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Romance › Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 2:26am On Jan 02, 2013
shymexx: No matter how you twist it, bro. - women will still be culpable... They changed the game and set the rules. Men are just playing the game based on these rules... Most of the guys who are victims of gold diggers spend a lot on women because of their inadequacies - and their money being the only "ace" they hold in getting these women... Without this "ace" best believe most women won't be attracted to them... So, are you going to blame them for their "reaction" and absolve women for their "action?" Action and reaction, bro... Women are attracted to money(action) - and men lure them with this bait so as to be able to smash their thing to smithereens(reaction)... Relationship science, bro..

Guys like us who have everything we need to get women without necessarily spending on them do so because we've got other things working for us... However, the only "ace" these other guys hold is their "gold"/"bait." So, you can't really blame them for using what they have to get what they want...

The funniest thing is that, gold diggers made the game easier for men because men easily lure them with this bait and get them to open their legs wide open with ease... And this is also the sole reason why most men don't rate women anymore. These thirsty and needy chicken heads killed chivalry... grin
@bolded... Thats what a lot of people fail to realise.. Thats the third law of motion in display. I still don't see the reason why men are to blame
Nairaland General › Re: Who Called You First In The New Year And Vice Versa by dmcdad: 1:46am On Jan 02, 2013
olumaxi: same here..tho i wasnt assleep..buh i culdnt pick..i avnt cald any1
why didn't you answer the phone?
Sports › Re: Messi Just Ahead Of CR7 As 'world Best Goal Scorer' Of First by dmcdad(op): 1:43am On Jan 02, 2013
SniperInADiaper: grin
huh
Romance › Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 1:18am On Jan 02, 2013
shymexx: Pleep, I'm highly disappointed in you... You're meant to be our most potent anti-feminism foot soldier on the forum, however, you've sold out to become a flip-flopper!!

If men are to be blamed for female gold diggers, perhaps they're also to be blamed for female prostitution then because the two lifestyles are interchangeable...

I've got absolutely no problem whatsoever with female gold diggers as long as they can reciprocate the value of the "gold" they're digging from me/people(my mum never raised no fool)... However, I can't stand the blame game - women need to start taking responsibilities for their own actions!!
@bolded... you make sense finish... ignore the people that are talking trash
Sports › Re: Messi Just Ahead Of CR7 As 'world Best Goal Scorer' Of First by dmcdad(op): 12:33am On Jan 02, 2013
naijalodge: ...shebi u know pass bacer coach when when put am for striking?
Guy lock up
Romance › Re: Happy New Year To All Romance Section Nairalanders by dmcdad: 12:33am On Jan 02, 2013
Una be fool: Thanks a million 2milion. May your new year flow with milk and honey kiss
Wow... Jedijedi. Lol
Nairaland General › Re: Who Called You First In The New Year And Vice Versa by dmcdad: 12:17am On Jan 02, 2013
Revolva: Nobody called me ..all my BB was getttin na Broadcast messages .alerts alerts...@fredrick909 that's true I will also delete many girls especially they can never call or text ..dem fada
Lol.... My guy dey paranoid
Nairaland General › Re: Who Called You First In The New Year And Vice Versa by dmcdad: 12:13am On Jan 02, 2013
harbibi: My ex called first but I refused to pick it.
y now??
Nairaland General › Re: Who Called You First In The New Year And Vice Versa by dmcdad:
OmolodMilkman93: I called my rummate in skul, I neva stil receive call, na wa 4 my contacts oh
lock up jare... them wan give your money? if them like call oooo, or if them like make them bone, e no change anything for your body. Besides, new year is overrated believe me...
Nairaland General › Re: Who Called You First In The New Year And Vice Versa by dmcdad: 12:08am On Jan 02, 2013
Fredrick909: I don't know why those you call your friends wont even care about you... i did most of the calling. Called my guys that dont care about me. I didnt received any message in my facebook inbox let me wake up 2moro i know what to do. Delete some of my contact list. Cos i dont see what they are adding or subtracting from my life. They dont care so why should i care. After all am better off without them. I know my true friends.
You get time dey bother yourself.... I got just one sms and just one message on facebook. Although, the last time I did a clean up on my facebook, my friends list became around 30 people (most of whom I know in persons) and I still wanna reduce it to just 20..

