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And how is the Charity home doing?
S.M.H!

KashyBaby:
Well if u can solve it,then It wud be easy for u to get married lol

As for me...that's very impossible

Even those that created the CALCULUS finds it hard in solving relationship and Marriage palava.
So my dear, compare not relationship and marriage to each other.

Cutehector:
bros, in most cases, if both are undergraduates, it just doesnt work out... Trust me.. Cuz both of dem still hav paths to toe... Wat if distance comes and divides dem, like nysc, or a scholarship or a job etc... Hw would dey cope... I hav experienced this so i knw wad am pointing out..

Yeah if d guy is already a graduate and d babe is an undergraduate, it will work out fine and good, cuz its gona gv d guy time to hustle well.. And her to focus more on her education.. I really wished an online relationship worked for me tho... Buh sadly it neva did..

Not disputing your point...but the conclusion cant be based on just a party!

KashyBaby:
Lol...this is very complicated for me...looking for love online is like solving a calculus

And who told you calculus is hard to solve?
You must av been a run away science student!

Cutehector:
lol my broda u wan make i remain single forefa? Ayam lookin for wife oooo... Like seriously...

Yeah if they both agreed... I think online relationships will only work wen both are matured enuf... Like d girl has graduated from school and is workin, d guy likewise.. Cux if they both in high school or university, dey only deceivn demselves.. Even still, if one of dem is in school and d oda has graduated, it will be very hard for trust to play in...the best thing is for both of dem to be real with each oda...

Well, in my own Opinion, I think if the guy is a graduate and d lady is an undergraduate, it should work out.
Depending on how far dey wanna go.
From my point of view, even if the 2 are undergraduate, it should still work out...That's where trust and believe comes in.
And as you have said, which is the most important thing...they should be real to each other!

KashyBaby:
I rest my case here... *chuckle*

Better make you wake that case up now!

Cutehector:
Welll u can only find tru love online wen the person u r tryna hav a rship with is a consistent person..


He or she doesnt flirt online.... Like me i flirt online so faling in love with me is danger .. Beware of dog lmao..or it should be beware of cutehector...loool just kiddn

Nawty Hector!
I pray my sister no jam you for road
Person wey wan die jam person wey go kill am be that

But on a more serious note, I think consistency will only
play a major role if they both agreed on the same goal.

missKiffy:
list, list, list everywhere

OK Lemme add to the list

https://www.nairaland.com/1832369/8-women-christian-men-should-never-marry

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bolagabriella:
guys, what of if she was a porn star but claim to have change?

We all have our past. And if truly she has changed, it should be vivid.

Mind you, some of us has past that are worse than that of porn star!

Tallesty1:
Mine came diz way.


What are your plans for us?

#preferred

fados4sure:
Some life experience are better left un-told than to be revealed publically

But how will you feel if you see someone else pass through the same thing when you know you
could have be of help to the person

Mind you, there might be someone very close to you reading the story.
We are all learning!

DonX001:
If I suddenly find out she stabbed her last boyfriend while he was sleeping at night....

PS: Actually know a case like that.

Why will she av done that?
That's a cruel lady thou!

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Then the thread is meaningless!

fados4sure:
I call mine off. I bet you don't wana know why?

Sharing will make us learn bro.
Its gonna be nyc to share

nickkylawve:
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In short...
Amen!

If you are a Christian...Tatoo isn't meant for you!

SMH!

donholy28:
if it leaks online

Better!

donholy28:
If I see her nudes online

Seriously!
That thinking is kinda weird
What type of a lady will post her nude on web>>>
Is she mad?

prettydynamic:
I and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for two years and some months. A year of it was long distance and two months after I came back to Nigeria, he proposed. I’m a believer in dating someone for maybe 3-4 years before you decide to fully commit so you can really know the person in and out.

My boyfriend is not the type to cheat but has major anger issues – he can be petty, unforgiving and vindictive. We have done our traditional wedding and it’s about two months to the white.

I’m worried that I entered this relationship too soon because I haven’t even entered the marriage and I am scared of going in. All I do is cry and pray. Most of the time, he is so disrespectful and all I do is walk on eggshells so there is peace.

We have already been to counseling (both church and social) and it still remains the same. Please what do I do?
I need real advice, please no insults.

The Bolded, you are the only ne that knows what you want.
If you feel you can cope with the crying stuff... Then go ahead

masterchi:
lol. Will 'u' in the story be dead after divorcing her?

Don't assume me in the story ... abeg!

masterchi:
reasonable reason like? No one should ever have a reason to hide such an important thing..

Reasonable reason like... If she tell you before the wedding, you will be dead!
#2muchOfNollywood

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Before the wedding bro.

No vow has been made yet [/color]

Hmmmmmm...
But never forget to ask about her genotype and blood group.
Its highly important.

Lucialovely:
some pple don't consider it and its very bad

Lets say due to ignorance.

My last relationship, I almost made the mistake. Thinking there should
be a way out... Not until my Uncle yabbed me that I was able to apply
wisdom and common sense.

That's why I do say "Love and affection is never enough"

calddon:
when I find out that she has finally joined the end time crew on NL.

Which one is end time crew again?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Maybe you didn't understand what I said.

Now let me reiterate.

If she has a child before our wedding and AND SHE REFUSES TO LET ME KNOW about it then i'll call off the wedding.[/color]

And where will u put the for better for worse VOW?

Lucialovely:
genotype

Part of what I was actually looking for.
Once you are not an AA, you are bound to
ask the question of 'whats your genotype'
before the relationship starts.

That thing sucks but its important!