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Money

Your financial situation accelerates your success with women but be careful how you go about with women and not spend unnecessary money on them.
They don't fancy very broke guys. Give them the impression of having money without spending alot on them.


I know of a very sharp guy, he uses his car to get girls. He will make sure he approaches her with his car. Take her out, bang her in his car and them drop her at her place.
No need to give her transport money. Where they hangout, it is not only her that enjoy he also enjoyed, it is not only her that eat food he also ate.

I am not telling you to be stingy but spent wisely.

cfree14:
I was thinking. Do you have a book written out like this?

I think that will be a good idea. A more comprehensive book of improving your looks will be great.

Quick dose
Your looks on its on own can give you a perceived status, thats why you need to upgrade your life.

Status (or perceived status)
Improve your social life: If you are not social you need to improve your social skills, talk to people. Not just with women but with anybody. When people know you it will increase your social circle and you will have high chance meeting ladies.
Nurture your talent
If you are a rapper,spoken words artist, a singer, an instumentalist(you play keyboard, drum, guitar),a dancer etc make sure you do it very well. It will take you far
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Lesson from celebrities
Take a look at justin bieber, the way ladies are going gaga for him, a lady once remove her panties and threw it to him on stage. Take a look at wizkid, whenever he is performing ladies will just be crazy for him. There was a time, he was on stage and a lady climb upstage and hug him so tight that he nearly fall off, security came and seperated them.

My story
Years back as an upcoming artiste i was to present on stage after orezi, he sang one of his songs and there were these cute ladies dancing on stage. After he was done i was next on stage, while i started rapping, one mature lady came on stage and started rocking me, this babe ass no be here o. Before i know my manhood began to rise, i just use sense and run away from her all this in an effort to make my thing calm down, before i embarass myself on stage.


Having high social status will take you far. Thats the effect of social status

Be as popular as you can, be as social as you can.

Hold political positions, academic positions, religious positions etc. Ladies crush on guys with leadership qualities, it makes you powerful because you have influence over other people.
Even religious leaders have ladies crushing on them

Quick dose
Be the best you can, wherever you are, however you cqn

Combining everything

Other accesories:

Get a good belt

Bracelet is also good

More shoes

More shades

Your shades should match your clothes or your skin

Shades with UV absorption are the best

Shades/sun glasses

Watches are of different categories.
Bracelet watches(gold and silver) makes you look more exotic
Leather watches makes you look classy make sure they match with your clothes.

Watches

Accessories
1. Watches
2. Shades

More dope shoes

More shoes

Your Shoes

Know your shoe size. Shoes from Louis vutton, puma,addidas, gucci, yeezy(by kanye west) are the best

Your clothes should match

Do not dress like this

The trouser is too big

Fit clothing

Most men don’t wear clothes that fit them properly. Chances are most of your clothing right now may be big. Many men are also self-conscious about their body, so they buy large clothing to mask it. Thats why you need exercise.
Another importance of exercise is that it makes clothes fit better on you.

Your clothes should fit

You can have the nicest, most expensive clothes in the world, but if they don’t fit well you’ll look like a small child. You can have the cheapest clothes in the world but if it fits you will look great. If you have clothes in your wardrope that are too big do well to take it to the tailor. And from now on when buying clothes make sure they fit.

Always know your measurements. If you don't know find out.
The cuffs of your shirts, should not exceed your wrist else they are too big.
If you’re stepping on the back of your trousers with the heel of your shoe, they’re too long.

Also do not wear clothes too tight they will easily tear or make you walk uncomfortably.


Short story
One day while i was about going somewhere i saw a guy wore clothes that were too tight especially his trouser. It was even showing the shape of his balls and rod. When some ladies saw him they started laughing at him, he felt uncomfortable throughout.

cfree14:
OP pls continue. Ur biggest fan is following

Glad to hear/see

Clothes

Young and pretty women don't like plain trousers and plain shirt or plain long sleeves on men — it make men look swagless. Such a dress code is for pastors and people who are already made. If you're a young man, dress with swag not like an uncle, if not you will be unclezoned lol.

Dressing responsibly is good when you're more mature and made in life, but as a youth, there should be alot of swag in your outfit.

Criteria

Your clothes should b fitted

Your clothes should match

Quick dose
When you dress well you look better, more confident, you look rich and like someone with social status. Remember you are addressed the way you dress. Do everything you can to look better.

Your dressing


1. Clothes


2. Shoes and


3. Accessories.

For those with beards. Keep it trimmed and clean ladies love it, you look mature even if you are very young.