Anywayz, I wasn't expecting any message from anyone as I wasn't ready to send anyone too. So, it's even and as such no complaints...
Nairaland General › Re: Who Called You First In The New Year And Vice Versa by dmcdad: 8:37pm On Jan 01, 2013
Truckpusher: Badt guy....you've been so lonely buddy grin grin grin grin grin grin
Lonely? Nah! I just don't keep much of friends.... I no like crowd jare...
Nairaland General › Re: .. by dmcdad: 7:57pm On Jan 01, 2013
pretim: mine was boring nobody to take me out, just sleeping since morning, oh poor me
Same here... It's nothing to whine about. Although the difference between you and me is that, I enjoyed it as opposed to you
Nairaland General › Re: Who Called You First In The New Year And Vice Versa by dmcdad: 7:42pm On Jan 01, 2013
I didn't call anyone.... A cousin brother called me but I was inside the church then and so couldn't answer the call, but I didn't even bother to return his call later on... I didn't call anyone myself and don't have any plan of calling anyone... **Who I wan call sef? Mtchew**

Bottom line, nobody call me, I no call anybody.. It's as simple as that
Nairaland General › Re: .. by dmcdad: 7:40pm On Jan 01, 2013
When I left the church, I went straight home... And I was just at home all through the day....
Romance › Re: Happy New Year To All Romance Section Nairalanders by dmcdad: 6:01pm On Jan 01, 2013
2 million: wishing y'all long life, prosperity, good health, peace of mind...and all that you wish yourself
Amen!!! And also with you...
Romance › Re: Looking For A Girl Called LOVE... by dmcdad: 6:00pm On Jan 01, 2013
@Op, e be like say you don chop belle full this 1st.... Anywayz, no be everydoay wey dey single dey search... You hear?
Romance › Re: A Letter To My Future Husband by dmcdad: 5:56pm On Jan 01, 2013
**Following**
Romance › Re: The Reason Why The Life Of Most Girls Are Complicated... by dmcdad: 5:55pm On Jan 01, 2013
The world itself is complicated...
Romance › Re: Who Is The Most Important Person In Ur Life by dmcdad: 5:50pm On Jan 01, 2013
[quote author=truelove.com]JESUS[/quote]Jesus is the the most important in everyone's lives, whether we acknowledge it or not. But, like the Op said, after Jesus, who is the next (human being)?
Romance › Re: Ladies In Diaspora Storm Nigeria For Marriage by dmcdad: 5:22pm On Jan 01, 2013
Charliemorgano: Nigerian Ladies living in the states...Canada...Uk etc always prefer coming home to marry,does that mean that we don't have eligible bachelors there....the trend is really congesting the market where we have lots of spinsters living and working in Nigeria already seeking for their life partner
Kini big deal na?

If men do come back to Nigeria for marriage, why not the women too? Abi them dey forbid am?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Messi, 'king Of Europe' For The Fourth Time by dmcdad(op): 1:56am On Jan 01, 2013
laykhorn: The guy is unarguably the best at the moment. I just always pity Ronaldo who always come close evrytym...
Same thing here... He came at the wrong time...
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Falcao Named 2012 Player Of The Year (by The Globe Soccer Awards) by dmcdad(op): 1:54am On Jan 01, 2013
Drdaps: .me like messi 4wat..
Lol...
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by dmcdad: 1:54am On Jan 01, 2013
Johnpaul88: Happy new year to all FC Barcelona fans here. May we meet all our targets this new year. Amen.
Amen!!!
Romance › Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 11:42am On Dec 31, 2012
usermane: You see thats is where u r mistaken @dmdcad. I wasn't generalising but i said 'a lot of men' and of course u can bear witness to that. 'A lot' does'nt mean 'all' but a high percentage, >90% in this case.
Also when i mentioned 'we men are too superficial', i wasn't generalising. Believe me, a lot of guys would overlook good character/manners for beauty but will not overlook beauty for good character/manner however @usermane is not that type of guy.
Well, when you used the phrase "we men", I did conclude that you were talking about men in general (which means all men), but since you meant something different, that's okay...
Romance › Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 10:06am On Dec 31, 2012
[quote author=Sweet.gurl]@Dmcdad... Point taken. Thanks[/quote]You welcome. Anytime...
Romance › Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 9:58am On Dec 31, 2012
anitank: Yes sire! Note taken
Okay my Lady....smiley
Romance › Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 8:33am On Dec 31, 2012
usermane: The tip of the iceberg is men aren't looking for the nice girl,they are looking out soley for beauty. A lot of men are so superficial that they value looks far above manners on their scale of preference. And since a lot of men are after just one beautiful girl at a time,each man tend to see his wealth as an ace in hole to lure the lady to him. Hence the girl is surrounded by gold mines and have no choice but to dig and mine from the largest mine deposit.
In short, unless we guys become less superficial we might just have to endure the gold diggers.
We guyshuh Now you are generalizing because it's what you do... I can [color=#000000]N[/color]EVER do that no matter what. Anyone that is not willing to accept me the way I am, should board the next available flight to HELL... Gosh!!!
Romance › Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad:
[quote author=Sweet.gurl]Agreed.



