteristic of bitter feminist wey go attach anything to narrative even if d evidence no match

JovialJune:
Go to Ghana and ask her why dem beat her, everybody cant be as slow as you.

learn to understand before u blindly jump to conclusion
and next time, make u d watch videos wey dem attach for news, understand wetin u see and hear before u make comments.
u no even sabi who be nana sef

JovialJune:
Ask google, and research.

As for that video, na him daughter.
Na him and Nana daughter be that.
see as una d follow headline blindly, she only d make allegation for d video wey him d beat their piking say na so him d beat her too.
now all off a sudden una d say na Nana dem d beat for video when na Nana d record.
Kai. na who do una this thing?

keemsleek:
Exactly that what I just saw and the mother saying he wants to kill her daughter.... something is not right

u see how social media and news media sabi twist narrative shey?