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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:30pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon] Who is a woman likely to cheat with?

Most times in order not to raise suspicion women usually cheat with a neighbor, her colleague, her bestie,fake cousin,fake uncle, your friend, your brother, etc.

Most guys will be less suspicious when they see their Girlfriend or wife close to their friend, brother, her so-called cousin, fake uncle etc.

Sometimes they do that to their fellow female by cheating on their sisters husband /boyfriend, friends boyfriend etc.

Women cheat for various reasons, including thrill of cheating, spousal absenteeism, revenge, ‘raging hormones,’ opportunity, disrespect, old time’s sake(ex-factor) and unfulfilled sexual needs.[/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:25pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon] How women cheat
However, this is not the case with women. Hunting down a cheating woman requires National Intelligence Service, if she’s not intending to be caught.

Case 1 : When i was in JSS 2 one of our female teachers was even bragging to us that she dated two guys and they weren't aware, she was even calling them dump.

Case 2 : A girl was cheating on a guy for 3 years and he never found out despite he always checking her phone and viewing her chats.

She gave him her fb passwords, she doesn’t password her phone. This guy then trusted her so much and can swear that she never cheated on him still yet he later caught her cheating.

The simple Technique was that she had a secret 3rd sim card she use to communicate with the guy only.


Women are always two steps ahead. They keep re-inventing new cheating tricks. Even though men are of the opinion that women are prone to cheating, most of them think that very few women cheat.

Girls are very sharp the easiest ways you can get them is if they want to be Caught or they are not smart enough. She will cheat on you countless times but when you cheat just once all hell will lose, pretending she never cheated.

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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:20pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon]Have You heard of the 11th commandment? Well ladies keep the 11th commandment.

The 11th commandment says, "don't get caught."

Alot of men are cheats. But women make even better cheats.

How a man cheats
Catching a man cheating is as easy as ABC. Men are careless and will leave evidence lying at every corner...a condom in his laptop bag, lipstick on his shirt or cheek,a girls pant in his bathroom, make up kit in his car, earrings in his apartment, a girls hair strands on his carpet etc

Most times ladies caught guys pant down with another lady because for a guy to have sex he usually invites a lady to his house.

If a lady Wants to Caught him she will come to his house unannounced and may see him with another lady. Whereas most ladies visit guys to have sex and so won't get caught easily.

As for social media he will never delete his chat with ladies, maybe he wants to brag about it. Men are terrible at cheating, it takes a smart guy to be good.
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:15pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon]59.)WHO CHEATS MORE
Well if you ask me who cheat the most.

My answer is guys cheat more that ladies

BUT
only because they are mostly the ones being caught.


The truth is that women have always lied about their sex lives. Men consistently claim to have had more partners while women claim to have lesser partners. While men mostly exaggerate their sexual conquests, the bigger liars are women.

When studies about sexual partners or fidelity use a mixture of face-to-face interviews and anonymous computer questionnaires, men will give the same answers to both, but women will report much higher numbers when the answers are anonymous. This means ladies love secrecy.
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:31pm On Oct 10, 2020
Note: i am not telling you this discourage you from marriage or show you marriage is totally bad but to tell you what i have seen, heard and witnessed.

Like i said before, if you have any story you can share.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:30pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon] In marriage

Case 1
A married woman from village came to stay in my locality for the mean time with her cousin. Within 3 months she got Pregnant.
This happened to my friends in-law. The man got married to my friends sister. She is the extroverted type, very charismatic, from her behavior i know she is the party type. She had the first child whom was about 2years.

However, problem started when the husband wanted a second child. She kept aborting the fetus. At first he didn't know she was responsible for that, when he discovered, he was in shock. He begged her to stop it but she refused. He started disturbing her daily but in anger she parked her belongings and left.

She rented a house and was inviting a young muscular guy to be banging her daily. The husband on duscovering this had his first episode of hypertention. He pleaded her to stop doing this but he refused. He even went will some of his friends but she refused.

As i currently tell you this the man is already dead due to hypertension and has long being buried. His family refused to allow her attend the burial.

Case 2
Another story is of a woman and her Husband who had a child, and were having a second child. After having a bitter argument with her Husband she aborted her Pregnancy. At the end he discover the first child was not his The Husband nearly ran mad.

Case 3
A married woman with 3 children ran away from her Husband and went to shag another married man and gave birth to a child. Then end up coming back to the Husband and he accepted her back

Case 4
Another woman left her Husband 3 times to go and bang young dudes but the Husband accepts her always. After the man died, she used part of his money to rent a room for a guy and was shagging him constantly.

