Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie Unveils His Second Wife And Son by donbenie(m): 6:04pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Annalise20: I wish u a life of Solomon Big deal.. Ned Nwoko says hi. |
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie Unveils His Second Wife And Son by donbenie(m): 6:03pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Annalise20: So how would u feel as a man when ur wife of 17 years wakes up one day and she's like "I need another man because u aren't enough" ? If u still don't see any bad thing in it then I wish u her (May's) predicament. If she needs another man,let her rent a house and move in.. Or better still,let her pack to her father's house. |
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie Unveils His Second Wife And Son by donbenie(m): 5:53pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
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Phones › Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by donbenie(m): 5:00am On Apr 27, 2022 |
lilachiever: A9 Pro - Sold Out A11 3/64GB... 2 units left A11 4/128GB... 2 units left A7S 2/32GB... 1 unit left. Power 5... Multiple units available Are these new? I'm interested in the A11 3/64GB.. |
Phones › Re: My Budget Is Between 80k And 90, Recommend A Good Phone To Me by donbenie(m): 7:35pm On Apr 26, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Khafi Faces Met Police Tribunal For Going On BBNaija Show Without Permission by donbenie(m): 6:12pm On Apr 26, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Bloated Vladimir Putin Video Heightens Theories Russian Leader Is Sick by donbenie(m): 7:50pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
topcatking: The West, clutching at straws, as usual. It doesn't take a Seer to see what they are saying.. He's a human being after all.. |
Crime › Re: Imo To Conduct Mass Burial For Victims Of Illegal Refinery Explosion by donbenie(m): 7:45pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Victerica: They were stupid!
No reincarnation for them! Which reincarnation? Nonsense and ingredients.  |
Crime › Re: Imo To Conduct Mass Burial For Victims Of Illegal Refinery Explosion by donbenie(m): 7:44pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
oluseyiforjesus: Will this people make heaven ??
Death won't caught you u aware in Jesus name. Let's be prepared the end is near Will you make heaven? Abi na you dey keep the key to heaven? |
Politics › Re: DISCOs Reject 2,495.3MW In One Week by donbenie(m): 1:33pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
subsidywise18: ]
I daresay the heavens did not fall because the terms of that contract allowed Yaradua to do what he did. The terms of the contract with the DISCOS and GENcos don't allow for that.
Differing contracts.
1.It is one thing to build a refinery, it is another to generate the funds to run it well.
2.Dangote was able to build his refinery via loans from banks (most of the cash) plus 3 billion dollars of his own money.(Bnaks gave him the loan because if he fails to pay up...they can get money from his other assets to pay themselves....then AMCON makes life much easier....)
3.And like I said in 1)....he has to pay for maintenance, upgrades, etc. And if he cannot sell fuel at a profit from that refinery, problem will start.
You cannot make fuel above N250 and sell it at N162 AND have profit to pay for maintenance, upgrades, etc. You daresay? Are you kidding me? You don't know anything about the terms of contract.. And yet you are making assumptions? Why would Dangote,a business MOGUL.. Buy a company on terms that are unfavorable to him? Yaradua terminated the contract.. Because he had the political will to do it.. Something Buhari clearly lacks.. And why would you sit in the comfort of your home and assume that Dangote cannot run a successful refinery? You think he just wake up and decide to build a refinery without any feasibility studies? And what's wrong with obtaining bank loans to establish a business? YOU think that you can walk into any bank yourself and get billions of dollars of credit facilities from them? That is called being credit worthy.. The Banks are not charity organizations.. |
Politics › Re: DISCOs Reject 2,495.3MW In One Week by donbenie(m): 1:05pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
subsidywise18: We can have working refineries, if we stop subsidising fuel, and allow NNPC and the marketers to sell fuel at market price.
