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FamilyRe: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Dpsychologist: 1:28pm On Oct 07, 2020
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin
And vice versa
FamilyRe: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Dpsychologist: 1:20pm On Oct 07, 2020
Only a simp will fight for a woman.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:08pm On Oct 07, 2020
From the above, why won't a lady feel entitled, seeing men as second fiddle.

By now you should not be surprised when women feel like goddesses in human form.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:00pm On Oct 07, 2020
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¶ Restrooms for my gender will be cleaner and are more likely to have flowers or other decorations.

¶ People I've never met before are more likely to open doors for me.

¶ People I've never met before are more likely to talk to me in public.

¶ If I go to a bar I can expect that members of the opposite sex will purchase drinks for me.

¶ If I meet a man that I like and I give him my phone number and he doesn't call I have a right to think of him as an asshole. If I meet a man that I like and I give him my phone number and he calls me I have a right to blow him off or act like I don't know him.

¶ If something bad happens to me or just one woman I believe it is an offense against all women. I believe that if something bad happens to a man it's because he's a loser.

¶ I'm more likely to believe that women who commit crimes are sick and need treatment or understanding whereas men who commit crimes are evil and should be locked up forever.

¶ I can criticize the opposite sex without social penalty, but woe be to the man who attempts to criticize me or other women.

¶ I can sleep with my boss if I want and afterwards I can sue him for sexual harassment.

¶ I can wear seductive clothing and perfume to attract a man at work but no one will accuse me of sexual harassment.

¶ It is my right to maintain the belief that men oppress women despite all of the evidence to the contrary.[/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon] ¶ If I am in an abusive relationship there are a multitude of social organizations to help me get away from him. There are few for men in the same position even though women initiate the majority of Domestic violence and even though men are hospitalized 30% of the time.

¶ In the event of a natural disaster or other emergency that requires evacuation I can expect to be evacuated before males with no social penalty.

¶ I expect a man to give me an engagement ring when he Kneels Down and asks me to marry him

¶ If I lie it's because I'm a victim of a male dominated society forced into difficult circumstances and not because I'm a bad person.


¶ I'm likely to believe that if a woman is intoxicated she is not capable of giving consent and if sex occurs it is rape. However, if her male partner is also intoxicated he is capable of consenting.

¶ I can cry and get my husband to do something for me that he might not have done otherwise.

¶ I expect people (especially men) to be sensitive to my feelings.

¶ Even though men die more from prostate cancer than women die from breast cancer I can expect that twice as much funding is given for breast cancer. The same will apply to any female specific disease or malady.

¶ If for some reason I do not get custody of my children I will be expected to pay less child support than another man in my exact same position. I think that alimony is fair when paid to a woman but not fair when paid by a woman(western world).
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:43pm On Oct 07, 2020
[color=maroon]¶ When I divorce I can use false accusations of domestic violence, sexual molestation of the children or abuse of the children to gain advantage during court proceedings. If I am found out to be a liar I can expect to get away with it(western world).

¶ If a man calls me a slut it will probably hurt my reputation but the damage will be small and localized. However, if I call him a child molester or claim that he raped me I can destroy him completely and the damage may be nationwide.

¶ If I fail at my career I can blame the male dominated society.

¶ I may have the luxury of staying home and being a housewife but if my sister's husband does the same thing I'm likely to call him a deadbeat loser and tell her to leave him.

¶ If I "choose" to join the military; the best military occupations providing the most lucrative civilian training will be reserved for me. I will be kept away from the fighting as much as possible to the point that I will be thirty times less likely to be killed in a war zone than my male counterparts. I will be given equal pay for less risk.

¶ My gender watches more television in every hour of every day than any other group. This along with the fact that women control 80% of domestic spending means that most television shows and advertisement are designed to appeal to me.

¶ I can wear masculine clothing if it pleases me however men cannot wear feminine clothing without social penalty.
¶ Not only is there a wealth of clothing choices designed for me but it is likely that I will be able to afford or have them provided for me.