Case 5
The wife f*cked a dude on the day of her wedding while the Husband is busy planning on how to return the canopies, chairs, tables and other rentals.

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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:28pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon] Unnecessary quarrel /break up
A Lady conjure up an unnecessary fight with her boyfriend and then use the opportunity to f*ck a guy she has been atracted to for some weeks. While they were having sex, the boyfriend called asking for forgiveness over what she didn't do.

The guy heard sounds on the girl banging and asked what was that but she said she is holding a small boy and he is jumping on her.

After proposal
I have suspects that once a lady knows she is sure of marrying a guy it will activate her whoring phase.
A corper was busy collecting different d1cks in my Neighborhood i was shocked when i saw her wedding invitation card. The story of corpers are scary sometimes.

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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:27pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon] The Virgin scam

Case 1
A Guy dated 2 ladies(two-timing) for 3 years but he was unable to sleep with them, they both told him they were virgins. He was sure of the first one, he confirmed it himself but for the second he was not sure.

The first lady was seeking admission while the second one is already in higher institution.

When the first one got admission, she met a guy and he deflowered her. She kept giving him sex every day till he no longer need her again. Being heartbroken she went back to see her boyfriend and tried to seduce him.

This was when he knew she lost her virginity, he made her confess everything. As a revenge for not having sex for 3years,that guy banged her 99times.

As for the second girl he invited her to his place and tried making move but she resisted until he showed his furiosity over her attitutes towards him. This was when she confessed she was never a virgin. The guy banged her too.

Case 2
My friend was dating a 17-Year-Old Girl who he is sees as chaste and upright, the girl looks very innocent according to him. She once told him she is a virgin. It was after one year of dating that he heard some guys laughing at him when he told them he was dating her. They told him his gf is a cheerful giver, he felt embarrassed

When he confronted her, she told him she only told him she was a virgin to appear good but she expected him to make move on her that she was never a virgin. He told her he respects virgins thats why he didn't made any move.

She told him now is his chance to bang her. He was adamant at first but he still made move. As he was fingering her, the hole was too large like a swimming pool lol. His d1ck shrinked, he refused to have sex with her and subsequently broke up with her.

The girl ended up getting Pregnant for another guy and now a frustrated single mother. The guy initially started taking care of her but ended up running away.
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:24pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon] During relationships
Men are as well promiscuous but our focus here is on the female.

¶ No sex before wedding scam

Case 1
A guy was dating a lady for 2years under the facade of no sex before marriage although she is not a virgin. The guy was faithful while the girl is busy sharing for different guys. She aborted upto 5 times according to what i heard. On carrying out the sixth one she nearly lost her life and was hospitalized. The so called Boyfriend even came and visit her in the hospital and brought beverages. Unfortunately, he never knew why she was in the hospital.


Naivity
A close friend of mine who was a former play boy told me He is tired of going after different ladies decided to be oneitis with the new girl he started dating.

He said the girl is hardworking and entrepreneural, exactly what he wants. Quite sure i met the girl and she was good. However, he decided no sex before marriage with a plan to marry her. He told her he wants both of them to be faithful to each other and promised marriage.

Lemme cut the story short. His gf got Pregnant for a youth corper who ran away from the locality. The unfortunate thing is that she doesn’t know where he comes from, his home etc. The guy was furious and had to broke up with her.
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:22pm On Oct 10, 2020
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Dpsychologist:
STORIES OF FEMALE PROMISCUITY
Slutting around

Case1
The daughter of a king in my locality got Pregnant for an unknown guy. Since her mom was her confidant, she told her mom everything. Her mom send her back to their village while the father was not aware of this(they conjure up lies).

The girl stayed in the village and gave birth to a child. She then gave some people the children and come back home. Today the girl is married and the father never knew about it till he died last year.

Case 2
A Girl after going to Polytechnic, got Pregnant for a guy. As investigation went on it was found out that he did 4 abortions, she was afraid that the 5th abortion will destroy her womb that's why she kept it. She funny thing is she doesn’t actually know who got her Pregnant. [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:27pm On Oct 10, 2020
Stories of female Promiscuity
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:24pm On Oct 10, 2020
Example of c0ck carousel that happen during a relationship is

¶ when she uses an excuse that you guys need space that she wants to discover herself.

¶ Another way is she caused problem for no reason or accused you of something you didn't do and then starts avoiding you for a particular period of time.

¶ Another way is her switching off her phone for a particular period of time and not calling back for no just cause.

RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:17pm On Oct 10, 2020
I will be sharing stories of women riding the cock carousel if you have any story you are free to share.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:05pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon] See the advice that Facebook CEO Sheryl Sandberg gave women:

"When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier."

Sandberg advises women to have sex with men they are physically attracted to, and then eventually settle down with a beta male who will look past their promiscuity and be willing to fund their lifestyle.

Her comment supports red pill knowledge.[/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:03pm On Oct 10, 2020
[color=maroon]C0ck Carousel is a lifestyle where a woman has sex with many sex partners.

It is a Metaphor for women having sex with lots of different men. Which is what many women do in between relationships , or before they settle down for marriage and in rare cases after.

Women will chase as many alpha males as possible during their prime years before settling with a betabux.

Women riding the c0ck carousel tend to select bad boys for sexual purposes —Dpsychologist [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon] 58.) THE C0CK CAROUSEL /PROMISCUITY

"Riding the c0ck carousel " is a way of saying women openly practice their promiscuity life.

The C0ck Carousel is a term for women who have had sexual relations with many men, often over a long period of time.

These women have had sexual relations with a diverse group of men. As a result, the carousel rider is often unable to commit to a traditional relationship and embrace the role of mother or wife.

Many bloggers theorize that females will ride the cock carousel freely until hitting the wall , when their sexual market value drops, and then seek a beta willing to play the role of Captain Save A Ho.

Women typically ride the cock carousel until about age 30. However, when they marry they might still continue.
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:47pm On Oct 10, 2020
Good day everyone...
I can see you guys have gone far wink
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:49pm On Oct 09, 2020
Meedon:
From way back.

#MGTOW
#MGTOW_MONK.
Although i don't always support MGTOW MONKING but its your choice.

It's your life. Thats why the Red pill is not a Religion.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:47pm On Oct 09, 2020
TheUndercover:
Love is just stressful sometimes. I'm still in my development phase. I don't wanna commit for now. She can get along with other guys. I will still keep the relationship in a platonic way.
Whatever you do its your choice, as far as you don't get emanculated its fine.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:49pm On Oct 09, 2020
TheUndercover:
Sorry if this will derail the thread

What's your take on exes giving gifts after breakups?

We've known each other for 4 years plus. My girlfriend brought me a cloth gift today, she said because she didn't give me gift on my birthday which was couple months ago that she decided to bring this for me and we've broken up long before my birthday and this is not the first time this kind of scenario occurred. She's generally hot tempered but she cares or so I thought lol.

This is actually what happened after the last breakup. Although we've broken up a couple of times too before this one but we keep coming back again

When we reconciled, she told me when we were apart (breakup), some bleeped up things happened, I said some bleeped up things as what? I asked her that did she date another person? did you have sexual relations or romance with another person? she said no. In my mind I said what bleeped up things can be greater than these two reasons? I let it slide and we resume the way we normally do. ( you should understand lol)

I started noticing some changes in her character. She protests when I touch her, she complains and there was a time when she said I shouldn't touch her anymore, I was shocked but I decided to play along I didn't react. my mind was already looking for options then. Sometimes she act cool also like she normally does but those changes I saw was glaring

After a while, she confessed that when we broke up she met a guy blah blah blah that she was waiting for me to call her lol (someone that said she should have broken up long ago with me on the day it happened) that I didn't show, she told me that she later met a guy after a long while of waiting for me, the guy gave her shoulder to cry on blah blah. she said that they made out but no sex. I just kept my cool, because in my mind she has already broken my protocols, there's no way she's getting back with me

After she landed her rantings, she said she later realised that the guy is not serious with the relationship that they broke up 3 days ago (not from today's date) so she decided to tell me lol I said okay. I asked her what do you now want me to do? she said nothing lol. I know she didn't wanna appear desperate .. she was expecting me to flare up with her story but I kept my cool and didn't react or act surprised.

She said she thought she could eat her cake and have it or she thought I would tell her what she needed to do to regain back my trust lol. I said she can't eat her and cake nor have it. I thanked her though for opening up and after that I zeroed her.. but we still talk though she tries to get close to me, make me notice her lol but I just act normal around her and I didn't act pained. I still talk to her normally but now on a platonic level.

