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icedbeatz:
so by ur definition a God fearing man is one whose 2nd piority after God is to be pleasing his wife? His 2nd piority after God? GTFOH

And what should be is second priority?






GTFOHT...

tosyne2much:
So what do you really want in a man that the OP failed to list?


Oyah say the truth ooooo, remember no liar will be pardoned into heaven

Lemme help Monalisa create the rest of the list...

My Man must be...
9. God fearing
10. Handsome
13. Intelligent
14. Smart
15. Great in ACTION
16. Rich
17. Must not be slefish
18. Must love my familyjavascript:void(0);
19. Must eat my food alone
20. Must kiss me alone
21. Must feed me when am sick
22. Must back me when my feet aches
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Just to mention but few!

Monalisa185:
confusionista

#endOfDiscussion

tosyne2much:
Wonderful write-up brother donTbone



But there's something missing in that list oooo.. I wish I could add it

Oya post lemme help you to add it...

Then you can share

Thanks in anticipation!

Monalisa185:
ahhhhann...guess twas a rhetorical question....

That one sef get answer...



The answer will simply be Rhetorical.

Monalisa185:
the question was self explanatory na... like when did you become a woman?

ok...

There isnt answer to the qustion thou!

Monalisa185:
uon gerrit abi?

Oya xplain berra!

A note of advice to the husby will do.


Better still, involve an intelligent elder!

DonUjay:
.and what's responsible about sex if I may ask

You need to see the Look on People's faces and the kind of sounds they make when Fvckin (especially when cumin) to know that sex is 5 minutes of madness and there's nothing responsible about it

Funny enough!
Sex is that any minutes madness everyone is willing to undergo
Take it or leave it, you will like that madness too when the time
comes. Even me!




Especially if you have someone to take you to cloud nine

QueenValerie:
No laying down ground rules isn't dictating,but he'd have ones he had to follow too right? Take it or leave it -I'd leave it op but okay yes not every lady mindsthis from her man,but he'd have a hard time with me

Why are you being stubborn!
Just take it and enjoy your husband!

QueenValerie:
Yes,I saw you said in a caring way but what you named as caring isn't.Dictating what she can wear,go,do,and do it with,is gonna irritate her(well it would me)They'd have to decided on these things together,he can't be issuing demands,and command she meet them.Does he want the relationship to last. But op your other points where good.

Hmmmmm.... thanks anyways.
But the real truth is... Women need a dictator,
not all the time.but sometimes.



You know the level at which you guys can be naughty!

QueenValerie:
Yes,I saw you said in a caring way but what you named as caring isn't.Dictating what she can wear,go,do,and do it with,is gonna irritate her(well it would me)They'd have to decided on these things together,he can't be issuing demands,and command she meet them.Does he want the relationship to last.

In relationship... i might say no.
Its all by decision. But some dont need the 2 parties to decide.
take it or leave it!




But: giving her options of what isnt ideal isnt dictating.
Just as she wouldnt want me coming home late at nyt,
drunk... i wouldnt want somethings too!

Decker:
I asked you a question. You didn't answer it. How does responsibility have anything to do with someone's sexual orientation? That's the question I asked.

You know, I hate arguing with people who don't even have an idea what they are arguing about. So, I am not even going to reply you again.

Good day.

Answer to question: because no matter what the sexual orientation is,
a responsible man will be on the look out for the health of his wife
and his own.

IS your question answered?

agarawu23:
Only if you are a learner
Google is our friend bro
You focus on anal and free the pvssy.
Virgin ladies will allow you fvck their ass and free their hymen
That's the logic.

I haven't tried it tho

Learner you say? ok.


You avnt tried it but will try it soon i guess...

QueenValerie:
#2 has errors,
***/He's in control?
No this is not a dictarorship,being her man.
***/You want to put the fear of how you're gonna punish in her?
that's not something you wanna do.
You want here afriad of you,you want her scared to come to you when she messes up?
You want her to be truthful with you,you need to make her feel she can be and not fearful of your rath.
***/If she misbehaves your gonna punish her,are you her Daddy?
Ya'll need to work through issues like 2 mature adults.

