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Nairaland GeneralRe: Nigeria @ 59; Laurels Of A Third World Country by Doktajay5: 10:57am On Oct 01, 2019
Please my nairaland brethren, is any one here a medical doctor practicing in UAE (Dubai) or does anyone know any Nigerian Dr (whether home trained or abroad) practicing in dubai. Please link me up on whatsapp 08071359731
Is just for enquiries and directives please.

Thanks in anticipation of ur assistance.

#peace
PoliticsRe: Senator Abba Moro Adopts Two Kids, Celebrates Nigeria At 59 With Orphans (Photo by Doktajay5: 10:50am On Oct 01, 2019
Please my nairaland brethren, is any one here a medical doctor practicing in UAE (Dubai) or does anyone know any Nigerian Dr (whether home trained or abroad) practicing in dubai. Please link me up on whatsapp 08071359731
Is just for enquiries and directives please.

Thanks in anticipation of ur assistance.

#peace
CelebritiesRe: John Dumelo Holding Waist Of University Of Ghana Female Student (Photo) by Doktajay5: 10:05am On Oct 01, 2019
Please my nairaland brethre, is any one here a medical doctor practicing in UAE (Dubai) or does anyone know any Nigerian Dr (whether home trained or abroad) practicing in dubai. Please link me up on whatsapp 08071359731
Is just for enquiries and directives please.

Thanks in anticipation of ur assistance.

#peace
FamilyRe: Mother Of Eight Loses 40-year Marriage For Denying Husband Sex by Doktajay5: 8:52am On Sep 06, 2019
horpeyemmi66:
This Igando court and its numerous weird cases
Very observant Nairlander..
I was going to say same. Lol.
I mean, the number divorce cases that court has entertained and granted in the last 6 months, will make one wonder if any marriage is still on in that area of lagos.
Haha hahaha... E worry me.
PoliticsRe: Lagos: I have no ethnic group - Joe Igbokwe by Doktajay5: 2:19pm On Aug 16, 2019
References:
Spokesperson of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Lagos State chapter, Joe Igbokwe, has described himself as a Nigerian and not belonging to any ethnic group.

Igbokwe, who stated this yesterday at the House of Assembly during the screening of the last batch of Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu’s cabinet-nominees, lampooned those he described as ethnic bigots.

He hinted that the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) vice presidential candidate, Peter Obi, was the reason for the attitude of easterners in the state during the last general election.

Lagos should take the lead and be more open to other ethnic groups by giving them political appointments, he asserted.

He said, “I’m proudly Nigerian; I don’t know about east, west, north or south. I have been in Lagos since 1985. My children were born here. It’s high time we started building this country.

“I get angry when people mention ethnicity. A young Nigerian lady was just made a minister in Britain. If I become the president of this country, nobody is going to fill form and put his state of origin. That’s the first thing I will do. It is when you take people for who they are that is when they will release their energy for the good of the country. One day, Nigerians will say, we are all Nigerians.

“The reason for the attitude of easterners in Lagos at the last election was because Peter Obi was on the ballot. If Atiku had won, he would be the vice president.

“If 70 to 75 per cent of a particular people dominate a region, they should be encouraged. If they don’t get council chairman, at least make them deputy. What Igbo people have in Lagos, they don’t have a quarter of it in their land. If you see anybody that is doing well in the South East, he must have a thriving business in Lagos.


https://m.guardian.ng/politics/i-belong-to-no-ethnic-group-says-joe-igbokwe/
Foolish man.. The joke is on you... Ode, just cos of nonsense commissioner appointment, that they are dashing politicians children in imo...

I trust afonja, the day they will take on u.

Foolish man denying his heritage for a plate ot portage in lagos.
Kuku add gbenga or gboyega or olatunde and remove igbokwe from your name, make e go down well... Shame!
FamilyRe: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by Doktajay5: 5:56am On Aug 14, 2019
Sweettwenty8:
Finaly i decided to create an account

What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.

