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RomanceRe: Help Please. I Am About Canceling My Marriage Arrangements With My Baby Mama. by dontammy(op): 3:24am On May 27, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:
You say you come from a polygamous home but you say you aren’t faithful and she was ok with that. You caused your own problem and made her insecure. As you cheat I just want you to keep in mind there’s a high chance one of the girls you cheat with will become pregnant. Your children will be the one to suffer the consequences of your selfish actions. So many children suffer for the decisions their fathers made to have children with many women. And then you say no insults, it’s because you know what you were doing/did is wrong. I have no sympathy for men like you. You need to pray for deliverance. You really need to hope you don’t come across a woman that prays.

You spoil and hurt your own woman and other women because of a lack of self control. One thing I can tell you is don’t cause your own misfortune in life. If some women cry on your behalf God listens. I don’t know why people think they can hurt people and go back to business as usual. Have you ever thought of why you have difficulty keeping a job and so many events of misfortune? Brothers and Sisters don’t ever forget all decisions and actions have consequences. Be careful how you treat people
I never had a problem keeping my job. I resigned from my job to keep my family together. So as to keep myself away from cheating on her.
RomanceRe: Help Please. I Am About Canceling My Marriage Arrangements With My Baby Mama. by dontammy(op): 2:56am On May 27, 2020
majamajic:
Try get a job first , give her some time in the kitchen too or u can equally do the cooking together if she is that bad

I see no serious issues here , just continue keeping your cool and get a job first , but if u see it can't work , better u leave with your life intact , cos na u wear the shoe , we just dey try advice u from the story u told us . But if u can just try harder to make things work out for you and your family , get a job . Sometimes money is important in marriage !
Thank you.
RomanceRe: Help Please. I Am About Canceling My Marriage Arrangements With My Baby Mama. by dontammy(op): 2:51am On May 27, 2020
We sold the car to pay some bills. I still love her and don't want to leave her. But she keeps asking me to leave. And yes I get irritated over every little thing just because I don't have money. But yet I don't let it show. I really really love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her. This is the second time I have had to quit my job because of her. First was my DJ job. Now this. Just to make her feel safe that I can do anything to make her happy.
yomi007k:
wink
No insults intended.

Your past is haunting you. TRUST is very important in business, family, friendship etc. You didn't build trust during the years.
People have been in long distance relationships for years and get to see once or twice a year and they still love each other because they didnt compromise trust along the way.

Secondly, you have finance issues and this is directly propertional to the happiness of most men. If u don't have money, many things will easily irritate you.
RomanceRe: Help Please. I Am About Canceling My Marriage Arrangements With My Baby Mama. by dontammy(op): 2:44am On May 27, 2020
Honestly Bro, I don't really nag. I don't talk. I am always on the calm end. I have tried several times to have a dialog with her. But it ends up being a fight. She talk really fast and I can't keep up without getting upset. And then I will end the conversation and just walk away. I don't know what to do anymore.
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Well, I see you both have issues that could be resolved if only both of you stopped shouting and had a real dialogue.

Both of you have made sacrifices that seemed to have proved your love for one another, and this is what you seem to hold on to.

But if you do not work out your shortcomings, both of you, you—your unfaithfulness and her—her nagging, your sacrifices would soon be forgotten and your child will bear the brunt of it.

So just try to have a real heart to heart.
RomanceRe: Help Please. I Am About Canceling My Marriage Arrangements With My Baby Mama. by dontammy(op): 2:39am On May 27, 2020
Bro there is no kind of assurance that I have not given to her. Just recently, I paid for her hair without her knowledge. She was just called to the salon to make her hair. Before she left I still gave her some money to pay for the attachments that will be used as she requested. Only for her to get there and they told her that I have already paid. I still let her know that she is the only woman I would rather spend the rest of my life with. I will try to see a marriage counselor.

