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tom111: Hi,my fellow nairalanders pls I nid ur candid advice,there is this gal I've bin crushing on,she's jus all in one package,and I love everytin about her,but I am the shy type. After three years of watching and loving her I decided to talk to ha,I collected ha number and 2go username(ya am a kid*cheers*)cos I'm so excited that I finally had the girl of my drm in my reach,I skip the friendship step,and I told ha 'hey I love u' and she was like sowie I have my bf and I love him,I was like she must b playing hard to get,so I told ha again,'baby I love ma ni'
And she was like 'do u mean it?'Then I knew am doomed,so I ask ha y she gave me ha username when she knew I was only trying to get closer to ha,so she came to my ause and remove me while I watch,pls what do I do wrong? Should i start being friend with ha? Or I should just forget her? I still love ha,damn!

What does the highlighted part mean?

On another note, you just meet the girl tell her say you love her? You high?

Ibrahimxx: such statement often proceed from needy guyz... vegetable-men

Seriously, you are right. And if you ask me I would say it oozes low self-esteem on the part of the guys. Kinda looking to be favoured by women. The painful thing there is that, it doesn't in most make them gain anything whatsoever from those girls.

Sincerely, this was one of the reasons I deactivated my Facebook. Cause alot of things were just annoying, plus it wasn't really serving any purpose to me.

Guys dey fall hand big time! Them dey f**k up.

Hoii: The day i saw 'Tanx for the acception', i wan laff die

No ooooo! Na thanks for the admission. Guys can ve very annoying.

Ceasar1: I thought I was the only one getting pissed at this ish. Most of the girls don't even ‘like’ or ‘compliment’ - they just ignore it. What's wrong with sending her a private message to thank her? Na wa wooo.

Yeah... Infact, thanking her for what? The girl being in your friends' list, does it add anything to you? I just tire for guys sha. Many guys are really annoying. It's not like it's not good to appreciate women and all that, but it should be done as at when needed. She gets to accept your friend request, you will thank her immensely like she just deposited some dough in your account. She posts a pix or updates her status, they start clicking likes as if their life depends on it.

Of course I know it's how it is due to nature and all that. But, did nature say guys should be foolish while trying to be nice sort-of? Albeit I don't call that being nice.

agabaI23: And also, you are beautiful, keep it up. And I wonder at the keep it part....

Hehehehehe. Wahala dey oooooo

lokito: Your question is as difficult as making Custard. Really i've never made a good custard before

That doesn't mean making custard is difficult. It's as easy as making pap, if not easier.

Austeenx: `[color=orange]Not yet, but heard Zubizarreta is chasing Okomu Oil left wing back[DONT know the name] and Agege United midfielder, Taiwo Ajisafe. [/color]

Rotflmao. Abeg no kill me with laugh ooooooo.

nollynesta: I always find it very difficult reading ur post cos ur grammar is very terrible

I thought I was the dullard when I found it difficult to comprehend his text. It's yet a mystery to me why people still write in your manners.

Lily4star: Mine was awesome, Thank you

You welcome... So where you located?

alextayo: I met one sweet pretty lady here last year. We were actually planning to settle down when irreconcilable differences about religious belief reared its ugly head. I am a conservative Catholic (and can NEVER change for any denomination) while she is Pentecostal. She wants me to meet her pastor for courtship approval which i dont really subscribe to but intend to do since a lady has right over wedding plans. Then then took things further by declaring that

1) she wont attend my church after wedding because she is also an active member in her Pentecostal church

2) I will leave my Catholic faith and join her church because she wants her husband to support her future calling. (future calling my ass)

3)lastly she wants the kids to also attend her church.

How can I, a staunch catholic, Choirmaster and Organist be going west and my family will be going east on sunday to worship God...the family that prays together stays together.....that the end of our story

That's all! I am with you bruv...

Lily4star: Lmao, wetin for happen, saw ur last postn yea u ve said it all, there's nothing left to say.

Goodmorning and how's ur night?

