₦airaland Forum

Vikings007:
They are confused.

How do you mean bro?

Vikings007:
heritage bank staff.

Thanks bro! All is well!

Vikings007:
Names have been shortlisted and sent to CBN for approval and disbursement.

Thanks for the information chief! But what's the source of the info please!

sorextee:
See so many matured advice here o. I'm shocked. This is not the romance section I use to visit.

Op, I'm out of advice. So many matured minds have spoken my mind too. Just stick to the one dat suits you best. Although, I want to believe he has shown you too much love, attention, etc. So the pattern is now boring. I understand where u coming from. Don't u have male frnds?

All the best.

Don't you think male friends would complicate things?

saintdennis:
No matter how he claims to dislike his babe he has spent a good 3YEARS with her??!!

Now he's met a new woman for how long? A MONTH OR TWO (if I may presume)

Well i've never dated but this is how I weigh up alternatives.

Good & BAD... if her bad(saucy, aggressive) character outweighs her positive attributes then he should end it.

Thing is this...if he's ending it just because he has met another woman then I SMH! He should be ending it strictly because he feels HE CANNOT GO FURTHER WITH THE BABE less HE CONTINUES TO BE UNHAPPY (let him know that)

Okay, One of the first things I told him is he was wrong for even dating another lady...that's outright cheating! In his defense he said he was pushed out to look for someone who would make him happy!

I'll most def tell him what you've said! Thank you chief!

biazarre:
tell him to follow his heart... its DAT simple!!!
Neva advise a man to dump a lady for anoda if u ar not ready to shoulder d consequence...

just tell him to take his time watching d older lady....

ladies ar d best in d act of pretence...

Spot on sir! Why did you think i said we should go pray over it? lol

blessedvisky:
Click Like if you also think there is no friend and the OP is talking about himself

LOL. I'm married, man. And if i wasn't, it wouldn't have changed anything.

Behira:
He shud bring up the issue of marriage with the older lady tru her response he wud kno if she wud like settling dwn wit him

Well, they had been talking about it fora while. And she doesn't have an issue with settling with a younger guy. But he has to treat her right and be sure of what he wants.

I'll make this as fast as possible.

So a colleague at work said he needed to share an issue with me at our lunch break. For the next 30 minutes, he confided in me that he was seriously considering leaving his girlfriend of 3 years for a lady older with 5 years he just started dating. Not just that, he wants to get married next year...to the new lady.

Not wanting to jump into conclusions, i asked him why he was so sure he was making the right decision. Apparently, the lady he has been with for 3 years is quite saucy and temperamental. I have met her a couple of times, so i knew he was telling the truth. Also, he said the get into dumb arguments that would eventually lead to days of malice-keeping often. I told him if he had discussed this with her and he said she gets more aggressive about it and accuses him of always finding faults in her. Even after meeting her parents and siblings, the babe still gat no chills. Although, the lady really cares about him but he is so scared about the future of the relationship and the impact it would have on him and their kids if he eventually settled down with her. He said he just couldn't come to terms with the arguments and raised voices.

So i asked about the older lady he has been seeing. I was shocked when he told me that has lost the will to argue and fight with the other girlfriend because he is experiencing something so wonderful and matured with the new girl. The lady has been supportive, very decent and super caring. The only 'but' is that she is older. And he is scared of the possibility of leaving the relationship for something so uncertain, considering how ladies could be.

He needed my advice and i was short of words. Told him to let us go home and pray over the situation and we'd talk tomorrow. As i drive home, i cant but think about this complicated mess...Please, i won't mind a word of advice from the relationship counselors, psychologists and every other person that has dealt with this sort of situation before. I wont mind it hitting FP for a wider audience.

Thank you.

sleekyonyx:
Hi love

I miss you bae!

sleekyonyx:
lol....he's still my boo... we r waxing strong..

Hello beautiful!

I believe there is a lot of misunderstanding as regards the cash loan and all! Like Vikings007 said, we would be given the cash...prolly not the whole 3m! The pre-operating cost and equipments would be provided by Heritage Bank and the applicant, while the operating cost will be provided for the applicant to o run his/her business!


Please, let's refrain from spreading falsehood! Thank you!

The deadline is now on the 17th of this month!

The deadline is now on the 17th of this month!

dyydxx:
what is interesting here , just normal business stuffs

Well, my opinion is personal!

Training at the Lagos camp ongoing! Interesting btw!

dyydxx:
cool. have they accredited you guys or something.please keep the thread updated

That was the first thing they did! Then you'll be given your meal ticket!

At the camp in Iyana Ipaja already and this place is getting filled already!

ernesterioo:
how did u do that bruh?

Brother, I contacted the bank and explained my situation! Was told it was to late though! I called back and was lucky to speak with a very understanding agent! He asked me to hold on for almost 5 minutes (guess he was checking up my details and other stuffs). Came back on the line after a while and he told me to check my mail and report to Iyana ipaja...on my way there now!

I just requested for my venue to be changed from Ede to Lagos and it was granted! Enroute the camp now!

ernesterioo:
Plz epp me, I only received a text from Nysc Benue to report to Abuja camp but the problem I have is, I didn't rreceived any mail or call from heritage bank, don't want to risk traveling from Ekiti to Abuja (fear of dissappointment) .any advice,

You can call the bank's customer care number to verify!

Funjosh:
Hello Dave please reply my mail thanks.

Thank you Josh! Gotten!!

mykrotune:
Am posted to osun state too. I want to go, but i get a postgraduate exam in unilorin on July 2nd on which the training will end. i don't know if i will be allowed to leave on Friday

I guess you'll have to explain yourself to the officials! I'm sure they will understand! All the best!

donbuscka:
Doublezero7... I am for Ede camp too... Let's hook up... 07030728989

Where and when are you leavin for the camp?

Funjosh:
Received thanks boss.


Hmmmm the business plan no be moimoi o

Please forward to danielmeade000@gmail.com! Thanks

DTOBS:
my brother,am waiting to receive you on wed. Make sure you get gboko oooo cos that's where life is. BTW,you re from which part of osogbo? I stayed in ogo oluwa area.

Pretyjo, am waiting for you oooooo

Sup brother, please pm me your number! We have a lot to talk about! Thanks!

ernesterioo:
wednesday

Me too

I got a mail to report at Ede camp, Osun state!

ernesterioo:
Amen ooo, I wondered why I didn't get the mail but a text from my SAED cord ,I keep wondering ooo

Well, the most important thing is that you were contacted! When will you be leaving for Abuja?

Mine is in Ede,Osun state! Who's with me biko!

ernesterioo:
Doulezero from A 15 _ got a text from my SAED coordinator regarding the training, am to go to Abuja

Yes brother! Long time! I'm sure all will end in praise!

Posted to Ede! Was thinking of not attending though cos it would clash with work! Still considering however! When will you be leaving for AKS? And I hope the mods will help move it to Frontpage for more responses!