¶ I can be bigoted or sexist against males without social penalty.

¶ If I make a false claim of rape against a male in an act of revenge or in order to cover up my own scandalous behavior I may well succeed at both and he may spend years in prison. If I am found out it is unlikely I will be charged, convicted, or serve any time at all.

¶ If I abuse my husband and physically assault him and the police arrive it is almost guaranteed he will go to jail.[/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:25pm On Oct 07, 2020
[color=maroon] ¶ When I'm on a date things will be paid for me.

¶ I can discriminate against the opposite sex ruthlessly without social penalty.

¶ If I marry and quit my job and enjoy a leisurely life with light housework and then later divorce I will be given half of the marital assets.

¶ If I commit a crime and am convicted I will get a sentencing "discount" because of my gender. If I am very pretty it will increase my discount.

¶ If I am a partner in crime with a man I will likely be charged with lesser crimes even though I committed the same crimes even if I was the ringleader.

¶ My feelings are more important than men's lives. Every precaution will be made to protect me from harassment at work. However, males will make up nearly %100 of workplace fatalities.

¶ My gender controls 80% of domestic spending. We get to spend our money if we have any and we get to spend men's money.

¶ The majority of luxury apparel is designed, marketed to, and consumed by women. As such Seven times as much jewelry will be purchased by or for me than by or for men.

¶ My gender enjoys more government spending on health than males do. My gender consumes the lioness' share of entitlement programs while men contribute the lion's share of taxes.

¶ If I rape or molest a child I can expect lighter treatment in court and afterwards receive less social stigma. What's more, should I become pregnant, I can sue my victim for child support when he finally turns 18.[/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:44am On Oct 07, 2020
[color=maroon] Entitlements

An Average woman have the following thoughts due to female privilege around the world.

¶ From an early age the opposite sex will be instructed never to hit me but I may not be given the same instructions. However, should I strike males I can expect not to be hit back and any social penalties that occur from my actions will actually fall on the male.

¶ If I'm not smart, but pretty, I can marry and achieve the social and financial level of my husband without ever working.

¶ I can produce offspring. A status which grants me an "essential" status in our species that men can never have.

¶ Regardless of my mate value society has organized fertility clinics and social welfare programs that will allow me to have children and provide for them should I choose to reproduce without a mate or marriage.

¶ I not only have the more valuable and sought after sexual identity, but I also have complete control over my reproductive choice and in many ways over the reproductive choice of the opposite sex.

¶ At any time I can abandon my parental responsibilities with little or no social stigma and hand the child over to the state or abort the pregnancy. A male could never relieve himself of this burden unless I allow him to.

¶ When I marry a man with status I can take his name and become whoever he has spent years becoming. I need not do anything special to be worthy of receiving the reputation he has built. However, if I wish to keep my own name I can do so.

¶ People will help me more when I'm in need and I will receive no social penalty or stigma for it.[/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:48am On Oct 07, 2020
[color=maroon] As i was saying before i digress, she now sees herself as a goddess. Thats why you see post on social Media like " No man can afford me", "No man can resist me", " my pvssy is worth millions", " broke guys are a turn off for me" " when i see a man with car i get wet" etc

There is attention overdose leading to what is called "god complex".

If she hits the wall and she no longer gets attention, she starts asking "where are the good men" or "i look very pretty but no man wants to marry me".

However, many ladies are lucky to get married despite their years of hedonism.

On day of her marriage proposal, Her man kneels down and engages her in public making her feel like a queen. She also gets an expensive wedding like her childhood fantasy that's why you see women are happier on their wedding day because its her day.

When she gets married she will be taken care of till death(unless unfortunate circumstance).
Peradventure she is not a stay at home mother. As a Career woman her money is her money while the Husband money is their money.

She gives birth and the Husband take care of the children. Her work is to cook food the husband bought in his kitchen. Clean the house the husband builds, buys or rent.
When the children become mature (the husband may or may not be alive) she will still be taken care of.

