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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:50am On Oct 06, 2020

Pre-wall women and when they hit the wall.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:47am On Oct 06, 2020

Women before they hit the wall and when they have hit the wall.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:45am On Oct 06, 2020

LIVINGICON:
Evening and midnight newspapers are gonna have nightmares even in the afternoon.

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:14pm On Oct 05, 2020

The Wall revisited
The wall is the point in a woman 's life when she is no longer highly desired (sexually) by men. It is when she is no longer "hot", indicated by the decrease in her physical attractiveness, evidenced by a dramatic fall-off in approaches by men, lower expressed sexual interest by men, and fewer compliments from men - offline and online.

When a woman "hit the wall" or reaches the age when her physical attractiveness decreases, her SMV drops significantly, usually in her late twenties and early 30s.

It is called The Wall because of the effect felt by women is like having their face being hit by a wall.

Alternatively, the wall is a point in a woman's life where her ego and self-assessed view of her SMV exceed her actual sexual marketplace value. When she hits The Wall , she still feels entitled to the attention she received pre-Wall (when she was on her sexual peak).

It is often a startling and frightening experience for women when they realize they can no longer automatically win interest from men.

This usually occurs as a wake-up shock to women when they realize that their power over men was temporary and that their looks are fading. This usually results with first denial and then a sudden change in priority towards looking for a husband.

Even after hitting the wall, many women will squander a few more precious years testing her SMV with alphas to double-check, hoping her perceived decline was a fluke, this will make her even more
bitter when she finally has to settle for a worse-
beta than she could have gotten before because of squandering her youth.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:06pm On Oct 05, 2020

More on epiphany phase
The reason it’s called the epiphany phase, is because this is the time in a woman’s life when she realizes that her sexual market value has been in steady decline .

She suddenly comes to the realization that she is struggling to compete with “younger, hotter, tighter”, and the men she could have easily had only a few years ago are not showing the same level of interest.

Thus, she changes her market strategy to appeal to “ The Good Men “, those men of whom she said “You will make a great husband” , “ Why are you single ” and “ You are such a great friend“. Those men, who while she was busy doing body shots, partying and enjoying her sexual self-discovery, got a degree, a professional job and built a capacity to provide. This is how the transition starts.

Her desire for men who are exiting, confident, aloof, impulsive, aggressive, dominant, direct and disagreeable, remain her preference for short trysts however for the first time in her life the men who are stable, relaxed, a bit more neurotic, attentive, predictable, laid back, cooperative, indirect and agreeable become visible to her.

Men who can provide for her long term well-being through stable incomes, personalities and preferences. Those men, whom to her younger self would have scarcely made a blip on her radar suddenly send up warning lights and sirens, she finds herself drawn to them.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:31pm On Oct 05, 2020

Age 40
Post-wall woman
The milk is curdled. Nobody wants it. Women’s smv crashes at age 40 as their youth is gone, their looks without applying a cake of makeup are fading, and even with makeup it becomes increasingly difficult to hide all the lines, growing clearer with each passing year.

This is referred to as a post wall woman.

The female window of fertility is gone at age 40 without the manipulation of a medical professional, and even then reproduction is very risky(menopause).

Beyond emotional manipulation and financial demands, the female has nothing much to offer a man by age 40.

Man
The wine still tastes great and lots of young women want a sip. Just as simple grapes can mature into the most incredible wines, so can men undergo incredible transformations.

Men’s SMV continues at its peak for as much as another decade, assuming he has taken care of himself and his life.

The man with options will be able to get women at least 10 to 20 years younger than himself.

He should also not allow himself to be “shamed” for maximizing the utility he has worked hard for when selecting a mate.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:18pm On Oct 05, 2020

Age 35

Woman
The milk is sour. Her hopes for having a family, the fancy wedding and the princess palace are either driving her mad or she has quietly resigned to the fact she will never live the Disney fantasy. She has likely accrued a lot of baggage (possibly a few Alpha bad boy kids) that she wants Beta provider money to cover.

Man
Meanwhile , the wine has never tasted better. It is rich and complex with its many flavors.

Predatory Females increasingly want to take advantage of him, as he is a very promising meal ticket, hoping to exchange their worn out, and increasingly infertile anatomy to take his wealth, status, and power away from him.

It worked in the past, but doesn’t work so well now that the milk has soured. No, only younger, thinner, firmer women are appealing to him.

She wants to use his wealth, status, and power for herself. But, he’s too smart to fall for that and is not the desperate for sex young man he once was.

His power is peaking now, and if he has paid any attention to the lessons life has taught him or been a student of Game, the 35-year old man who looks 25 because he has taken care of himself is dating chicks that are at least 10 years younger than him.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:59pm On Oct 05, 2020*

PHASE 3: EPIPHANY PHASE
Age 30
Woman
The milk has an odor, but it hasn’t completely soured. Just the psychological impact alone of reaching the big 3-0 is enough to make women immediately start lowering their expectations.

