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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by PEXBlog(f): 9:50am On Apr 25, 2022
Talk to member of their family. At least, your wife's parents are still alive.

If you can't do that, send him an errand, before he comes back, help him pack his load into your car booth, then tell him to follow you to a place, then drive him to the park straight and bid him farewell.

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Flairoqy(m): 9:52am On Apr 25, 2022
Kimiso:
bro you have hate in your blood,(be humble and kind to your inlaws).teminiyen oh
OP
Lmao that’s him (your brother in-law) you didn’t check well, he uses nairaland too.
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by michlins(m): 9:53am On Apr 25, 2022
I read the part your wife said you shouldn't put mouth into her family affairs. grin grin angry

Remind her it's your family and you don't want non family members living with you

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Perfecttouchade: 9:54am On Apr 25, 2022
Brother- in-law oran cheesy
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Kimiso(m): 9:54am On Apr 25, 2022
Flairoqy:

OP
Lmao that’s him (your brother in-law) you didn’t check well, he uses nairaland too.
thunder fire your papa,me na great hustler
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by true2god: 9:54am On Apr 25, 2022
Kimiso:
bro you have hate in your blood,(be humble and kind to your inlaws).teminiyen oh
Are you ok?
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by pegix(m): 9:54am On Apr 25, 2022
M sure some of us hav been in this situation before

My own be when hostel rent expired

Had to stay with a friend.not until a month b4 i was able to pay

I know he wasn't so comfortable but he tolerated it

If u are poor and can't just help ur situation

Sometimesuve got no other choice

Thank God e don dey soft now

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by illuminutty: 9:55am On Apr 25, 2022
abeniagbon:
How will a sane person allow his wife's junior brother to come for holiday only to turn one of the guess room to his permanent room...

I have asked my wife many times when is your brother going , she will tell me not to put mouth in her family matters..

It getting annoying. Okay I got him a job at a filing station only for him to turn it down, said that work is not good enough for him ..each time I got back from work is either I see him hangin pillow in between his legs sleeping or chatting on facebook with white women.

I don't know who to report him. I don't know how to deal with this kind of issues... My kitchen had no peace ever since when he is around, even my bathroom cos he bath all most 4 times a day.... He gives excuses both here and there and this is making me to hate him the more...

Please I don't know if anyone had been in my shoe before, how do you handle it... ??

Your wife is probably the one footing your bills or paid greater part of the rent. If not, you would not be here asking strangers how to deal with an irresponsible in-law.

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Ifakiland(m): 9:56am On Apr 25, 2022
abeniagbon:
How will a sane person allow his wife's junior brother to come for holiday only to turn one of the guess room to his permanent room...

I have asked my wife many times when is your brother going , she will tell me not to put mouth in her family matters..

It getting annoying. Okay I got him a job at a filing station only for him to turn it down, said that work is not good enough for him ..each time I got back from work is either I see him hangin pillow in between his legs sleeping or chatting on facebook with white women.

I don't know who to report him. I don't know how to deal with this kind of issues... My kitchen had no peace ever since when he is around, even my bathroom cos he bath all most 4 times a day.... He gives excuses both here and there and this is making me to hate him the more...

Please I don't know if anyone had been in my shoe before, how do you handle it... ??
Na you pay brideprice marry your wife or na your wife pay groomprice marry you How your wife go bring him broda and him no go wan comot....him or your wife dey craze??
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Kimiso(m): 9:57am On Apr 25, 2022
true2god:
Are you ok?
ask your yansh
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by kingPhidel(m): 9:57am On Apr 25, 2022
Problem with Africa is that we value relationship and relatives too much.
It’s your house and you are the head of the house send the bagger out to go and be serious with his life. Which one my wife said said I shouldn’t put mouth in her family matter? Some siblings never learn and waste time petting such siblings. Getat of my house

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by olarent: 9:57am On Apr 25, 2022
You are wrong on this bro.Whatever situation that has to do with your own you must seek advice in order not to take a baryas decision and to avoid be regret of his action with his wife he need consultation has he Hus doing.
Friend tell him to his face if he can not work,you can not accommodate him.
valdes00:
I dnt knw how some people dey take enter marriage when they lack balls... Imagine a grown adult asking strangers for clue on hw to eject someone from his ouse..
I am sure its his wife paying the rents, so sure...

Even my brother no fit do anyhw, talk more of brother in law...
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by whytediamond(m): 9:58am On Apr 25, 2022
Kimiso:
bro you have hate in your blood,(be humble and kind to your inlaws).teminiyen oh


See them. Mr. Entitlement. I salute your office sir.

Idiat.

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by duduade: 9:58am On Apr 25, 2022
Talk to the young man straight up.. it's either he buckles or he ain't welcome to your house anymore


He could slowly be a bad influence on your children

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by vickydevoka(m): 9:59am On Apr 25, 2022
AsomArchitectNG:
It's not everything you cry about. Set the records straight, You're a man for crying out loud!
Men don't have mind like women do. It's not that easy. If he was a lady only eyes way him go give de guy nobody go tell am make en leave
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Starboytwo(m): 9:59am On Apr 25, 2022
It’s far better and productive to chat white women on Facebook than black ladies.


