₦airaland Forum

otuekong1:
I hate to sound like this but its kinda a norm amongst some greedy Igbo's to rent your house and refuse to pay,he(tenant) is building his house that he intends packing into
I am speaking from a real experiences I had
***The options you have are:
1.Involve the police
2.Disconnect every disconnectable(roof,water,power,
3.Report him to his pastor
4.Buy a good padlock n lock them in/ out
5.pray cause the tenant might be using JAy Z on you

chival:
He probably doesn't have the funds to rent a new apartment yet. He'll leave eventually. Home owners should learn to have compassion for their tenants. The state of affairs in the country is causing millions to suffer untold hardship.

WAECMATHEMATICS:
Good day all.

Please, I need your advice on one wicked stubborn tenant. My family gave this our tenant a quick notice since February this year 2019. As a matter of fact, the tenant and our family went to Lagos Arbitration and Mediation Centre. It was at the Mediation Centre that we both reached an agreement that he should leave our apartment.

So, we gave him 6 months quit notice in February, 2019. His previous house rent elapsed that same February, 2019. So, for the 6 months quit notice we gave him, he didn't pay any money. He actually said he would need 6 months to search for another apartment at that meeting we had with him at the Mediation Centre in February. So, we gave him the 6 months for free.

The 6 months we gave him elapsed at the end of August, 2019. When the 6 months elapsed, he refused to vacate the apartment. So, my family went back to the Lagos Mediation Centre to complain. The Mediation Centre sent him (the tenant) a letter giving him 7 days ultimatum to vacate the apartment. At the end of the 7 days, this man refused to leave. My family complained again to the Mediation Centre and they said they would look into it.

After another 3 months again by last November, 2019, this tenant refused to leave the apartment. My family went back again to the Lagos Mediation Centre and one of the officials there said "So, the man has not left the house since?". We responded yes. At the Mediation Centre there, they said something like they are incapacitated by the law to take any action.

This is December now going to an end. The tenant is still in the house. He has refused to vacate the apartment. It's about 10 months now living in our apartment without any payment. He has refused to leave.

The apartment is a 2 bedroom flat in Aguda Surulere, Lagos. The tenant's name is Mr Chigozie Okongwu James.

We don't want to take law into our hands as it seems there is no solution to the problem through the Lagos Mediation Centre. It's about 10 months now!

What can my family do to get the man ejected from the apartment? Your advice are welcomed.

shestrong:
Very reasonable comment.

Joyincrease:
Well said....the brother should have fixed him up. Na so Dem dey take women for granted.

LilMissFavvy:
How would you have felt if it was your wife who hanged out with her friends and came back by 2am? Any married man or woman who does things without considering the other partner is immature or simply wicked. Your wife's brother should have slapped you back, or is he a weak man? He should have slapped you ensuring that you bleed from your mouth and nose. As for your wife, continue to call her, send messages, give her more time, she will heal and return to you. It's very shameful that her brother was there and did not defend her, by slapping the st-pi---y outta your brains.

gypsey:
I like to fu ck prostitutes what's the big deal? most prostitutes are free of sicknesses, Mannered, Good hearted and clean than all them smelly Vaginas who calls themselves girl friends. I have fu cked Atleast 100 prostitutes. Sue me!


This Juvenilistics who wants to act Hardmen thesedays. Now both lives have been destroyed.

gypsey:
Is all this Rubbish Supposed to make sense?

blueAgent:
Clown are you justifying her death?
You sound like someone who's heart was broken by a prostitute.

AutoReportNG:
https://www.autoreportng.com/2019/12/faan-bans-uber-taxify-and-other-taxis-from-lagos-airport-place-heavy-fine-on-defaulters.html

phillippians:
whatever happens she's a human being, it's all boils down to finance... See why I fear poverty more than death itself. She died because she choose prostitution which is as a result of lack of money. Ladies misbehave alot when they lack so no one should blame her lifestyle. Another problem with social media.
Someone's life is at stake and instead of helping people around are busy making videos.
THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT JUST MOVE ABOUT ON HUMAN SKIN BUT ARE DEVIL yTHEMSELVES. REAL DEVIL

Officialgarri:
When we see his direct impact on the people like this, then he can be considered to rule.

