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Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 5:57pm On Sep 09, 2023
Thanks so much...would really like to learn the heavyduty truck driving. Any recommendation or link to where I can learn? I'm based in Ibadan tho.
Procashtips:


Go and learn how to become a solar power installer
Furniture making
Premium painting
Heavy-duty truck driving
Forklift driving

These 3 are money spinning because you'll get to use these hands-on skills when you ever move abroad
Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 5:50pm On Sep 09, 2023
More of mental, but would love hands on skills to relax my head after the daily 9to5. But I really don't mind so far it is money fetching skill.
Procashtips:


What are you good at with your hands?

Are you hands on or more of a mental person?
Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 5:46pm On Sep 09, 2023
Any advice or recommendation on the skill I can sign up for?
I really appreciate your feedback, would never take it for granted
Procashtips:


If it's after work hours, set daily targets for yourself that you must accomplish every day which must be offline.

Like walking 30-1hr daily (for health)
Sightseeing
Jogging or visiting new places but they all have to be offline without you checking your phone

As for earning more money, you need to sign up for a new skill that can be learnt during the weekend.
Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 5:36pm On Sep 09, 2023
Mostly after the work hour and on full time on weekends.
Procashtips:


Not too hard but it all depends on you.
Do you gamble during the 9-5 work hours?
Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 4:28pm On Sep 09, 2023
Solid response. I believe he has learnt they are entirely different from gambling.
Procashtips:


So people who went to the university to become stock traders are gamblers?

People who went to the university to study weather forecast are gamblers?

Prophets (seers) are gamblers?

Traders who risk money to buy and sell to make money are what since gambling to you is about risking money to make money?

Is there anything you're not risking something to achieve in this life if this is your definition of gambling?

Economics graduates who use economic data and indices to forecast boom or doom for companies, businesses and even countries are gamblers?

An entrepreneur who create products with the hope that there's going to be demands for these products based on market research and forecast is a gambler?

Even you who went to bed with the speculation that you'll wake up the next day is a gambler?

Big companies (Dangote, MTN, Accessbank, JB, Dowjones etc) listing their market value shares on the stock exchange for speculators to buy and sell which in term help their company do well in the eyes of the public are also gamblers?

Everything listed above are speculations(forecast)

Life itself is all about speculation.

All the above analogies are based on your response.

I want to see you seperate these realities from forex trading/stock brokage since they're same with sport betting /baba ijebu.

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Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 4:23pm On Sep 09, 2023
I have a reason to believe I am possessed too, please pray for me!
gazilion:



Your husband is possessed with the demon of Gambling. He needs deliverance! Can I pray for him??
Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 4:21pm On Sep 09, 2023
Please how were you able to finally stop? Please help me!
gentlesmithugo:
Gambling addiction is the worst thing that can ever happen to any man.u will feel like u are trapped,with no help forth coming.dear sis I must be honest I feel ur pain.i was once a gambler though am not married.but even as a single guy,gamble did me shege.infact I stopped gambling since last year by God's grace but have not recovered yet from the financial strain it caused me.firstly,it takes a very determined man to stop gambling.if he is not determine to stop it,then u r wasting ur time trying to help him.i pray that God will send u help and I also pray ur husband quit gambling.
Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 4:16pm On Sep 09, 2023
Are you sure I am not your brother? Please all I need is help. I hate this gambling but unable to stop.
Think9ja:

The only difference between your husband and my 35yrs old brother is that my brother is not married. He has caused my mum so much pain that I fear she might just end it all. I promised to never allow any good girl fall in his trap in the name of marriage. If he brings a nice girl home, I will tell her everything I know about his gambling history to enable her make an informed decision. But if he brings one yeye thing, I will just keep quiet. At 35, he has no job, no skill, no business, no relationship, nothing nothing. This guy is a graduate since 2014 but his life has not kicked off yet due to poor choices He just wants to bet. I perfectly understand what you're going through and I will support and pray for you no matter what you decide. E no easy
Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 4:10pm On Sep 09, 2023
Yes I work,..but remotely from 9 to 5 MondaytoFriday. Work is strictly online and overwhelming but with poor pay. Zero social life, few good friends. owing so many debts which somehow got me tied to gambling in orderto pay off. But it's been 2 steps forward, 5 steps backward.

