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Evaress:
Men should respect women that choose to remain faithful to only them because everytime a lady steps out, she gets hit by up to like 10 different men and she will keep saying No to them because of One man she is trying to be faithful to. Is it easy to be chased everytime? We all know men hardly gets chased.

By respect, what exactly are you referring to, and what exactly are you expecting from the man that defines respect, in your own term?

gigabyte13:
Marrying two wives
He did exceptional well with everybody
Everybody got what they wanted and deserves.
But human greed is insatiable
They still hate and kill him for property wey no reach anybody share....
I don kukuma leave property for dem to keeeee these over.

BUT MY FATHER WAS AN ANGEL IN HUMAN BODY....
HE DID WELL EXCEPT FOR THE TWO WIVES THING

Even if he married one, the devilish woman will still strangle him. I think it is right to see devilish women as who they are without attributing it to polygamy. The ones who married only one woman still gets ruined, some with false allegations, sabotaging, etc.

Polygamy is never the issue.

Devilish women are.

Samantha125:
This is just an advise to all the single present fathers out there... Never marry a single mother who expects you to love and accept her children from a previous relationship, relationships, or even marriage while she hates yours.

Reason I'm saying this is because my uncle made that mistake, he has two children from his two previous relationships, even though the children remained under the custody of their mothers who have long moved on and got married after parting ways with him, the two children still maintained a close relationship with their father, my uncle... His wife never liked them and would literally call some family members crying about how my uncle seems to love and have more time for his biological children than hers despite him trying his best considering how her first born was already an adult while the second born was a teenager during the time they got married.

This past Saturday we laid our grandmother to rest and the children attended the funeral service and even stayed throughout the after tears party, but my uncle's wife kept giving them a cold shoulder throughout the day... Mind you, the children are now adults fending for themselves and never meddled in their father's love life... So if you're a present loving single father, never make that mistake of settling down with a single mother who detests your children.

I quoted this to draw the attention of the OP @Deeprooted and his opinion about it.

Though i understand the agenda of the thread, as one of the previous ones i recently engaged with shared the same view as yours. But my question to you is about this quoted response.

Is the woman's divisive attitudes in this marriage because of the man is in polygamous relationship? What makes her that devilish despite the fact that she also has two children with other men?

You people will be sponsored to push a terrible agenda hiding under fictional and fallacious experience.

In reality, it is not about polygamy.

If a man cannot man two women under his roof, he surely can man one woman. This is different from men who intentionally avoided not having multiple wives, not because of posts like this.

RightToReject:
Unfortunately, you haven't said anything sensible.

Oh, i can see. school na scam.

RightToReject:
That's just an unfaithful man's way of making his philandering look normal. It's akin to a woman who holds the notion that women are hypergamous in nature, which is simply a selfish/greedy woman's way of making her greed look normal.

The above points summarily show that we human beings are insatiable; we are all susceptible to the vices, but with grit, some don't yield to them.

Anything that is naturally possible is factual.

Women are nurturing, it is factual and natural. Women not wanting to be seen that way does not disclaim the fact. Because even when they do, they still cling to their children along the way.

Men are polygamous, it is natural. A single man can father multiple children with different women within a short time. It is factual and natural, not his power.

Being accountable and responsible is a personal choice. That you're responsible and accountable does not automatically stop the fact.

Zooposki:
How many totos can you fvck in a day compared to how many dicks a woman can receive in an hour? Polygamy belongs to the woman.

How many men can a woman have children for in a year, and how many women can a man have with?

Men does not make themselves to produce millions of spam daily, nature does.

Men does not make themselves to have the capacity of having millions of children, nature does.

You can talk about accountability, but you can't disclaim facts.

The question you should ask is whether it is naturally possible for a man to have multiple children with several men within a short period or not. If it is possible, then men are polygamous in nature.

I am in support for holding people accountable, but not in for twisting facts.

Being responsible is a choice, it doesn't stop the reality.

These are bunch of lu.na.tics. And one can tell they are extremist who will graduate to becoming te.rro.rists.

The Government better act against all these humiliation or allow reprisal attacks.

If the government fold their arms while shrines are being destroyed, then they should remain silent when same is done to the mosques.

They will give African countries money to build mosques and their followers will be jumping up.

Wike is cancerous.

He has dealt with PDP way too bad.

And he's got his loyalists firmly behind him to continue.