My dear, na 9 months matter e for turn to.

Good Morning. My night was great. How about yours?

lilmax: ITbomb and dmcdad why are you guys so wicked? ....the op sef Bleep up

Me? Wetin I do na? I dey neutral ooooooo. But like you rightly stated, she fall hand big time.

Johnpaul88: Wasn't that amount what Valencia also confirmed they expect to recieve?

Yeah of course...

deegnity22: I think the most embarrassing reply yet is 'thank you'
common it's not a favor na.

Neither is it a compliment.

donTbone: me.; errrrm, u knw i wanna tel u sumtn

gal: go ahead now. afterall you re my frnd

me; seriously.... i love u

...come see response o...














gal: henhen! shey me?

hunhun! na person wey dey ya bak... as if 3rd party dey dia.

felt lyk gvn her beatn dat day!!!

Hehehehehe. Wahala dey oooooo. Na you find trouble be that ooooooo.

prettyboi1989: Wetin una dey find wif love sef, u get awkward reponses from people u ought not to say dat word 2.

Bros no be lie you talk jare...

Randy100: 'Prove it' How am i going to prove it

I bow oooooo. Na formula wey need proving?

LaurelP: Ever heard of d word 'moderation'?

Exactly! Keeping a balance between things. That's a form of maturity too.

Lily4star: Hehehehehehehe, what's the temptation there?, according to your post u go be nice guy, some guys ll abandon the babe cos of that, I like guys who ll see things in their woman they don't like and tell them about it cos the babe might be doing some things(I mean in other aspect)without even knowing its wrong rather than nurse it in mind, and don't be surprised she doesn't know about the mouth odour.

emmm that was soooooo detailed, thanks for taking ur time to reply me,

*whispers in his ear: Thanks I appreciate it*
*gives him a peck quickly and dashes off without a trace*

One of the beauty of relationships is helping eachother grow in all spheres. And like I said to some group of people some time ago, this is where morality comes to play. Because, while spirituality deals with oneself, morality deals with another. And it's in the mirror of relationships that one gets to appreciate the good and evil latent in itself. And it's also in the mirror of relationship that one gets to determine good and evil. My point is; dealing with another (especially in a guy-girl relationship), helps in bringing out some of the attributes latent in oneself whether good or bad. And it's therefore necessary to encourage the virtues and to look for a way to ameliorate the short-comings of eachother.

Helping to make the person better is by no means undermining the person's worth or not appreciating the person as he/she is, it's just one of the many purposes or reasons relationships are there in the first place. And like you rightly pointed out, sometimes, some people might not take cognizance of what that thing is... It's left for the other person to make it known in a less provocative way and see how to render a helping hand in managing it or bringing it to a bearest minimum.

Relationships are great if people are really oriented about it before jumping into it. In most cases, it should be about the other person and not about self.

Lily4star: Hehehehehehehe, what's the temptation there?, according to your post u go be nice guy, some guys ll abandon the babe cos of that, I like guys who ll see things in their woman they don't like and tell them about it cos the babe might be doing some things(I mean in other aspect)without even knowing its wrong rather than nurse it in mind, and don't be surprised she doesn't know about the mouth odour.

emmm that was soooooo detailed, thanks for taking ur time to reply me,

*whispers in his ear: Thanks I appreciate it*
*gives him a peck quickly and dashes off without a trace*

What's the temptation there? Ask P-Square them go tell you.

My dear, e be like say you no play for small abi? For your mind now, where you think say you wan run go? Dashes off to where na? You be spirit ni? A whole lag guy like me go lose this chance? Taa! Devil is a liar! Without a trace kor, without a trace ni. You be Hussein Bolt? Abi na Yohan Blake you be?

**Runs after her (chases her like a cheetah chasing a rat or when Bugatti Veyron Grand SuperSport chases a Camry 2.2. Lol), catches her and... Holding her by her hips, leans towards her with a view to giving her a sumptuous kiss, suddenly he wakes up from the dream**

Chai! You get luck say I no finish the dream. Else, e for happen for real life.

