₦airaland Forum

Emu4life:
The Man did not adhere to Allah's instructions. He should blame himself.

Do not marry polytheistic women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist, even though she may look pleasant to you. And do not marry your women to polytheistic men until they believe, for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist, even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite ˹you˺ to the Fire while Allah invites ˹you˺ to Paradise and forgiveness by His grace.1 He makes His revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful.
(Al- Baqarah : 221)

Sometimes, we may not see much sense in what the Qur'an and Hadith instructed, but that's because we lack the Wisdom to understand. But It is the absolute truth


Sadaqahllahul aazim

immortalcrown:
Open a distribution point in every local government area. Then, whoever does not want to boycott dealers and get cement from your distribution points will have himself or herself to blame. The distribution points will also address the issues of hoarding and rebaging.

AllBlack:
You say you have been married before but you are here telling us how you are still wrapped up in childish situations and inability to make decisions like a man.

run & hide your face in deep shame.

Starboytwo:
Why stake in such place.

I play bets too. One of my rule is "there's always another game, any minute, seconds. I don't kill myself to play, instead I stay chilled, I let my game come to me.

I wont hire him.

CyrusVI:

They are Masculine Men and I like their way

These ones prolly wont simp for their women.

Funny enough,those women had nothing against this approach.

Lead women anyhow, even if na bush, dem go follow you still.

CyrusVI:

We've successfully exported our Simphood abroad

How come its always hard for Nigerian women to see the Good in us

Judging by the everyday comments on Twitter and FB, you could easily conclude that a large percentage of them arent please with us


What are these ones seeing that our women arent?

Tendd:
I think he should be in the gym or a sports center and be airing his advice.Physical exercise is the most single biomarker for a healthy life and longevity.Sadly, most of us aren't training enough.l think he looks mobidly obese just like most Nigerians abroad and should walk more than sit on cars.

Sleekfingers:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

.see flat tummy . Six packs ....

chatinent:
This guy should be killed immediately.

siofra:
😌

Most Nigerian men are just here to waste your time.

They will love bomb you for years and if you're stupid, you'll believe it's because they love you. Don't be deceived my darling.

Matthew 6:21 says "where your treasure is, there your heart will be"

Where a man likes is where he will invest his money.

So, bill him. Send him your account number and watch him disappear like smoke. If he's serious he'll send you something tangible, if he doesn't he will most likely block you and stop disturbing you. And so, good riddance to disgusting rubbish ☺️

Stay tuned for more life hacks 🤗

krushdripper:
Weak boys claiming to be men everywhere. When you allow a woman you chose, payed for & still paying for start gas lighting you (which usually starts once you invest in her) without giving her corresponding drama & counter gas lighting then you have yourself to blame. Your being mentally or emotionally relaxed to issues with your wife would be your undoing if you don't wake up your ideas & put her in her place. Watch her closely to know just how she swings so you can give her accurate responses/reactions while you brace yourself to end the marriage if she decides to take things too far. You initiated & nurtured that relationship from courtship into marriage so the earlier you realise that that relationship belongs to you & not her, the better for your wellbeing.

Matheusmartin:
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Bible and Koran are useless.
Our politicians nor dey fear them.
Imagine using ayelala to take your oath,u enter office begin dey zuor, na once ayelala go run kill u,serving as deterrent to others..

Gbogbowa:
All the Oba you did Oath for some of them are corrupt even Scam people yet nothing happe to them

Dpharisee:
Allah forgives,God Almighty forgives. So you can swear not to steal but go ahead and steal and seek for forgiveness and you will be forgiven.

As per Amadioha and Sango, by the time your stomach starts swelling no be person go tell you that you have gone against the oath you took and the items they will require before they will consider forgiving could require you to sleep in the evil forest for 7 weeks and come back with 27 mosquito 🦟 tongues 👅 for the sacrifices

Zonefree:
After granting them public holiday, they're now demanding for new system of oath taking..very soon they'll demand for total closure of all Churches and Mosques.

You can't satisfy humans...tueh!

Mistral:
I am the OP

chido20:
Nice one

Zonefree:
Presently, the percentage of wife material in Nigeria is less than 2.432%.

To find true love in Nigeria is by the SPECIAL grace of God.

