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oluwaseunamos33:
It's just their believe but doesn't mean anything

Yeah..
I'm very sure only YOUR believes means something..

jesusjnr2020:
Which people?

I don't and none of my family members do that. I can't even remember anyone i know ever doing that.

Except you mean pagans who do it as a sign of respect to the demons they worship in the guise of their ancestors.

We all can see how you Christians have turned Nigeria to Paradise,with your mumbo jumbo prayers..

MartinCorridon:
One of the grown men ranting and crying like a baby...spotted

E pain am well well. Kindly take sniper.

Lol..
Go take your medicine..
Your Orangutan needs your attention..

jesmond3945:
it seems you have low understanding threshold. Do you even know what is "come off"

You are the one with a comprehension issue..
Don't project your expectations on someone else..
He didn't ask of you to place him on a pedestal and neither is he looking for your approval..
Whatever it is that you built him to be is a figment of your imagination..
He's not living his life to please any of you..

michresakidjo:
Cohabitation is not culturally allowed but in case of a scenario like this... No dowry payment. Not at all. Let alone marrying her dead body. What matter is the child the woman left behind.

Payment of dowry and marrying of dead body is a pure rituals. The latter part though. This s subhuman cultural beliefs should be binned.

The issue is more than you see at face value..
There's a child involved..
Culturally the family does not recognize his rights over the child..
Let him do as he pleases..
But he should be aware that they can make the child disappear and not heard of from him again..
If he does his worst,he should be ready expect the worst from them.

jesmond3945:
I think is because Yul came off as somebody with integrity, somebody that can do no wrong, a family dotting man. He was always advising people on Instagram. People followed him because of this.

What does integrity have to do with an African man taking a second wife?
The guy you quoted was talking about you and you're still talking..
Ogbeni,no drink panadol for another man headache..

Cryer:
Imagine wetin we men dey do, instead of us to educate the ignorant idvvts among us na gal wey dey fvvk dog Dem carry for head.
I dey pity the future because like this we men have almost completely destroyed the world with crime.

Shut up

michresakidjo:
This is not so in my tribe. Iam so scaredof what I am reading here. I once nursed this thought coz I loved this babe and I have vowed never to marry from my side but..the said girlfriend has been exhibitiing traits of an Emere. She fainted twice at my place even though she wasn't sick. My eyes has opened to reality more by this revelation of OP. She's from that water tribe.

OP you should have yielded to your mother's warning at first. My mom too warned me.. I thank God I heeded.

But come o... Does cultural beliefs supersedes the constitution.

So your Tribe supports cohabitation with a woman and having children without being married?
He didn't marry the said woman..
She was fulfilling all the duties of a wife for free?
And she died in his custody..
Now he wants to return her Corpse to them?
And yet you actually wants to turn around and blame the woman's people for their stance?

emperor863:
You ought to know na. Which tribe would hold fast to such primitive and senseless culture?

The cannibals, you say?

Well, you're dammed right, I say.

Yeah..
Coming from a man whose daughters jump from one man to another..
You dash your daughters out to live and produce children with multiple men,without being married..
No wonder it is strange to you..

FutureIsFemale:
What I say about men are they lies? Are men not raping minors?

And women are not raping minors?
Abeg shift!

StilmaVsBorn2w:
I informed them for the burial arrangements not for marriage ceremony

Burial arrangements,as per say you be who to them?
She died in your custody and you haven't told them how their daughter died,and what you were doing with her..
And yet you want to go and arrange for her funeral?
Guy,everything no be by gragra..
Don't let those people swear for you..

FutureIsFemale:
The worst place to raise a girl child is Nigeria

Hey guys! MadamVanessa is a male using a female account to operate on Nairaland. Be careful when dealing with him.

Who cares about MadamVanessa and her sex?
And who do we have to ask about your own sex?
Or does spewing rubbish about the male sex,automatically qualifies you as a woman?

You get what you pay for..

JovialJune:
Ehen....so a man can actually say this?

So you mean it is okay for a woman to be the cause of disagreement and discourse between a man and his own family? I thought you guys usually scream out loud that men should never allow "pûssy" to separate them from family, that it doesn't end well, so what happen here? It really doesn't matter because it is Yul? Abi because you idiots will say and agree to anything when it is convenient for you?

You guys are actually the ones with fish brain, an emotionally weak fish brain.

