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chidyhels: Lol ... But na only 1 real pics I don see, d rest na pitcha.

Which one b the resl pics? I guess I know

k2039: Just that I have forgotten my 'law of contract', but essentially some mistakes are allowed and can be overlooked but there are some that deserve a straight red card.

Ahan! Na football match?

[quote author=2s£xy]Ma'am, are you interested? ?[/quote]My guy wan know as e dey hot. No time to waste abi?

SniperInADiaper: Ouch! Rejected by you again.

Again? I never rejected you! Who would be so foolish to reject a creature like you?

^^^^ Insult?

scantee: cule i guess our match vs levente is 6pm 2moro?

Yeah that's correct...

Greaaat: Hmmm how can I downgrade then?

What phone are you using?

^^^^ Ha ha ha ha ha. Badt guy

[quote author=2s£xy]So true bro... We are rare.[/quote]Ahan! We don dey plenty ooooo

Greaaat: Till when now baba?

There won't be any jailbreak for that firmware version. Let's wait and see what happens after the release of iOS 7.

^^^^ Let's hope and see how it goes from now till the winter transfer window... I am trying to believe and adopt the coach's optimism and confidence, but I don't want a case whereby we would be stepping on our own toes...

ixora3: Yes and guys dont knw dt. Girls ve needs

So what does the guy stand to gain from the relationship then? What do you think you can offer a guy?

And from the above, it seems that guys ain't got needs too.

oliver badoo: . Oh!! I see ... I guess you finna like the one dat would promise you heaven and earth and hurt your feelings huh?..... Aplus

Didn't you read her post well? She ain't into guys. Guess she is gay, maybe

SniperInADiaper: I thought we were married?

I don't think I understand what that collective pronoun "we" means? Can you enlighten me?

[quote author=charlesazeh][/quote]What firmware are you restoring to?

[quote author=sweet-tease]Dmcdad to the rescue [/quote]Rescue? Na fire dey burn ni?

Chidonsky: @Dmcdad clapping 4 u bro kep it up is a gud omen i hope others can join d society of intellectual and respectful elites..tnx

Thanks bruv...

Giftforlife3: Y is it dat nobody notice me, am i not handsome enough, Is it because i dont have a friend here on nairaland?

I think it based on other factors and not about appearance. Besides, the fact you are not among doesn't take anything away from you. Does it?

Afterall, nobody wan share money give them.

nyere84: because, the ugly ones refuse to die.

Chai!

^^^^ Ok

Nothing wey person no go hear. Na wa oooo

Yungwizzzy: so babes wey u senior nor dey dat street abi?? I'm fighting older men chasing yung girls now ur case na yung men chasing older girls #I giff up

Rotfl...

^^^^ No be lie...

^^^^ Lol

passionate88: Na wa o, so black men dey blush?, which hair dm go touch?, if him dey shy for girl which mind him go take approach her frnd?. Young man sogidem!

He is right.... I blush alot. I think I am kinda shy, but never timid.

^^^^ Hmmm. You have got a good head.

Nice one... Your command get as e sound oooo. In as much as you need to exercise your right as a man, yet using that word "command" made it seem aggressive to me. And your item 7 Is a no-no for me... That's never an option for me.

Chidonsky: @dmcad yes it need 2 b demostrated starting 4rm u,myslf and others...i wonder while ppl abuse ideas 4 intellectual thought and lesson

It's my hallmark, I am known for that. Ask those who know me, they will tell you the last thing I would do yet is to insult anyone on here. It's something I don't do live (physically) neither do I do it in a virtual world such as this.

Even those that insulted me in many ways, I never responded with insults. You know why? Cause I have gone past that level long ago.

Goldenboy007: See my people let’s be realistic and know where the OP is coming from, what our African culture handed over to us is for a man to be very hard working to make his family proud and be capable of catering for his own oncoming household. There is dignity in labor and achieving success. The decadence of the western society has pervaded our moral consciousness. They have sold us their negativity under the auspices of entertainment and without us having a control system like theirs then this ongoing indigenous generation would head towards annihilation! What people like us grew up knowing is hustling to make something of our lives thereafter we can relax to enjoy the frivolities of life but what we have now are young men who don’t want to hustle to be a man, seek shortcuts to largesse and would hide under advocacy of gender equality to escape their manly responsibilities. I do not totally blame the culture that demands high bride price for their daughters because if you are a real man and you know your woman’s worth, you would go back and do your homework to earn her. What don't cost you aint worth much go ask Jacob in the bible !!!
Whatever high ambition I have set for myself and achieved is not because of inferiority complex as imagined by one bigotry charlatan; I was not born with a silver spoon but I was born with self-pride, I didn’t grow in a family where the daddy would sit at home under any pretext and mummy would bread-win!!! Let’s stop excusing our deficiencies under cultural modernization, gender liberalization or economy doldrums. I have experienced all sides of economic emancipation and I can confirm life is good at the top, if you gonna go far in life be ready to walk alone without mundane distractions. Trust me if I can help it I won’t allow my sister to marry a broke bottom, boot-licker, idealist daydreaming loser who is an excuse for a man, don't bring children into this world if you can't afford to feed yourself! Yes I have worked hard to be the young rich and proud guy and I won’t apologize to any sorry ass who seeks empathy for his ineptitude !!!