So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside

While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!

How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad
Nigeria women... Lol... Making a mountain from an ant hill....
Sheby u no go allow that man live em life make the peace in ur marriage continue....

I ve been trying hard to understand what's difficult in getting him what he likes, to make him feel OK.
Simply run comot here buy ewe u r here telling stories and niaraland will fill ur head with plenty that u will want to go and try out 1 or 2 now, and bam! Trouble go busrt and u will come back with another headline...

Madam see eehh! Those lagos road side food sales eeehh, just forget it, u can never replicate that taste u hear? Don't bother trying..
Remember the tastes varies with who and place in the same lagos... So don't just bother and it doesn't in any way invalidate ur cooking skills and ability. But just know is a thing any single man in lagos get used to at one point or the other B4 settling. And to come out is individual dependent.

So if u ask me, I think u r just making issues out of nothing. I read here, some talked about making sacrifices to keep the marriage going.
Ur own sacrifice now will be to take a duty of calling him on the phone any day u have to serve him white rice and stew, to confirm if he'd want his usual. If yes, madam simply buy the ewa on ur way back...
Haba! Is not a big deal biko, don't try to make it a problem since is clear dude finds joy in this.

and please don't try to kill his joy or blackmail him into killing his joy just to please u....

He enjoys ur meals but just this road side ewa sheby?? Madam leave this one for am we all have one thing we pray our wives to free for us so long as its not impinging on their own happiness. And of course this isn't affecting ur happiness, u r only making it seem so.

Me sef never comot from that taste till date, am only enjoying my wives cooking expertise. But trust me, the nearest exposure to road side (rice, beans, spaghetti) in lagos, which isn't common again anyway, I don't miss it ooo despite hw wonderful a cook my wife is.

So understand this and avoid this trouble u ll soon crest for ya sef.

Just free ya sef and let the man feel em self wit em ewa u hear.
CareerRe: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by Doktajay5: 2:45pm On Aug 02, 2019
XTHRONE:
What if, just what if the bird at hand is a vulture, or one useless ugly bird...while there are many better off in the bush.

I want to tell u this, don't forget this, always remember


FEAR IS THE ENEMY...


I have walked away from a teaching job of 28000 with yearly 4000 increase with no plan B, because I saw no future in the job, I just did the teaching for 3yrs and walked away and today I am happy that I left. One thing about this time consuming, energy draining jobs is that, at the end of the day it will useless u, drain u, put fear in u ,when u eventually get sacked at old age u will be left with nothing, staying on the job with the mindset of looking for another one, bro employers this days are wicked ,they will monitor ur every f...ing move, in that my school, they made it a law that u will leave by 4pm. Come by 7 , leave by 4pm...fear is the enemy.
Very valid point u've raised here. Please Don't mind that guy... I am tired of educating him.... Fear is his problem.. To think he considers 11k a money to hold onto than nothing is really aching, as if the 11k is anything already.

His transport and feeding in a month is never from this 11k....I'll bet anything... So he can cope with his transportation and feeding money coming from were ever while he hunts more serious for something am sure will definitely be better than this...