Suddenly, that guy she went to high school with who was invisible to her back then doesn’t look so bad anymore, especially since he has a job and resources she can consume to power her materialistic lifestyle. And the bad boys, well, they were a lot of fun but they have left her worn physically and psychologically through waves of pumps and dumps.

The ravages of spreading her legs for so many guys are rapidly decreasing her SMV and burning her out psychologically as she is discarded after each trip around the carousel, as is the aging process.

The biological clock starts ticking, and she goes into a panic mode if her family is asking: When are you going to give us a grandchild? She starts thinking this career isn’t everything it was cracked up to be.

She is now mature and still unable to get a lifetime commitment as such will try to stay away from playboys. She then starts giving nice beta males attention and when in r/ship she will tell him no sex before marriage that although she is not a virgin but she has repented.

She now realises that the playboys are not Husband material and not ready for marriage now she starts going for responsible guys, the guys she doesn’t love but who are capable of taking care of her and give her life time commitment.

Man
Meantime, the wine is just starting to develop a rich taste as it ages.. By age 30, he has laid the foundation for a lucrative career and is starting to feel his own power. This power was not given to him by nature, as was the case with the female.

This famous quote applies: A woman simply is, but a man must become .

He has to earn every bit of it. So with his newfound power comes a humility that the female did not have when she was given her powers by merely reaching the age of sexual maturity.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:18pm On Oct 05, 2020

Age 25-30:

Young woman
The milk, while still creamy and fresh, starts to show the first signs that it might not always taste so sweet as women pass the age of 25.

The Wall starts to come into view at this time. She can no longer go around without her face being emboldened with make up.

Her breasts, while still firm and high are showing some signs they might someday begin to droop. Her butt is also threatening a similar betrayal. Depending on the amount of drinking, smoking, drug use, and carousel riding she has indulged in.

She gets into panic mode at the realization that her power is not going to last forever sets because these indulgences speed up the aging process.

Young Man
Meanwhile, the wine is just beginning to age. The young man, still learning through life experience about women’s dual mating strategy and the pain of being either ignored or used and abused by women, as well as being tormented by nearly a decade of frustration, is starting to realize the Disney fantasies sold to him about women is a total hogwash.

While she has peaked her SMV and it's gradually declining, the man’s SMV is just beginning to ascend assuming he exercises , eats right, and invests in himself and his own personal development.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:41pm On Oct 05, 2020*

PHASE 2: EXPERIENTIAL/ENTITLEMENT PHASE

Age 16-24:

A lady
Experiential phase is that phase she sees a meteoric rise in the attention she receives from young men. The constant release of endorphins from the attention she receives clouds her judgment and puffs her ego.

The milk is delicious and fresh, so naturally everyone wants a taste. She often uses her newfound power to torment Betas and lower young men , playing with their emotions as she dangles her sexuality over them.

This is the phase you see her rolling with sugar daddies, big boys or men their 30s.

She can make Beta males do anything, and indeed a number of them orbit around her. These are not the men who are rewarded with sex.

She saves that for men who treat her poorly or other men she sees as dominant. The well-documented female preference for Dark Triad traits: Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy is in full effect at this age.

This is the stage of hedonism (pleasure) where she goes clubbing, parties, and try to experiment. She will jump from one dick to another assuming she is not from a strict home or being monitored.

A guy
On the male side, the grapes are just being harvested and crushed. At age 16-24 he is far from being the refined wine he will be someday.

While legally a man, the male undergoes another decade of psychological maturation according to philosophers like the great Schopenhauer.

There are lots of bumps and bruises ahead if the young man is not guided by a wise older man who knows the merciless mating game, or taken it upon himself to learn about women.

He is subject to all sorts of manipulation, and indeed many young men become walking wallets and doormats for women at this age.

By following the path less taken and learning the harsh reality about women, he can save himself a lot of hard knocks in the ruthless mating game.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:10pm On Oct 05, 2020*

LIFE OF A MAN AND A WOMAN

PHASE 1: Enlightened phase

Girlhood
The moment a girl enters puberty, she begins to discover changes in her body. The presence of estrogen fuels her feminine Characteristics such as development of breast, growth of pubic hair, her voice becomes softer. She experiences her first menses(menarche).

All this looks strange to her. However, with her mom by her side she is guided on what to do and if possible teachers and pears. Her mom then tells her the inner workings of a woman. She is special and men should treat her right, that she will marry one day and her Husband provides for her.

She also observes her parents life. How her father hustle for money for the family. If she needs money, her mom sends her to her dad.

Gradually she starts seeing the advantage of being a woman. As little as she is, she will start demanding money from boys to buy sachet water or buns and she is given. If she is very pretty, boys treat her preferentially(even small boys know what beauty and attraction is).

