Politics › Re: Nigeria Wins $2.35 Billion Arbitration Case In Mambilla Hydropower Project by DMCA: 12:18pm On Sep 20 |
DEROXMAN: forcing smile wont help ur poverty life o buy AMG first, not everyone life dey like urs Mr Law School and British Vedio I gree  After all, I need to celebrate as Nigeria win 1 trillion  |
Celebrities › Re: I Wish Charlie Boy Had Resembled His Father — Obasanjo by DMCA: 9:13am On Sep 20 |
K epainos: I am not against any child taking care of his/her parents; however, we are misplacing priorities. This mentality is what made China his over 1B population, and its affecting India too. And then, China's one child policy in those days was too brutal, and it is affecting them again in that the young population is low. So, there must be a balance.
What I see here on this thread (especially commments above mine) is a nation about to collapse because its people has refused to develop the healthcare. Elderly care is one of the main priorities in healthcare, but Nigeria has zero provision. So, most people rely on their kids. The dad story is that they dont even know. Laying emphasis that one must have children (not even a child or 2) is compulsory. Why? Old age insurance. This is wrong.
Lets be realistic here. Taking care of the old is not an obligation, but taking care of kids you brought to this world is, until they turn 18. This is the law.
Now, lets talk of the blessing in it. According to the Bible and many other religious books, there is a blessing in it, and it is true. Even when the system takes in the elderly, I know some kind kids who went extra miles to take care of them. Some of them refused to let them use the public provision. So, it is an advise to take care of the old but not an obligation.
Now, when you decide to invest in yours so they care care of you during old age is a bad investment. I read about investing in kids. Kids are not assets we invest in. We are obliged to raise them well, and not invest in them. I see this mindset everywhere. So, when the kids did not reciprocate the investment, parents start complaining. If you dont take care of your kids until they are 18, they will take them from you in developed nations which is how it should be. I am ao sorry for you if you are among those who have thing mentality of investing in children so they can take care of you later. You invest well so you can take care of yourself at least financially. Finance is the main thing. Train them well to be kind and not be thieves. And have your money. When you grow old, they will use tour money and add theirs to take care of you. But when you ask them to care for you permanently, you are wicked. You took care of their needs for max of 25 - 30. Some didnt even do it up to 18 years. Yet, you want them to be funding your needs immediately they start working. You want the first born to take care of your responsibilities and start funding the younger ones. You are wicked. Yes, you are. You invested in the boy or girl for just 24 years, and you expect him to carry the burden of 6 other ones you gave birth to for like 10 years. And then take care of you from like 45 years to 90 year. A solid 30+ years. Mainwhile your care is so expensive. Why? Its when the kid is a baby you spend, but as soon as he is 6+ years, level don change. Everything is management. But its only education. See, what you will collect from that kid is more.
So, your thought is that let me have 10 kids so they can share the bill. Lol. This is how we got to 300M population. Now, these kids cant find jobs. Our GPD is not bad, but check out our GDP per Capita. We are too many. Those who are criticising Tinubu will criticise Obi or Atiku or Sowore because we are just too many and no matter how good our economy is, it will take time for everyone to feel the development. This is a story for another time.
So, lets change our perspective. We need to fight for a good health system which includes the old and people with disabilities. We dont care for these two groups. This is extremely bad.