But Mr 1k dollars lol, will not review his stand and yield to a superior argument.... Anyway.. Please don't mind
CareerRe: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by Doktajay5: 11:59am On Aug 02, 2019
DrObiHogan:
yea I should have known it will get to this. That's what you when you engage uneducated lunatics. Apologies.
lol...sorry, u may need to engage decently and respectfully next time ok.
u have no monopoly of insults OK. u r never as smart as i ve evidently been, at least not with this ur line of thought on this issue.
so to say i am not smart is considered an insult which should get u what ever u perceived up there ok.
BTW, u r lucky though hahahaha.
ok bye
CareerRe: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by Doktajay5: 6:19am On Aug 02, 2019
DrObiHogan:
This will be my last input on this. You're talking about a skill you know nothing of. He said he has a job in a bank and pay is low. He didn't mention any skill and if he does have a skill for example, do you think skills perform magic? What if he has no marketable skills that can make him a lean entrepreneur, will you suggest he quit the 11k job and start learning some skills now? You are hell bent in telling him to quit today and wake up on Monday then stroll along the streets looking for job. Do you know what he will meet? Frustration upon frustration because nobody hires an unemployed person and to make it worse in a bank, you had a job and you quit and became unemployed, only divine can get you another job. You see you're not a smart person. Nobody will give him any 11k at the end of 30 days if he quits this job. I know it's hard for u to understand but inside life na pot of beans. Pls skills don't perform magic. I acquired a skill in my 4th year in uni and I could make 10$ a month sometimes 30$, 50$. I kept on growing and improving. After my 7th yr and graduation my skills started earning above 1000$ a month. Now I'm supposed to find a job and be working but I've sharpened my skills in proficiency and its cool.
U just unveiled ur ignorance to the world...

Anyway dumb ass can only give advice that shows what fibrous tissue a brain they have... Just feel ur self shaa..

But for the records dude is not employed in the 1st place if u don't know.. He only distracted his brain with 11k per month. And that u considered 11k per month anything that is worth such person's time a month instead of sitting back and concentrating on spending that wasted energy on a better hunt or another thing, says alot about u...

So obviously for u it must be a job, and that of 11k... #smh.. For 1 who thinks like u, sorry ur dollar story is for ur villagers, u r poor in mind... Enjoy ur ignorance and unlearn that shit in ur mind that no body hires who's not employed....
CareerRe: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by Doktajay5: 1:49am On Aug 02, 2019
DrObiHogan:
So it's better he quits this night and stays at home and if at the end of 30 days no job yet he eats poo? Are you OK? Applying for job is done with email messages. You scout online and publications in newspapers for vacancies and you send applications and resume. When they call you for interview you just blow one lie to oga and get a permission then you attend your interview. Once they call you to come pick appointment letter then you quit your present job after the letter is in your hand. Employers find it easy to take on somebody that has a job already over a jobless fellow because they will always ask "where are you working presently" they will confirm your answer here before confirming your appointment after about 6 months of working with them and if u lie, you're fired. I'm sure you don't know these things and that's why I'm educated but if this person does otherwise like quit today that's Friday, I bet you he won't get any job till next 30 days which means that 11k won't come and it's hell in a cell.
OK, I'll ask u again. Comparatively, what do u think this 11k is doing in the life of this guy looking at the prevailing circumstances..as a reason to stay cos I came make from u that's the reason he should stay...

If I may ask, why is ur view only about job hunting from there... More so a white collar job, Like that of a microfinance bank or what ever salary job with no bergaining strength say maybe a skill with which he can provide a salable service...

Why r u not seeing the bigger picture..

Well is ur opinion, but I don't think is good enough for that guy. Please don't push it. That guy deserves better than ur advice.
CareerRe: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by Doktajay5: 12:36am On Aug 02, 2019
DrObiHogan:
Don't quit yet and go back to zero a month. You will just become a beggar immediately. Start applying for job openings, try microfinance banks once you're from commercial bank, they will take you and u can earn more. Do not make the mistake of quitting that job to remain at home idle hunger go render u nuts. Start sending out your applications and resume to different openings and be ready to leave your current city or state.
Sorry bro.... Let me ask u a question based on this ur advice to this sufferingyyoung man Aby woman.

Do u think this 11k is feeding and transporting him in a month? If am not wrong, There are 30/31days in a month and this is an adult here. So assuming he suffers to live on 1k per day, hw about the remaining 19/20 days of the month ..

Again, at what time will he/she apply to the microfinance bank? In the night? Or weekends?

Did u hear the part that he said from 2018 to date he has no savings?? Don't u think he is begging already even as an assumed working class?? What makes u think he won't be a better begger with very high chance of getting support when he begs as a known unemployed person than having to beg as a working class, u will u dash him money as a working class?, because am sure that whatever way he is running the remaining days of the month is not far from begging even as a working class...