But we want something that costs over N400 to make (a liter of petrol, at current crude prices) to be sold at N162-5 naira, meaning that it does not make sense to refine fuel at home (unless you are Dangote, or an illicit fuel refinery owner, whose costs are low, and even then, they won't sell below N200) Seems you are just running around in circles with your comments.. You said reversing the sale of privatized companies would have cost Nigeria.. I gave you an instance where such was done and the heavens didn't fall.. Whether Dangote would have made a success of it or not is besides the point.. After all.. Is it not the same Dangote that has almost finished a Refinery? So,what has changed? |
Politics › Re: DISCOs Reject 2,495.3MW In One Week by donbenie(m): 12:57pm On Apr 25, 2022*. Modified: 6:14pm On Apr 26, 2022 |
subsidywise18: The only thing Fashola could have done was persuade Buhari to allow the DISCOS and GENCOS set the prices they charge for power, not government via NBET.
But that's not politically popular, so it was not done.
(As for reversing the privatisation, Buhari asked his AG for advice, and AG told him that 'a contract is a contract', and if he broke the contract, Nigeria would be on the hook for hundreds of billions of naira.And challenging it at court is instant loss.) The same privatization.. Yar'adua reversed against the NNPC Refineries sale? Talk about being sold a Dummy..  |
Politics › Re: DISCOs Reject 2,495.3MW In One Week by donbenie(m): 12:38pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
starlingbawa: Exactly!!! buckeyemedia: Of course he Fashola will perform a miracle, just what you Nigerians always expect, & fix property that belongs to other people?
7th November 2013, we were made to believe the future will be alright & bright, well today is the future no electricity, PHCN privatization the biggest pdp scam.
Jonathan & pdp sold your electricity infrastructure to quacks, do not expect any electricity in future.
Don’t blame me, just name just one reputable company that purchased any of your electricity infrastructure from pdp? Fashola told us it was not rocket science.. And he was ELECTED.. SEVEN YEARS later.. We are still waiting for the not rocket science..  |
Celebrities › Re: Tega: 70% Of Men Abuse Their Women, Don't Be Fooled by donbenie(m): 12:03pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
JovialJune: She did not lie, especially in Africa that our system isn't perfect, so they get away with the abuse. Coming from a married woman frolicking on national TV with another man.. Which endorsement is worse than her as a reason for men abusing women? |
Crime › Re: Police Arrest 2 With Fresh Human Head & Hands In Kwara (Graphic Pix) by donbenie(m): 11:39am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Waste Side!! One week one Skullership.. |
Politics › Re: Senator Utazi Declines Senate Return, Supports Ugwuanyi's Senatorial Bid by donbenie(m): 11:32am On Apr 25, 2022 |
West1side: Same way Yoruba lived rent free in you father n forefather's head since Awololo time. Lol.. Exactly my point.. 
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Family › Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by donbenie(m): 10:06am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Kimiso: what's in there to help someone, don't you know givers never lack the more you give is the much more you achieve And why should he continue feeding an adult who doesn't want to help himself? There are motherless babies and the infirm looking for your benevolence.. If you are looking for who to help.. |
Family › Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by donbenie(m): 10:01am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Kimiso: bro you have hate in your blood,(be humble and kind to your inlaws).teminiyen oh You must be lousy at being an advisor.. He has hate in his heart for needing peace in his life?  |
Culture › Re: Meet Baba Kekere Of Oyo Kingdom Who Served 3 Past Alaafins For 77 Years by donbenie(m): 9:57am On Apr 25, 2022 |
izubext007: I refuse to be born slave. You cannot refuse.. You were either born one or not.. 
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Culture › Re: Meet Baba Kekere Of Oyo Kingdom Who Served 3 Past Alaafins For 77 Years by donbenie(m): 9:51am On Apr 25, 2022 |
seunmsg: I seriously doubt the part in bold. If he has been serving for 77 years,he would be dangerously close to 100.. |
Politics › Re: Senator Utazi Declines Senate Return, Supports Ugwuanyi's Senatorial Bid by donbenie(m): 8:38am On Apr 25, 2022 |
West1side: Nothing gives me greater joy than exposing the hypocrisy of your Igbo bigoted tribe so others can decided how to decisively deal with you henceforth. Glad we are living in your head rent free.. 
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Politics › Re: Senator Utazi Declines Senate Return, Supports Ugwuanyi's Senatorial Bid by donbenie(m): 7:35am On Apr 25, 2022 |
West1side: My people you can see how Igbos celebrate failure left right n center.
