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A girl who dates her friend's ex is a shameless biatch

Wow! ....I can't breath laughing

I didn't toast my first girlfriend, we were friends, both developed the feeling and ended up into love

Cool, every other Nl peeps like him too

ggrin:
abasha

lol.. Why na?

queenyjewel:
The picky lady

..buh don't be too picky o

Ugly ones get more 'stares' than the fine ones

To find an actual healthy relationship and frankly, to not end up embarrassing yourself by falling for some guy who’s just not that into you. To help you navigate the mine- filled manscape, here are some guidelines to live by:

10 commandments to keep you from embarrassing yourself-



ONE
Thou shalt not initiate communication with a guy

you aren’t absolutely sure is into you.
Unless a guy is making it crazy apparent that he’s all about you, don’t text, call or email first. In order to fall for a girl, a guy needs to feel she’s a little out of reach. Initiating communication with him before he gets to that point makes it difficult for him to fully appreciate and respect you, and become attracted to you.

TWO
Thou shalt not ask a guy (who is not your
boyfriend) where things are going

If you have to ask, he’s not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t ask him for an explanation or a roadmap — his explanation doesn’t matter and what he says he’s planning for the future
is likely bullshit. A good guy who wants to be with you will make it happen. No excuses. It’s that simple.

THREE
Thou shalt not crush on, date, sleep with, pine for, or cry over an asshole

If a guy’s treating you like an afterthought, an option, or a backup plan, he’s a shit. Move on. Don’t give him
your time, your body or any mindshare. If anything, celebrate — you dodged a bullet.

FOUR
Thou shalt not be seduced by a guy’s — or your own — bullshit.

Don’t be stupid. You know better. Be your own best friend and keep yourself honest and out of denial.

FIVE
Thou shalt not waste endless hours of your — or your girlfriends’ time — trying to determine whether some guy is into you.

Who cares whether some guy who obviously isn’t making you feel amazing is into you? Either he makes you feel good or he doesn’t. There’s nothing to
analyze or agonize over. Instead, look at his behavior and ask yourself if, given what he’s shown you, you’re
into him…

SIX
Thou shalt not behave like a needy biatch.

Your life shouldn’t revolve around what the guy you’re with is doing, thinking, wanting. If that’s happening, you need to get a life (we mean that in a nice way). Gather your girlfriends and make some
plans. Like we said, guys need to feel a little distance between you and them…. Create that distance and he’ll be needy for you.

SEVEN
Thou shalt not be the crazy girl.

That girl’s not hot — keep your shit together. And: If he brings out your crazy, he’s not the one. Sorry.

EIGHT
Thou shalt listen to your strongest self as much as possible.

Because your weaker self — the one who’s insecure and thinks you’re not good enough — should not be
running your life. There’s a better, badass voice inside you, the one that loves you and wants the best for you and that’s who you should be channeling at
all times.

NINE
Thou shalt behave like a chooser, not a beggar.

Act like a hot girl and men will respond to you like one.

TEN
Thou shalt not berate yourself for being single or obsess about the ticking of your clock.

This is your time to be all about you — don’t let fear ruin it. When you meet the guy — and you will — you’ll be so pissed you wasted the best years of your life worrying. And, think you’re old? You’re not. You’ll realize that 5 years from now when you’ll back and think, “Daaaamn, I was young and hot when I was
____.”


Are there any dating commandments you live by?
Share them!

diamond222:
Tanx I luv dis post

are you single ?

Sometimes I do wonder if we still have a lady out there who haven't been taken, because all they tell you when you approach them, is that they are engaged.
That's one of the biggest lies a lady tells.

Nevertheless, here are types of single ladies you will meet..

The career lady.

You are fiercely independent. You don’t
just have a job but a career, and no one has ever accused you of not having your shit together. You definitely want love in your life but you are like guys have weak egos that they’re usually intimidated by your success. What’s a girl to do? So, you just keep focusing on work, going on the occasional date when you can fit it in, hoping something will work out one of these days. And if not, oh well, your work is already basically the love of your life anyway.


The Cynic.

You’re not a fool. You’ve been around the block once or twice and your bullshit detection system is so tight, it could have been built by NASA. When you meet a guy, you don’t fall hard and fast —
you actually assume he’s an asshole from the beginning and make him prove he’s not — you’ve had your heart broken a few times and, damnit, you will not let it happen again.