Please brother, don't give anyone this type of advice...

That suffer of a job is the hindrance to his progress bro. Quote me.
CareerRe: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by Doktajay5: 12:23am On Aug 02, 2019
Emma4321:
I could've posted in the job section but I was denied access.

Pls people I had to open a new account to avoid some things, I am working in a bank as PA to the state area manager, they started me with 11k march 2018 with promise of increase but till today I'm still earning 11k, pls note the 11k don't even take me through the month and basically not a single savings since I started.

Pls nairalanders should I quit this draining job or should I continue?
Note I don't have any other thing to do for now but I think I'm hustling backward.

Pls I need ur candid advise here cos I'm so confused
Well, my candid advice to u is to tell ur self the truth that u ain't working, u r suffering..... From 2018 to date u r assumed by family and friends to be a working class, with no single savings to treat ur self assuming u fell sick and get admitted.

For Christ sake where will the savings even come from... 11k per month as a PA to a bank manager?? Jesus, what's slavery again....

See eehh, leave all these talks of small job being better than no job plusaall the motivational speaker's yarns am reading here. Sincerely speaking eehh, a jobless fella who's all known to be jobless is better than u, in the sense that such have time to think, meet people, look for something, doesn't spend more than he gets and have his sanity at least...

Hw can u be leaving ur house every day, with the risk of lagos road, u'll wash ur clothes per week, u'll eat and transport u'll be pressured at work etc for just 11k. Please what does it solve? Replace the transport u use? Or buy groceries? Or laundry materials? Or change ur foot wears u treck with??... Meanwhile what pays for the effects of stress on ur body system/health? Cos u can't eat a balanced diet with it.

Why run a generator for 24 hrs when it's not giving light??

Please I beg you in the name of God, resign that job and sleep for a full day in ur house and allow your brain boot well on the way forward.
That job is distracting ur brain..... And u r gradually wearing out over nothing.

Resign immediately and engage ur brain on other ways u can make money than a white collarjob, which has dealt with our thought process in this country...
Ego of being a graduate...

Puff and other fried food sellers at most junctions in lagos are looked down on... But those guys r landlords or r on the way to be... Yet we iron cloths stuck in shirts and buy egg roll, puff etc from them every morning on our way to work we earn 11k monthly. Oh Jesus...

OGA PLEASE RESIGN IMMIDIATELY...please do... I won't talk about it being easy or not cos for me, u r coming out from suffering so need no encouragement. So please the only encouragement I have for u is to resign. If u think it all through and find nothing doing please open a puff/egg roll stand around any junction. Then see ur life get the needed funds to start up another thing bigger....

God's grace
CareerRe: Frustrated Employee Blasts His Employer For Always Messing With His “small” Sala by Doktajay5: 6:13pm On Jul 27, 2019
hush007:
Let's be fair with ourselves, if he is given a letter of employment stating his income which is an obligation of the company for his time and effort, in as much I know as an employer, it's not easy, I am obliged to pay.

It's not a casual job where earnings are made daily and can be changed the following day. Chi is not a small company and recently, Coca cola just acquired majority stakes, so there is still funds to go round if properly utilized. They should stop denying a labourers legitimate pay just to claim profits.
God will bless you for this truth u have declared without fear or favour...

Don't mind these slaves here that poverty have denied even their sense of acknowledgement of their own rights... Is frustrating having people like these in a such a frustrating situation to make an opinion.


Granted the present economy of Nigeria is hard on the private sector... But a worker duly employed, who has not been found wanting in the discharge of her duty, if for any reason a pay cut will come, deserves to know on time, with a justifiable reason. And such cut should not come on a regular basis... Haba!...

This person is contributing to the growth of ur business for crying out loud and deserves to be treated as human...
He has family and he is educated... If u own and run a company, did u also train her??