Sanwolu claims Eko rail is at 90% completion igbos will tell you it is election propaganda that they do that every 4 years.
This colossal failure as been governor for 8 years he can neither provide water security job infrastructure or anything at all but the jews are already celebrating the failure is going to the Senate. Trash.. Every Ewedu crunching AFONJA is a Lagosian.. I'm sure you were waiting for heads to roll.. Igbos will keep disappointing you. |
Politics › Re: Senator Utazi Declines Senate Return, Supports Ugwuanyi's Senatorial Bid by donbenie(m): 7:32am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Naija Polithifians.. Money done change hands..  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Wet Dreams: A Thorn In My Flesh Going To Two Decades by donbenie(m): 12:49pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Mintum: Not everything is physical, I know what he is talking about and it's better dealt with spiritually. Delusions don't make you ejaculate in the physical, there are certain things that are way beyond what your psychiatrist can handle. Africans.. Una must attach spirituality to every mundane thing.. No wonder we are a thousand years behind the Whiteman.. |
Politics › Re: EFCC Chairman Bawa At Arsenal's Emirates Stadium: Photo by donbenie(m): 11:20am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Heavensent01: what proof do you've that he went there with his money? poverty lover, politicians asslicker like you
better get the fúck out of my mentions, how much is in the hand of Bawa prior to his Chairman position that you're trying to defend
what's the relevance of his vacation to Efcc growth and development, absolute thrash Lol.. You want her to prove that the man went there with his own money? You would make a very TERRIBLE Lawyer.. Ogbeni.. It is YOUR task to prove that the man stole money to go on vacations.. And not the other way around.. And he shouldn't go on vacation,because it is of no relevance to EFCC growth? The things we hear on Nairaland  
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Christianity Etc › Re: Wet Dreams: A Thorn In My Flesh Going To Two Decades by donbenie(m): 11:11am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Pray4meJC: For privacy reasons, I'm an old nairaland member.
About 22 / 23 years ago, a classmate in secondary school lured us into the act of masturbation. Few days later, I started practicing the act and eventually ejaculated after tough stimulation lasting almost two hours. It got to a point I was almost getting addicted doing the unclean act.
Thereafter I graduated to pornography when internet was just starting in Nigeria. I went further to committing adultery and fornication in the heart rather than with the body by peeping on girls and women having their bathe all to fulfill my lustful eyes. I even watched couple have sex by peeping.
Even though I have stopped and repented from these like 12 years back, I still find myself struggling with other bigger problems called wet dreams, unusual erections and wormlike vibrations in my body and sometimes body freezing at night for 30 seconds to 1 minute.
These wet dreams occurred 2 - 3 times in a week and repeat same in like manner every week compulsorily throughout the year and go on and on the following year. I have gone for several dry fasting and prayer deliverance to no avail.
I don't see myself having sex in the dream when these wet dreams occurred. Sometimes, when the wet dream is about happening I'm conscious and try screaming the name or blood of Jesus but it seems am just very powerless and before I know it, semen has spilled out and I will remain like that. Sleep is distorted and all efforts to sleep is impossible.
Sometimes, when I go to bed early by 8PM and I get caught up by wet dreams by 9:30PM, it means sleep for that night is gone completely. I sleep maximum 2 hours daily because this stuff has messed my mind and life up.
Whenever I lie down to sleep, different uninvited thoughts start forcing themselves on my brain both those that happened today and the ones of years ago. I always try deflecting them by replacing them with bible quote or singing praise to God in my head.
I woke up since 2:30 am today with a wet burser soaked in semen and started typing this because I couldn't no longer sleep. Afternoon sleep is very impossible for me as it has never worked for even 1 minute
I'm greatly troubled and worried because I read my bible and pray before going to bed. I dream about my former schools etc.
As I speak, this stuff has rendered me financially devastated with millions in debt. Could not obtain university admission 19 years ago, brain can't simulate, not married, no kids. Very recently this year my health (details withheld due to family members who might find this posts) is suffering as I can't do anything to earn a living as I easily sored tired in the heart.
