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chatinent:
That's to say relationship is all about sex?

Pdlog:
I Fear person wey no fear God

PerfectStranger:
Easiest way to divorce.Sharp sharp no papers

But why can't the spirit beings marry their fellow and allow us humans to rest? We already have a lot to deal with as humans.

skywalker240:
Say for example

That Pigeon was trying to go back to get another twig after the obviously entitled she threw away the first one he brought, and on his way, one small tegoulo use catapult burst he head?

What the red pill is trying to say is,


You don't have to kill yourself to be acceptable in the face of women and the society.

Afrobasic:
Oddly enough, I was watching a documentary on the BBC recently.

Some female lions went to hunt and caught a small deer. As they are about to feast on it, the male lion makes an appearance, roars, and they all left the meal for him. The male lion eats the whole meal, leaving the females hungry. Regardless, by morning, the next day, they were all loved up. (Really happened!)

Bam! It hit. Epiphany or whatever you call it. Women are naturally made to serve men! No questions asked.

Do you see how ridiculous it sounds to draw conclusions from nature?

Going philosophical, what you have done is to cherry-pick a scenario from nature that confirms your preconceptions about relationships. Look up confirmation-bias or selective-evidence-fallacy.

immortalcrown:
A nice writeup.

But the problem in this generation is entitlement mentality, not provision.

Provision is for basic needs and according to the provider's capacity.

Entitlement mentality amounts to greed and inconsideration.

Providing for a woman is different from satisfying a woman that feels entitled. Examples: buying her latest iPhone or latest hair is not provision, buying her cloth and shoes each time she is invited for ashebi is not provision.

Negroid001:
Was relaxing on my verandah sometime last week and i witnessed something that had me thinking up till this moment.

For over 2 days a particular pigeon had been visiting my compound and i dismissed it in my subconscious as nothing peculiar. This particular morning though, the pigeon swooped in again, hopped here and there and in one crazy frenzy picked up a piece of discarded rubber material and took off. My eyes followed it and surprisingly it's destination wasn't far, it flew to a piece of erected metal beam opposite my house, curiosity got the better of me and i stood up and observed.
Behold, it had been picking up twigs and sorts for it's partner. The partner was building a nest, and when it arrived she collected the piece of rubber material from the male, tried fitting it in the nest and threw it away when it didn't fit. The male flew took off immediately to get another twig. I somehow forgot about the incident not until this morning i can see both lovebirds cuddled up in a complete nest.

Bam! It hit. Epiphany or whatever you call it. Men are naturally built to be providers and women are home makers.

Don't know what's wrong with this generation and the hype about being woke with women shi. Sounds like a homosexual propaganda to me.
I love women, smart ones, beautiful ones, every one...

It's my duty to provide for the woman i love with what i have at my disposal and it's her responsibility to support me. Together we shall make our abode a Haven. Simple...

Any other thing? Na una sabi.
I'm not weak, neither am i lazy.
I only go women that have interest in me.
I don't simp.

But say i no go provide, that one na lie.

seunmsg:
When she was flying high and stealing billions of dollars, you did not disown her. In fact, you enjoyed it together. Now that she’s facing charges everywhere, you don’t want her to be identified with you again. Wicked man.

obiekunie01:
that how arabs have taken over uk and France.

20 year from now united kingdom and France will be running on sharia laws and all the women will be mandated to wear hijab.

jaybee3:
Just to be clear, i’m anti polygamy!!!

To answer your question, the sura was given at the time when they engaged in constant wars which obviously resulted in widowers and orphans. Considering men was also the main/only breadwinner at the time, it made sense for this widowers to be paired by responsible men would could afford and follow the just conditions

However, times are different and selfish religious people are often comfortable taking doctrines out of context or ignorantly falling to evolve their ways in line with current realities

absoluteSuccess:
women are about the strongest of our kind, their vulnerability is not because they are weak somehow, no. For a woman to carry a pregnancy to term, I think she is the one who does a lot of the work of procreation, and as a family, man is to fend for and defend the house.

There are crazy things we say every now and then to relegate one another, but we are equal before God originally. Yes the woman must be obedient to her husband, that is absolute. But for that to be, the husband must be a source of peace and provision for the home.

Marriage is a contract, I can't ask my neighbour's wife to be obedient to me because she is a woman.