If your beards don't come out well, or are coming out very small make sure you remove them its better for you to be without beards.

Your hairstyle

Get a good hairstyle/haircut that fits the shape of your head. Having low cut as a haircut is not that cool anymore. What is popular now is round punk, two step, mohawk etc

Grooming

Hygiene means a lot to women. Any man with a poor hygiene is a no to them.

Your nails must be well manicured and cut short. Keep your hair clean and apply hairgel regularly.
Always Apply deodorants and perfume after taking bath to smell nice and good. Body odour is a turn off.
Brush your teeth again when you take things like fish, it gives a fishy odour. Your Toothpaste (mouthwash) and brush do not always keep your mouth fresh. Take mint from time to time to keep it fresh. Mouth odour is a turn off
You must go for teeth/mouthwash if you have bad breadth or mouth odour.

Also;

Eat healthy food and get enough sleep

The above pictures are examples of strenthening exercises.

You also need cardiovascular exercise like running, jogging etc it increases your endurance.

Your body

Exercise is very essential for your body

1. It attract ladies

2. It keeps you fit

3. Keeps you healthy

4. It increases your stamina and helps you last long in bed


There are various exercise to keep you in shape but take note that your Target is to have a body of a model like chris brown not a bodybuilder like the rock.

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How to look good

1. Your body

2. Your hairstyle

3. Your dressing
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How does this relate to women? Well, if you’re honest with yourself you will realize that women prefer to have sex with/date dudes who they find physically attractive. Just like guys prefer having sex with physically attractive women. Women prefer having sex with physically attractive men. I really can’t make it much simpler than that.

What you need to also realize is that people, especially women, can look at you and have a pretty good idea of who you are. They know. They know what your deal is. They see a guy dressed like an old man. He’s quiet, walks with uncertainty, and doesn’t make strong eye contact. They assume that he is timid, socially awkward, weird, and probably not on their level. There’s nothing sexual about the guy other than the fact that he probably watches a lot of porn. In many cases, they would be right.

Then they may see a Physically fitted guy dressed like a man. He walks with confidence, has a firm voice, displays strong eye contact and people seem to gravitate toward him. Women think he is handsome, sure of himself, and probably has no problem getting a girlfriend. Most of the time, they would be right.

Quick Dose
You need to wear cool clothes, stop dressing like an uncle, when you are just 23years old.

Looks

Listen, not everyone is naturally good-looking. A lot of that is genetics. But everybody can work on this aspect of their life and increase their chances of looking good . Most guys are not that handsome and Unlike ladies that wear makeup to cover up their imperfection, most of we guys cannot change our face. However, we can improve our dressing, grooming, hairstyle etc. This is how you improve your looks.

If you improve your looks you improve your chances of getting ladies. I shouldn’t have to say this, but I will continue to reiterate it for the purposes of this writeup.

You are addressed the way you dress

Your looks absolutely matter… and they matter a lot.
People want to talk about how “you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover.” But that’s exactly how the world works. If you are around people, you are being judged every day. No one cares about you or your story. They want the Cliff notes. They get that by seeing how you look, getting a sense of your vibe, and seeing how you interact with others.

SELF IMPROVEMENT

Looks money and status(LMS)

There is a conundrum in dating advice where men suggest that your looks money or status does not matter only your personality. I won't lie to you, it matters and not only does it matter but it makes things easier.
Looks — especially your grooming and how you dress— are an important factor on the mating market, and so is your access to financial resources or popularity.
If you have no idea how to dress but think you can still get “more girls than you can handle”, you will get disappointed.

Which would you rather drive a Ferrari or a volkswagen? Most of you would pick the Ferrari. Why? Because the Ferrari looks amazing and the volkswagen not that great.

No matter how you look you will always have women feeling attracted to you, for the simple pure fact that you are a man. But the problem is that you may not like the kind of girls attracted to you. As an average guy you might see a fat girl attracted to you but thats not the kind of girl you like. But in life you don't get what you want but what you deserve. If you want a hot girl then you have to upgrade your lifestyle.

This is what we will discuss in LMS

duality:
Problem is, after going through all these stress,

You discover the lady adds no value to your Life.

Nothing whatsoever. Only debit alerts, for the Randy ones, it's sex.

It's just that you now claim to have a woman in your life, just to align with stupid social construct.

Anyway, we are reading, keep posting.

There is a truth in what you said.

You can discover she doesn't add value to your life.

But we can’t do away with them. We live in the world with them. They are our sisters, our cousins, our niece, our wives and our mothers