Thank you.
Olakunleyakub:
This has not gotten to the issue of break up nah..I think your wife loves you for whom you are even without enough moneybut feeling insecure right? My brother you got not problem. What you need to do is to take her and the son out for a treat den use the medium to reassure her that she and her son is your priority and everything you have.
2. Be more prayer
3. Avoid cooking if it will continue causing disagreement between you both
4. Seek for an an advice from a marriage and counselling expert
5. Report her to sum1 she always owe in high regard to talk to her.
Best of luck in ur marriage.
RomanceHelp Please. I Am About Canceling My Marriage Arrangements With My Baby Mama. by dontammy(op): 2:25am On May 27, 2020
Good morning Nairalanders, my story is quite long. But please bear with me.

I met my Baby mama Late 2015 via social media (Badoo). We had a great relationship dating. It's almost like we are made for each other. Fast forward a couple of months I felt like I have found my missing rib. I popped the question January 2016 and she said YES. I had plans to settle down before the end of 2016.

I lost my job few months into 2016 and things fell really apart for me. I could not carry-on with the marriage like I planned. Towards the end of 2016 she concluded a business that raised her around 450k. Because of how things were so difficult, she gave me the money to buy a car so I can use it for taxi. I did so. We were managing good. She got pregnant and gave birth to my son in 2017.

Fast forward 2019 I got a job as an assistant manager at a hotel. Thats when we started having issues. Because I had to move out to my place of work in another state.

Honestly I have never been the faithful type of guy. But I have never let that change my feelings for her. Because I really love her.

She knows that I am not really faithful but She had never really felt insecure since we were always together. But when I moved out it became one problem after another. I started making arrangements for the wedding with the little money I have been able to save. At least to get the traditional marriage done. The wedding was supposed to be in November 2019. September 2019 she had an accident. I spent every single dime I had to pay the hospital bills. I even borrowed money. Thanks be to God she is fine today.

So at the end of 2019 I resigned from the job and moved back to the house, so peace would reign and to avoid all the insecurities.

Currently I am job hunting, but yet she has gotten worse. When I go out to make contacts she accuses me of going out with women. I am the kind of guy who has hot temper and she has hot temper too. Many times when complains and scream down the house, I don't say anything because that is how I have trained myself to control my temper. Because if I respond to everything she says I will definitely end up beating her. So I keep quite.

I have always been the one cooking our meals because I am a very good cook. And she loves my cooking. Now she nags about me cooking my meals when she is at home.

I am seriously considering to opt out. But I am considering our son. I came from a polygamous family. She too is from a polygamous home. I am trying hard to make sure that we break that bond. But she is pushing me to quit. She keeps telling me that if I am tired of the relationship, I should let her know and walk away.

Please advise me, how should I handle this situation. I am on the verge of giving up. My son is kinda the only thing keeping us together.

No insults please.
Thank you.
Technology MarketRe: Post Your Scrap/dead/faulty Phones For Sale Here by dontammy: 7:10pm On May 23, 2020
Note 5 screen, is it used or new one. I need it. Am in Port Harcourt.
yeman1:
my new whatsapp,, 08134411880
HealthCOVID-19: Grand MA Is Complains Over The Use Of Alcohol Based Sanitizer by dontammy(op): 3:32pm On May 20, 2020
I went to see my grandmother and she was complaining about the Corona virus pandemic and the use of alcohol based sanitizer. She said that her hands catch fire after she applies sanitizer and go to the kitchen. She is speaking Igbo. Some of us may not understand what she is saying. Only the Igbos will understand her.

Watch the video below.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzfXxNNtLTA
PoliticsRivers State Declare PDP Youth Leader Wanted by dontammy(op): 12:30pm On May 10, 2020
PDP Youth Leader wanted over alleged criminal activities

By NAN


The Rivers government, on Sunday, declared Mr Princewill Osaroejiji, the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Youth Leader in Eleme Local Government area wanted.

This was contained in a statement issued in Port Harcourt by Mr Paulinus Nsirim, the state Commissioner for Information and Communications.

The statement said that Osaroejiji was declared by the state government over his alleged involvement in criminal activities.

It said that N5 million would be given to anyone who provided reliable information that would lead to Osaroejiji’s arrest.

PoliticsCOVID-19: No Nigerian Is Hungry, We Have Disbursed 100 Billion To Poor Nigerians by dontammy(op): 7:47pm On Apr 05, 2020
The minister of information in the federal republic of Nigeria , Lai Mohammed has responded to Nigerians complaining of hunger in Facebook, tweeter , Instagram , television stations and radio stations due to the Lockdown that , the federal government has disbursed over 100 billion Naira to poor Nigerians and vulnerable persons affected by the Lock down all over the country .