SmartPolician:
Mothers find it extremely difficult letting another woman enjoy their sons' money after they have suffered for them for decades, forgetting they were once someone else's wives 😀😀😀

Truth be told, the fight between mothers-in-law and wives will never end because mothers know that nobody can love their sons the way they do.

You might be surprised to know that it is mostly from the wife side. In many cases the man can control the situation with his family but the woman mostly use manipulation for her's.

There are so many c.r.i.m.e apologists here in the name of defending their ethnicity. When an issue that needs unanimous condemnation is raised, they become defensive. They turn it into political or an attack on them.

These are the people asking for indigeneship to be cancelled so that they can freely export c.r.i.m.i.nality. We all have to do well if we really want a better society.

jasent:
The road they are showing you is not in badagery o. The road they are taking about is half between seme to mile 2,and it's ecowas road. Don't let these people deceive you

I want to believe you live in Badagry. Otherwise this misleading comment is not doing you good.

None of the road in the images above is ECOWAS road. And for a fact, most of the roads he came to commission have been in use for over a year, and all good.

The dual lane you see in the image is from Badagry (Agbalata) market to LASU foundation – Topo Idale road.

But you forget to tell the mobs that you are trying to gain sympathy from that he didn't budget for subsidy beyond June, 2023, before handing over.
Basically, he removed it towards the end of his tenure so that the incoming president can shoulder the blame.

Mariangeles:
Because they want to look pretty, like women.
That's why most of them are always envious and hateful towards women.

I'm quite sure ediko5 and AdvancedDNA wear earrings. 🤣🤣

Isn't it disgusting for men wanting to look like women? What happen to looking good as a man without competing to look like women.

I nearly asked a guy in my site today why he has earrings on.

David Mark was a senator from 1999 until 2019. He was the senate president from 2007 until 2015.

He's from Benue and i haven't heard him condemn the heinous atrocities happening in his dear state.

He's forming a coalition to rescue Nigeria.

He's no longer part of the old crop of politicians that ruin the country as long as he's forming a coalition alongside "OUR" favourite.

I know you don't want to talk about it.

Your dad not doing what you expected of him doesn't make him evil as long as he didn't commit crime.

You writing and blaming him endlessly is who i will advice to work on yourself so as not to repeat exactly what you are blaming your dad of.

Life moves fast. If you keep on this way, it might be worse than that of your dad. You might say you are doing well, but the tone of your writing doesn't prove it.

Work on yourself.

He wrote: “It will be a waste of saliva responding to this rubbish. Amina Jambo, my friend, got Lulu Obaifo to convince me to visit Waziri, and when I did. I asked the questions and then visited Uyi Giwa Osagie. Then, he got a call from OGD while they were in Dubai, then got to Abuja, then agreed with Atiku, then met with Dane Waters, met Eta Uso, then met Yemi Hilda.”

They convince you to visit Waziri, and then this and that yenyenyen...

What was at play before they convince you to visit him? Would there be any need to convince you if there's no deliberations already in progress?

The rebuttal statement is incoherent.

Reno might not be correct either, however, this from Mr. Showumi doesn't add up in my opinion.

This is one of the issues with insecurity. Sabotaging everywhere. I always believe that those people won't always succeed unless the locals are involved.

I'm suspecting some internal influence in all these Benue crisis.

I thought they arrested him in Enugu few days ago. Was he released back to the society by bail or he already bribed them.

2027 is going to be a real game.

Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men...

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, and you know you're responsible... Take responsibilities.

Abandoning them gives rooms to what you observed.

Many new generation women are not ready to be a wife. They are mostly agitating for partnership, yet they have pretty low contribution to the union.
If a man sees much incompatibility in the woman and decided to call it off, the court might still not allow the man to take charge of the child.

Don't blame the men for not being responsible when most of the women out there are something else.

Run a quick survey online and see their true nature.

Yesterday we read about a woman who is considering divorcing her new husband on health ground, simply because she's compatible to donate an organ to him.

Let's say that man come back healthy and decide to let the woman go, you will still blame the man, right?

pocohantas:
Congratulations to her!

I commend her for this move.

Dearest Naija women, this is 2021. If you want a child, no husband forthcoming, fck societal rules and get that child.

Even if it takes stealing sperm, steal it!

After all, they always use lux soap to waste it inside bathroom. Is it that 1 drop they gave you that will kill them?