I believe I need an offline hobby or activities to replace gambling. But I need help
Procashtips:


You need tips on how to replace your gambling addiction with something else.

You need a hobby that's majorly offline.

Do you work?
Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 10:19am On Sep 09, 2023
God bless you for this wise response. I'm actually in same shoe like this woman's husband...just that I'm not married and gambling is what is delaying me from getting married. It's like I'm under bondage. Money hardly stays in my account. I'm always thinking of sportybet. And anytime I manage to win a little, I lose it all and become zero broke. I really need help. I hate gambling but it has become my addiction and I'm hating myself for it. I believe I need serious help as I'm really tired of everything.

Woman, please seek spiritual counsel for your husband, he might be under something stronger than his will. I'm talking from similar perspective.

kingviny:
Often times, we look at a problem on the surface. But if we look deeply, there could be more than meet the eye.

If he is a good man but just that he has money issues ; he has little and in a bit to make it big he is trying gambling but always loosing it, perhaps it could be that he needs spiritual help , he also need counselling and then let him search for Jeffrey Benson on YouTube and be his devoted student for 1 year since he already likes speculative endeavour. Trust me, he would be ok.

Gambling is just a means to an end, it is not an end itself. He would need to learn functional skills as well. He can go into food business, digital marketing etc.

What type of gambling is he doing? Hope not lottery o ? as that one is a no no but If it is Forex, there is money in it oo. He just need to learn from those who are doing well in it. Out of 4 things I am doing, it is Forex that is giving me the most money to run my home right now and we are talking of 6 figures expenses monthly. I have 2 kids like you too and my wife is a teacher.

I know of someone who makes at least 10m monthly trading , his wife can never say he is gambling, she would say my husband is a fund manager and is doing so well .

Please don't leave him yet, help him if not for anything but for the sake of your children who need the presence and love of the 2 of you.

I am happy that you are a good woman. You have tried to have held forth for him all this while, not many women would do that even though it is not supposed to be a big deal if it is temporary. But if there is no end in sight , then it is right to shout out for help. Taking care of kids is a big job on its own.

How is your husband's family like? Are there successful siblings there ? Is your husband a lazy man or is it that he has not found help/job?

Try and get someone you feel he would listen to to join you in this mission. I can be of help to talk with him if you wish. We need to save your home .

Most men would want to work and provide for their families, only an irresponsible ones would not .

Above all, you need God's intervention.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Name The Worst Companies To Work For In Nigeria And Give Your Reasons by Dothans(m): 7:32pm On Oct 11, 2022
DryMouth:

No vacancy at all.

People hardly ever leave BDC. You go see 60years old man here grin

Please what is BDC?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Name The Worst Companies To Work For In Nigeria And Give Your Reasons by Dothans(m): 7:05pm On Oct 11, 2022
Foodconceptsplc:


We recruit every now and then because we're expanding.

See idiot confirming the accusations. Shitty firm pretending to be good. You shall soon go the way of Tantalizer

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Family / Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Dothans(m): 1:52pm On May 03, 2022
I can understand your fear and it's a valid one, but it's not worth losing your supposedly good girlfriend over.

Try and communicate your fear to her, rub minds together and let her see reasons and come up together with an alternative that will pose less security threat to you and your family in the course of meeting her people.

But whatever you do, never travel to North by this perilous time with your family. The fact that you are abroad returnee alone is enough to get you abducted. Always remember that your safety is paramount.

Reading what people are saying about your previous threads, I also doubt your real intent. Probably you're really ready move on... just inform the girl honorably and don't waste her time.

Best wishes in whatever you decide.
Investment / Re: Digital Marketing Training Institute (dmti) (please Shine Your Face) by Dothans(m): 8:44pm On Nov 24, 2021
Infact this should be in crime section not investment as this is a criminal matter.

This bastard called Moses literally took all my savings for 2021 totaling about 700k under the guise of liberating people by raising 21st century financial giants.

He promised to pay back after every 3 days for 10 times, he also has once in a month return on investment and even 3months payment. He was paying initially until he digged deep with some new investment package around 2 months ago just to lure people in and vanish.