He further stressed that , most poor people all over the country have received the money .

However , Nigerians have been calling federal government of Nigeria in social media , radio , television station over failure provide food , electricity , for them in the midst of Lockdown to prevent the spread of coronavirus disease.

I can see only Notherners there. If you are in the East and South and West, indicate if you have received your own.

For me I am in Port Harcourt, I have not received my own.

RomanceRe: Vacancy closed by dontammy: 4:18pm On Apr 03, 2020
Actually no need to go private. Please I am in need of financial assistance. Any amount will be of great help.

0030012544
Access Bank
Dakoru Abel Tamunoemi

Please.
Thank you and God bless you.
topsquino:
If you have something important to notify me, I suggest you should contact me via email.

My IG inbox has been flooded with hundreds of irrelevant messages.
RomanceRe: Vacancy closed by dontammy: 4:16pm On Apr 03, 2020
Okay. I don't have your email address. How can I do that?
topsquino:
If you have something important to notify me, I suggest you should contact me via email.

My IG inbox has been flooded with hundreds of irrelevant messages.
RomanceRe: Vacancy closed by dontammy: 4:12pm On Apr 03, 2020
My message has been in your inbox on IG for quite some time now. And you are not reading or replying. Please check it out. Thank you. And God bless you
topsquino:
Don't worry.

By first week of May, I would have completed all my pending projects and I will have time to employ loyal, dedicated people who are result-driven and task-oriented
BusinessRe: Imagine What Sterling Bank Sent Me by dontammy(op): 4:26pm On Mar 27, 2020
helinues:
What's the email address of the sender?

Let's start from there to know if it's real or not

BusinessRe: Imagine What Sterling Bank Sent Me by dontammy(op): 4:19pm On Mar 27, 2020
I have been waiting for when they will send me my own share of the donations being made, since they asked us to stay at home. They want me to give them the little money I will use to manage myself.
dontammy:
Dear Abel,

 

We trust that this meets you and your loved ones in good health.

 

At Sterling Bank, we have been thinking about more ways to support the fight against the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic. As a result, we have joined the newly formed Nigerian Private Sector Coalition Against COVID-19 to help channel our resources to combat the virus.

 

We and our partners in the Bankers’ Committee are leading the effort to raise money towards the N120bn required by the government to fight the pandemic. To help achieve our shared goal of eradicating the virus, Sterling Bank will be contributing Two Hundred and Fifty Million Naira (N250,000,000) as part of our commitment to the coalition.

 

While this will go a long way, more still needs to be done. We have come to acknowledge that this battle will require every one of us to play our part as corporate citizens and individuals -This is where we call on your support.

 

We would like you to join us in the fight against COVID-19, by making a contribution to the Fight COVID-19 Fund (FCF) to help us all defeat this pandemic for good.

 

Every Naira donated will go a long way in saving the country we call home. Please make your donations to:

 

Bank Name:              Sterling Bank

Account Name:          COVID Donations

Account Number:       0076813615

 

Now more than ever, a Swahili proverb I once heard rings true; its translation in English says “Unity is strength, division is weakness.”

 

Let us show our strength in uniting against this virus.

 

 

 

Yours sincerely,

 

Abubakar Suleiman

Chief Executive Officer
BusinessImagine What Sterling Bank Sent Me by dontammy(op): 4:17pm On Mar 27, 2020
Dear Abel,

 

We trust that this meets you and your loved ones in good health.

 

At Sterling Bank, we have been thinking about more ways to support the fight against the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic. As a result, we have joined the newly formed Nigerian Private Sector Coalition Against COVID-19 to help channel our resources to combat the virus.

 

We and our partners in the Bankers’ Committee are leading the effort to raise money towards the N120bn required by the government to fight the pandemic. To help achieve our shared goal of eradicating the virus, Sterling Bank will be contributing Two Hundred and Fifty Million Naira (N250,000,000) as part of our commitment to the coalition.