Don’t stay and be asking “did you come inside?” at 38. Or drinking postinor 2 upandan.

Children would love you in good and bad. Dirty mummy, fat mummy, stretch marks mummy, mummy is mummy.

Don’t allow hypocritical Nigerians dictate how you live your life. Especially when you are not harming anyone.



Why are you guys pained?

Shebi men don’t benefit from marriage? Oya give us small sperm na. Ntoorr!

It is much better to get the sperm from dogs rather than stealing a man's own. Don't mind the society. Abi what is the use of a man to the woman?

Iyaebe:
Shameless man that is sleeping with a married woman and cheating with another single lady.Shame has left all these men and this is somebody's future husband ooo,where are we going in this life like this? I pity the unfortunate lady that will eventually marry this shameless yahoo boy.

A P I G spotted. This must be a frustrated smello. One innocent man is probably nurturing this thing. Ew!!! Disgusting.

Grandmeister:
My family is a polygamous one. My maternal grandma agreed for her husband to marry a second wife even though she had two sons which the husband (ignorantly) thought was too few to maintain his lineage! Long story short the husband himself sent the second wife packing after her unquenching wahala. They took her back after a few years and her wahala still continued till the man have up the ghost! Today both kitchens are in the court fighting for the man's lands..again I say shut da fvck up if you have not personally experienced the bane of poligamy in a home.

Grandmeister of delusion. No vex. Jebure.

MrBrownJay1:
its called AN OPINION...and any one of these women have to the right to think the way they desire. thats what NL is here for, aka to discuss these issues openly (whether male or female, right or wrong).



thats a big assumption dont you think?!



you mean "your" reality, right?!



when you stop viewing these people online for anything else than just another somebody with an opinion, thats when you will understand that whatever anyone does online is irrelevant to your own views. there are many hypocrites out there and ones view shouldnt be a benchmark to this discussion.

Lovely response. I appreciate your submission and humility.

Grandmeister:
Any woman who agrees to become a second wife is a naturally divisive and troublesome person! There's no sugarcoating it. Knowing full well that there's a woman in the house and agreeing to share her man is only what a very quarrelsome person would have the guts to do. A second wife already prepares her mind for the worst before saying yes..the third and fourth or even 20th wives know they're just there to answer Mrs and get fed. But the one who agreed to come after the first wife is the wahala. I know this from experiences both personal and outside observations. I will rather have a baby mama than have two wives under one roof!

Grandmeister of delusion.

There are women who married another wives for their husbands. This is not heresy, go and do your research.

To burst your bubble, those women are not barren. Are they troublesome for taking another wives for their husband?
Some women encourage their husbands to take another wives. Are they troublesome too?

MrBrownJay1:
...because there is absolutely NOTHING WRONG with marrying and divorcing as many people as a woman desires.
... because a woman shouldnt care what others think of her actions, so long as she can sleep well at night.

But you probably won't see women bringing up topics to ridicule women for remarrying - divorcing even up to 10 times.
In fact they will cheer them up. But they have problems with women who legally married as second wives and remain happy.
The same "woke" ladies that call women unprintable names for becoming a second wife are the ones looking for sugar daddies. They are the ones doing kayamata here and there so that rich married men can discover them.

They generally disagree with reality and mislead people in their doom.

Not long ago a popular feminist who has always insulted women for allowing men to pay their bride price, and calling their parents disgusting names for "selling" their daughters, came from Canada to get married. And guess what, the man paid her bride price and even do a lot of spending. Of course, she dares those she has misled to do their worse.

Is that the society of wokeness that we should take seriously?

Candidlady:
what is bad in becoming a second husband

Absolutely, nothing. As long as you can have biological children for each of them within a year.

MrBrownJay1:
- desperation to stay married at all cost
- money
- she has no other option than to accept because she is jobless/pennyless etc
- because she cant take the mental/physical workload to be a wife by herself
- because two is better than one
- because she has already been brainwashed by her hubby
- because it is commonly accepted in African culture
- because she grew up in a polygamous home/family

It is normal to call ladies who legally married as second wives all kinds of unprintable names.
Do you care to tell me why a lady would marry a single man and divorce him, remarry another single man and divorce again, and still want to marry again?

Mariangeles:
Only ladies who don't value themselves agree to be second wives.

Patewo fun ara re. Clap for yourself.

Now tell us why a lady would ask married men for financial help, date married men for money etc.

Let me sit down and learn.