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Romance › Re: I Want To Be A Player Noooooooooooooooow by dmcdad: 4:06pm On Jan 04, 2013
Atandav: sex b4 marriage is wrong, I'm too clean to do that, that's not d will of God
And you think it's the will of God for you to be a player? No be only player, na keeper....
Romance › Re: I Want To Be A Player Noooooooooooooooow by dmcdad: 4:06pm On Jan 04, 2013
sexkillz: [color=#000030]Then you are not ready to be a player. . .



NEXT!
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Abi oooooo. Juvenile...
Romance › Re: Why Did I Get Married? by dmcdad: 1:04pm On Jan 04, 2013
olumaxi: if u cant trust ursef..u cant trust any1 else..
That is trash... Trust is to be earned, okay? You can't just trust because they say you have to trust someone. Are you saying with all that is happening now, people's trust are not being betrayed??
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Unemployed Graduate Advertises CV On Billboard by dmcdad: 1:00pm On Jan 04, 2013
nollywood20: That money is more than enough for him to launch a startup and get quick ROI within 12 months.
In UK? Nah... In Nigeria? Yes, may be....
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Unemployed Graduate Advertises CV On Billboard by dmcdad: 12:57pm On Jan 04, 2013
sholay2011: Some ppl dnt av d know-how or should I say gift of starting a business but are xcellent in managing dat of others...dats y we ve consultants and all sorts.

My point? Nt evri wud eventually be a job creator, including d 1st class graduates.

True!!!
Romance › Re: What's Your Opinion On This? by dmcdad:
[quote author=A.E.]Abuja-Lagos[/quote]Tradition or no tradition, your moral, ethical and spiritual beliefs should stand above every other things on such issues... It is never a bad thing for a girl to help her boyfriend in carrying out some of those duties, but in a case whereby she would have to sleep over the guy's house, then I don't subscribe to that. If they were located in the same geographical location, then I don't think helping out in taking care of certain things would be bad, as long as she makes sure she doesn't spend the night at the house. But, in this case, since they are located in two different or opposite states, then I would advise that she hold her beliefs and dignity in high regards. In the normal sense of it, a girl is not meant to spend a night at a guy's place for whatever reason. It's just that the world is in a state of quagmire that is why things have turned upside-down. It only takes few people who knows what it is to have dignity and integrity in all they do that tend to hold such in high regard.

Bottom line is, this ain't rigidity or something. I am sure the guy would appreciate her at a later time if not now because maybe his mind is being be-clouded with the current trend that he fails to realize what should be and what not. They should discuss it amicably and she should let him know where she stands on this, but if he refuses to respect such, then I think she should retreat from that relationship and maintain her dignity.

Gbam!
Romance › Re: U Take Me As I Am by dmcdad: 11:49am On Jan 04, 2013
Charliemorgano: I don't know why some guys lie about their financial status just to woo babes...they create the impression that money is not the problem and when they are overstretched with demands they complain...for me i will tell you my true financial status so don't expect flowers/gifts from me everyday unless she is an emotional merchant
Gbam!!! That is me for you. I tell you how it is with me, if you ain't okay with it, you board the next available flight to HELL for all I care. That is the last thing I would do. I'd rather be single than lie to have a girl or something.... It's way outta my bag.
Romance › Re: Am Confused Here I Need Ur Advice by dmcdad: 11:45am On Jan 04, 2013
You are confused because you chose to be... Why bother yourself with unnecessary things while you have better things to think or do. Besides, you have a girl friend already, what else are you craving for?

Na wa for guyz sef... Any act of kindness from a girl, them don misquote am for something else.

