₦airaland Forum

Chidonsky: @all well luking at our society 1 hz alot of tinz 2 question...culture..social life..morals and lifestyles of ppl.....i tink 1 of d greatest mistakes homes and ppl make is drawing comparison btw 2 different ppl is very bad..we can't b compared wit white considering environment,government,culture,attitude..i can greatly and proudly tell u dat wat a nigerian youth can pass tru and survive an average teenager in europe can't bt rather resort 2 sucide as solution...we were born out of circumstances bt we are still making progress in our own little way.....secondly it baffles me dat wat ppl practice as love is jst materialism....love shld nt b judge by hw much u posess in ur accnt or pocket...''riches" is calculated by value and quantity.....yah money plays d role of geting our need because dats d only exchange 4 value of goods and services...if integrity wz 2 b used as a means of obtaining tinz in life hw many us can have access 2 gud tinz of life wit ease?....i tink a real woman and guy shld b concern more abt hw much ur character,dignity,personality,lifestyle,integrity,dreams worth only dis values can create and retain wealth...we have failed 2 understand dat money shld b our agent why we are its master stop puting ur value on paper above ur worth....thirdly i guess while most ppl are over-dependant and suddenly bcom a prey 2 money because dey have relegated hardwork 2 d background...hardwork shld b 4 both gender witot exception..fourthly..building a beautiful home takes d responsibility of 2 hardworking,responsible,compactible,ambitious,focus,maturemind,creative head,reliable,disciplined partners 2 sustain a stable relationship and home..love nt judge by hw much u can gain bt hw much u can render selflessly witot a tag condition....respect worth more dan money is 1 virtue dat is lacking in Africa beign rich dos nt guaranttee happiness bt hw much ur feelings,effort,sacrifices,input,goals,love,care,ideas are respected wit mutuality....as 4 guz ur primary aim shld b lifting ur life and setting a track of success 4 urslf first b4 carrying a woman along....''a man witot principle is a man witot direction" build a life first b4 a home(woman,kids)poverty is nt a gift is a circumstances dat need 2 b overcomed anaway...bt ladies dnt chastise guz dat are poor because of thr present situation bt consider d zeal,effort,prospect and willingness of him 2 eliviate his state..nothing last 4ever ''life is vanity upon vanity" d question is wat will u b remebered 4? Tnx make nigeria a better place 2 live let it b our slogan

charlesazeh: i tried to restore but when it boots to the finishing then it fails to complete..

Hernadez99: na wich kind fone you take snap your profile pic!!

Hernadez99: na wich kind fone you take snap your profile pic!!

murimoney: yhur grammar

Hernadez99: I sitdown for chair,read from Page 0 come reach Page 3 hoping say I go see Abu Mikey name,bt to my greatest disappointment I nor see!!! Chai!!!
I don taya for this Nairaland oo!! Common crush,nobody wan gree crush for me ??




I give Up!!!

murimoney: you n dmcdad are compatible walahi.

SniperInADiaper: Praises to God I found a cuter one

ibkaye: meh

SniperInADiaper: Ouch its ok... I have a new crush

SniperInADiaper: are you publicly rejecting me?

Oh the pain. The hurt. The tears.

murimoney: na wa 4 dis yhur abbreviation o. abbreviation with past tense

SniperInADiaper: Its you

DailyNews: Hello Darry, read the poster's undertone very well. He is letting financially unstable guys or will I say broke guys to understand that involving in a relationship while they are still struggling financially will only end up distracting them in life and draining up the little money they have which they ought to have used to better their lives.

I am solidly in support of his argument. He is not justifying that girls should date only rich guys, but he is instead discouraging guys from wasting their time and meagre resources in dead-end romantic affairs.

Try and understand him.

This topic wouldn't have arose if majority of Nigerian ladies don't go into a relationship with the mentality that a guy they are dating should be the only one taking care of their financial/material needs while they offer him sex in return.

ibkaye: You definitely have some points, what value would he also be adding to her life besides financial aid? Genuine question here

bimbos3xy: maybe Seun for his inteligent hahaha

I dey joke na

ibkaye: it's you actually

ibkaye: yup

SniperInADiaper: Yes.. I sent him a PM.

The rest is history

Diplomatic G: Lyk seriously?? Dn't joke wit me, wen it cums curvy babes..

2kurupt: OP. I totally disagree with you because you make the female folks seem like a common commodity that's ready for the highest bidder. Life doesn't work like dat my friend.

Financial comfort before romance doesn't mean am willing to turn myself into a mobile ATM for uninspiring, unambitious, materialistic ladies. Rather I'll urge you to direct your write up to the youth in general both boys & gals.

Most ladies now see being attached (se.xually & otherwise) to the wealthiest guys around as the highest of achievements instead of aspiring to be successful themselves. We need to stop this mentality if we want a better Nigeria

mencade5: another yaba left. you speak like a goat. Mumu.

Op you make sense abeg, God bless you. Lets enlighten and impact our youths more.