You can't always sit in dubai and then wake up one morning to say people in Nigeria can't rule themselves, I'm the perfect ruler for them.

I mean, apart from Atiku being a businessman, what else has he done for this country? His supporters must be very dull for following someone blindly

DonroxyII:
She doesn't have any psychological problem brother ..... she just have a taste and a desire .... The problem is our taste is the bane of our delays in life and if we settle for less, we may be sad till eternity .... you will always know that there is something out there that you deserve not this one in here and that is how marriage collapse !!!

@Harlequeen, no be so !!

Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job

My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.


Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.

But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.

I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?

To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?

Yaoli:
I hope they will listen to me..

I’m talking this guy that collect my Acct to let us go there he’s trying to dodge that

Ifeelsad:
I've used this both tumeric, carrot oil, olive oil, hydrocortisone cream and tablet. I can't even count how many medicine and drugs I've used

Ifeelsad:
I've had this recurrent skin issue for about three years now. I've used everything usable both creams and drugs but its not going. Its getting worst, its on my face, breast, neck, all over my back even on my stomach. I don't know what to do again I'm tired

Please has anyone had this kind of rash
I'll like this moved to the front page for more views because I'm getting frustrated and my husband is getting impatient

I use dettol or izal to bath and I bath twice a day sometimes 3 times depending on d weather so I won't say its uncleanliness

Respect55:
Shut that gutter u called mouth. This same doctor I talked of was busy flirting with girls on phone. I was hearing all. Learn to understand before u talk so that u don't continously make a mess of yourself

Respect55:
I was operated on around 2009,24th of December to be precise. While on the process, this doctor paused to receive calls not less than three times of more than 10 minutes each. I was mad but was instructed not to talk else I die. Why would a doctor even take a phone to the theatre?

That being said, they are still those who respect their profession but not this one that operated on me.

badboy92:
They killed my father few months ago, we rushed him to the hospital they said no deposit no treatment, at around 1am in the morning with no atm card.

And yes, it's a private hospital.


Nigeria has failed a lot of people, don't blame people wanting to run away, nothing works in this country

RIP dad

PreyingMantis:
I'm 100% sure you're reporting from the South-West. If that girl makes the mistake of going ahead with that marriage, it is over for the family. She has succeeded in dragging all of the family into the Osu Caste system. No matter how liberal and religious we try to be, the Osu Caste system isn't going away anytime soon. Marry an Osu and become an Osu. It is what it is

TheSkyIsBlue:
My Sister Is About To Commit A Serious Taboo All In The Name Of Marriage

Hello Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just want to pour it out the way it is in my heart.

I am seriously confused and worried about what is happening in my family and I will appreciate your candid advice.

There is this guy my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he actually asked her hand in marriage and decided to come see my parents for introduction, about some months ago. My family decided to take their time to find out more about the guys family background as is required in Igbo tradition.

After several questions asked, my family came to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On knowing this, everybody in my family told my sister to cut ties with him and discontinue the relationship because it is a big taboo to get married to an Osu in my place . If you do, no family member or friend will attend your wedding or even have anything to do with you again.

But my sister refused to listen to anybody claiming she really loves the guy, that they have been together for a very long time and that she is not getting younger anymore (mind you, she is in her early thirties). Everybody (my parents and extended family members) tried to talk her out of it but she still didn't listen.

After much pressure and her continues insistence, my dad decided to give them his blessings, although against his wish (my dad is actually not really deep into tradition). Now the guy has done all the traditional rights and paid for her dowry. Their wedding is coming up soon.