Mistral:
In my opinion, the only category of humanity that is free from this mental oppression to a minimum are the children. They play around and live the way they please everyday without even realizing the mess we adults have to go through to survive in a corrupt and mumu society. It makes us want to envy them

pansophist:
If you're chasing something, it means that thing is running away from you. Chasing is a waste of time, thank God men are realising it.

I've seen some girls declare that they won't make it easy for the men that is approaching them. That if a man wants her, he has to pass through all the hooks to win her over.

Same girls will melt like butter for a man they like, which means they set these rules for men they don't really like, and still want to use that opportunity to form righteousness, by playing hard to get.

After climbing mountains to win her over, you realise that you just win headache, and a lady other men have dumped because for all intent and purposes, she is mad.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Whether in UK or Africa... Any sane mind who can think logically should abandon religion.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
You are not banging that woman well

Angelfrost:
Let's be honest... How many men are ready to support and help build a female medical professional's career?!!

How many?!!

If you understand the career path of a Physician from Residency to Specialisation, you will understand that it's actually wisdom for them not to waste their time and lives on nearsighted, unambitious, and low self-esteem individuals.


To successfully date a medic means you have to be highly patient, loving, accommodating, and willing to make serious sacrifices even denying yourself too.


Let the right career-supporting and patient men with vision locate them...!


Others should focus on BBL and urgent 5k ladies littered everywhere.

Edpuma:
One just started snubbing, ignoring all my attempts to communicate with her.
These hypogamy and hypergamy are actually real in dating, I believe, the female medics only believe they are marrying at par not even marrying up (hypergamy), if they marry their colleagues or very wealthy/influential professionals while they feel they will be marrying down (hypogamy) if they see the dating move(s) coming from outside the medical field from my several experiences.

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

TheBillyonaire:
Peter is ignorant of the fact that music labels and churches are involved in money laundering. He will soon put his brothers in trouble. NorthSide Entertainment is the real music company, Northside Music is the money laundering firm used by Jude and his contacts to move money around purportedly as a legit front, but just a fraud money spv. It is not music money, so Peter must have seen his brothers living larger than him without knowing they have another funnel.

The assumption that the proceeds are for sale of their America home is a plausible deniability and an alibi.

Clearly, his brothers kept him in the dark because his mouth no dey close. Now that he has exposed Jude to EFCC, I do not think there is forgiveness in the street for sneeches.

grandstar:
Your thinking is petty. I could even add that was it not Tinubu that frustrated GEJ removal of the subsidy in 2012?

Tinubu wanted political office and realized the only means to achieve it was through a Buhari presidency. Buhari was the only man capable of unseating Jonathan and the PDP.

Buhari's achilles heel was always the South. Tinubu realized if he gave Buhari the Southwest, victory was assured and it worked. Buhari won the presidency.

Did Tinubu expect Buhari to be inept, or so inept? I doubt it. First, in his inaugural speech, Buhari let it be known he "Belong to everyone and to no one". This crushed Tinubu as it was later learnt.

But that again fails to explain if he knew Buhari would be so inept? Tinubu never knew. Most leaders rely on capable technocrats to make policies. What does OBJ know about economics? Next to nothing but he appointed Okonji-Iweala and implemented her policies.

Any president is as capable as the technocrats he appoints, and the depth of their policy implementation. Many presidents don't know anything. Many are lamentable in their understanding of economics.

Buhari ignored sound advise from many of his ministers, especially the finance and oil minister (Kachikwu)

Tinubu might have expected him to listen to his technocrats but he did not. Many in APC called him an illiterate behind his back. They realized the man was a disaster.

But if Tinubu knew he would be a disaster, but it assured him the presidency in 2023, would Tinubu still have placed in there? YES

Peter Obi should better learn. If he wants office, he better be wise.

The only way, he, an Igbo man can win the presidency is if he serves as a deputy to Atiku. Had they joined hands in 2023, Peter Obi would have been the vice by now, and waiting to be voted into office in 2031.

In addition, Tinubu's picking a Northern Muslim as his running mate guaranteed him large votes in the North, as Northerners won't vote for a Northern Christian.

Revealpanda:
It's not a voodoo thing.

First step to progress in Africa is by abandoning anything called religion for 100 years and focus on education

Puss360:
Lol okay untill then...🤗🤗