All of you have sin and gon shut of Gods glory how? By Idlotry. God is ominipresence and can never be in boundry of dedomination. So by beliveing in one group to be superior while others are inferior is ldoletrey. You have limited Gods power to a particular group

CFCfan:
Like sexkillz and Ogugua

Are they married?

2sExy1: and I say Christians are divided!

YES... MUSLIM IS ALSO, THE MESSENGER OF ALLAH HAS SAID THAT, A TIME WILL COME WHEN JEW WILL DEVIDED INTO 71 SECT, CHRISTIAN 72 WHILE MUSLIM 73 AND ALL OF THEM WILL BE IN HELL FIRE EXCEPT EACH EACH ONE OF THEM, THOSE WHO ARE RIGHTLY GUIDED.

alextayo: I met one sweet pretty lady here last year. We were actually planning to settle down when irreconcilable differences about religious belief reared its ugly head. I am a conservative Catholic (and can NEVER change for any denomination) while she is Pentecostal. She wants me to meet her pastor for courtship approval which i dont really subscribe to but intend to do since a lady has right over wedding plans. Then then took things further by declaring that

1) she wont attend my church after wedding because she is also an active member in her Pentecostal church

2) I will leave my Catholic faith and join her church because she wants her husband to support her future calling. (future calling my ass)

3)lastly she wants the kids to also attend her church.

How can I, a staunch catholic, Choirmaster and Organist be going west and my family will be going east on sunday to worship God...the family that prays together stays together.....that the end of our story

That's all! I am with you bruv...

Cecediva: Are they married?

Not yet. They are still boyfriend and girlfriend.

Oboy you make sense die...now i see ppu that think like me o...evn ma sister a catholic is getn married 2 a winner member,the love dey make me jealous sef...i wish ppu can see beyond religion,crisis in relationship and marriages will b less...

zicoraads: 2sExy1...u couldn't have said it better, I am Christian, proudly, but the truth is, this religion is the most divided ever. Too many denominations and 'sects'.

The truth is, this baseless issue of 'I am this or that' in my church has left plenty girls single uptil the age of 30 and still counting. Personally I feel if two people actually love each other, church affiliation shouldn't even be an issue.

In the days of old, when a lady leaves her parents to her husband, everything of his' becomes her's. His name, where he worships and the lots. My dad is an elder in my church, an old and respected one for that matter. But we'll be going for my sister's white wedding in Sept, in a catholic church. He will be steping his foot in a catholic church for the first ttime.

This is what he always tells us, 'as long as the person is not a muslim, by all means, marry him and attend his church, after everthing, we are only running our own personal race'. And if as a guy my wife-to-be feels a certain degree of reluctance to join me where I worship, I would suggest that we both leave our churches to another church, a difft one entirely that we choose. But if she still insists on staying put, then am off. She never loved me in the first place.

OP...truly sorry for derailing ur thread. But as to ur question, the answer is yes. Love is everywhere.

CFCfan:
Not yet. They are still boyfriend and girlfriend.

OK...

2sExy1: isn't obvious that the christians are divided when compared to their muslim counterparts?

In the end, both of you will pray "In the name of Jesus" right?

Where is the love... This where I like muslims

Rubbish!

I don vex...

I wan propose to Mzmariah and she is free to go on with her Catholic faith. The kids can make their decisions when they come of age and no one will force them.

how often do u see yoruba muslims marrying hausas muslim?
how often do u see igbira muslims marrying fulani/hausas muslims?
or aint u aware of d fact dat an hausa muslim can never attend a mosque dat a yoruba man is d imam/alfa/sheikh?

@op it is possible.. You can find love anywhere

Me, I just met a Nlander and I'm falling in love with her yakata. She possesses all the gaits, skills, intellects, beauty, mien, nyash..and all i ever desired in a woman. Haters get wet and hug transformer.

lasheez: Guys am just wondering if anyone has actually met a Nairalander,they've had a relationship with and possibly married.Is this really pissible?

yes... I ve met one and he is indeed lovely, we are having a good relationship on till date. Though we aren't married yet, we are very much confident in the Love we share. (@ My Prince.. Did I just say Ur mind...*reply through call*).

Hmmm..Maybe its tym I met a female on nairaland...bt not for marriage things sha

2sExy1: isn't obvious that the christians are divided when compared to their muslim counterparts?

In the end, both of you will pray "In the name of Jesus" right?

Where is the love... This where I like muslims

Rubbish!

I don vex...

I wan propose to Mzmariah and she is free to go on with her Catholic faith. The kids can make their decisions when they come of age and no one will force them.

And I tell you,this is what happens when we adopt these foreign religions and abandon our traditional belief.
Before the presence of the colonial masters and Arabs, we have our way of worship and we have our tradition. The same able God ( Olorun,olodumare,Chineke,orisaoke,Oluorun) that we've all known before their arrival is what they brought again in different style and version.

They made us believe our ways were wrong, now see their ways.

2sExy1: isn't obvious that the christians are divided when compared to their muslim counterparts?

In the end, both of you will pray "In the name of Jesus" right?

Where is the love... This where I like muslims

Rubbish!

I don vex...

I wan propose to Mzmariah and she is free to go on with her Catholic faith. The kids can make their decisions when they come of age and no one will force them.

Everyone has got his or her belief and choices in life... I won't go to another church while my family attend somewhere else for service. Fine its d same God but we need to stay together in unity.

2sExy1: isn't obvious that the christians are divided when compared to their muslim counterparts?

In the end, both of you will pray "In the name of Jesus" right?