But the problem now is, according to tradition and from what I heard, if she was allowed to go with the guy without my dad giving them his blessings, the stigma would have just been on her and she alone would have been considered Osu, since she insisted to continue with the marriage. But now that my dad has given them his blessings, it is considered that all of us (her siblings) will also have that link of Osu too. Except if she decide to put an end to the relationship and discontinue with the wedding, which I don't think my sister is ready to do.

I am really worried and depressed about it, cause I don't want anything that will affect me tomorrow when I want to get married just because of my sister's mistakes.

I will really like to get opinions and sincere advice especially from those that are familiar with tradition, cause I'm seriously bothered. Thanks!

NwaAmaikpe:



There's a lot to be bothered about and not this.
This is indeed the height of misplaced priorities.

Someone that should be worried that she is yet to register for antenatal classes is more concerned over the Social Media Bill.

The truth is,
Our leaders have failed us and so has she.
"Hanty please when wee you born?" Members of the Womb Watchers of the World (WWW) are tired of waiting in vain.

MsDoris:
BBNaija Bambam & TeddyA Release Stunning Photo Ahead Of White Wedding In Dubai, Reveal Plans On Their Wedding
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Big Brother Naija 2018 power couple, Bamike aka Bambam and Tope Adenibuyan, popularly known as TeddyA have released a very cute photo ahead of their white wedding in Dubai.

The couple who announced their engagement on Instagram on August 4, got married traditionally on the 7th of September, looked really charming as they rocked stunning white coloured outfits.

Celebrity fashion designer, Toyin Lawani, revealed on Friday in a post on Instagram that she had begun plans for the wedding and it would be held in Dubai.....

https://www.mimidoris.com/2019/11/bambam-and-teddya-release-stunning.html

cenaman:
Ike don get free puna, free dubai trip, free ride, free food.....Ike no get shame na women him dey follow upandan like last born.

stasius:
Doctors have the right to refuse attending to a patient/client. So madam go and sit down!

Am sure u must have hurled insults at him and all that shits. Go and get seen by another doctor.

NoToPile:
Okay doctor that doesn't take shit and feels he's doing a patient a favor by attending to them despite the fact that he's being paid to do it.

Wrong again you are not doing me a favor, you are doing your job, whether you want to admit it or not.

Gossipninja:
Between A Mother & A Doctor Who Refused To Attend To Her Sick Baby

There was a mild drama at Igando general hospital today as Nigerian lady confronted a medical doctor for neglecting her sick child over an argument she had earlier with him.

The woman's sister who took to IG to narrate their ordeal in the hands of the hospital staff, wrote;

We're used to shouting "the government this, the government that", yet our mind is worse, my sister rushed my nephew to a hospital at Igando.

After being delayed for 3 hours, she (my sister) begins to shout and complain and then gets into an argument with one of the doctors (the one in a navy blue native), he then decides not to answer my sister and tells her her child won't be attended to till the next day.

What sort of doctor is he? So because you had an argument with the mother, a child has to suffer for it? Was that the oath you took to save lives?

I mean where are we heading to in this country?” she wrote..

However, without hearing from both parties, we can't actually ascertain what really happened, but in the video making rounds, the doctor can be seen less concerned as the woman confronted him boldly.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6GmxK-3U8x8

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3kwoCxgOSE/?igshid=1sq8h3f9louis

https://zenithnaija.com/between-a-mother-a-doctor-who-refused-to-attend-to-her-sick-baby-2/

RTSC:
It depends on the kind of ex wife though.

An ex wife that markets herself well in character and responsibility will get a good husband faster than many singles.

setobaba:
You people should stop hiding under marriage is all about tolerance, for God sake she's also a human.
Madam if you feel you've made the wrong decision by marrying your husband you had better retrace your steps back now, the more days you stay in that marriage, the lower the chances of getting another man quick.
Beside how old is your husband and which tribe?

Wealthierboy:
Leaving abroad police work to fight for calaber 500.000 naira. What a world!