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rman: Finally, someone that gets it.
God bless you! The OP wrote rubbish and people are liking it.

Yeah! He wrote something silly and people were quick to take it hook, line and sinker. Do you wanna blame them? Afterall, "ornithological specimens of identical plumage invariably conglomerate in the same proximity" in other words; "birds of a feather congregate to the same vicinity".

No be their fault.

COOLDUN: You still have not made any reasonable point, sometimes people do not know that they present some reasonable things unreasonably. From your comment you made it look like all the young and poor guys made themselves like that, or are comfortable with it. No one is happy to be poor or lazy let me tell you.

You forgot to understand that 99% of poor youths in Nigeria today is purposely made by the people at the head of affairs in Nigeria. Take our young graduates for an instance, some wasted many of their youthful years to get a good education, graduated, finished their youth services, only to come out and face unemployment. Leaders of tomorrow assurances during our schooling days is now seen as fable story told by our teachers. Many years of ASUU strikes interrupted education, with many years of unemployment can make a hard working man looks like a fool and futureless slowpoke, thereby qualifying him as a poor woman chaser you quoted in your post.

I don’t agree with you that no money no romance or anything you called it, I will only agree with you on the caption of no money no flitting, because love is not supposed to be shared , so also is not supposed to be bought with money. You can marry your wife with only love, but you can marry your knife with wealth. There is difference between a WIFE and a KNIFE.

Someone said a genuine hustling, what is a genuine hustling for goodness sake? Running after the politicians? Being a thug? Or, what?

This kind of your words is one of the reasons why we are seeing over night billionaires in our society today. Because no one is ready to follow the right channel as long as it will make him to be rich and accepted in the society, The rulers and politicians are recycling themselves, while waiting for their yet unborn generations to grow and take over from where they stopped, while the youth you want be Bill Gates before they could be loved by lazy girls are roaming the streets with their certificates.

I don’t agree with you on this one, though it is your personal opinion, but it is very harmful to the society. Poor and not yet made it guys are free to love and be loved, but not to flirt around. Thank you.

Ride on bruv... I am with you on this

^^^^ Abi oooo

Phiozy: ...and what if he's got the potentials to really make it in life, and really working hard towards achieving his dreams? Truth is some men never forget that one lady that was always 'there' back when they were digging and toiling. Yea, romance's gat to be funded, buh it takes a wise lady to discern between a playboy and a real, hardworkin and serious-minded guy, and support him in any little way she can.

Gbam!

I have a friend who had a girlfriend that really helped him; I mean this girl would wash his clothes, buy some few things for him to eat, get him some few clothing stuffs and the likes. After sometime they were not together any longer as both decided to move on with life (more from my friend anywayz. He was the instigator).

After some two-three years, he travelled abroad and after two more years he came back home, and this time in a big way. He got an Infinity Jeep and was leaving large. He started looking for this girl but could not find her as they already relocated to some place unknown. On a faithful day he saw the girl crossing the road alongside a man who wore the same cloth as herself and that was when it was dawn on him that she was already taken. From that day he was sad for weeks because he already promised himself that that girl should be the one to reap what he now has and not some gold diggers. The person I am talking about had lots of girlfriends at the time who were dying to be with him and all that, but he told me they only are showing love because of the money they are seeing... Which is normal with most girls today.

So, like you said; it pays to be with someone you are very sure knows where he is going. The person who is up today might be down tomorrow, what then happens to the love?

amanda2013: after going tru all the comments, i cn only say that most of us dnt rili knw the meaning of love. Ogugua thank u veri much 4 that wondaful comment.

Exactly! I can't understand what some people on here are saying. Talking about no money no sex and all the trash. First of all, do they mean every relationship is centred on sex? So a guy who is yet to "arrive as some people will term it" is not worthy of loving and be loved?

Someone even talked about a man marrying with no job like there is a guy out there who wants his wife and kids to suffer. Definitely there would be something he is doing, which might not be as fruitful as a lot of people would be expecting. A lot of people who are not financially buoyant today, do you think they are not working towards ameliorating their situation? Or does it mean because it's yet to materialise then they should be exiled in the world of dating and love? C'mon! You are fortunate today doesn't mean someone else won't be as fortunate as you tomorrow. Yeah, I agree on placing priorities and all that, but peeps are making it seem like if you are not there yet then you shouldn't even dare! Like wth! That's gross big time...

I still state it: I must make sure I marry a girl who believes in my dreams and my vision and not someone who would just come and reap where she has not sown. Nonsense!

ixora3: Romance witot finance leads to cheating

I guess you mean from a girl's perspective. Right?

Empress OVA: As much as this can be true & real;yet it takes a great deal of patience(dependng on d type of r/ship u are in). Wouldn't we live n tk gud cares of ourselves,if these guys dnt com our ways? If Romance is 'nuisance' wtout finance;it can also be 'destructive' wt it.

Thank God someone is still thinking right. Some people think they have arrived... I laugh

tpacalipse: A rich man today may lose his wealth tomorrow. So what happens to his relationship then? The lady leaves him? Based on what I have read today, the lady leaves. If u can only have relationship when u have money, then if the money finishes in a relationship, then u lose the relationship. My advice to all is never listen to anyone. Find ur own way, and if u make mistake, u learn. Shikena.

