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elipheleh:
No no. I wont die. I live because Jesus lives

SisterAnn:
What are you even saying? You are not making sense.

elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going

jerryunit48:
In school I was thought that it also helps to suck out the blood 🩸 in the bitten area to reduce the amount of venom

Rapmoney:
Bro, that was 2008 in Warri. I found it disgusting.

Techpik:
Happy Sunday guys, this have accusation of labeling me yahoo guy in the compound have happened on many occasions during compound meeting, side talks etc.

But I’m not to be sincere I’m a freelance website developer working from home, I have worked for lots of people even on this nairaland, within Nigeria and abroad at the comfort of my home.

What use to trigger this labeling is because most of my neighbors go out in the morning and come at night and I’m always indoor (at home) living good.

So this have been causing side talks and even confrontations from some neighbors.

Most times I have been explaining and try to prove to them, that I’m a freelance website developer that I worked from home.

Before anybody will think the same on nai.raland, you can check me on google Techpik and all social medias and my site.

You will even see good reviews from people I have completed projects for.

I also need your advice guys, to deal with those neighbors.

moshoodn:
Hmmmmmmmm.....

Unprecedented pace? Really?

brain54:
So you dey lick cow/goat blest...?


Because that's the direct and authentic source!

SisterAnn:
The tinubu and osunbande mentioned above are in ADC too. 🤡🤡

Axis313:
If this one succeed now,he will instantly promote himself to General.

Gotocourt:
8:21am (chiagozien) don chop ban 😅😂🤣

Beremx:
guilty conscience made it seem as if he was talking about you. He didn't mention your name and you felt guilty. You now took the anger and slapped him.

SisterAnn:
NLers react to everything!

Is that not how they greet elders in that side?

Nnah mehn!

EpicDude123:
What is Phyna please? Is that a name of an Animal, Place or thing?

helinues:
Funnily, why can't this op post this on South Africa forum? Oh I forgot, then don't have anything close to Nairaland in Kuvukiland

Sport, entertainment, economy, there situation have been deteriorating yet they are not concerned

Sonofgod1990:
Yessssss. I heard of this case last I visited Mercy

Goo0dHardDick:
Well I'm just here to advise men to take care of themselves.

To the guy who committed to a single mother and saw shege banza, I'm glad he has learnt the hard way. You don't commit to a single mother, they're tools for fun.

Lastly, make this money no matter what it takes, stay safe and healthy and always put yourself first. You'll be fine!

Samantha125:
Sorry about that, I kept getting distracted...

HacheNoire:
Too expensive. A bunch is same price in Nkalagu