I fell for the trap and parted with my hard earned savings, but ever since then, this bastard called Moses alabi isama is nowhere to be found. But rumour has it that he's relocated to Canada.

I know about two pensioners who visited this guy in his office beside petals FM just to see him physically before joining the digital marketing investment scheme...but unfortunately, they have passed away after getting the shocking news of this guy's disappearance. They both used their gratuity, and this guy is aware. They came on walking stick just to meet this bastard.

Please for God sake, we need any moderator reading this to push it to front page just to enable people see this so this guy won't go ahead to scam other member of the society.

Moses Alabi isama, wherever you are, you will not end well.
Politics / Re: Sam Ewang: More Nigerians Are Dying Of Hunger Than Coronavirus by Dothans(m): 9:35am On Apr 07, 2020
I wish to help you, but I need to be convinced I'm helping the right person. So how can I know ure not just a regular beggar here?
Chinweoa:
Good morning all. Can anyone spear me 2000 I will be very grateful thanks. Let someone not die of hunger. Please God bless.
2208889917
Zenith bank

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Romance / Re: Can You Take A Bullet For Your Girlfriend? by Dothans(m): 6:28pm On Feb 27, 2020
Why not...so far it is chilled. I can even take for my ex. Chilled bullet is bae angry grin grin

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Politics / Re: Nigerians Suggest Akin Adesina Should Run For President After Pics With Trump by Dothans(m): 11:39am On Aug 27, 2019
Are we not cursed as a nation if we have someone fully presidential in all ramifications as Akin Adesina and we have Buhari as our president?

May God help us to help ourselves.
Family / Re: Lalasticlala Welcomes Cute Baby (photo) by Dothans(m): 7:26pm On Oct 31, 2018
Congrats to our own la-la... The � Snake Master
Celebrities / Re: Ks1 Malaika: My N200M House In Lekki Worth Was Revealed By My Engineer (Photos) by Dothans(m): 11:25am On May 06, 2018
ishowdotgmail:

My brother, sweeter than honey
even sweeter than honeycomb
Celebrities / Re: Ks1 Malaika: My N200M House In Lekki Worth Was Revealed By My Engineer (Photos) by Dothans(m): 11:24am On May 06, 2018
ishowdotgmail:

My brother, sweeter than honey
even sweeter than honeycomb
Celebrities / Re: Ks1 Malaika: My N200M House In Lekki Worth Was Revealed By My Engineer (Photos) by Dothans(m): 11:23am On May 06, 2018
ishowdotgmail:

My brother, sweeter than honey
Even sweeter than honeycomb grin
ishowdotgmail:

My brother, sweeter than honey
Even sweeter than honeycomb
Religion / Re: How Sexual Immoralities Actually Kills People By Sunday Akanni Moshood by Dothans(m): 9:41am On May 06, 2018
Nairaland... what a forum!
Business / Re: Earn Your First Dollar On Upwork-- I Will Guide You Through by Dothans(m): 4:29pm On Mar 29, 2018
Pls I'm very interested
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Will Pay N2000 For This Ebook by Dothans(m): 2:12pm On Jan 19, 2018
please can anyone with the book bless me with a copy too? My email is: talk2virgo@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: GMAT 2015 by Dothans(m): 11:44am On Mar 14, 2017
Pls send to me via talk2virgo@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Gtbank Rumored Job Interview In Lagos (Photos) by Dothans(m): 12:31pm On Sep 28, 2016
the originator of this poo deserves ds...for wasting peoples time, energy and money

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Investment / Re: The W I R E S Principle Of Financial Independence by Dothans(m): 9:55am On Jun 22, 2016
God bless you YoungExec for creating this thread!
Education / Re: Some Collections Of Fascinating Photos. by Dothans(m): 2:51pm On Mar 06, 2016
Wow...what an interesting thread! God bless you Explorer.
Career / Re: Having A Hard Time Finding A Job? Do Something Different. by Dothans(m): 2:47pm On Feb 29, 2016
talk2virgo@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Help! Currently In Need Of Gmat,sshl,dragnet PQ by Dothans(m): 8:30pm On Oct 11, 2015
Pls I would b grateful if it can b fwded to my mail too..talk2virgo@gmail.com

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