With her Knowing How all this will play out, tell me why wouldn’t she feel entitled?[/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:38am On Oct 07, 2020
[color=maroon] This is her experiential phase. At this time she dates a lot of guys with more in her friend zone doing her biddings.

Guys will do whatever to please her on bed. They will take tramadol, vega, viagra, samsu oil etc just to make sure she has a great time, her job is to lie down like log of wood and enjoy. The highest she will do is the cowgirl style.

The excess attention gets to her head leading to what is referred to as female narcissism. She gets to a point she feels entitled. She sees men as mere "success objects" and as such begins broke shaming guys in their early 20s who are still struggling.

She feels her pvssy is gold and she is doing a favor dating a man. These days most ladies don't cry after a break up, she will just say yes to a guy who has be disturbing her for commitment. In fact she might even have upto 10 boyfriends at a time( i know a girl who has 20 boyfriends)
Let me digress a little.

A Lady does not joke with her pvssy she uses it to conquer men, nations, contract, deals,promotion, endorsement deals, cars, jets, mansions etc. It is her Bargaining power. As such any man who takes it by force makes her hate the man and hate herself. How can someone get her pvssy for free without her consent. Thats why rape is highest form of crime against women even more than murder. Women are not as upset with murder as rape.
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:37am On Oct 07, 2020
[color=maroon] 54.) FATAL ARROGANCE/ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY :

Starting as a teenager her mom tells her that she will marry and her Husband provides and take care her while she gives birth to children. She also observes her parents lifestyle. Whenever she ask her mom for money she responds with, go and ask your dad.

The girl start associating man with money. Even at a teenage age she starts asking boys for money, the more she is given the more she sees men as a means to an end( money object).

The Most intoxicating is when she begins to grow older she gets an Overdose of attention from men. Even if she coughs a guy will tell her she has the most Beautiful cough in the world . Guys + sugar daddies provide her with whatever she needs coupled with Narcissistic attention she gets from 5000 friends on fb, countless messages on WhatsApp and unfettered attention on Instagram and the likes.

She is always favoured anywhere she goes for the fact she is a woman. In higher institutions, lecturers want to date her, big boys, SUG officials, sugar daddies and sometimes non academic staff like the Vice Chancellor or Rector if she is attractive. She roll with men in their 30s and 40s( and guys in 20s that are loaded).
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:00am On Oct 07, 2020
Fatal arrogance loading
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:42am On Oct 07, 2020
In contrast, men age like wine. So use the best of your life (30s) to marry a lady in the best part of her life ( 20s).

RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:12am On Oct 07, 2020
Bitter spinsters[interlude]

The value of a young woman extends beyond the appeal of her physical youth and fertility, it is her flexibility to be formed into a woman who complements a man that is her main draw.

Older women are, much to the dismay of men everywhere, not solely lacking in beauty, but largely irredeemable in that they lack the flexibility of young women.

Bitter older woman unable to secure a dominant alpha who see a young woman coupled with a man perhaps ten or even fifteen years her senior have an instinct to shame the couple, more specifically, the man.

It is said by spinsters that such men are no more than perverts, that they only covet a young woman’s body and sexuality, and that if such men were as refined as they, they’d look to date someone “more mature.”

Their clamour for going for mature women is nothing but bitterness for women mature little in adulthood.

These spinsters disguise their bitterness as concern for the well-being of young women, but in reality they are the jealous of younger women and scornful of the men who don’t want them.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon] By now you should know women are the favoured gender.

It is a mans world but a woman’s paradise.

¶ Men are provided no protection against seduction and sexual harassment at workplace . Dare complain you will be a laughing stock or won't be taken serious.

¶ There is no concept of MEN's RIGHTS, only RESPONSIBILITIES and DUTIES enshrined for them!

¶The numerous Anti-male and gender biased laws which are not gender-neutral.

¶ Anti-male slant and negative stereotyping indulged in by media, television and films against men.