 

While this will go a long way, more still needs to be done. We have come to acknowledge that this battle will require every one of us to play our part as corporate citizens and individuals -This is where we call on your support.

 

We would like you to join us in the fight against COVID-19, by making a contribution to the Fight COVID-19 Fund (FCF) to help us all defeat this pandemic for good.

 

Every Naira donated will go a long way in saving the country we call home. Please make your donations to:

 

Bank Name:              Sterling Bank

Account Name:          COVID Donations

Account Number:       0076813615

 

Now more than ever, a Swahili proverb I once heard rings true; its translation in English says “Unity is strength, division is weakness.”

 

Let us show our strength in uniting against this virus.

 

 

 

Yours sincerely,

 

Abubakar Suleiman

Chief Executive Officer

PhonesRe: SIM Verification Exposes One Person With 57 Registered Sim Cards In One Network by dontammy: 6:35am On Feb 14, 2020
At one time Airtel made me register 2 new sim cards every time I do a welcome back on my sim. I have over 19 Airtel sim cards. So if they see that in my name, will I be arrested and investigated?
Talking about linking sims to national ID. I registered for national ID since 2015, and till date I am yet to receive my permanent ID. I am still using the laminated one. I have reprinted it like 3 times at 1000 naira every time.

This guy's are just not serious. Let them just be wasting our money.
FamilyI Found This Cheque On My Way Back From Church by dontammy(op): 10:35am On Feb 09, 2020
Brothers in the house. I found this cheque on my way back from church. No name on it. No date. Please how can I know the owner of the cheque to return it?

PoliticsPDP Goes Spiritual To Restore Ihedioha’s Mandate by dontammy(op): 4:21pm On Feb 08, 2020
The Imo State chapter of the Peoples Democratic Party Saturday declared a one week fast and prayers to restore the mandate of the deposed governor of the state, Mr Emeka Ihedioha.

The party stated that the spiritual exercise would commence on Sunday, February 9 and terminates on Sunday, February 16, 2020.

In a statement signed by the party’s State Secretary, Nze Ray Emeana, on Saturday, the party stated that “during this period, all ward excos should request for Mass in their local churches and assemble at LGA party secretariats daily at noon for prayers and breaking of fast.

“Prayer point is asking God to intervene and restore the victory of Emeka Ihedioha as the duly elected governor of Imo State.

“We enjoin the Imo people to remain peaceful and prayerful as we await judgment on the review filed by the winner of the governorship election, Hon. Emeka Ihedioha at the Supreme Court.”

The statement also instructed the party members in the state to dress in black during the spiritual exercise.

Meanwhile, Governor Hope Uzodinma, who was declared the winner of the 2019 governorship election by a Supreme Court judgment in January 2020, is presently attending an African Union event in Ethiopia with the President, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.).
BusinessRe: Mohammed Nami: Tax Administrators Should Tax Traders, Artisans, Others by dontammy(op): 6:57pm On Feb 07, 2020
Have you paid your tax for the day old chicks ? Even the eggs you will pay tax
Horbar1:
This is what you get when you asked for "CHANGE" and you don't specify the type.



Meanwhile we sell quality day old chicks from reputable hatcheries across the country at good price.


We deliver nationwide.
PoliticsUS Speaker, Pelosi, Atiku Frown At Trump’s Travel Ban Placed On Nigerians by dontammy(op): 6:36pm On Feb 07, 2020
Nancy Pelosi, the Speaker of the House of Representatives for the United States, and former Presidential Candidate,  Peoples’ Democratic Party, Atiku Abubakar have frowned at the travel ban placed on Nigerian citizens by the US government.

Pelosi condemned the decision made by President Donald Trump to include Nigeria, Eritrea, Sudan, Tanzania, Kyrgyzstan, and Myanmar on the travel ban list.  According to her, such list contravenes the American values and poses threat to the US’ security as well as the rule of law in the US.

She reacted to the travel ban list, through her Twitter handle, stating that, “The Trump Admin’s expansion of its un-American travel ban is a threat to our security, our values and the

Nancy Pelosi, the Speaker of the House of Representatives for the United States, and former Presidential Candidate,  Peoples’ Democratic Party, Atiku Abubakar have frowned at the travel ban placed on Nigerian citizens by the US government.