Respect is not for a given, it is earned even in a marriage. If you have a wife that respects you in spite of your shortcomings, she is a kind person by nature. It doesn't mean that's the standard and don't use it as standard. Instead, be responsible and considerate with yours.

descarado:
Nobody has come with the answer why a great Islamic nation Turkey made polygamy a crime?

You see intelligent quotient, that's what makes great men and women then a great nation. Intelligence is knowing when to let go of some old practices that were there for a reason and served its purpose which is no longer needed.


You know why I love uk despite their being our coloniser?
They keep on amending their constitutions when they know it does not serve its purpose anymore.

That is what development is all about.
An Islamic country Tajikistan recently banned jihad. That is reformation and curbing extremism.
Saudi Arabia recently did swim suit fashion show.


But my dear country with its men of extremely low intelligent quotient always think about themselves.
What benefits only them and how they are doing the world of favour to their children and women.
I have never seen men with so much little self worth. They need to validate their actions to show they are the men.
If our upbringing produced men like this day in day out, the family failed woefully.

U see all the beating,screaming and shouting by parents and who should not put mouth in children's upbringing, the effect is what we witness daily in Nigeria and why Nigeria is where it is.
Don't let me start with Christianity

CHoccolaTE:
Women in Nigeria have stupid and unrealistic expectations in marriage while the men have selfish and self centered expectations.

I can't understand why it's so hard for the average Nigerian man to have sympathy for their women and why it's also hard for the mumu women to stop valuing marriage so much and stop placing the men on pedestals and simply realize that their men hate them.

I don't even pity the jarus or whatever he calls himself. Let him cook, I don't pity selfish self centered men at all. Disregarding the feelings and emotional wellbeing of his wife of 14 years just because he has made money and so wants to taste a newer, younger woman.
If a woman divorces her poor husband after she becomes rich she would be called all sorts of names even though she is well within her rights to leave the marriage whenever she feels like. I don't pity him. Serves him right.

Harddiskng:
Her next course of action is to target his source of income.

You just watch.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned…. He better give her madt distance with her diabolical shi

See all the funds Oga was splashing, to those saying yen yen yen, money is not all a woman needs Let see her well her life goes when Oga Jarus turns off the tap. Let’s see how your own marriage goes without your husband providing.

Add all these funds, do you know the thousands of Nigerian woman ready to be in her position. Just dey play.

Any muslim lady marrying a Muslim man should already know it is religious rite to marry additional wives. I don’t know the reason for her tantrums, you no see road before you pass

descarado:
It's not about cater.
Turkish emperors, can't they cater for their wives?
World's most powerful emperors at that time.
So what happened?
Why did polygamy become a crime?
It's not the money.
Buhari, babangida, abacha,name them had one wives each, don't they have money?
Is there something they know you didn't know?
The poor man and his ways are like a comedy show to the rich.
They live to entertain them

Sapasenator:
Jarus can cater for a second wife and its permitted in Islam and not a crime in Nigeria.

Now tell me the whole purpose to your rants.

ThierryJay:
Jarus is even already catching cruise on Twitter while people are worried or killing themselves over his matter here.

On to the next one pls.

hyzich:
Egbon screw up tbh, he is someone I really respect and I do take his advices seriously

jeromestarks:
All women have utmost respect for the man who disvirgined them.
They won't try to hurt him unless he broke their heart.

7upnigeria:
Solomon is in a class of his own.

Divoc19:
When the virgin born one child, go find another virgin

Moroccoguy:
Make them go eat from unlawful beans.

hyzich:
Oga jarus used to be very popular in politics, education and career. He’s not been active of recent tho

psucc:
A very strong power is behind this man's audacity. He can't dare within his own powers. Someone somewhere is doing something to burn down Kano.

MhisterJay:
At least, 22 people were k!lled?

Na wa oo!

Snowx:
Point

But I still maintain that a woman that have not tasted many dicks will never see some big ones and start craving for that

A virgin "without slutty mind" as you stated is scarce nowadays and when a "good man" find that he find a good woman In this generation of sex freak

Iamblessed85:
I observed this when i go to shopping malls and public places. You see a pretty and happy wife with good looking kids. You would expect the husband to be happy too but you would see him wearing a forlorn look without acknowledging the wife or kids except to periodically scold the kids when they are playing too much.

Why is it that the men never look happy?

advanceDNA:
Who is this lunatic in my mention ....you pple come to nairaland dragging age, ko proper naaa..and the sad part is...u cannot read to get context....anyone that makes comment different from yours is a kid to you pple..

.go to cemetery please....ur age mates are there with plenty years of experience ....