Goodluck to everyone. 99% of Nairalanders no read dis ur epistle o |
Business › Re: Why Nigerians borrow money to maintain lifestyles they cannot afford by DMCA: 9:07am On Sep 20 |
From Cut ur coat according to ur size, e don become Cut ur coat oversize dis year  Na motivational speakers cause am  |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Wins $2.35 Billion Arbitration Case In Mambilla Hydropower Project by DMCA: 9:03am On Sep 20 |
DEROXMAN: Anything to make u happy send ur no, i dont argue with nitwits cuz an educated man will know vedio is british and video is american ur tale dosent stop my LLB and BL Mr vedio, I don surrender  Thank God say u no be lawyer, else u for put person wey hire u to defend am for prison  Say vedio na British  Stop impersonation and also make u go back to school go learn, especially English  |
Politics › Re: Nigerians Will Witness Drop In Transportation Costs From October 1, Tinubu Insis by DMCA: 8:59am On Sep 20 |
morikee: There is no place CNG Keke operators charging lesser than petrol operators in fares
They are both charging same rate u don see say ordinary Nigerians na d problem of Nigerians too abi? |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Wins $2.35 Billion Arbitration Case In Mambilla Hydropower Project by DMCA: 8:50am On Sep 20 |
DEROXMAN: Anything to make the south east man happy, i wanted to send my number for vedio call evidence but mods banned me 2 times this morning, make we show evidence but sha enjoy I no be east man. Na which kind person wey read law go d jump into conclusions? None, at least not one wey Sabi wetin e read for school  Na beg I d beg u, stop d impersonate  See as u d try so hard to seek validation  Abeg no need to send number for vedio video call. Evidence choke say u be like "go and verify"  |
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Politics › Re: Nigeria Wins $2.35 Billion Arbitration Case In Mambilla Hydropower Project by DMCA: 11:17pm On Sep 19 |
DEROXMAN: dodoyoyo nobody dey seek validation on faceless forum o. Na why u suppose go school, i juz dey try clear ur doubt if u want evidence dey. Very clear how u wan take clear my doubt when ur very first comment for dis thread already show say u no fit graduate from law talk more of law school  |
Celebrities › Re: FG Brought Chinese Traders To Destroy Igbo Businesses - Actor, Okechukwu Joseph by DMCA: 9:38pm On Sep 19 |
QuinQQ: Na wa. Real wa u and dis ur fiance don d go on for one month plus now. imagine say dis una thing start like 2 weeks before i been go mountain and now na like more than a month since i come back from mountain  |
Celebrities › Re: FG Brought Chinese Traders To Destroy Igbo Businesses - Actor, Okechukwu Joseph by DMCA: 9:34pm On Sep 19 |
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Family › Re: Abia Cancelled Wedding: Bride Reacts by DMCA: 9:34pm On Sep 19 |
Stephen0mozzy: They were already having issues. This issue of postponement was JUST THE FINAL CAMEL THAT BROKE THE STRAW'S BACK. Na God save d girl if wetin I hear na true  d guy na very selfish and self centered person.  |
Family › Re: Abia Cancelled Wedding: Bride Reacts by DMCA: 9:32pm On Sep 19 |
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Politics › Re: Nigeria Wins $2.35 Billion Arbitration Case In Mambilla Hydropower Project by DMCA: 9:09pm On Sep 19 |
DEROXMAN: e pain the rendozo i dey work under a SAN at lagos Adetunbi SAN so choke on it mf. Before u die go law school lets see if you will pass the exam especially now under the dangerous odusote woman DG  see as dis one d struggle to seek validation  |
Food › Re: Herring (Shawa) Fish: What Is Your Opinion About This Fish? (Pictures) by DMCA: 9:07pm On Sep 19 |
Hemanwel: Na OP ask for my opinion nah! Lolss Ask mariangeles make e serve u sweet fish  |
Food › Re: Herring (Shawa) Fish: What Is Your Opinion About This Fish? (Pictures) by DMCA: 8:56pm On Sep 19 |
Hemanwel: [Whenever I see raw fish, ladies come to mind.
Why? u are a man of Kukunase affairs  u never pay ur membership dues dis year  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: India Refutes Claims Ramaphosa Was Poisoned At BRICS Summit - PICTURES by DMCA: 8:54pm On Sep 19 |
SisterAnn: An Islamabad terrorists just spoke. Huhuhuhuhu 😅😅😅 Tami baby I missed u......  |
Food › Re: Herring (Shawa) Fish: What Is Your Opinion About This Fish? (Pictures) by DMCA: 8:51pm On Sep 19 |
Mariangeles: What is your take on herring (shawa) fish?
Like, dislike, or barely tolerate it?