Yes! The girl might be into you but is hiding, but that shouldn't be your business as you have someone already. Just leave everything the way they are. Okay?
Romance › Re: Am Confused Here I Need Ur Advice by dmcdad: 11:41am On Jan 04, 2013
Yield: Why'd you ask her out when you've a gf? undecided undecided
I wonder oooo
Romance › Re: Are These The True Characteristics Of Love? by dmcdad: 11:39am On Jan 04, 2013
This is never true love... True love is not shown by going out to watch movies and all that crap.... There are salient things that forms a solid and rigid foundation for a relationship and or love. Going out on dates and all that help to helps to spice up their romance but it shouldn't be built on those things alone... I think there is need for her to discuss this with the guy and let them spell everything out accordingly.. If they arrive at a point of equilibrium and the guy fails to adhere or play his part as required, then she should be willing to let go so as not to be disappointed in the long run...

But first, let them discuss this and see how to come to terms with each other. If no improvement after this, then she should act accordingly.
Romance › Re: How Does It Feel To Be Dating Someone Who Is Intellectually Re-tarded? by dmcdad: 11:30am On Jan 04, 2013
I try to view the positivity in this topic and not the bashing part of it that a host of people would see. Both sexes are guilty of the above, but the girls fall for this more because of one thing... [color=#000000]P[/color]RIORI[color=#000000]T[/color]Y!!! If a lot (and never all) can learn to prioritize things or combine things appropriately, then I think it would really help in the reduction.

Bottom line is, if a girl learns to prioritize things and make good use of her head, I think she will beat a guy intellectually any day... Nevertheless, I think a lot of guys have work to do too cause many of them use gimmicks to outsmart girls, and not as if they are really sound intellectually..
Romance › Re: How Does It Feel To Be Dating Someone Who Is Intellectually Re-tarded? by dmcdad: 11:17am On Jan 04, 2013
chikeorji123: You have a point! if that's the angle your going,it's just when you use the word 'NIGERIA GIRLS' rather sex hawkers b/c indirectly you are involving ur loving-wife,sisters,femal relations etc..But wait oo! do u know this caliber of street girls will not been in such bad-reputation bizness if our bad reputation guys,men both married are not patronising them?.Just try and do visiblelity studies u will be amazed.. So u see? when u point one finger at them the rest of the fingers will be pointing at us..
You are getting this wrong. I don't think the major aim of the Op is to castigate all women or to talk about how sexually frustrated they are..

Now tell me, the so-called men you talked about, are they as dumb as the girls they patronise? That is the essence of this thread I think. We are talking about how intellectually dumb a lot of them are and not on the sexual aspect... I hope you catch my drift...
Romance › Re: How Does It Feel To Be Dating Someone Who Is Intellectually Re-tarded? by dmcdad: 11:13am On Jan 04, 2013
tpacalipse: Being retarded is never a Nigerian thing or restricted to Naija ladies alone. I have met retarded ladies from Hongkong, from USA and from UK. Btw, the most brilliant students where I lecture are females though, just two of them sha. The fact that majority of Naija ladies are retarded does not mean all are intellectually retarded.
I think the point is not to bash Nigerian girls or to say all of them are r*etarded kinda, I think what he's trying to say is that, most are intellectual dummies because they do not prioritize things in their lives. And this is not restricted to Nigerian girls alone, it's common all over the world. Like I stated in my earlier post, the few ones that tend to make good use of their head (maximize the full potentials of their head) are always on top of the guyz. It's reality!

You'd agree with me that a lot of girls today know nothing than dating... It's not because they were born not to be intellectually sound or something, but because they give preference to less important things like boys, social medias etcetera. Don't get me wrong, the guys are guilty of these too, but I think you can find more with girls...