She wanted me to say something which I know I won't lol but I act as if I'm gonna say it this will keep her mind burning up, I'm starving her of attention. What do you think.?
Seems she want you guys to get back
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:46pm On Oct 09, 2020
58.) The c0ck carousel /promiscuity Loading...
PoliticsRe: #EndSARS Protest In Ekpoma Turns Violent As Protesters Clash With Police by Dpsychologist: 9:43pm On Oct 09, 2020
Protest always end with bloodshed
CrimeRe: Students Remove Police Signpost As #EndSARS Protest Gets Heated In Ekpoma by Dpsychologist: 9:33pm On Oct 09, 2020
The problem is some will use this Protest as an excuse for vandalism and assault. undecided
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
Meedon:
In this life I no go marry.
Lol you are going MGTOW already?
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:53pm On Oct 09, 2020
[color=maroon] ✅ She has hit the wall

By now you should have know that ladies who hit the wall usually become good ladies. She will start going to shiloh, deliverance sections, some have become prayer warriors.

A short story
I heard a story of a retired prostitute from a particular state who travelled to another another state and change her lifestyle as a strong christian woman. She came newly and got everyone's attention in church. She attends all church programs, give tithes, does evangelism and dish advises to younger women.

A young pastor took interest in her. Within a short while he proposed to her. Two days to the wedding she told him she was an ex-prostitute and confess all her past while pleading he leaves her past behind. She knew mostly likely he won't abandon her 2days to the wedding.

He end up marrying her as many were telling him her past doesn’t matter, he is a pastor and should forgive. She should practice what he preaches.

I always use to wonder, what is the fate of prostitutes how do they end up later in life. I never knew alot of men still get married.
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon] ✅She is not interested in you
I have seen where guys assume that because a girl is hard to get she is a good girl.

A guy dated a girl for 4years thinking she was chaste. He try all techniques to bang the girl but it prove abortive.

To his greatest surprise this girl has being banging another guy all this while and has being pretending she was a virgin. [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon]✅She was brought up via strict parental upbringing due to religion, culture, morality etc

I think this is a major reason why we have good girls. The presence of strict upbringing. You can’t compare a girl from USA and a girl from Egypt. While USA give liberty for women to be Promiscuous they dare not try it in Egypt (two women were sentenced to 2years imprisonment for doing a tik tok challenge).

Different Parents use different Parenting style as such we end up having different behaviours among different woman.

Other factors that affects upbringing involves broken homes, being abused at young age, lax parenting, growing with grandparents etc.

In other words, good girls are not good by choice but by force. They are not good by nature but by nurture. [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:27pm On Oct 09, 2020
[color=maroon]✅ She is good at pretending to obey societal norms

These ladies pretend to be good girls in order no to be slut-shamed.

However, secretly she goes out to do what she wants usually far away from her locality in order to be unsuspecting to prying eyes. [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:20pm On Oct 09, 2020
I believe some of you might have similar experience.

The story is self-explanatory.

Dpsychologist:
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A story
During my naïveté days specifically in 100L,i got acquainted with a decent looking lady who i always taught she was chaste. Our fellowship organized a talk show on pre-marital sex and she was among the speakers.

She condemned pre-marital sex tanishing it as wrong not only spiritually but even physically due to risk of STI and Pregnancy. In upcoming election i even nominated her as vice president.

Some days before announcement of the new excos, i forgot what brought about our discussion about her between me and one my friend. The greatest shock of my life is when he told me he use to see the girl in their compound at least 3 times a week in the evening.

On further probing, he told me she usually meets guy who smokes in their compound who bangs her anytime she comes.

I was shocked to the spine, i was like he was just lying. This guy went further with proves. Since that day anytime i look at the girl i just wonder at the double lifestyle.

BTW

She still became the vice president [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:08pm On Oct 09, 2020
Dpsychologist:
[color=maroon]✅She has not yet being caught

Ever vouch that a girl is decent only to be surprised when you found out she was not who she appears to be?
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A story
During my naïveté days specifically in 100L,i got acquainted with a decent looking lady who i always taught she was chaste. Our fellowship organized a talk show on pre-marital sex and she was among the speakers.

She condemned pre-marital sex tanishing it as wrong not only spiritually but even physically due to risk of STI and Pregnancy. In upcoming election i even nominated her as vice president.

Some days before announcement of the new excos, i forgot what brought about our discussion about her between me and one my friend. The greatest shock of my life is when he told me he use to see the girl in their compound at least 3 times a week in the evening.

On further probing, he told me she usually meets guy who smokes in their compound who bangs her anytime she comes.

I was shocked to the spine, i was like he was just lying. This guy went further with proves. Since that day anytime i look at the girl i just wonder at the double lifestyle.

BTW

She still became the vice president [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon]✅She has not yet being caught

Ever vouch that a girl is decent only to be surprised when you found out she was not who she appears to be?
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