Please let's learn to condemn bad things when we see it.

So cos she doesn't have a company, her salary should be slashed till she start working free. Nonsense... I wonder what has happened to us Nigerians

No matter how u look at it, we all can not own a company or own a business. Name where it is the case in any part of the world.. #smh

I keep saying this, Nigerian situation have created a mentalityiin people such that no body is oriented again.. Nigeria has impacted a condition like HIV stage 4, And it has eaten deep into us that black is no more black here, we try to justify at the slighest provocation why it should be called white.... That's sad.... Please!!!
CareerRe: Frustrated Employee Blasts His Employer For Always Messing With His “small” Sala by Doktajay5: 5:51pm On Jul 27, 2019
Blackfire:
After the Oshogbo weed and alomo bitters clear for your eyes .......






Poor people eh,



Company you no get, dem employ you , you begin insult....
This ur post says alot about ur personality and how u see ur fellow human being.

So because "na company wey em no get", the owner should keep slashing her pay till he finally sack her.
I mean what reason justifies working diligently just to see a pay cut on a regular at the end of the month, with no notice or justifiable reasons and all u have to say is the crap above....

U have a slave mentality. Only God knows where u r suffering hell and putting with it....

God help u
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Doktajay5: 10:29pm On Jul 04, 2019
seungold1929:
Don't worry, someone here said they would give out all admission/rejection letters after their application deadline which is July 15
Let's wait and see
Alright man.. Thanks for the attention.
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Doktajay5: 10:19pm On Jul 04, 2019
seungold1929:
Jena: yes
FAU: no
FAU has been giving admission, I think it depends on the course you applied for
Na waaa oooo... Okk ooo... I applied for molecular medicine in both, then integrated Immunology in fau.
They validate my application.. Called for my enclosed transcript... Sent it to them. Till now no new from them... #smh
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Doktajay5: 8:45pm On Jul 04, 2019
Please has anyone gotten any AL from FSU JENA AND FAU Erlangen-Nurnberg.... Am worried if am alone on this wait?
TravelRe: General German Work And Family Re-union Visa Enquiries by Doktajay5: 4:59pm On Jun 27, 2019
Sufisunni:
The minimum amount it's same block account. However, a job contract can supplement it, like a year student Job contract. So having a block account with a student job is enough for both of you, but you will also need 250€ each month for your child.
Living space is 12 sqm for each adult and 10 sqm for each child between 2 to 6 years old. The problem is, it's always difficult to see a landlord that will give you 34 sqm for for 3 of you.

You will need health insurance for your family and your landlord will be required to sign that he agrees you and your family can live in the rented apartment.German A1 is required also.

Getting a 30 sqm and above apartment in some German states is a very difficult problem and very expensive!!

Family reunion visa from German consulate in Nigeria takes long time and one needs financial wherewithal, that you can fulfill all these requirements so that you don't abandon it midway.

Family reunion visa is good only, if one intends to stay longer in Germany.
Thanks so much... This is helpful.
TravelRe: General German Work And Family Re-union Visa Enquiries by Doktajay5: 5:30am On Jun 27, 2019
Sufisunni:
Yes. You can apply for family reunion, but you will need to show evidence of enough finance to cater for them and enough living space
OK.. Thanks alot bro.. I appreciate.
But please let me ask again, is there any minimum amount to ur knowledge that is required for this.
TravelRe: General German Work And Family Re-union Visa Enquiries by Doktajay5: 12:37pm On Jun 26, 2019
Chai.. Nawaa oo... Is the no response specific to me? Aby this thread is closed officially?...
TravelRe: General German Work And Family Re-union Visa Enquiries by Doktajay5:
Hello all, please I am an intending masters student. I've got my AL awaiting my interview.