Lily4star: Hehehehehehe, funny guy abi nah man, oya between me and u no let another person hear, just whisper am for my ear, if nah u wetin you go do?

*draws close to him, and places ear close to his mouth*

**In P - Square's voice, this na temptation, with a little confusion** But confusion no dey this one sha, my eyes clear wella.

In reality, I am the kinda person that can endure things to the latter. I could remember vividly, my last girlfriend had a sour taste on her lips. Hers wasn't necessarily bad breath or something, it was just a kinda taste on her lips that was felt whenever we kissed and it got transferred to me and stays with me for some few days before going away pending when next we saw to kiss again, you know... Even such was something I hated. But sincerely, for her sake then, I endured it albeit it wasn't really an issue in the first place.

Back to your question, I would tell it to her. I think I can really handle it. I am the kinda person that can bring things to people that others can't do. I have ways to liase certain things. I look forward to making a person better in every length and breadth and make sure they are outstanding in all spheres. That is why I kinda ran away from relationships becauee it makes me want to make the person the best at all times(not like it's not good, but it drains alot of resources from my head because I would always be on the look-out to making her a work of perfection). So, if I were the guy, I would certainly liase with her as regards it and lend a helping hand in ameliorating the situatuon. I think it's in the spirit if love and affection that one would even wanna help out in this course.

**Draws her very close (as close as we could be when sharing a mid-sized umbrella during heavy rainfall), and whispers "if na me, I go help her out"**

freecharles: u get that u r 5th hand??....I like this velvet lady o ...she understand things very fast

Fast learner.

seunmsg: Considering the fact that a guy earlier dump her, she's actually an 8th hand and not 7th hand to her hubby.

Chai! This one na from frying pan to fire oooooo. Haba! Una wan kill person wife ni?

Circe: Adviser and the Advised, Una no go kill me o!

Abi I talk lie?

Lily4star: This part got me laughing hard, only this one fit make am man up to the babe. Lol

Na so oooooo my sister. No be small thing. It is not a small something.

Naetochukwu: Nawaooo na only you waka come?

No oooooo. Na him, Holy Spirit and Waec waka come.

kendrick93: d worst is she is a talkative.. she talks too much. she doesn't give me space at all

Chai! Na die you dey be that. But seriously, you just have to tell her. Of course it would hurt (the truth most certainly hurts at all times), but it's better of than not telling her. With that, you can save yourself from dying of enduring bad breath/mouth odour and also save others from going through such suffering too.

**O boy look look look, na that guy be the guy wey dey friend that girl wey her mouth dey smell...** Imagine if people refer to you this way. You don make name for yourself be that.

philfearon: I know Suarez's Ban via any "football related activity" will never stand in Court..
Reasons:
1)It restricted his right to Freedom of movement...The courts never tolerate this breach..
2)it is Discriminatory...Yes,you cant ban someone from playing ball and still ban him from watching it live or otherwise...
3)It was all staged....... don't quote me though. .
Add yours if you believe!!

Agreed! Especially your point 2. I just hope it is reduced and/or lifted. The country ban will certainly stand as that would be kinda irrevocable. But to say he shouldn't play club football, train, watch, or even talk about football as we are doing now (lol) for four months is really devilish and like you said, staged!

Imagine Suárez in El-classico. Mehn na die e go be.

solomonbrown64: lmao.....luv overlooks all

But frankly, the love there is for him to tell her. If you can tolerate it yourself, how about others? Or you wanna be identified as the boyfriend to the girl with the baddest (pun intended) breath?

philfearon: @bolded, That's what makes it newsworthy bro...

Yeah of course... Making people to click their links.

October 25/26 is the first Classico match. And as it stands, Suárez's ban will last till the 25th and will be free from the 26th.

I pray the ban is either reduced or revoked entirely. At least for the club and other activities. The country ban can stand for as long as was given initially.

solomonbrown64: ....tell her or keep up wit d tolerance

O boy... To tolerate that kind thing na die!