I get the clear picture the op tried to paint, even though he actually failed in painting it to be crystal clear as some parts of his post digressed and thereby, creating some derogations in his post.

I am not against your post in any way, I am just against the fact that you are keeping a blind eye to some of the aforementioned factors the op pointed out which doesn’t even correlate with your own ideology.

The above post seem more reasonable and understanding. Now, if you were sincere enough, you would have made clearer certain factors the op pointed out as you did with the above post. For example, the op made some misleading and fallacious comparisons with those in the western world as high achievers and more hard working blah blah blah...And you stated categorically that people take more cognizance of people in the western world and forget about the realities of facing things in the African way (Nigeria to be precise). Therefore, it is safe to deduce that the above post of yours negates the op's original idea of Nigerian youths not looking up to their western counterparts for motivation.

Also, it has been over-emphasized that the difference in economy, geographical location and differences, amongst other factors plays a lot of roles in shaping people's mind. He stated that the westerners are more focus and stuff, but in reality they are less focused. How many of them are ready to work their patch and make sure everything goes out well for them? Not much! Life seem fair to very many of them because their economy and other fundamental factors helps shape their future and all. They live in countries whereby you are encouraged to go to school, or nurture one talent of yours or the other. Can you say that for our dear country Nigeria? Nope! You are even discouraged to go to school and even if you have a talent to nurture and build to become someone meaningful in life, you are being talked outta it and lose control (that’s for those who can be misled and all). Meanwhile, that is not to say one have to be lazy and all, just saying this to counter the comparison he made with those in the western world.

All in all, it is advisable for youths (both sexes) to put things straight and make sure they are focus enough not to be distracted by anything. Yet, it is still worth mentioning that, if you can find love now that you are still struggling and can hold up to it and make sure it doesn’t distract you in your pursuit for success, then please do. Like Ogugua stated in her post, she could be that extra motivation you might need to focus more and also you could be a source of encouragement to her too. The kinda values I add to people are such that money could never do as much. Needless I say it's not all about money but about how successful you can be in the long run. And success my friends is not how much money you have or can boast of, but how fulfilled you are with your life's goals. Money is only a by-product of what success brings because if you are successful, you can have as much money as you wanted.

Nevertheless, it's good sharing views from people of different ideologies. I think it helps in knowing more about how people think and the way they see things. It also helps to expand our horizon as we get to integrate different other ideas to what we already have in our mental archive.

^^^^ I like that, even though we don't share the same view as regards the topic.

^^^^^

Goldenboy007: Now i am confused! where do you stand exactly? because what you have just given someone a kiss for isn't too far from the OP's reasoning. You said Romance don't need finances and the idea is a figment of the writers imagination. How come you are here again admonishing women from taking money from their boyfriend.

Yeah you are kinda right, it's not far from the op. If you decide to be totally sincere with yourself, you will agree with me that the op was bias in some respect. Like I stated on an earlier post, he had the intention of passing a reasonable message that could be beneficial to all, but along the line he digressed from a reasonable and understanding state to something else, I shouldn't state that anywayz.

Besides, how dare you attack issues as relevant as this from one direction? It is imperative that you arrest the issue from both sides of the coin to ensure that there is a balance of ideas and verdict. That was why I couldn't blame the female folks liking and acknowledging the op's post as perfect when they are parasites looking for someone or something to hold on to. And to tell you that some people still got good head on their shoulders irrespective of what the world is seemingly turning into, Ogugua attempted it from a discerning and more rational standpoint.

My point is; if one wanna disseminate a message as this, there is need to trash it from both ways while having a standpoint, not to obfuscate us with some rather contradictory, sentimental or biased view while trying to drive home it's point.