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Friends can be met anywhere and in the strangest circumstances |
@ Syren where ve u been? |
I CAN BET THIS GUY IS NOT SANE! |
@ SYREN How are u today?long time @ topic Why are we still on this issue! No doubt some broken homes are the product of the wrong choices and mistakes of parents!This condition cannot and never be blaimed on the child (girl or boy) But whether it sure affects romance and futher 'family orientation" of a potential mother of father-------The answer is YES(90%) There is no hard and fast rule about the behavior of humans given our different complexities dispositions but for sure F[b]AMILY PLAYS A ROLE IN MOLDING THE BEHAVIOUR OF EVERY CHILD.[/b] E[b].G[/b] 1) You hard an emotional accident(broken heart) and refuse to ever love again. Reason:u never really believed in love,it was an experiment from the beginning--could b that u never really felt love from the home 2) same scenerio in 1 above!----u learn t your lessons and still believe that there is love for u somewhere because your parents really taught u it exists!!!! |
Gamine:don't be TOO sure!!! |
syren:Its good not to make wrong assumptions,This is 21st century,encourage them if they do"make such moves" syren:Im scared i ve not invested in music before so i ve to do it wt both eyes open |
syren:are u sure they don't have romantic interest in u ?doe82:Most times they decide to just settle for "good friends" because of the above reason syren:are u sure i ll accept ur offer? |
syren:Kinda had such obsession myself,written a lot of line but gave up when i found out i ve a bea voice that refused to get better.lol |
syren:They are everywhere,around you,in ur place of work,neibouhood,club,church even in the internet maybe u ve been looking too far for what maybe @ ur finger tips.I m sure u ve met a dozen but just failed to identify them. Meanwhile thanks for ur understanding as for the promised story |
syren:are u into music? |
syren:Its simple, real good men come simple,little,steady, and sometimes scared because they don't want to loose the damsel, unreal men always have a siren way of letting their "motives" known.Its takes a real woman to see the handwritting on the wall! and what about the stories u said you'd give ![]() MY FREIND SAID HE WILL KILL ME IF I MAKE IT KNOWN TO ALL!!I m sure u don't want me to die yet! lolMay b i share it with u on chat sometime |
syren:I know u ll agree with me that most women don't set their priorities rigth when it comes to what they want in a relationship.Many want "to eat their cake and still have", this doesnt work anymore.As for TRUST u can certainly not trust such as u may be heading for a collateral emotional disaster.Intelligent Ladies that doesnt fall innto the above category most times do not make such mistakes REASON:"unreal " men are easier to detect |
@ syren [/quote][quote author=syren link=topic=149545.msg2505857#msg2505857 date=1216062591]A real man?DONT You THINK THAT THIS TRUST THING WORKS BOTH WAYS.I THINK I AGREE WITH UR SUBSTITUTION OF REAL MAN WITH GOOD MAN.BUT THE SIMPLE TRUTH IS THAT EVEN WHEN THE "GOOD" MAN IS RIGTH IN FRONT OF A GIRL,SHE DOESNT KNOW IT.THEY OFTEN GO FOR WHAT SEEMS A GOOD MAN, ? |
PHILEOLOVE: @ Syren and Phileolove HOW DO YOU KNOW A REAL MAN? |
@Syren How re u 2day? I think I agree with u on ur last post. |
Papito:THANK YOU JARE!I BELIEVE YOU!!! |
@ SYREN D reasons are obvious baby, and u know that.I wwill tel 2 stories to illustrate my points but not now as I ve to get some jobs done.With them I believe u will get the trrue picture! |
@Syren I agree that 75% is grossly an exaggeration especially in these days and times when girls spend most of their time in schools and campuses amongst friends of every character and background composition.But believe you me Mothers have a role to play in the satbility of their mothers marriage. |
CH3COO:didnt get what u mean ![]() |
@Syren I mean GREAT deal of role.culd b good or bad depending on the mothers personality and circumstances. |
I knmow its not easy to grow up in a broken home and its definetly not the child,s choice.They need to be encouraged and be given every emotional support. @Syren I agree with you mothers play a greatv role in a girls life. |
Honestly,pple from broken homes are risk when it comes to marriage but that doesnt mean we dont have good ones.The reasons for such broken homes should be investigated before decisions are made.Again the personality of the parents and other conditions sorounding the childs growing period do make some difference. If u have such friends they need encouragement! |
walan:Agreed!when u love and is loved;its an experience, when its not that way;its a living HELL |
most times this pple we talk about that never appreciated what they have(true love)always end up in very bad hands! |
@MYKE MY BROTHER I DON SUFFER 4 THIS LUV BUSINESS.NOT MY FAULT MY PARENTS THOUGH ME THAT IT EXISTS AND I CAN REALLY LUV AND TRUST ALTHOUGH IT HAS NOT BEEN A SWEET STORIES.I VE NOT LISTED INFIDELITY EXPERIENCES! IMAGINE A MAN BEEN FIDEL TO AN INFIDEL LADY! LOL |
wow don't know dat I m not alone in this boat!Let me share a few of those ugly moments -----Didn't want 2 go on vacation because of her -----Let her take the 1st position to prove my love -----Got feverish when she didn't came as scheduled. -----Cried every night when she told she was getting married -----REPORTED HER IN NIARALAND WHEN GIVE ME ultimatum TO MARRY HER ------This list is long I think I should better stop here! |
vicade: ![]() never really thought of that |
vicade: ![]() never really thought of that |
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"your baby" thats exactly what she is.Her mother likes u but I m sure what she doesnt like is ur distracting her daugther at a tender age of 18.if you love her,help her get into school,advce her to study her books,make good results and then , maybe marry u |
provided your spouse is no AS,then It is not an issue as the situation can be managed and u still make a beautifully family |

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