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mujiboy: Islam is never about 72 virgins..

hmm I forgot you've taken some out of the 72virgins, oya tell us how many remain..

Only if Our northern Jajaweeds would emulate this people and start thinking half positive. Islam is not all about 72virgins..

Chineke...not again *shaking head* Chineke...not again

Same story. till when Bu.h.ari is arrested

data loss lo, data gain ni....

@spider, I sent an email...

Still my man...

if so am about to go... *dusting my passport ..

Nairaland is getting boring these days...so many imposters claiming Igbo trying hard to loop Igbo ethnic tussle with others...

18 and proudly Sagittarius...

The shock of Nigeria would be whenever fg decides to àdd ethnicity to next census...


....then I would come back to comment...

jmoore: Don't kill your father ohh....

you dey mind the ba.stard, he is just another fake handle...

Do you know that you can trigger a man’s desire for commitment? Learn how to create that feeling of “you’re the only woman I want” with these five relationship guidelines.

While an initial spark is all it takes for a man to ask you out and crave you sexually, there needs to be something more for him to want to commit to you exclusively.  He needs to feel that he can’t wait to make you his and that he can’t stand the thought of you being with anyone else.
 
Rather than having “the talk” or giving him ultimatums, wouldn’t it be great if you could create that feeling so that he is the one asking you for a commitment?  You can if you practice these simple steps:

1. DON’T keep bringing up the “commitment” discussion.
When you feel anxious or worried about where your relationship is headed, it’s hard to resist wanting to know what he’s thinking.
 
But constantly trying to talk with him about commitment feels stressful to him and will only make him dig in his heels and retreat – even if he was on the verge of committing all on his own. So, no matter how much you’re dying to know what he’s thinking, resist the temptation to bring up this tender topic.

2. DON’T try convincing him
The more you try to make a case for how great you are as a couple, the more he feels cornered and manipulated. Your reasoning feels like criticism to him and makes him unable to share his true feelings.  That’s certainly not the vibe you want to create in a loving relationship.
 
A man falls in love when he feels like he can make you happy by being himself and sharing the deepest parts of who he is. By rejecting those parts, you make him feel wrong and cause him to protect his true feelings – and his heart – from connecting with yours.

3. DO share your good feelings
When you feel good with a man, let him know! By opening up and sharing your feelings, you allow him to connect to you and the positive experience you are sharing. It makes him feel good that he makes you feel good, and he’ll want more of that good stuff.
 
As you continue to lay a stronger foundation of positive feelings, it’s only natural that he will see you as a necessary and beautiful part of his life – and he’ll want to make sure you stay in it.

4. DO say what you want – with or without him
Instead of trying to convince him to commit, share your dreams and what you want for your future. For example: “I don’t want to put pressure on the relationship. I don’t want to try to convince you, or rush you. It feels good to be with you, but I know I want to have a family someday. What do you think?”
 
When he sees that you are first and foremost committed to yourself and your dreams, he will feel fired up about you. He will appreciate you as having high value and therefore be triggered to want you all to himself.

5. DO keep your options open 
Dating is a time for you to find out what you really want in a relationship.  You can’t do this if you close yourself off to other men before you have the commitment you desire.  By meeting lots of people, you open yourself up to discovering a truly great match.  You also avoid making any one man the center of your world.  Remember, your first commitment is always to you!
 
As you can see, the key to making a man want you all to himself is to be the woman who loves him but doesn’t need him.  When he senses that he’s very lucky to have you, he’ll be motivated to seal the deal before another guy gets in there first.
 
 
Commitment is a different emotional process for men than it is for women

Just made my day...proudly Igbo...

Leebliss13: Imagine,s0me0ne studying igb0 languague?

you are a retar.d...ask Google how much they pay their Igbo language translator..

jmoore: copied from where?

http://www.whatdomenreallythink.com/howto/man-not-interested.php I guess.

your type only see sense to discredit someone's work...


Guess you are from the southwest of Nigeria

omusiliyu: SPECIAL-X for men. It's around $200

fvck de fvcking off nigga nobody asked the price

Smooyis: Naija is got talent.

chineke ooo..