I quote my self again...

[b]She really wanna see the hard and angry part of you in a CARING WAY

If he wont act like the dad, then why marry her.
Afterall, dad is always looking out to her, scold her for doing bad then beg her
to show love.


Diff in the scolding is not beating.
Hope i made a lil sense there?

Estharfabian:
You Missed some Crucial Points...

Like

agarawu23:
[s][/s]
The "responsible" men are the real Chairmen in stuffs like this .

I know your type!




Type that wouldnt see anything wrong in doing NOSE HOLE if possible

Decker:
What's your definition of a responsible man?
And how does responsibility have any thing to do with someone's sexual orientation, especially when he is having the sex with his girl or wife?

Question is... did you know anal can cause viral infection to the viginal?
If NO: end of discussion
If YES: then why do it?

Give her 1year and 3months...


Come back to this thread. I promise you, she will be in a relationship with another
person.

#soft

A responsible man wouldnt wana do that!

bqlekan:
don't you understand my brother, they want you to be a superhuman, more like Jesus (PBUH), whether you predict or not, you can't satisfy them

Yes... we cant satisfy them... that is why we are created for each other...
Thats is why we are human....


But i'd say... in the midst of un-satisfaction in women, their husband is still the best thing they have(not in all cases though)

Reserved

Decker:
You know there is a big difference between a Christian and a God fearing man. How do you tell if a man is God fearing?

A God fearing man: 1st priority is to do things pleasing to God.
Second priority is to do the same to his wife.

HateU2:
Oh! Granny?
Olden days stuff
You can never understand women.

In as much as women are more complicated than men, they can be understood.
Having the mentality of "i cant understand a woman" will be risky in marriage.

Did you know that some women conclude that you know what they want without
telling you...which shouldnt be. Getting to know what they are matters a lot

bqlekan:
Like you know what your girlfriend/fiancee wants..

If i meet her already... i could predict what she wants!

Mind you, we cant be right at all times!

Suigeneris93:
If it comes first, u should have stated it. BTW how did you come abt these eight qualities 'every' lady wants in a future husband when you aren't even a woman. IMO a lady would have done a better job but that's just me, nice work anyways

Thanks for the observation and question.

Reason is: i have more female friends than male. Most people say ama player(whatever that means)
I find it comfortable relating with them...mostly on issues of love, sex, relationships and the likes(if she wont be shy to discuss)
So, thats why i came up with the article.

Plus, most men knows what women dont know about them(am one of those men)


Most adult women cant even predict or calculate when their cycle will come!
To some extent, i can!

Really appreciate you for the feedback!

Diddyydiva:
Right on point op.



No more , no less

Thanks dearie!

HateU2:
Op, who told you

You wanna dispute my points?

My granny told me!

Suigeneris93:
I can't c the most important for me- the fear of God, w/o it these qualities are useless to me

We know that comes first. God comes first in all things.

Even a call girl ready to settle down wants a God fearing man!

Monalisa185:
just remind me when you became a woman. .ehhh?

ion get it?

A woman really doesn’t want much from a man. There are really only eight things – eight qualities that she’s looking for in a life partner. Although these qualities are hard to find, they are qualities of which every man is capable. These seven things are not out of any man’s reach, yet the fact is that most lack at least one.

Now, you may like to argue that no one is perfect and therefore no one has all seven of these qualities, but that’s just not true. There are plenty of men out there who are sufficient in each of these categories, not perfectly, but sufficient enough to make a woman incredibly happy. That’s all that matters!

1. Honesty – but not too much of it.
A woman doesn’t want a man to lie to her about important matters. She wants to be an important part of his life – the most important part, in fact. She wants to know the things that are going on his life and she wants him to have trust in her. As far as she is concerned, they are one – his life is her life.