In all, I like when girls are intellectually sound and alert. It gives them an added advantage over guys in some cases...
Romance › Re: How Does It Feel To Be Dating Someone Who Is Intellectually Re-tarded? by dmcdad: 11:01am On Jan 04, 2013
larrymoore: Quiet unfortunate, l haven't been wit one in my life, so cn outrightly support ur proposition. Some ar intellectually brilliant, give their male counterpart tough academic challenges in class, and compete wel in aptitude evaluation.
Some you say... Most are not, and that is the gospel truth whether anyone accepts it or not. I can state affirmatively that, you can only find 10 in 100 girls that can stand intellectual challenges. You would agree with me also that, you can find at least 30 in 100 guys that would stand such challenges. Why is that so? In actual sense, women as you know have lighter brains which enables them to assimilate things faster than men do, and that is why if you see a girl that knows what she is doing, she would beat most of her male counterparts when it comes to showing off intellectually. But the problem is, most girls (and not just Nigerian girls) tend to use that light brain of theirs to worry about boys. The major problem that hampers girls' growth as to intellectual matters are boys. The moment a girl relegates issues concerning a boy to the background, she blossoms intellectually...

Girls need to learn how to prioritize things, and until then, they will wallow as intellectual dummies. A guy can be dating 5 girls and still flourish intellectually. Why? Because those girls are not his priorities. But a girl (not all though) on the other hand can be dating just a guy, and be intellectually miserable. Why? Cause she can't combine dating and studies and most often give up their studies for dating... Lame!
Romance › Re: Wife Walks Out On A Two Day Old Marriage by dmcdad: 10:33am On Jan 04, 2013
binger: Nah! i know a couple that got married on a Saturday and divorced the following day,after a shocking revelation by the bride's ex smiley
Yourz is better. I know a couple that got divorced the same day they had their wedding.... After doing the wedding in the morning, by evening they already called for arrangements on getting a divorce. Na so e take end oooo. There was nothing like a shocking revelation on this, they just felt their incompatibilities...

Nothing is new under the sun....
Romance › Re: What Is D Best Way To Reply/accept A Friendship Request From A Girl 2ru Email by dmcdad:
God! You are the only one that can save me from the hands of people on NL....

Your heading or the topic says; Friend request, but the introductory post says; relationship... Which of these are we gonna work with?

Damn!!! I don suffer for NL... Person go still come hear dey ask whether make him chop or not. Watch out!
Romance › Re: Your Candid Oppinion Please. by dmcdad: 10:25am On Jan 04, 2013
Abeg who understand wetin that guy write make e explain am to me cos I no understand nothing from all this things him write..

I called, she didn't answer...
I sent a text, she called back...
I said I love you, she was angry blah blah blah... Dang!

@Op, please you need to learn how to write properly.. (No pun intended)
Romance › Re: Who Enjoys Dating, More Boys Or Girls? by dmcdad: 10:10am On Jan 04, 2013
ihedioramma: KEEP SEX OUT OF YOU BOYS AND GIRLS . SEX IS FOR TWO PEOPLE THAT MARRY THERE SELF ONLY ANY OTHER THING SUGER MUM,SUGER DADDY, DAYTING E.T.C IS A SIN KEEP UR SELF OUT OF SEX SIN BECOS GOD WILL NOT BE HAPPY WITH U IF U ARE DOING IT . AS TODAY GO'S OUT SO THE DAY U WILL DIE IS COMING BECAREFUL HOW U LIVE UR LIFE .
My dear... Dating ain't a sin, it's what you do in the course of dating that makes it sinful or not. Don't get it twisted.... Okay?
Romance › Re: Why Did I Get Married? by dmcdad:
Sometimes, when I get to ponder on this, it scares the shi*t out of me.... I have been praying to God that, instead of me to encounter a cheating partner, it is better I remain single forever, and I hope with great assurance in my heart, that God will hearken to my plea and grant me my inner-most heart desire when it comes to living the married life... It is something I will NEVER condone in my marriage...
Romance › Re: 11 Lines Guys Use To Get Sex From ladies by dmcdad: 9:58am On Jan 04, 2013
osinachukwu: Lame lines don't really work on a 21st century Girl,what I do is having invited the girl over just start teasing and touching she may be Like stop,notice the way she says the stop if it is in a violent way..dude u aint getting laid,but if says it in a medium tone,don't give up she just need to get horney try seducing her like"lemme see ur gstrings deep ur hand into it she may try to hold u out but don't stop deep ur hand boy!,note- by touching the laps she gets hornier talkless of touching the main thang also squEeze ha breeast till she gets weak note breeasts re also vital weakining spots so squezze dem till she stop struggling wif u,wif d stop stop stop and all dat bull shiit she would finally give in then u can do,I ve used this Technique on many girls.
You are right bruv... I guess this works like magic too owing to their weak nature...
Romance › Re: 11 Lines Guys Use To Get Sex From ladies by dmcdad: 9:56am On Jan 04, 2013
[quote author=nl.official]That's the problem with Nigerian girls. Where they see sex as one side affair and their pussi.es as their lives.