Brb

Try these:

1. Who has been the biggest influence in your life?
2. What kinds of things really make you laugh?
3. What’s your favorite place in the entire world?
4. Who is your best friend? What do you like about him/her?
5. Favorite movie of all time? Why so?
6. What’s your biggest goal in life right now?
7. What is your favorite way to spend a Saturday?
8. Do you have any pet peeves?
9. What was your family like growing up?
10. What were you like as a kid?
11. What should I know about you that I’d never think to ask about?
12. Did you—or do you—have a nickname? What’s the story behind it?
13. Who was your favorite schoolteacher or college professor? Why?
14. Have you figured out your calling in life? What is it?
15. What do you hate most about the dating process? (Tell me so I can avoid it!)

may be you’ve got your own great first date questions, surefire winners that get the conversation rolling. If not, use these and come up with others—but by all means, give some forethought to how you’d like a discussion with a new partner to unfold. You’ll give yourself a chance at a magnificent, rather than miserable, first date.


Don't ask me for source ..

There they sit—you could spot them a mile away. A man and woman face each other across a table at a downtown bistro, looking nervous and awkward. No doubt about it, they’re on their first date.

How do we know it’s their first time out together? All the observable and obvious clues: They are nicely groomed and wearing freshly pressed clothes—stylish, but not overdone. There is a stiff formality to the way they sit—no slouching. They scan the room, menu, and table setting, only occasionally making eye contact.

Biggest clue of all: The salad course is punctuated by strained silence and forced small talk. The two pick at their dinner salads, staring down at the leafy mound before them. He seems tongue-tied, she seems self-conscious. Finally, one of them tries to grease the wheels of conversation.

Him: How’s your salad?
Her: Good. And yours?
Him: Yeah, really good.

More excruciating silence ensues. You can almost read their minds. He thinks, “C’mon, say something! Anything! This is torture.” She thinks, “Why doesn’t he ask me any questions? Or maybe I should—but I don’t know what to say! How can I get out of this?”
On it goes. More mute lulls. More perfunctory questions. More salad staring.

As would-be romances go, this plane is very slow to leave the gate and get onto the runway. It remains to be seen if it will pick up speed, gain altitude, and soar skyward . . . or if it will lose engine power and sit on the tarmac indefinitely.

Singles: do not let this happen to you! It’s true that first dates can be one of the most nerve-wracking, anxiety-producing situations in our society. Sometimes they lead to burning love; sometimes they go down in flames. The key to having a positive experience is relaxed conversation, and that can be helped along with some well-chosen first-date questions. Before we get to those, let’s review a few general guidelines for dating discourse:

Listen as much or more than you talk. Some people consider themselves skilled communicators because they can talk endlessly. But the ability to speak is only one part of the equation—and not the most important part. The best communication occurs with an even and equal exchange between two people. Think of conversation as a tennis match in which the players lob the ball back and forth. Each person gets a turn—and no one hogs the ball.

Peel the onion, don’t stab it with a paring knife. Getting to know someone new is like peeling an onion one thin layer at the time. It’s a slow and safe process. But some people, overeager to get into deep and meaningful conversation, go too far too fast. They ask personal or sensitive questions that put the other person on the defensive. Should the relationship evolve, there will be plenty of time to get into weighty topics. For now, take it easy.

Don’t dump. If feeling inhibited is a problem for some people, others go to the opposite extreme: they use a date as an opportunity to purge and vent. When a person reveals too much too soon, it can give a false sense of intimacy. In reality, premature or exaggerated revelations are due more to boundary issues, unresolved pain, or self-centeredness than true intimacy.

Genuine interest goes a long way. Maybe your first date questions will lead you to discover that this person is your soul mate—or maybe not. Either way, it’s exciting to be able to get to know another human being and get a peek into his or her world. Great communication starts with being genuinely interested in the individual you’re with and paying close attention to what he/she says. The process begins by providing lots of space for the full expression of information and asking follow-up questions to further draw out the one talking.

With those thoughts in mind, now it’s time to think about specific first date questions.

Logic Mind: If that was the only thing their rotten mouth could not pronounce, that would have been tolerable.
Ask a yoruba man to pronounce something with a "v".
Have you heard them say their lord's prayer? "for efer and efer"

you wicked die.lmao...



This is heavy to be ignored..lolz

Ok

all4naija: This is laughable. Are you trying to tell me about Nollywood or provide Arial-view images to support your comment? There are mud houses which littered those areas you just listed in your comment without doubt. Igbo being Africans have mud houses as they are African thing. You cannot deceive my on that.

you see what too much of watching nollywood movies have done to your sense of reasoning?

all4naija: This is laughable. Are you trying to tell me about Nollywood or provide Arial-view images to support your comment? There are mud houses which littered those areas you just listed in your comment without doubt. Igbo being Africans have mud houses as they are African thing. You cannot deceive my on that.

you see what of watching nollywood movies have done to sense of reasoning?

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Igbo... Haters keep hating cos you hate that am ahead.....