Where in the brother's write did he say that he or the family is separated from Yul?

That you disagree with someone doesn't equate to quarrel..

Read and comprehend..

He straight up said polygamy is not a crime..

Yul is a big boy and all he can do is advice..

Chynwe:
You are just pathetic.You must be a product of a polygamous home.By their utterances, you shall know them

And what exactly is wrong with being from a Polygamous family?
Are you better than them?

Moferere:
Illiterate Peoples of Biafra and their states are in a state of ANYHOWNESS

Can you imagine what they have turned Anambra to?

Tell us which hell hole you are typing from first..

Victerica:
Kill that monkey...

Nonsense!

Unto wetin?

CSTRR:
It's an act of wickedness.

Even if you wan fuckkkk outside, atleast use condom.
E go still sweet, and you will maintain your family equilibrium.

Instead the idiot go pour inside as if na only him Sabi fucckkk raw.

An educated adult for that matter.

See how you laid it out,as if you were privy to the man's life and decisions?
To all you people calling this man a bastard,are you all not ashamed of yourselves?
Really?
What's with this drinking panadol unto another man's headache?
A man made his choices and is living with it and here you are insulting him for it?

GloriousGbola:
He is not poverty stricken YET. He has five children with the first wife. From all accounts the first wife does her own thing and provides financial support. I guarantee the second wife will do no such thing. And this will not be the only child. Naija where 2 pikins is hard enough, you have 5 and want to add more.

This is how redpillers are made. Parents who do not have the time and resources to properly nurture, and leave their kids to learn about women from the internet

He is not poverty stricken YET?
What's this crap suppose to mean?
If you are a poverty stricken fellow,save us your SOB story and don't use it to judge others..
And all you fellows with nothing better to do than poke nosing into another man's life..
Get a LIFE.

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Jchi9876:
Lol eh yah I remember your mama I been chook am 19 years ago give am quickie for one batcha off Douglas in Owerri so na you be that belle she bin tell me?.
Anu ofia. Ezigbo mkpi

Shameless NITWIT..
Go face your drunkard father and your legion of bastard siblings..
Dey there dey choke eye into another man's life..
Bastard son of a thousand fathers..

flejnr2:
Omo na tire you change or na farm you go?

Lol..

Lordbinsmar:


YIEBO Pipu and failed marriages are like 5 and 6

Atleast we dey marry.

janedonez:
Thought twas a joke.
Can we still find men with dignity?

What defines DIGNITY?

Jesse25:
I wish this for your daughter say Amen .

Regina Daniel is enjoying her marriage,living her best life..
And you are HERE wishing what to his daughter?
Better a polygamous family where my daughter will be taken care of..
Than to a man who would use her to learn kickboxing.

Jchi9876:
Bastard wants to be president too msheew

Na your Stupid drunkard of a father be bastard..
On top another man's life?
God punish you there..
EFULEFU

Richy4:
Hope he didn't force himself to do this because of presidential aspirations... He's declaring his 'assets' already to avoid backlash

Just Imagine it was the wife that gave birth to a baby for another man.. And she announced it like this

The wife can go and marry another man and give birth to kids,no be crime..

DamianX:
This generation is something else
Indeed, did his father marry 2?

Wetin concern him,concern the father?

descarado:
Sighs.
You can never understand them.

Just look at a promising young lady settling for baby mama.

And I saw some idiots defending him up there.

Is it poverty mentality or what.

And tomorrow he will beg the first wife, she will take him in again. If you ask her, she will say she did it for the kids.

Our ladies need re-orientation.

Guy go rest,polygamous is an African tradition..

Senoye:
It is the *my second wife* that shocked me. The declaration without any iota of remorse has shown he is undermining his wife and kids. Why do you have to cheat on your wife...and as if that is not enough, you didn't use protection..as if that wasn't enough, you are making announcement that is senseless. People will see fire and put their hands inside it.

What was he actually looking for? The real wife has 3 boys and 1 girl


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To people saying he has right to marry more than one wife, I don't disagree with you. However before you enter into an agreement or relationship with someone, most of these things would have been sorted out and I believe with the comment of the wife, this wasn't part of the agreement. Did you hear Alaafin of Oyo's wife complain about marrying more wives? If your wife doesn't know and support you from the beginning that you intend to marry another wife later in future, then it means you have betrayed her trust.

So what should he do if the wife doesn't want him to marry another wife?