The Picky lady.

You are the bomb so, of course, it
takes an extraordinary man to capture your attention. If he doesn’t check all the boxes on your ever-growing list, you can’t be bothered. Your friends say you’re being too selective but you disagree — you just have standards. You know what you want and you’re going to wait until he comes along.

The Serial Dater

She always gives people the
benefit of the doubt, hoping each man she meets will be better than the last, and relentlessly tries to mould men into her concept of a perfect partner. It always fails.

You want to date everyone who comes your way, and you are like confused. You like everyone. That guy who’s totally boring? At least he has a good job. That guy who’s not smart at all? At least he’s fun. Your friends think it’s weird that you don’t have a type and accuse you of not having standards but you don’t care — as
far as you’re concerned, they’re just jealous because you’re always with someone.

The relaxed girl

Sure, it would be great to be in love
but being single is pretty amazing too. While your girlfriends are obsessing about how to find their next boyfriend, you’re happy living in the moment, enjoying your freedom. After all, this is the youngest you’ll ever be and you might as well milk it for every ounce of fun.


The Desperate Chick.

Like the Serial Dater, you’ll
give anyone a shot but your reasons are different. You’re tired of dating and scared to end up alone, and trying really, really, REALLY hard to get a guy, and maybe they v not been coming your way and you will give for just anyone who does. But hey, trying too hard is an
awesome way to end up with a terrible guy.

The Fatalist.

You are done. Not done like The
Desperate Chick who’s just ready to accept anyone but DONE as in romantic comedies just straight up piss you off now because you realize what bullshit
this whole love thing is. You tried, it didn’t happen, and now you’re just going to chill in your apartment and let yourself go because why even bother? All
those people who are in love are eventually going to break up or get divorced anyway. You’re just saving
yourself the heartache.


The Mess.

You don’t know what you want. As long
as you’ve had a few drinks, you’re happy and open to anything and anyone. Sure, you often end up in compromising situations — puking in the street, waking up at some random’s house, stumbling home in a daze — but that’s what you do when you’re young, right?

The Pragmatist.

You’re all business. You’re not
looking for fireworks but for a stable life partner you can trust. And finding him is your part-time job. You believe it’s all about putting in the time and effort…
So, you’re focused and organized. you’re on all the dating sites and you go to all the right places. If you make this enough of a priority, and meet enough guys, one of them will eventually fit.


The Princess.

You have old-fashioned sensibilities and need a chivalrous guy. More than anything, you expect to be adored, taken care of and kept according to a certain lifestyle. Whether it’s sending you flowers, whisking you away for the weekend, or taking you shopping, the right guy for you will be the one who’s all about YOU.


The free lady

This is the girl who has been single for long enough to enjoy nothing more than her own company. She regularly indulges in self-deprecating activities like ordering drinks for herself, going to club at night all alone and all.



Single ladies, which of this categories do you fall into?


Feel free to add more!

damseyl:
Dotwillis1

lol, why?

Nothing wrong!

Its cute on some gurls

After all, yhu guys grabs butts whenever yhu hugging ha

Sorry, there is nathing yhu can do 'bout that tho

I'd never told this lies

Don't play hard to get, be hard to get!

Holy Jesus! ...now this just made me lose interest in butts

mirexxx:
to 12 lol
how are you?

finnne!... Hope yhu doing good?

Did she asked for yhur opinion when she took the oath?

Tell her to endure!

mirexxx:
lol i was sleeping

sleepy swthrt ....so around what time did yhu wk up?

jacksparrow1207:
You want to scam me off my had earned quids. mba!

heheheh

Mirexxx dear ..aint yhu coming to church?

FLAWLES:
.sweery dunt worry about me>will b in charge of the offering

cool

jacksparrow1207:
U don't likey?

its cool tho

Nawa o... Ladies population are more than that of men in this church

...Anyway thats how it has always been

FLAWLES:
.hope dem de give FIRST TIMER food and drinks?cuz the first time i went to REDEEM dem give me VIJU and CAKE >:|;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;oya answer mk i decide weda i go act d part of FIRST tIMEr or OFFERING sec

see her mouth

We don't give Viju here, we give the word of God

Oya go join damseyl and Chizzy20 for the praise and worship