Leave him. He is working. 2 sec everywhere fit burst.
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by foolbuster: 9:59am On Apr 25, 2022
abeniagbon:
How will a sane person allow his wife's junior brother to come for holiday only to turn one of the guess room to his permanent room...

I have asked my wife many times when is your brother going , she will tell me not to put mouth in her family matters..

It getting annoying. Okay I got him a job at a filing station only for him to turn it down, said that work is not good enough for him ..each time I got back from work is either I see him hangin pillow in between his legs sleeping or chatting on facebook with white women.

I don't know who to report him. I don't know how to deal with this kind of issues... My kitchen had no peace ever since when he is around, even my bathroom cos he bath all most 4 times a day.... He gives excuses both here and there and this is making me to hate him the more...

Please I don't know if anyone had been in my shoe before, how do you handle it... ??

All these mumu husbands sef, how old are you?
Maybe you'll come and ask the public how to sleep with your wife next. Rubbish angry

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by dododawa1: 10:00am On Apr 25, 2022
Problem no dey finish
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by donbenie(m): 10:01am On Apr 25, 2022
Kimiso:
bro you have hate in your blood,(be humble and kind to your inlaws).teminiyen oh
You must be lousy at being an advisor..
He has hate in his heart for needing peace in his life? angry
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Flairoqy(m): 10:02am On Apr 25, 2022
Kimiso:
thunder fire your papa,me na great hustler
Froward folk, exercise mental cognizance sometimes, there are different kind of humors youth.
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by AfroKnight: 10:03am On Apr 25, 2022
When you marry a woman who has no discipline and dignity. You have to change it for both of them.

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Great0ne1: 10:03am On Apr 25, 2022
abeniagbon:


I don't have any hate to that, but I hate it when an able person seat down and be doing yahoo yahoo in my house with hope to scam someone when there is a countless of job. At least if I could get him a job and he refuses is that good enough?? To me he had lose focus to game instead of pursue his life. God said he will bless the work of thy hand. Sleeping and waking without doing something in my house is a big NO for me
Bro how many work of the handy, has God blessed in nigeria, compared those he has failed
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Kimiso(m): 10:03am On Apr 25, 2022
donbenie:
You must be lousy at being an advisor..
He has hate in his heart for needing peace in his life? angry
what's in there to help someone, don't you know givers never lack the more you give is the much more you achieve
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by redcliff: 10:04am On Apr 25, 2022
abeniagbon:
How will a sane person allow his wife's junior brother to come for holiday only to turn one of the guess room to his permanent room...

I have asked my wife many times when is your brother going , she will tell me not to put mouth in her family matters..

It getting annoying. Okay I got him a job at a filing station only for him to turn it down, said that work is not good enough for him ..each time I got back from work is either I see him hangin pillow in between his legs sleeping or chatting on facebook with white women.

I don't know who to report him. I don't know how to deal with this kind of issues... My kitchen had no peace ever since when he is around, even my bathroom cos he bath all most 4 times a day.... He gives excuses both here and there and this is making me to hate him the more...

Please I don't know if anyone had been in my shoe before, how do you handle it... ??

you are not a man. Tufia!

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by Gee64: 10:05am On Apr 25, 2022
Try get him his own POS stand near your home. That's what I did for my son with similar attitude. Today he can feed himself.

Your inlaw, no matter his/her age must be respected oh.
Stop hating him. The youths these days are something else.
abeniagbon:


I don't have any hate to that, but I hate it when an able person seat down and be doing yahoo yahoo in my house with hope to scam someone when there is a countless of job. At least if I could get him a job and he refuses is that good enough?? To me he had lose focus to game instead of pursue his life. God said he will bless the work of thy hand. Sleeping and waking without doing something in my house is a big NO for me

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by donbenie(m): 10:06am On Apr 25, 2022
Kimiso:
what's in there to help someone, don't you know givers never lack the more you give is the much more you achieve
And why should he continue feeding an adult who doesn't want to help himself?
There are motherless babies and the infirm looking for your benevolence..
If you are looking for who to help..
Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by redcliff: 10:06am On Apr 25, 2022
Kimiso:
what's in there to help someone, don't you know givers never lack the more you give is the much more you achieve

you are the kind of person that will borrow money from someone and refuse to pay back, you are also the kind of person that will owe landlord and take him to court for wanting to evict you. Givers never lack, you ask am whether him get to give? you wey be proponent of giving, go and house the brother in law.

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Re: A Guest That Doesn't Want To Leave by whytediamond(m): 10:07am On Apr 25, 2022
illuminutty:


[b]Your wife is probably the one footing your bills or paid greater part of the rent. [/b]If not, you would not be here asking strangers how to deal with an irresponsible in-law.

It's obvious he is leaving out that part.

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