¶ Negligence of health issues of men like prostate cancer, etc

¶ Men are always discriminated against in the guise of women empowerment.

Meanwhile, a country like Nigeria is still male centric as such we are not suffering like the west. [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon] Common example

A woman Killed her son on sallah day but most of what was said was that the woman it not normal and should be taken to psychiatry, she is probably mentally deranged.

One of our Neighbour married a second wife but the first wife was angry about it. After one week the first wife was send to prison only to be released after 6months.

If it was a man, you know that can’t happen [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:06am On Oct 07, 2020
[color=maroon]53.) THE PVSSY PASS AND VALUATION

Pussy pass refers to the phenomenon that female criminals get off with a lighter sentence than males. Dpsychologist


The pussy pass is a term invented to highlight the high level of favouritism shown towards women , especially in the criminal justice system. It is a provocative term in referring to the gentle way we might treat someone with female anatomy.

A pussy pass refers to the granting of a "pass" to a woman after a serious moral failing or crime. This pass may take the form of assignment of cause to psychological factors or circumstances "beyond her control."

For example, a man who murders his own children would receive no sympathy in the media - regardless of his circumstances - while a woman who does the same often receives a sympathetic treatment.


Infact there tends to be disparities in the length of prison sentences—63% longer for men.[/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:46pm On Oct 06, 2020
The pvssy Pass and valuations, loading...
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:22pm On Oct 06, 2020
butterfly777:
A WhatsApp group is really unnecessary. You are making far greater impact and reaching far more people than you would with a WhatsApp group.

1. A WhatsApp group can easily get boring.
2. Flooding of chats makes things clumsy there.
3. Anybody can enter this thread even after years, and still learn well. Past chats in a WhatsApp group are inaccessible to new entrants.
4. It is easier to read things there, than on a WhatsApp group.
It seems more people have convincingly proposed that the WhatsApp group is unnecessary.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:51pm On Oct 06, 2020
Newman20:
Unfortunately it can't


We still live in a blue pill world. News like this is termed controversial . So it can't reach everywhere.


Everyone wants their "special one" fantasy fufilled
Just type Redpill on google and you will see plethora of websites calling the Red pill toxic, Misogynistic, psychos, bitter etc
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:53pm On Oct 06, 2020
Exceptions

Even though women live longer, their physical attractiveness declines faster than men's.


However, older men also have a harder time getting access to young, fertile and attractive women, and men also start to become less physically attractive with age.

The former is especially true in combination with social norms that prohibit large age differences in couples.


It is worthy of note that contrary to women, older men can compensate for their age by status and wealth, e.g. Donald Trump is born 1946 while his wife is more than 20 years younger.

However, even women who have hit the wall and post-wall women can still have many suitors nonetheless such as celebrities.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:46pm On Oct 06, 2020
Judging women on the basis of her beauty and fertility is as fair as women judging men on the basis of his income and status.

For marriage and family purposes post-wallers are bad choices. Post-wallers spent their 20's ignoring / rejecting marriage.

At best, she is a person incapable of compromise and making practical choices - the must have skills for a family. At worst, she is a slut trying to con a beta so she can continue to ride the carousel.

Aging is a process in which the body loses health and functionality, including sexual potency and comes closer to death (eternal unconsciousness).

Feminists hate this fact so much that they deny it or blame it on men.

Marry them young.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:17pm On Oct 06, 2020
Penboy:
The problem with having a WhatsApp group is that there'll be no legacy left for upcoming pillers who would need to refer to a thread like this.

If threads like this didn't exist, most of us won't have gained the needed information right from page 1.

Telegram would have been the better option sinces files uploaded can still be seen by new pillers. But then Nairaland still offers the best bet.
Thats exactly why i was hesitating on the WhatsApp group.

However, as i said earlier the WhatsApp group will only be supplementary not a replacement to this thread.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:11pm On Oct 06, 2020
Psychological

The psychological aspect of the Wall is further subdivided into internal and external.