Pelosi condemned the decision made by President Donald Trump to include Nigeria, Eritrea, Sudan, Tanzania, Kyrgyzstan, and Myanmar on the travel ban list.  According to her, such list contravenes the American values and poses threat to the US’ security as well as the rule of law in the US.

She reacted to the travel ban list, which Nairametrics had earlier reported, through her Twitter handle, stating that, “The Trump Admin’s expansion of its un-American travel ban is a threat to our security, our values and the rule of law.

“Barring more than 350 million people from predominantly African countries from travelling to the US, this rule is discrimination disguised as policy.”

Pelosi to move against ban list: Pelosi, who is a member of the Democrats Party (opposition party to Trump’s Republican party), said the House would move against the ban list, which has been termed as religious discrimination because it targets countries with large Muslim population.

In her tweet, Pelosi stated that, “In the coming weeks, the House will bring the NO BAN Act to the Floor to prohibit religious discrimination in our immigration system and limit the President’s ability to impose such biased and bigoted restrictions.”

BusinessMohammed Nami: Tax Administrators Should Tax Traders, Artisans, Others by dontammy(op): 5:26pm On Feb 07, 2020
The Executive Chairman of the Federal Inland Revenue Service (FIRS), Mohammed Nami, has said that tax administrators need to tax street traders, artisans and other jobs in the informal sector of the economy but politicians are frustrating the effort.

According to Nami, taxing the informal sector promotes good governance and political accountability, ensuring the informal sector has the right to request for certain services as demanded by the formal sector, which is being taxed.

“Taxing the informal sector may also be a way of promoting good governance and political accountability of the State because tax strengthens the social contract between the citizens and the government. Thus, informal businesses that contribute to tax revenues are likely to assert their rights to receive certain services from government thereby ensuring accountability,” Nami said.

The informal sector is not taxed in Nigeria. Individuals and businesses in the informal sector also known as an underground sector do not declare their income and pay no taxes on them because it is not considered as normal income sources. The sector is mostly filled with the lower class of society.

But the FIRS boss is trying to change that in a bid to expand the government’s revenue base. Nami disclosed this during the ninth Country Correspondents meeting and African Tax Administration Forum (ATAF’s) Experts meeting on taxation of the informal sector in Abuja.

His statement came at a time President Muhammadu Buhari’s administration is trying to create more revenue sources to find a solution to Nigeria’s dwindling revenue. Finance Minister Zainab Ahmed had stated that Nigeria has a revenue problem, so in Nami’s view, taxing the informal sector will be a boost to the revenue mobilisation of African countries.

Why are Politicians against it? According to Nami, the fear of losing votes is causing politicians to thwart the tax administrator’s intention to tax the informal sector. He said politicians have promised the people in the informal sector of protection from taxes in order to be elected.

Nami said, “Taxing the informal sector is viewed as politically unpopular and politicians are unwilling to risk losing the high number of votes represented in the sector. This is because politicians promise informal workers protection from taxation in exchange for their votes.”

He added that these businesses “also operate on a cash basis and maintain poor or no accounting records. Most of the businesses in the sector are also small and fragmented making it inefficient for the revenue administrations to enforce compliance.”
https://nairametrics.com/2020/02/06/firs-boss-wants-to-tax-street-traders-artisans-other-informal-jobs

Car TalkSell Your Car Here. Port Harcourt Only by dontammy(op): 9:02am On Feb 06, 2020
If you have a car to sell or to give out on hire purchase. Post it here. Let's help each other.

I have a Honda accord 2000 for sale.
It needs some body work and maintenance on the gearbox.

Contact me for pictures and price
Car TalkRe: I Need A Used Car In Port Harcourt hire purchase by dontammy(op): 7:55pm On Feb 05, 2020
The number is not connecting
dontammy:
Is the person in Port Harcourt?
Car TalkRe: I Need A Used Car In Port Harcourt hire purchase by dontammy(op): 5:06pm On Feb 05, 2020
Is the person in Port Harcourt?
mgdimagaladima:
+234 807 682 3572 contact this number

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