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...That's fvckin insane, at least he should eat out of it even if its just the meat....

I'd stopped cooking for the hubby if it'd be me

Any profession that settles the family down comfortably, pops in money and won't take him far away from home

This can never happpen na... How is she gon' put it on the guy easily? ...only if the guy agreed to put it on

All this don't matter, Its her own decision to make, whether to trust yhu or not...

Lol, a thread just to ask about the NL contest? ... Guy yhu funny o.

Or r yhu just tryna call their attention so that they will start in time?

Lol @ the guys questioning her, are yhu ladies? ....let the ladies comment na

Who told yhu most guys don't love the postion? ...hey, where did yhu come from?

Good piece

...Buh it may not last longer, yhu know?

bright007:
shoro niyen?

oya mi lenu o

I wish I cn help

Nothing is more pleasurable than sex

That No 11 tho...

I can do all for a lady. Buh to cook for her? Mehn, nefa!

Mbediogu:
When she is in sublime mood such as in place of worship or at funeral of a loved one.

yhu r right

Looks lik 2 men are under the covering cloth...

Lala247:
Lol go back n read what u sent me ... Now look at outcome lol nvm

U wont get it ..

lol... I get, buh its nt wat u tink anyway.

Btw, how many approach do yhu get per week?

Trustme2:
Thank you jor for voicing out. The Op wan spoil una prayer and opportunity to get married this year Lol

lmaoooooooooo

gmyguy:
Hmmn.. But those ladies who stand by the road on Adeola Hopewell at night are very friendly...They even call you sweetheart and such nice names...Just always in a hurry when i drive past...Is that an exception to your assumption?!!

No! ... Atleast they make the first move

Lala247:
guess u owe me an apology

... Apology on what?

Lala247:
Dont blame him. Lol his learning

lol

ronald4lif:
Apart from club, people host most events at night. Birthdays, graduation etc. So bobo no go collect digits again coz day don dark. Dotwillis have no idea mehn.

lol, ofcourse I indicated that except in social places na....

How me sef go attend birthday party wey I no go collect digit?

Buh a girl walking alone down the road at night, won't even give yhu an audience if yhu try to approach her

ronald4lif:
Abeg forget that OP list for now jare.

So if men no chyke babes at night who for dey go club

Abi clubbing na just to dance and drink abi

lol ... Yhu don't noticed the enclosed statement in the point heading yhu referred to?

tolextony:
Good.. But why wasting time learning where and when to approach a lady when you easily develop you life to a level where ladies will be approaching you 247

yhu damn right man

vjsmiles:
[size=14pt] when she is phvcking seeing her menses... [/size]

lmaooo

Lala247:
You see marie has spoken

Op ur list is officially void shame tho it was on its way to Fp but .. Ur miss leading ppl
U want everyone to b single like u

Where is lalasticlala self aint seen him in today , what mod is o duty?

I expect this to be controversial ofcourse... Just drop your own opinion

Pls

marieolae:
If you follow these rules, you might miss that golden opportunity.
Please don't follow this list!

lol, hmm

[quote author=vjsmiles post=32885555][/quote]space booker

discoprophet:
Op, Are u indirectly saying that guys should never approach ladies?

lol No

... A lot!

As important as it is to be willing to approach women you don’t know, it’s important to know when you shouldn’t be approaching them. As nerve-wracking as it might be for you to approach women, it can be an even more tense situation for the women being approached. Almost every woman out there has a story about being harassed by guys who wanted to “just say hello” and who thought that their desire to introduce themselves overrode her right to be left alone.

So unless she is giving you very explicit indications that she’s interested in talking to you… give her a pass. It’s better to “miss out” on
an opportunity than to end up being given a disparaging remark or get insulted.

I'm no expert in ladies affairs but I think this are some of the times you shouldn't be approaching a lady ..

At Night (except in social spaces)

The social contract changes when the sun goes down. What is tolerable – if not expected – during the day is potentially threatening at night. Asking a lady for the time or directions during the day is completely normal. The
exact same behaviors at night seem like the prelude to a mugging.

You may have nothing but the most noble of intentions, but trying to approach a lady walking along the streets at night is most likely going to make her shiver with fear and she won't feel convenient because lots of bad/wrong impressions will be running through her mind as to what is this stranger up to... She may not even grant you the audience.

When she is busy

when she’s reading, writing or working on her laptop. If she’s in a public place – a cafe, library, class what-have-you – and she’s busy, maybe on her laptop, then the odds are that she’s there because she really needed to get out of the apartment for a while. This means she’s there to work or study, not to flirt. And no, it doesn’t matter if you notice she’s updating her Facebook page instead of working on her thesis; if she was interested in talking to somebody, she wouldn’t be focusing on something else.

If you really want to ask her for her opinion maybe on a book she’s reading, then you can wait until she’s put the book down, rather than plopping yourself in the seat next to her and demanding that she pay attention to you.


At Work

For example, take anyone who works in a hotel, waitresses – especially ones at restaurants, bartenders, etc. Their job description is almost literally “Flirting. This doesn’t mean that these ladies are cockteases or are being dishonest, but a certain level of flirtiness often means a heavier tip from male customers. It’s professional flirting
without intent. But even those who aren’t overtly flirty have a vested interest in getting you to like them – it’s part of what helps bring customers
back. Unfortunately, there are plenty of people who mistake professional niceness for genuine interest and assume that the waitress or the bartender is really into them.

But beyond not mistaking niceness for interest, there’s one major complicating factor: they are at work. They’re not there to get dates or make new friends, they’re there to do their job. They literally don’t have time for prolonged flirt sessions and, frankly, most of them would like to get through their workday with minimal hassle.

On Public Transportation
Mass transit is less of a convenient place for some ladies to interact freely. Moreso, it is not a safe space for ladies and she will already have her guard up when you try to say hello. If she wants to talk to you, she’ll let you know. Let her make the first move;

Don't chat up a female pedestrian from your car

A Lady once told me its extremely frightening. No matter what time is it, you do something like that, it is sending out the message that you might drag the person into your car and drive off.


------------ sometimes yhu’ll see a very beeyootiful lady and yhu feel that pressure that says “if yhu don’t talk to her nownownow you’ll miss your opportunity and never see her again”, buh there are times when all a lady wants is to not have to deal with anyone, being respectful of her space and showing her courtesy is much more likely to make a positive impression on her than being one more headache in her daily commute.

There’s a time and place for everything.


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