oziomatv: To Me Marriage Is Not Necessary. I'm not ready to be forced by the law to leave a house I suffered to get to a woman who will one night get fed up of my love. a man in the uniform will come knock at the door to tell me ", gentleman pick your valuable things and stay hundred meters away from this building, " then another young boy will step in to enjoy my sweat. I'm into what is called COHABITATION for years now and still enjoying it. the moment you sign that death certificate called marriage certificate you start living in fears cause you don't know what tomorrow will bring. But as I'm now if anything happens you take what belongs to you I take what belongs to me.
My brother, what exactly are u implying about leaving ur house and then a young boy comes to enjoy ur sweat? and how is marriage a death certificate? U dont even need to get married for u to live in fear. There are a lot of reasons for u to live in fear in 9ja. For instance, security reasons, fuel hike, landlord wahala, joblessness, hunger etc. Y are u so afraid of a woman? 
marriage reduces the quality of love |
The institution of marriage was deemed necessary by the Almighty God whom I hope no one would say made a mistake. For the fact that so many marriages are failing, we need to question the moral altitude of our generation, where good behaviour and decent living is for only those we call "Holy Holy". Our great grand parents held life with high regard hence their respect for the institution but our generation, where stuffs are packed into our heads by technology and the hype for liberation and freedom, marriage is seen as nothing. If its nothing, then what kind of kids do u expect to get from such nothingness? Nobody is patient anymore with anybody. If u dont like what i do, GO AWAY! No one understands what it takes to love and what commitment means anymore. If u truly love someone, why are u so afraid to spend the rest of urself with that one? |