Where is the love... This where I like muslims

Rubbish!

I don vex...

I wan propose to Mzmariah and she is free to go on with her Catholic faith. The kids can make their decisions when they come of age and no one will force them.

Thumbs up bro, u spoke my mind

It is possible to find love here. However, its going to take more than your five physical senses to perceive all the personal baggage that most definitely will be kept from you.

softsparkyy:
lynpetra it's been long.

i dey o my sister.
been having terrible days.But am getting cool.

alextayo:

It is easier said than done.....

love has nothing to do with religious beliefs and affiliation. If you close your eyes to these things all because of love, it will affect your happiness in the nearest future. salient issues needs to be straightened out before even venturing into proper wedding arrangement.

I ask you, who will baptize the kids, which early religious training will the children have: catechism class or Sunday school, whom will the children follow to church on Sundays.

Do you think i will sheepishly allow my children to be baptized in a doctrine other than my catholic faith, do you think i will foolishly allow my children to be indoctrinated in the Pentecostal belief?

No matter how lovely the union may be, at a point in time, we will or may become irritated with each others religious beliefs. Issues like praying in tongues, night vigil, your wife denying you of intimacy because she is in a fasting period prescribed by her church in which you are obviously not in support.

Once you cannot reconcile your religious belief with your lady, its better you let her go rather than live in a marriage laden with religious conflicts

God will bless you, i had the same problem. She is a member of Living faith church, while am a staunch catholic. I accepted that the wedding will take place in her church but that we will all go back to catholic church, she accepted initially. After about 2 weeks, she came with another story that she will never go to catholic church and that our kids will not go to catholic church. I had to call the relationship off. I stopped seing her for almost 2 months.
She later came begging after 2 months and before then, I had made up my mind that I will never marry her again. she even wanted us to do the wedding in the catholic church but unfortunately, i lost interest in her for taking me for a ride. She still sends me sms till today but not in this life time will I marry a non catholic. My mind is made up.

2sExy1: isn't obvious that the christians are divided when compared to their muslim counterparts?

In the end, both of you will pray "In the name of Jesus" right?

Where is the love... This where I like muslims

Rubbish!

I don vex...

I wan propose to Mzmariah and she is free to go on with her Catholic faith. The kids can make their decisions when they come of age and no one will force them.

Oh, nah the trend.

Nah so I wan propose to banega too..

See what religion has turned my people to? The thread is to discuss Meeting A Nairalander And Falling In Love but the comments I am reading so far is out of the way. Oh Jah, save my people from the hands of those that has turned religion to something else. I shake my head for us..

Itoroetti:

how often do u see yoruba muslims marrying hausas muslim?
how often do u see igbira muslims marrying fulani/hausas muslims?
or aint u aware of d fact dat an hausa muslim can never attend a mosque dat a yoruba man is d imam/alfa/sheikh?

Say wat u knw,dnt write or think wat u dnt knw.
Dey marry each other,igbira/kabba/hausas/yoruba,
Dere is no discrimination among d muslims.
Go to jumat service and u will see hausa worship in a msoque where yoruba is d imam.

Really? I dunno there is love on nairaland.Let me ask google

alextayo:

It is easier said than done.....

love has nothing to do with religious beliefs and affiliation. If you close your eyes to these things all because of love, it will affect your happiness in the nearest future. salient issues needs to be straightened out before even venturing into proper wedding arrangement.

I ask you, who will baptize the kids, which early religious training will the children have: catechism class or Sunday school, whom will the children follow to church on Sundays.

Do you think i will sheepishly allow my children to be baptized in a doctrine other than my catholic faith, do you think i will foolishly allow my children to be indoctrinated in the Pentecostal belief?

No matter how lovely the union may be, at a point in time, we will or may become irritated with each others religious beliefs. Issues like praying in tongues, night vigil, your wife denying you of intimacy because she is in a fasting period prescribed by her church in which you are obviously not in support.

Once you cannot reconcile your religious belief with your lady, its better you let her go rather than live in a marriage laden with religious conflicts

Guy, you get problem oo.

Is making heaven your aim or Catholicism and Pentecostalism ?

People leave the crux and start pursuing the fleece.

It is not a big deal you guys separated, let it rest..

Everything is possible to HIM/HER that believe.

2sExy1: isn't obvious that the christians are divided when compared to their muslim counterparts?

In the end, both of you will pray "In the name of Jesus" right?

Where is the love... This where I like muslims

Rubbish!

I don vex...

I wan propose to Mzmariah and she is free to go on with her Catholic faith. The kids can make their decisions when they come of age and no one will force them.

dont decieve yourself o! the kids never make their decision, we and the society influence their decision. many of us are christains cos we were born into christain homes and somehow the society allowed us to stay as christains. inshort many people have no defense for their faith other than they were born Pentecostals, catholics, muslims e.t.c

i can manage to marry an atheist but will never ever marry a religious fanatic even if we are of the same faith. i hate people who defend gullibility in the name of faith, swallow bullshit just cos its coming from a man standing at a pulpit. i have ditched many chicks all because i have found too many "my pastor said..." in their sentences. they can go and marry their pastors.

pasqal09: With the way NL ladies form?
That'll be a miracle if it should happen

Big miracle

Hmmmmm.....it happens anyway.

There are conditions that will make relationships here work. The major one i have noticed is that one of the parties must be a very low key nairalander.
No two very active handle makes it, the gossips here wont allow them.
Am talking from experience.

still new here so I haven't met anyone yet

softsparkyy: Who says you can't find love here?

Ud be lucky if u do. Not doubting tho...anything can happen.