I am married with a child. However, my question is, as a student with student residence permit, can I apply for family reunion visa for my wife and child?
What could be required for such please.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Is It Wise To Pay 200k/a Rent From 80k Job? by Doktajay5: 11:50am On Jun 23, 2019
Goodplace:
If Someone is in a work of 80k per month can he afford a place of 200k with no side income yet?
If u r single.. Please don't. Is not necessary. Put up in a lesser apartment. Save up as much as possible. Advance in carrier, get a land in a cheaper location.. That's a better plan.

However, if u r married, just know that u need to be absolutely saving half of your salary per month to be able to keep up with that rent.

Good luck
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Doktajay5: 12:17am On Jun 22, 2019
Tghurl:
Anyone here apply to B-tu?
Uniassist confirmed application details has been sent to them for over thre weeks now but no response from them yet..... The wait is killing me walahi cry
Hi colleague in the wait.... Me sef tier
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Doktajay5: 5:49am On Jun 20, 2019
Deustchemann:
If you are assured of getting the admission at FAU, then I'll suggest you allow your school mail the transcript directly to them. Since it was the same transcript you certified and sent to them previously that was rejected, why do you want to send it again?
Thanks bro. But it was not rejected. Everything was acknowledged, then they requested I should tell the school to send them official transcript.
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Doktajay5: 5:45am On Jun 20, 2019
Deustchemann:
If you are assured of getting the admission at FAU, then I'll suggest you allow your school mail the transcript directly to them. Since it was the same transcript you certified and sent to them previously that was rejected, why do you want to send it again?
Thanks bro. But it was not rejected. Everything was acknowledged, then they requested I should tell the school to send them official transcript.
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Doktajay5: 6:42am On Jun 19, 2019
Westahorf10:
I sent my high court certified documents to FAU 3 weeks ago they rejected it. Now am thinking of sending it wit notary public certificatiin.. I hope it's OK? Then secondly do I need to register again or just send my copy?
Do it with embassy.. Get an appointment with embassy for certification. Is more recognised by them
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Doktajay5: 6:08am On Jun 19, 2019
Please guys what do u advice..
I was asked to get my school to send official transcript to FAU

However I have the official transcript already, was issued on the 18th of March, but with uniassist address... Although is the same transcript I certified and sent to FAU.

Now is this same transcript my school will print and write FAU address and send. Am now asking Can I send it to FAU like that? As my school sending?? Instead of going to pay another 35k and getting the same document

What Do u all think?
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye On INEC Server: When they claim they don't have a server show them by Doktajay5: 10:45pm On Jun 15, 2019
tuniski:
He is right you are the one missing the point. The PVC registration data are stored in the server and the Smart Card reader is link to it that is why it can authentic/accredit voters. Without server the card reader won't work. QED
Una still dey answer that efulefu calledmmax8 He knows nothing. His brain didn't develop well but came as streaks of primitive neural tissues up there. Am even suprised he is alive. What else should we expect from such a low life.

Enjoy ur ignorance @Max8 or whatever
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye On INEC Server: When they claim they don't have a server show them by Doktajay5: 10:39pm On Jun 15, 2019
buharitill2023:
the mechine was not delivered on time, or did you see where inec received the server?
I just looked at ur ID. Sorry. I won't answer u.
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye On INEC Server: When they claim they don't have a server show them by Doktajay5: 10:23pm On Jun 15, 2019
Max8:
U are talking as if u are not a Nigerian, are u sure INEC had truly bought the server? Do u work in INEC and had seen the server, or had any political party been to the situation room of INEC and seen the server? There are many things a NIGERIAN ministry or parastatal will budget and given money for to purchase and will never be bought, don't believe the PDP theory, let the Courts proccess take its course
So how was the result that decleared buhari president generated?? Can @INECNigeria convince the tribunal that buhari won??.

Then, again, if what u just said is anything to go by, who's fault is it? Like we should believe they don't have a system they were paid for to provide and work with and give us result?? Like we should accept their failure?? #smh

That prof is in trouble already of u don't know.

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