She wants him to want to share in his pleasant experiences and memories. She also doesn’t want him to feel that he has to lie. On the other hand, she doesn’t want the truth in all circumstances. Brutal honesty isn’t wanted.

If she asks, she looks great, she looks beautiful, the fact she gained 15 pounds doesn’t bother you, her new haircut makes her look even cuter. Now that I think about it, the only thing you should really lie is about such shallow matters as appearances. We all look like sh*t sometimes – but she doesn’t need to hear you say it.

2. Be strict with her at times. She needs to know you are in control not her.
When it comes to choice making for her, she realy want you to be strict. I mean you cant just allow her to go anywhere, wear anything, walk with anybody or do anyhow. Many women have even taken some men's gentleness for granted.

She really wanna see the hard and angry part of you in a caring way. With that, she can feel secure of not misbehaving while you are away. Leaving her with the fear of her knowing what you will do wen she misbehaves is enough.

3. Understanding – so that she doesn’t feel the need to have to explain herself.
She wants you to know her – inside and out. Why? Because only then will you love her for her. We all sometimes need confirmation that we’re worth loving. The real us – not the people others perceive us to be. We may not all need such a confirmation of our value, but we all want it. But it’s more than just that.

Having someone understand you is having someone completely know you for the person that you really are. There’s no confusion, there’s no misunderstanding or misconception. They know you for you and because they know you for the person you really are, you, in a sense, exist outside of yourself. As long as they live on, so do you.

4. Caring – she needs to know she matters to you.
To be cared for means not to be alone in this life. Most people are forced to care for themselves and the truth is that it’s a lot more difficult than people let on. As human beings, we aren’t always in the right mindset to care for ourselves. To top it off, that’s usually exactly when we need the most caring – when we aren’t mentally or physically capable of doing it ourselves.

She wants you to be there for her when she needs someone, to be there to share her burden. I know it sounds ridiculous, but she wants you to make her life a little easier. Craziness – I know. On the upside, she’ll be there for you when no one else will.

5. Strength – both mental and physical.
No woman wants a physical weakling – it’s against her nature. That doesn’t mean she won’t settle for slightly less than Herculean, but you’re a man dammit. She wants to feel that when she’s in your presence. She wants you to be intelligent and to practice self-control simply because you can.

We’re all still animals and women will always be attracted to the stronger men. She wants you to be strong not for the sake of being strong – she wants you to be strong for her. It brings her pleasure, makes her feel safe and turns her on. Do you honestly need more convincing?
No, i dont think so.

6. Compassion – shows her you’re capable of loving.
A woman doesn’t only want a man to have love only for her, but a love for life, for living things. She wants a kind man, a man whom others will look up to, appreciate and admire. She wants a good man.

She doesn’t see being good and compassionate as a weakness. And that’s because it’s not. I know lots of men are taught that to be strong you have to be hateful, spiteful and malicious. That’s very unfortunate, but it’s simply the world we live in. She doesn’t need that. You don’t need that either. No one does.

7. Security – financial and literal.
You don’t need to be a millionaire. Well, for some women, you very well may need to be, but hopefully you’ll only end up with one who admires the traits required for turning oneself into a millionaire and not the money alone. Generally speaking, the right woman will love you for you, but she does need you to make her feel secure.

She wants to feel that you will protect her from physical harm. She wants to know that you’ll keep her safe, healthy and comfortable. Does she need you to keep her safe? To bring home the bread? No. But she’d like you to be capable of it – even if her salary is bigger than yours. She’ll have your back too so you can rest easier as well.

8. Blind Loyalty – she wants to be the only woman he has eyes for.
We all have big egos – men and women alike. We want to feel special. We want to feel unique and better than the rest. We’re competitive by nature and there is no getting around it. Women want a man who sees the world in her. Her and only her.

She knows she’s not the most beautiful or smartest woman in the world, but she doesn’t need to be – she’s not delusional. She just wants you to think – know – that she’s the most beautiful, best woman in the world for you.

She needs you to think she is the best thing that ever happened to you. She wants to be the best and she wants a man who will allot her that title.

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