Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men...

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, and you know you're responsible... Take responsibilities.

Abandoning them gives rooms to what you observed.

Many new generation women are not ready to be a wife. They are mostly agitating for partnership, yet they have pretty low contribution to the union.
If a man sees much incompatibility in the woman and decided to call it off, the court might still not allow the man to take charge of the child.

Don't blame the men for not being responsible when most of the women out there are something else.

Run a quick survey online and see their true nature.

Yesterday we read about a woman who is considering divorcing her new husband on health ground, simply because she's compatible to donate an organ to him.

Let's say that man come back healthy and decide to let the woman go, you will still blame the man, right?

pocohantas:
Congratulations to her!

I commend her for this move.

Dearest Naija women, this is 2021. If you want a child, no husband forthcoming, fck societal rules and get that child.

Even if it takes stealing sperm, steal it!

After all, they always use lux soap to waste it inside bathroom. Is it that 1 drop they gave you that will kill them?

Don’t stay and be asking “did you come inside?” at 38. Or drinking postinor 2 upandan.

Children would love you in good and bad. Dirty mummy, fat mummy, stretch marks mummy, mummy is mummy.

Don’t allow hypocritical Nigerians dictate how you live your life. Especially when you are not harming anyone.



Why are you guys pained?

Shebi men don’t benefit from marriage? Oya give us small sperm na. Ntoorr!

It is much better to get the sperm from dogs rather than stealing a man's own. Don't mind the society. Abi what is the use of a man to the woman?

Iyaebe:
Shameless man that is sleeping with a married woman and cheating with another single lady.Shame has left all these men and this is somebody's future husband ooo,where are we going in this life like this? I pity the unfortunate lady that will eventually marry this shameless yahoo boy.

A P I G spotted. This must be a frustrated smello. One innocent man is probably nurturing this thing. Ew!!! Disgusting.

Grandmeister:

My family is a polygamous one. My maternal grandma agreed for her husband to marry a second wife even though she had two sons which the husband (ignorantly) thought was too few to maintain his lineage! Long story short the husband himself sent the second wife packing after her unquenching wahala. They took her back after a few years and her wahala still continued till the man have up the ghost! Today both kitchens are in the court fighting for the man's lands..again I say shut da fvck up if you have not personally experienced the bane of poligamy in a home.

Grandmeister of delusion. No vex. Jebure.

MrBrownJay1:


its called AN OPINION...and any one of these women have to the right to think the way they desire. thats what NL is here for, aka to discuss these issues openly (whether male or female, right or wrong).



thats a big assumption dont you think?!



you mean "your" reality, right?!



when you stop viewing these people online for anything else than just another somebody with an opinion, thats when you will understand that whatever anyone does online is irrelevant to your own views. there are many hypocrites out there and ones view shouldnt be a benchmark to this discussion.

Lovely response. I appreciate your submission and humility.

Grandmeister:
Any woman who agrees to become a second wife is a naturally divisive and troublesome person! There's no sugarcoating it. Knowing full well that there's a woman in the house and agreeing to share her man is only what a very quarrelsome person would have the guts to do. A second wife already prepares her mind for the worst before saying yes..the third and fourth or even 20th wives know they're just there to answer Mrs and get fed. But the one who agreed to come after the first wife is the wahala. I know this from experiences both personal and outside observations. I will rather have a baby mama than have two wives under one roof!

Grandmeister of delusion.

There are women who married another wives for their husbands. This is not heresy, go and do your research.

To burst your bubble, those women are not barren. Are they troublesome for taking another wives for their husband?
Some women encourage their husbands to take another wives. Are they troublesome too?

MrBrownJay1:


...because there is absolutely NOTHING WRONG with marrying and divorcing as many people as a woman desires.
... because a woman shouldnt care what others think of her actions, so long as she can sleep well at night.

But you probably won't see women bringing up topics to ridicule women for remarrying - divorcing even up to 10 times.
In fact they will cheer them up. But they have problems with women who legally married as second wives and remain happy.
The same "woke" ladies that call women unprintable names for becoming a second wife are the ones looking for sugar daddies. They are the ones doing kayamata here and there so that rich married men can discover them.

They generally disagree with reality and mislead people in their doom.

Not long ago a popular feminist who has always insulted women for allowing men to pay their bride price, and calling their parents disgusting names for "selling" their daughters, came from Canada to get married. And guess what, the man paid her bride price and even do a lot of spending. Of course, she dares those she has misled to do their worse.

Is that the society of wokeness that we should take seriously?

Candidlady:


what is bad in becoming a second husband

Absolutely, nothing. As long as you can have biological children for each of them within a year.

MrBrownJay1:


- desperation to stay married at all cost
- money
- she has no other option than to accept because she is jobless/pennyless etc
- because she cant take the mental/physical workload to be a wife by herself
- because two is better than one
- because she has already been brainwashed by her hubby
- because it is commonly accepted in African culture
- because she grew up in a polygamous home/family

It is normal to call ladies who legally married as second wives all kinds of unprintable names.
Do you care to tell me why a lady would marry a single man and divorce him, remarry another single man and divorce again, and still want to marry again?

Mariangeles:
Only ladies who don't value themselves agree to be second wives.

Patewo fun ara re. Clap for yourself.

Now tell us why a lady would ask married men for financial help, date married men for money etc.

Let me sit down and learn.

Kobojunkie:
Obviously those women are also open to having multiple husbands, so why are they go take the blame for seeking out other partners for themselves much as the men do?