Sometimes I wonder how people think... Like you said, everyone has it's own way, just discover it.

In as much as I don't subscribe to wasting precious time in chasing girls and all that, yet, real and genuine love I know of is not determined by the fatness of one's pockets, unless if love is something else now. Moreso, what's with the sex thing? Are you saying every broke guy out there going after a girl is going for sex? Wrong! I guess that's what you do and that's why you can conclude.

Anywayz, thank God I am too focused to be distracted, but if I fail to find love before getting to where I am going, it means I would definitely disguise cause I still believe in real and unconditional love and as such, I would look out for the one that would love me for me.

Little wonder the above poster said what the op is tryna say is that; when the money is available, the love is there and as soon as the money goes, you know the rest...

God help us all.

[quote author=Yoshi-Master]And they say "Love is Blind".

Apparently, Love has regained its sight.[/quote]Love was never blind... It sees all the while but it doesn't mind

^^^^ You are right bruv

mafiachic: shuo.. how na?

You no go understand.

Anywayz, I like your siggy. Hope na for real and no be beer own. Lol

Ajibam: Eeya...

Who die?

tammyboy1: u no folo?

I'm an observer

lynpetra: Ok sir!but the above traits doesnt mean a woman won't be trustworthy.Number 1 is because I grew up among male siblings.
2.female friends can really be a bad influence.I hate jealousy!Almost cost me my life on several occasions back in uni.Male friends are what I keep esp for the booze

3.I love both skirts and trouser.I hate short skirts,because I feel uncomfortable on it and basically cos long skirts makes me look chicky and classy!

4.I always delete my sms Only because I love keeping my private life really private.UNTIL am married,I wudnt leave SMS messages open.For my partner if he wants to follow suit,no Shit!!!

5.I know my mom numbers except for her age.Today she says she is50,tomorrow 100,next tomorrow 60,right now she claims 3 0!

6.I don't do hide and seek games.AM totally me.People hardly take a hold of me unless I let them.But I can be soo real,but sometimes I act either to confuse people the more or give them another impression about me!

Ohh... I didn't say that because of the topic but in response to what you said about changing when the time is right.

As regards the topic, definitely there are girls that the aforementioned are applicable to but ain't really the untrustworthy kinds...

Cherish20: I thought i read something about FG releasing 90bn already in order to meet ASUU demand. What all these stories again? Me don tire 4 house o! I don dey even forget d names of my lecturers and coursemates

Your own better na... some people don even forget their matric numbers sef

Smartie gurl: aiite, it so happened that i visited ma aunt on a very good day.
While washing her clothes as she directed, there was this her neighbor whose been bugging me, so he kinda came to were i was washing on ma own, he touched ma chick and said how are you, hmmmmm! I said fine and warned him not to touch me again, he can say whatever without touching me. I was about standing up to go spread some clothes when i dnt know if na mistake, he touched ma boobs, godamn it! I got mad and irritated and gave him a hot slap and pushed him away, that's it..

Gbam!!! I wanted to guess if he did touch your bréast or your asś but decided not to take a shot in the dark but to get it outrightly from you. Anywayz, e be like say u no dey waste time at all, you land the guy straight-up! Lol. You no wan know whether na mistake o or whichever one.

I wonder why some men do that. I don't think I would ever do a thing to warrant a woman slapping me. never! I dey respect myself like say tomorrow no dey..

BroRhema: i appreciate scum!

Scum? For telling you what is right? smh...

^^^^ Maybe them dey fear...

Smartie gurl: You don't wanna know. Lol

I am curious sincerely. I am just wondering what on earth would make a lady slap a guy. It's something that I know can never happen to me that's why I am curious to know what he did...

lynpetra: When the time is right,I will.

The time is now... Certain traits/attitudes/behaviours in us don't just go away just like that, so you would do yourself some good to start now.

@op, I think it's only fair you tell us what you would do. After all you are the instigator of the topic...

Smartie gurl: Lolzz! I once slapped a dude for misbahaving..

Can you be kind enough to tell us what he did?

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Hold on, I'll be back...

lynpetra: [quot[b]e author=Ijele-igbo]
1. who can open beer bottle with
her
teeth.[/b]




. who has few or no female
friends

3. who never wears skirts

4. who is always tex ting but when
you
accidentally look at her in box,
it has zero messages

5. who doesn't know her
mother's
number offhand

6. who never shows her full photo
In any social chats...

TRUE OR FALSE?




Guilty of the above.

All of the above?

yorettyna:

Don't worry, you won't understand

^^^^ Lol. Wahala wa oooo

yorettyna: how z it her fault o..

Because species like her (girls) are the reason I am a bench warmer

maryhaam: Marriage issue na God dey seal am ,may God just let person dey lucky.........be it anywhere may person see hin missing ribs .

You are right

mafiachic: bench warmer..

It's not my fault. I guess it's your fault that I am warming the bench.

caterpillar: Not all story will end like yours, happy for you that yours ended a win-win situation (he got who he wants and you never lost him after all) But someone like me just gave up on her this Saturday... Facing my life now is all that matters to me (four years of persuasion is just enuf persuasion).

Four years of persuasion? That's s long time...