You don't need to say anything to her, sex should be enjoyed by both parties. I can't even stand it, Beg? Shyt![/quote]And na them dey enjoy am pass ooooo. Come here come dey form one thing wey I no know.....
Romance › Re: 11 Lines Guys Use To Get Sex From ladies by dmcdad: 9:55am On Jan 04, 2013
daryoor: barney stinson told me that: ''the longer the you wait to make your move on a chick the less likelier yr chances of sleepin with her''.
You are right....
Romance › Re: 11 Lines Guys Use To Get Sex From ladies by dmcdad: 9:54am On Jan 04, 2013
hoodboy: I'm guilty of number 11
Ahan! na court we dey? grin grin grin grin grin
Romance › Re: 11 Lines Guys Use To Get Sex From ladies by dmcdad: 9:53am On Jan 04, 2013
[quote author=Czar-Chris]well they all work. Been there done that. But the mood or situation determines which to use.
@girls shouting fishbrain, the most common one here works on them so quit the forming.
@op you the craze o, who send you message, ehh. Come the expose us here ehh. Well, no matter, man must shine congo[/quote]Lol... Badt guy
Romance › Re: I Want To Be A Player Noooooooooooooooow by dmcdad: 9:38am On Jan 04, 2013
Jamey Maxwell: Na bekauz of yhu p-square sing •«[She must chop my moni]»•
Eya guy.... Take heart. The tin don do miii b4•.
Yhu jxt gatz wize up¤
Lol....
Romance › Re: I Want To Be A Player Noooooooooooooooow by dmcdad: 9:37am On Jan 04, 2013
Atandav: I meet this girl almost a year now, though she told me she had a bf as they usually say, but I insist she give me a chance, I've spent so much on her and even extend my generousity to her younger one's, not until she told me yesterday that she can't leave her bf and don't want to lose me either, I asked if I can leave her and she said if I want, atleast she will b with one guy now, where is d guy wen I'm helping in sch, paying for heir, tushing her up? This was d first time am falling in love, my friends usually told me that ladies don't deserve all my mr nice but I didn't agree, I wanna be a player noooooooooooooow, God go punish girls for my hand, I've deleted her no on my phone, can I unfriend her on facebook too?
@bolded... Did you ever think you were being nice? Nah! That's pure foolishness. I don't intend to insult you, but you just mistook foolishness for being nice. You knew she had a boyfriend, yet you were trying to buy her out right? Do you think that was a nice move? You are kinda type that made someone put up a thread that men are to blame for female gold-digging because you are in-experience and never bothered to learn the basics before jumping into the dating world.

Anywayz, to tell you the truth, you don't need to spend and do all that to gain the control you deserve. I guess your friends were trying to give you direction on how to go about that, but you were adamant. It's not like ladies don't deserve to be treated nicely, it's just that there are specific rules to follow in order to show your act of benevolence or magnanimosity towards a lady in order not to be misunderstood. You don't do it awkwardly and think you can get something out of it.

Bottom line, being a player will not change your mentality. What you need to do before thinking about going into another relationship (or your first relationship since she never agreed to date you), you need to be given orientation on the basics of going into a relationship and maintaining one...

Whom do I blame? You! Because you started on the wrong foot.

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