Why should she be expected to decline what she seeks, another partner?.

Read your response again and say the reality for once. There are many men that make it known to their wives that they want second or even third wives. How many women make it known to their husbands?

When i was about to pay my wife bride price, the first thing my dad told her parents is for them to know that we can have more than one wife. They should have say the same thing for their daughter and wait for us to pay the bride price.

elmagnifico411:
Hope you know that if u place 'magun' on your spouse, u too won't be able to climb her? Are u prepared for that? If u cannot climb her, it means you'd have to climb someone else and that in itself is u being unfaithful. Magun na developmental mistake jare..

Big lie. You can still climb her. In fact if you don't climb her, it will have negative effect on her. The only thing is that you need to do so with antidote and return the magun after your action.

Kobojunkie:
What is the stat on married men who lodge in the same hotel or accompany the married women who lodge in your hotel?

Even if the stat of married men is higher, the women still take the blame.

Those men might be open to having multiple wives which their wives could know about. In such situation, the woman is to be blamed. A married man approached you, and you as a married woman is expected to decline it.

ahnie:
Have you ever heard of the word called...MIND YOUR BUSINESS?

Trash.

the same mentality that cripple the society.

Candidlady:
Idont think a guy can ever have a "no sex" policy in a relationship!

sex freaks

Please kindly ignore/skip the comment below mine. Words on the street is the individual behind that moniker aint normal

You don't think doesn't mean they are not. If by your comment, you mean that ladies are the only ones that say no sex in relationship that's ignorance.

The same ladies that you claim to say no to sex are the ones buying all sort of toys and sometimes go to the length of using bottle, dogs, etc for sex. What do you call that?

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ProT:


Folks seem to prefer (temporary) palliatives to (permanent) solution.

Sad indeed!

Not even a temporary palliative as that dream of 2023 will probably birth several sects, most likely to be deadlier than what we have today.

PDJT:


You could be right either way.

As a student of Nigeria, I have seen on Wikipedia the gradual rising by percentage of Muslim numbers in Nigeria as the Christian numbers is fast depleting. In fact, only a few days ago, they updated those percentages and now mentions Muslim/Islam before Christian/Christianity on that Nigerian Wikipedia page as part of the recent updates- Islam; 53.5%, Christianity 46.9%: Only ten years ago (2010) the numbers were 49.3 % Christianity and 48.8% Islam.

And the projection is that by 2060, Muslims will make up to 60% of the total Nigeria population, whilst Christians and the traditionalists share the remaining 40% - whether that’s a good thing for those of us that wants to live in a free society, I don’t know, but you only need to look at Muslim majority countries around the world to see what is left of Freedom and respect for people’s fundamental human rights there.

At this increasing rate, by 2060, if Nigeria still exists, it will likely be between 65-70% Muslim and the rest shared among Christians, Traditionalists, and the Freethinkers.

Arrewa:

I have read your Article...

I Salute you for your objective writeup!

Nigeria as a country has failed all of us!

An average northerner want to leave this union...

Just that We are not yet ready...

Nigeria will surely break up!!

Very soon those old forces that are forcing us together will go down... And the New generations will emerge...

One Nigeria will soon go over board!

But as for now... Let's focus on holding those old cargos accountable for our federal financial Allocations...

Nigeria will soon be ripe for division... And when the time comes... Nobody can stop it!

We can be good neighbors... Trade among ourselves! They will be competitive growth!

Unity can never be forced!!

Brilliant. If everyone else is not tired of the situation Nigeria, i am. We deserve better.

illicit:
if you school in Nigeria there's greater probability that you are misEDUCATED

Is that the only message you want to pass across? You could do much better by explaining your point, or even educate me. I'm ever ready to learn.

PDJT:


In my opinion, the core North (9-12 contiguous States) is actually ahead in this game of exiting Nigeria. Check out their gradual but assured implementation of their sharia law and infrastructure to sustain it, ignoring the decree they gave other Nigerians as a constitution. To them, I believe, the rest of Nigeria is just a cash-cow. Any country or nation in the world has one law passed by their general assembly or parliament, which every citizen and resident must abide by. Can we say the same of Nigeria? Nigerians can only keep fooling around that they have a country/nation.

The issue of implementation of Sharia in many of the Northern states could mean two things;

1. there could be agenda to spread it throughout the country. Some could say it is not possible, based on their religious bias. However, i will say it is. Islamic ties is the primary bond between the North and The South-West. Islamic scholars from the North are quick to remind their counterparts in The South-West of how they should behave or do things. How they should not accept some things, etc. Look at that man talking on behalf of MURIC. A typical example. In all of these, what has the past government done about it? And what is the present administration doing about it? Absolutely nothing. Hence, i might be right.

2. It could mean that they are truly ready to exit from the union.

I am more supportive of the later, and i hope it will be attained much faster than imagined.

PDJT:


You’re right about the next generation, most of them under the age of 20(over 90 million)- they’re really helpless, in addition to the terrible “education” they have received or are receiving. When Nigerian soldiers are now hustling to send their families abroad for permanent residency, you go no say “garri don pass water”.

But the tiny minority septuagenarians and octogenarians that ruined Nigeria are insisting they must die and be buried as “Nigerians”, whilst the majority (under 50s) are fooling around and bowing to them for crumbs.

You can fight for your Nation. Forget Nigeria, except if you wish to ruin your one and only life for nothing.

That's my point. Enough of deceiving ourselves in the name of one Nigeria that almost plunge everyone into perpetual poverty. Every region should stand. The least should be restructuring.