Internally
A girl begins her life with love and care from her parents. Later she proceeds to school and possibly higher institution. Up to this point in time all her expenses were paid for by parents, the government or other men.

More precisely, her income is less than her expenses.

From the period after graduation and before 30, she is in the peak of her beauty and maximum SMV and MMV. As such, men readily treat her to free food, drinks and social events. This enables her to continue a lifestyle in excess of her own income.

By the age 30, all these subsidies would have been depleted. Suddenly, her income must be greater than her expenses to remain solvent.

Externally
Almost all men prefer young girls. This isn't a problem when the woman is in her 20's. By the time she hits 30, her male peers who are serious about marriage would have been married or in an LTR . Those remaining peers interested in marriage would have moved on to younger and more fertile girls. This leaves the pool with men that are not interested in LTR or men that other girls have repeatedly refused.

When a woman asks "where have all the good men gone?", she has hit the Wall.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:05pm On Oct 06, 2020
Causes of the Wall
The Wall is caused by multiple factors which can be divided into physical and psychological.

Physical
A woman's physical attributes change as she ages. Her physical beauty peaks in her early 20's. By the age of 30 her breasts will have begun to sag; wrinkles on her face begin to appear.

Coincidentally, her fertility begins to decline. Hormonal fluctuations due to desperate pregnancy before her ovaries dry up can be another factor. However, feminists readily defend this transformation saying "because she just had a baby you misogynists".
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
Causes of the wall

The Rational Male estimates that women hit the wall around age 30, but also notes that "the Wall is much more than just the physical; it's the conditions that accelerates or decelerates a woman's date with the Wall.

Single mother ? Acceleration.
Consistent, bad personal habits? Acceleration.
Careerist obsessive? Acceleration.
Obesity ? Acceleration."
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:49pm On Oct 06, 2020

Behavior of pre- and post-wall women
Space Tourist writes, "women lose their shit when they start approaching the wall. Women who are in the prime of their youth and beauty tend to be much more emotionally stable and not nearly as needy."

Post-wall women in some cases often bash pre-wall women as "slutty" or "trashy" in an attempt to downgrade the better stock.

Kilmister said , "Ironic, because 2 or 3 years previous, before the inevitable collision with the Wall of Decay, they were wearing the same clothes and being slutty.

Post-wall women often decide to turn religious. You will see them in shiloh, going to different places so that they can get husband to marry.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:44pm On Oct 06, 2020
hitting the wall
Roosh notes, "While a girl will hardly age from 20-25, you are liable to see a precipitous fall every year after 25, until around 35 when she completes the transformation of looking like her mother."

Victor Pride's in his book How to Pick the Right Wife notes that , "At around the age of 31 a woman's beauty really declines fast."

Likewise, Trainspotting said that : "So many guys these days are marrying early 30's women, and then, almost immediately - Bam! The wall. It's over almost before it began."
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:56am On Oct 06, 2020
Jerry59:
I believe this platform would emancipate simp more when they stumble on the thread than an enclosed WhatsApp GC. IMO
That was why i was hesitating on the WhatsApp group but more people kept asking for WhatsApp group. Lets see from now to evening, if more people request for WhatsApp group then i have to go with that. However, this does not mean that the WhatsApp group will replace this thread. It will only be supplementary.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
For those interested in a WhatsApp group let me see your reasons.

Those who don't want the WhatsApp group have spoken.

I have been inundated with clarion calls for a WhatsApp group.

Let me see those who are interested in a WhatsApp group. Click the like button, if not click share.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
TheUndercover:
So? what then? LOL! only SIMPs are afraid of breaking up with a girl. What type of a man would he be if he was to be afraid of a girl leaving him?

She wanted to manipulate him at first but he used it against her!
A man with abundance mentality will always go far in life.

Don't mind her. Women do not argue with logic but with emotions. She could not respond to him without an insult and then putting him into fear that his girl may leave him.

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