PS: At night, every day for all these years, uncontrollable strong erections will suddenly start building up whether I put up underwear or not and I think this is more than the 'morning erections ' science talks about. This is pure spiritual manipulation for me. Same thing happens when I get close to some females whether matured or underage, stupid uncontrollable strong erections suddenly pop up without any sexual thoughts whatsoever to these innocent females. Unfortunately, these arousal is also a problem because it inhibits low self esteem, shame and quick withdrawal from whatever discuss I'm having to avoid the bulge being noticed.
Lastly, a year before I got myself ensnared in all these evil activities, I was already developing memory loss and a single headache that almost took my life prior to all these. The headache can be best described as "sawchain and hammer " tearing the skull to pieces and lasted for hours and resistance to drugs. That was the first and last time I experienced such and any other for that matter.
Where do I go from here? Depression is real when solutions are being defiled. Oga,you can't cheat nature.. Sexual urges are natural parts of being a human being.. And these urges must be released.. No matter what your church does to try and guilt trip you into denials.. These sexual urges and tensions must be released.. Either through masturbating,sex or nocturnal emissions.. If you tired of masturbating and being guilt tripped by your nocturnal emissions.. Since you don't want to commit fornication.. Go and marry and have sex every day. And watch your problem disappear.. |
Politics › Re: EFCC Chairman Bawa At Arsenal's Emirates Stadium: Photo by donbenie(m): 10:42am On Apr 24, 2022*. Modified: 12:09am On Apr 25, 2022 |
anonimi: Are you a witch/wizard to know that I cram in a dingy bla bla bla? Or you are a hypocrite who is desperately projecting his hypocrisy on others? Please what are you sir Are you not the original WIZARD /WITCH? That entered another man's pocket to know that he cannot afford a vacation abroad? Village People.. Shameless HYPOCRITE 
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Politics › Re: EFCC Chairman Bawa At Arsenal's Emirates Stadium: Photo by donbenie(m): 10:21am On Apr 24, 2022 |
anonimi: As long as he doesn’t show that he is living way above his earnings, and demonstrating his colonial mentality sickness. You don't think he can afford a vacation abroad? I'm very sure you know NOTHING about the man and his financial capabilities before he took office.. And going to watch a live match is demonstrating colonial mentality sickness? The same match you lot cram in a dinghy smelling,stuffy and dirty Viewing Centers to watch? Talk about HYPOCRISY  |
Politics › Re: EFCC Chairman Bawa At Arsenal's Emirates Stadium: Photo by donbenie(m): 10:16am On Apr 24, 2022 |
sexysegxy: So, he used his salary to go watch ball in U.K abi? Convert the cost of travelling,lodging wt olosho arrangement and match ticket to naira and check his salary. Little wonder, if his uncle could pardon convicted gov'nors, he's pardoned by federal executive council. The man is entitled to his leave.. All he did was attend the match of his favorite team.. If you saw him carrying Olosho let us know..  |
Politics › Re: EFCC Chairman Bawa At Arsenal's Emirates Stadium: Photo by donbenie(m): 10:10am On Apr 24, 2022 |
CountVersailles: This one cannot even get his priority straight. Will you see FBI director going to Arsenal match? The FBI director is not an Arsenal Fan.. He has no business in an Arsenal Match.. And what he legally decides to do in his vacation time is NOBODY'S business.. |
Sports › Re: Name The Footballer With a 'wasted Career' Which Really Pained You by donbenie(m): 11:54pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Wasted talents.. Balotteli.. El Hadji Diouf.. Anelka.. Queresma.. Adriano.. Bojan Krikc.. Tevez.. Gabigol.. |
Sports › Re: Name The Footballer With a 'wasted Career' Which Really Pained You by donbenie(m): 11:39pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Stargangz: Mine is Jay Jay Okocha. How this man no play for bayern, inter, ac milan, real madrid, barca, man utd, liverpool, etc still dey baffle me, but ended up at bolton. Maybe because he wasn't as incredible as you all made him.. Talented no doubt.. But too much showboating.. Dribbling everyone on the pitch doesn't exactly make you world best.. Football is a team sport not a one man show.. Would take Kanu 10 times over.. |