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Kaduna1stson:
How do we stop the ibos from sitting at home tomorrow?

Pity those who believe this cock and bull story
He was murdered QED
To shut him mouth from mentioning names and divulging info

Since the kidnap of kanu hve Nigeria know peace

Elgorny:
This guy above me Where were you when mnk terorising and disturbing nigeria peace?

See her coconut head

+234 701 497 6044 whatsapp me

My 1 pence is gather small amount of money go to parents and indicate interest you want to marry her it wont cost u much

Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.

Dont drink acid oo
because i know u Muslim hatred for the jews is out of space

Arrewa:
If he's guilty of any crime...He should face Justice!!

Why are Africans overating Israel??

Before Christ, Romans conquered Israel, even during his time, Israel was occupied by the Romans.

At little after Jesus the Jews made the Romans angry and they massacred the jews, drove them away from Israel. for about 2000 years from then, the jews were second class citizens every where they go.

The christians persecuted them for what they did to Chris, the Arabs were flogging their yansh any time they deemed fit. Hitler did his own. Till the Europeans decided to have mercy on them and create a state for them.

The so called 6 day war only succeeded because the Arabs just gained independence and didn't had any air force nor good military. The Europeans trained and gave Isreal weapons, especially their air force.

The only time Israel met a strong force Hizbollah backed by Iran they lost.

Israel look strong around its Arab neighbors, beyond that, its a different game entirely.
You see, the Persians or Iranians (as they are called today) aint arabs, they walk the talk, if u know what I mean...for far too long now, they've been daring Israel to stop barking and attack them as it has been saying it would for God knows how long now.

But nothing has happened, you know why? because Israel dont have the balls to fight a formidable opponent without bigdaddy USA military support. And the support is not forthcoming either, because a war with the Persians is too risky even for the US.

US can not sacrifice the lives of its citizens to go die for your "mighty" Israel over Iran. So the US snubbed Israel and chose to dialogue with the Iranians over their Nuclear program.

The only hands preventing isreal's defeat are those of America, Britain and the western world. If US remove their support, Israel is dead!!


Anybody that really thinks that God loves some other people more than he likes him or that some other people are more of Gods children than him is a sophisticated Akuya!!

Commentator abeg ur English no dey here oo

Awoseun:
Mountain of Death don’t give back what it takes � 7 Most Dangerous Roads In Nigeria ��

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxZctVRbYkA

If you are looking for Natural remedies
I say you use Aloe vera

Dumb head so u do be creating awareness putting a kid in harms way wht if he fell inside

BLoomfrancs:
Dunderhead. She is doing that kid a favor. If she had not posted that. No one will know that such a thing exists yo. Are you so dumb to understand that?

Before u bite ur tongue its mouse

Pierocash:
Nkapi is those rat with long mouth. I forgot the name in english.very smelly rat with long mouth

Pls what has really changed i remember this people insist on rotation before 2015 why change of stance now
https://www.thecable.ng/northern

U feel the best way to creat awareness is putting that child in harms way

BLoomfrancs:
Bleep off dude. She is creating awareness.

U must be very stupid anyway u must be mastubating ur ego because i replied u for i dont enter into argument with empty brains

BLoomfrancs:
Bleep off dude. She is creating awareness.

That person making that video is a compound fool
I wonder wht she tends to achieve instead of carrying the Child by the way who push this video to frontpage i wil equally hold u responsible

*Questions on my mind*
*AM NOT IPOB APOLOGIST*
1 Nnamdi Kanu did he renounce his Nigerian citizenship
2 what passport was he flying when he was kidnapped in Kenya and subsequent rendition to Nigeria
3.Does Nigerian govt have right to kidnap citizen of another country to come and answer for charges he has not been convicted for

Who wil cater for the children

MadamVanessa:
The idiot of the husband should be hang on his scrotal sag, and his uselessss head facing downward.

This is not Buhari project

Brokeronline:
Buhari administration with useless projects

Dont want to spoil your Joy but how sure are you the child is urs

Let's be watching them

They were not rescued the fulani bandits left the vulnerable ones

They were not rescued the fulani bandits left the vulnerable ones

Beancounter93:
I hope this is true.

My

Child of Cow

OnionBandit:
This is one thing I love about Indians...

Even though their country is the real definition of shithole, they still try to speak well of it in public domains. There are places in India where children will have to swim through water filled with poo of different sizes to get to school but they won't let the world see these slums..If you have watched slumdog millionaire, you will have an idea of what I am saying.

...but here in Nigeria, just because you don't like a president, you go on twitter, Facebook, Reddit, quora etc to call your country zoo., spread fake news, exaggerate ills in the country, insult your president like he is the reason your life is miserable, and then tag the whole world to see..

Why won't a shithole like India, Kenya look down on us?

They have just made it clear thats whats happening in the North is a deliberate agenda to exterminate Christians. For nearly a decade SHEKAU have been terrorizing the North and these Clowns. Children of Cows never for one day declared him wanted.

old childhood habit that are not easy to let go

Its not Juju but old childhood habit that are not easy to let go

nairavsdollars:
That's his own juju for winning but it didn't work yesterday

Soon they wil relocate to sambisa forest or grazing reserves

All this people to construct 3 Bedroom Bungalow

AntiBeEmCe:
Hehe. Exactly as expected. I knew that as soon as they were handed over to the police, they will go scot-free. The so-called police will change the narrative as well as create tons of excuses for them. But if it were to be another tribe in nigeria, even if the person was caught with a dagger, they'd arrest and prosecute him for it.

How long are we going to b treated like 4th class citizens in our own country, while these foreigners are worshipped and treated like first class citizens?

Southerners should learn to deal with all terrorists caught trying to commit crimes in their communities and stop handing them over to the police. That's the only way to effectively end this menace.

Pls can someone help me with the puzzle
Do Nigerian security officers have families
Do them and their families suffer the same thing we suffer in this country
Do they have market wher they buy glossaries aside from wher the rest of us buy ours

I tell you
If the dentist makes mistake and the teeth breaks the person might bleed to death

dan761:
You mean two people died when they went for Tooth Extraction?