Yes and No. It all depends on the strength of the lady to resist the temptation. In anything and everything humans can be persuaded. Otherwise we wouldnt bother with arguments, talk shows, protests, especially media which plays a big part in framing peoples mindset. Let me ask you a question wasn't it media that promoted gold digging and the flaunting of wealth? What makes you think that the human perceptions can not be altered?



I would not blame him because as humans it is normal for us to become defensive if we keep experiencing pain. That fact that he is generalizing that all women are the same doesnt make it true however due to his experience he has come to that conclusion. Like i said, it's all in the mind. YES the same thing can apply to female. Haven't you heard of girls who like to be beaten by their male partners because they associate it with love. Twisted right? Thats the mind for ya....



Agreed! I didnt state this as a fact. I said if a man flaunts women get the perception that... you have the money and want to spend it. Just as if a girl dresses and behaves like a s.lut the man get the perception that she is cheap and easy.



Agreed. Good for those girls but we are not the majority. All my friends think im crazy. I still think that men are more responsible. It started with a man giving, it would end when men stop giving. You have to understand that women love to receive (and thats OK) but a line must be drawn, if men do not draw the line women would be happy not to?



It is natural and OK for women to accept. Men have to draw the line when it comes to flaunting and giving. I personally would not tell a lady not to receive when given because its natural for women to do so. undecided[/quote]Good and fine... Media played a massive role in promoting gold-digging and the likes, but even at that it's not enough reason to change your perception. If it does change your perception, then it means you never had a mind of your own, or you are not strong-willed. Now let me ask you... Do you really think people's perception are suppose to metamorphose due to the media? If this were the case, are you saying there is now a justifiable reason for someone to be immoral, since the media is promoting immorality? Now, what I am insinuating is that, even though people's way of seeing things can be altered by the media, I still stand on the fact that, that is not to justify their misdeed of any sought.

You see! Another thing you pointed out from the outset is that, women love to receive right? why is it then that MOST women today are stingy? This is a fact. Don't argue that with me. Now if men are guilty of making them love money , gifts and stuffs, are the men the ones to blame that MOST women are way too stingy?

You kept stating that it's natural for a lady to receive gifts blah blah blah.... Where did you get that from? Where was it written? In the Corpus of Revelation (The Bible)? C'mon! Enough of this; they naturally love gifts and it's natural for them to do so...huh I do propose that, girls should learn to hold themselves. If you must collect gifts from someone, make sure the reason for collecting such gift is justifiable. I had someone sometime ago that didn't allow me to give her gifts, but she loved giving me gifts to me... She collected gifts on some few occasions, but she made sure they were not expensive stuffs else, she would have rejected them pronto...

My dear... There is need for people to discipline themselves... Let's tell ourselves the truth... With what the media is propagating, my level of morality should have been at a low ebb, but because I can seldom be influenced negatively, that is why no matter what the media disseminate, no matter the number of unclad women I see, or no matter the level of people's remiss attitudes towards whatever they do, I yet remain the one I am because I cannot be influenced just anyhow and I don't look for meagre ways to justify whatever I do, all because I need to throw the blame at something... It's high time we started taking the blame for our failings.

Do have a nice time...
Politics › Re: Julius Berger Summoned Over Sambo’s N16bn Residence by dmcdad: 5:38am On Dec 31, 2012
jp philips: lol,

which masses god wan fight for?? the ones at home sleeping well or the ones at eagle square like the egyptians??
make no mistakes, god left Nigeria a long time ago.
huh
Romance › Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 4:50am On Dec 31, 2012
anitank: Do they specify by using "some" or "most" whenever they come here to bash "Nigerian Girls"huh........Yeah that hurts too
That is the problem with us my dear... The fact that they make the mistake of generalizing, does that mean you will join them? Can two wrongs ever make a right? Even those who happen to generalize, people do highlight such places and inquire for corrections as it would be very wrong. Inductive logic or reasoning cannot hold on here, take note of that.

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