I call it the low budget mackerel (Titus) fish. E d smell like something in between  |
Family › Re: Man Proposes Miniature Goat As Bride Price For Non-Virgins (Pics) by DMCA: 7:44pm On Sep 19 |
QuinQ / QuinQQ try prepare make LouisdeFrance bring better goat go give ya people make him commission u tear ur hymen  |
Celebrities › Re: FG Brought Chinese Traders To Destroy Igbo Businesses - Actor, Okechukwu Joseph by DMCA: 7:35pm On Sep 19 |
QuinQQ: See, one thing you still haven't explained me all this time: WHAT business of mine is it what past dead folks did or didn't do to themselves?? How does that impact my life?? Suppose it was suddenly discovered they conquered all of Europe, will that reduce the price of garri by a penny?!
**You posted fake photo of that white Knight you turned black but forgot to post fake photo of Louis. I think you're slipping  ur hubby-to-be extraordinaire  u don hang chain as decoration for ur room?  |
Romance › Re: How Do You Say SEX Without Using The Word? by DMCA: 6:04pm On Sep 19 |
Samantha125: Tloftlof, shaboinky, mommy and daddy, horizontal charleston, smash, and intimate.
Slangs in my native language: Go kga morogo, go lema tšhemo, go ya legogeng, and go ya malaong...😌😌😌 How about Kukunase?  my Princess  |
Food › Re: Herring (Shawa) Fish: What Is Your Opinion About This Fish? (Pictures) by DMCA: 5:50pm On Sep 19 |
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Politics › Re: 'Peter Pay Us Our Money': Anambra Government Releases Throwback Video Of Protest by DMCA: 1:43am On Sep 19 |
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Politics › Re: Shettima's Response On If Nigeria Will Fully Join BRICS by DMCA: 1:42am On Sep 19 |
qtx: And then after that Seyi BAT right? Seyi go be governor by then  |
Celebrities › Re: FG Brought Chinese Traders To Destroy Igbo Businesses - Actor, Okechukwu Joseph by DMCA: 1:40am On Sep 19 |
QuinQQ: See my post below. They should leave Chinese alone to do their biz. Even if I were Igno I'd still be saying same thing. DMCA remind our big man of his ancestors!  if u ask ur hubby to be (LouisdeFrance), d descendant of d secret bloodline of King Louise Umpteen him favourite artifact, him go say na chain.  |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Wins $2.35 Billion Arbitration Case In Mambilla Hydropower Project by DMCA: 1:36am On Sep 19 |
DEROXMAN: i dey educated pass you na i was called to bar july this year. see d kind people wey Nigeria d call to bar  Na so u go d fumble for court?  Abi u go settle for charge and bail ?  |
Politics › Re: 'Peter Pay Us Our Money': Anambra Government Releases Throwback Video Of Protest by DMCA: 1:14pm On Sep 18 |
Extrazee: Peter Obi lives rent-free in Soludo's head. He's working tirelessly in vain😂 No worry, we go go verify  Him-tu-lie disciple  Anywhere belle face  |
Politics › Re: 'Peter Pay Us Our Money': Anambra Government Releases Throwback Video Of Protest by DMCA: 1:12pm On Sep 18 |
Igbo: When is he quitting campaigning for 2027 election? d desperate fraud and lair no go quit  Na today?  AKA "I will never leave APGA"  |
Politics › Re: Atiku Slams Tinubu Over Worsening Child-Malnutrition Crisis by DMCA: 1:10pm On Sep 18 |
Gotocourt: Lots of families no longer eat animal protein 😢. na crime to be vegetarian?  |
Politics › Re: I Will Scrap Office Of First Lady – Sowore by DMCA: 1:08pm On Sep 18 |
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Politics › Re: Nigeria Wins $2.35 Billion Arbitration Case In Mambilla Hydropower Project by DMCA: 10:27am On Sep 18 |
I DEROXMAN: Na road we go use am build that over 3 trillion o, no waste am so u think say Nigeria win 3 trillion Naira? Kai.. try go school  |
Politics › Re: Shettima's Response On If Nigeria Will Fully Join BRICS by DMCA: 10:06am On Sep 18 |
Tinubu until 2031  Shettima from 2031 to 2039  Impressive  |