₦airaland Forum

Efe42:
I've pleaded with her this evening but she refuse to come back

killmods:
She's not ur girlfriend

loveth360:
We share nothing in common with yorubas.







Children of hate from west.

Unik3030:
Listen to my sorry by lucky dube n u will understand better

JimiJunji:
But do you believe in patriotism to one's country? Am not against friendships and I like that you're loyal to your family (it's the most important actually) but if you happen to be a politician are you saying that your friendship/relationship with people would affect your policies plus if you don't care for tribe or country why are you interested in 1 nigeria?

JimiJunji:
It's funny when people use their personal relationships with people from other tribes to equate how political relationships should pan out, this is a flawed and lazy way of thinking. I have Ghanaian friends and friends from Benin republic but it doesn't mean I want to share a country with them or I would side with their country in the event of a war between our countries. Most people especially in the south west have failed to understand and separate personal friendships and relationships from loyalty to one's tribe and region. It's purely a sentimental and emotional way of looking at things people with such mindsets shouldn't be allowed close to the corridors of power. Op's argument and analogy is really flawed and quite irritating.

PAtoGCFR2034:
Ojukwu
Chinua Achebe
Fela
Wole Soyinka
Gani Fawenhinmi.

It's not about the money or influence for those dumbos placing Aliko Dangote on the list

OneTemplate:
DonJuan13, hope you have now had enough? See the raw, crude and indoctrinated hate emanating from someone you are being civil to.

Can you not tell this is something that is part of her being or essence and not a response to anything any Yoruba has done?

For the mere fact you are keeping it civil, she should be obligated to do likewise. Yet her deeply indoctrinated hatred of Yorubas means she slid back to default mode of attacking and hating on all Yorubas including you. Bear in mind this is a lady OOO.

I would rather fins a way to keep those who hate me for no reason faf away from me than grying to waste my enjoymenf of life trying to peove that "love conquers all".

That is not the case with Nigeria and that is why I said from the start we are better off managing our differences rather than pretending they don't exist.

loveth360:
I don't believe in that trash anymore.


We are better of in Pushing for our destiny differently,I know this your topic is just to beg for unity which will never come,not as if you people are ready for justice and equity,but because it favours you people.
You can't keep doing same thing over and over again and expect different results.

They say a fool at forty is a fool forever,what then is a fool at 60 plus.

Idiko1:
You are the so-called "warlord" on nairaland. You can even accept the simple truth.

loveth360:
Preaching love is different from acting on that.



I'm not a muslim.

loveth360:
Oga you can only deceive those that have not been to yoruba land or been around you guys.



We that witness yorubas hatred first hand knows better.


I used to be naive until i witness it.


The hatred a typical yoruba man have for Igbos is legendary,but of course they will try to pretend until when it's time to exhibit it.

OneTemplate:
Bro, I hear you and I used to reason as you do but I have come to realize that ethnocentric hate and distrust of others is a way of life for most Nigerians. Some more than others.

My opinion is that Yorubas must begin to be more pragmatic and cynical in our dealings with others.

Otherwise we will lose out to those who will use our liberal and accomodating mien to feather their callous and ethnocentric nests in our midst whereas what they get from us they can never give in return.

The difference between Yoruba and Igbo adults is real. We should respect that and not try to force some unity tbat will never be.

Igbos, for example, are never happy unless they are subjugating or lording it over others. They are a naturally aggressive people who love all around them to be submissive and docile so they can take advantage of them.

They can never get that from Yorubas. Never. So they will naturally always fight us. The whole "one Nigeria" thing needs a rethink.

We can coexist but must be given the free hand to create societies that reflects our diference not hide them or, at worst, pretend theu dont exist with some "one Nigeria" kumbaya sh1t.

OneTemplate:
Lol. OP, you can see the 'difference' some of us are talking about. This is supposedly a woman as well peddling hate when we know women are supposed to be nurturing and healing souls of society.

Someone who does not know you already attacks you as having sinister motives because you are Yoruba and Moslem.

She quickly goes on the defensive to claim you will inculcate your child into hating Igbos yet we know those famous universally for indoctrinating their kids, even from the womb, into blind hatred of others especially after Igbos civil war loss.

Goodluck to you bro if you're truly Yoruba and this naive. . Welcome to NL.

loveth360:
The truth is i dey pity Ebube and his father that allowed him to be entering such camp.
If only they know that Abdulrahman parent are doing what yorubas does,which is teaching their kids to hate omo ibo.

Tomorrow the worst enemy of Ebube will be Abdulrahman when Abdulrahman will join his northern brothers to conspire against him,Tomorrow Abdulrahman will be ready to starve three million kids from tribe of Ebube,stealing their money in banks.

Tomorrow Abdulrahman's father will be the one to threaten to throw Ebube and his family into lagoon.



Ebube i pity for you.

Ebube i dey cry for you

Ebube you need help now before is too late.

AlexBells:
There is a solution which had not yet been tried and eventually we would have [b]Nzeogwu's Best and Nzeogwu's second best, There is no easier way to get Nigeria to work than the way it is working, the federal Republic system is better for minorities and in due time majority groups will be able to pick up themselves.

Nigeria can not divide in the sense that most people think and I agree with you that we need to heal, I had spoken every opportunity I got on the healing, not here on nairaland though becuase until lately I used to be quite aggressive until I figured out most people who destroyed this country had no intention to destroy it, they all at some point believed they were offering a genuine solution so I had become humble and most times now I ask myself what proof do I have that my solution is not another disaster.