As she proceeds in her adolescent age her breast becomes bigger and she gradually starts developing hips and curves.

She starts getting compliment from her classmate, older guys, men etc. It usually get worst when she is in SS1 she is now a big girl.

This is where some ladies lose their virginity. Some ladies are lucky enough to escape this since they are still under their parents.

Boy hood
Just as a girls body changes in puberty same happens to a man but differently due to presence of testosterone. In this case his voice becomes deeper, pubic and axillary hair begins to grow, in general he becomes boisterous.

However, i noticed that men fill shy to tell boys anything during puberty as such the boy is left to discover to discover it himself.

Due to the nature of jobs, the influence of his mother while growing up is more pronounced.

However, most men are simp fathers so no better influence on the child. He only talks to him about books, hardwork, etc nothing about women for he himself is clueless.

Even if he gives advice it still won't be much of help. As such the child starts simping, his female classmate will collect his money.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:31pm On Oct 05, 2020

Women have enormous power over men in their nubile prime, roughly from age 18-25. In the past, this would have been put to use creating the next generation of men and women and forming a strong family.

Today, this window of beauty and fertility is typically wasted away on carousel riding. Many young men are totally invisible when women are in their prime.

However, nature is not without a sense of justice and a sense of irony. For the situation reverses as men and women age.

One timeless pieces of wisdom from the manosphere summarizes this process well, in all its politically incorrect glory: Men age like wine, women age like milk.

Think of women having an expiration date, just like milk. They become wrinklier, saggier, and often fatter as time goes on, especially if she is into the recreational eating phenomenon of the west(chocolates, hamburger) .

This phenomenon is known as The Wall. Once a woman has hit The Wall, men will privately say to each other:

Back then, I used to go to school with her and she was hot. But now I see her and I just feel sorry for her.

Like a milk gets sour. Women try to hold on to their beauty and youth, from which springs all their power, only to watch all three fade as the aging process set in.

Below, i will go indept into typical(prototype) life of a man and a woman in the 21st century :

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:23pm On Oct 05, 2020

52.) WINE AND MILK

Women’s power in the sexual market lasts about 10-15 years when not supported by makeup, and prosthetics. — Dpsychologist

Damn! The firm breasts, luscious thighs, thick and plump ass of a 20 year old. The female body is simply a wonder of nature and a work of art to behold.

A woman at her sexual peak is like a ripe piece of fruit just waiting to be tasted. Few can resist the temptation, even though tasting the fruit comes at an enormous price for a man.

However, this isn’t a station in life or a position of power that lasts forever. women realize this power early in life only to see it completely disappear by the time they’re middle-aged. Their body betrays them, and male attention shifts elsewhere.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:32pm On Oct 05, 2020

Lets roll

Celebrities › Re: MC Edo Pikin To Wife, Lily On 1st Wedding Anniversary: I’ve Not Cheated On You by Dpsychologist: 4:08pm On Oct 05, 2020

How sure can he even be

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:07pm On Oct 05, 2020

Joskiro50:
Kai, things I'm learning here ehnn. God bless you op.

I had a disagreement with my girlfriend recently. I stirred up the misunderstanding deliberately. Got her so upset that she deleted my contact and blocked me on WhatsApp . Babe thought I'd come begging, I just lock up.

Next thing she came apologizing, saying I started the whole thing and bla bla. Normally, I'd begin to apologise.. but no more, I'm a red piller now
I started forming angry and blocked her. Babe begged and begged before I forgave her. Guys, TRP is a thing!

Thats abundance mentality at Work bro. You did well just know when to bring it down.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:55pm On Oct 05, 2020

It is not your purview as a man to respect women. Respect has to do with submission and adoration. If you respect women, you are being submissive and adoring women.
Thus it is only a woman’s duty to respect men.

Dpsychologist:
Summary
It is man’s responsibility to lead, and woman’s to follow, for man is drawn to feminine submission in much the way woman is drawn to masculine dominance.

This basic premise is itself the very basic building block on which attraction is formed, and whether knowingly or unknowingly to those involved, all healthy, happy relationships operate upon this very foundation.

To associate masculine dominance with oppression is being ignorant of the functional order between man and woman.
However, it is with the great sadnesses we see such an idea adopted worldwide .

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:52pm On Oct 05, 2020

Newman20:
No I think it's more of the women around men conditioning us to become simps by feeding us bullshit. It could be sisters, mothers or any major female influence in our lives.

Lol i was just being sarcastic grin

Simping is a Blue Pill Conditioning. If you check my posts on blue pill/red pill dichotomy. You will see that our society encourages simping. When men simp around it is not just beneficial to women but also to the society.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:39am On Oct 05, 2020

Pstarogood0100:
Op God bless you abundantly because what you are saying is nothing but the truth. Redpill awareness is not about oppressing women but to prevent manipulation from them in future occurrences. For they love to dominate to love him but will later hate the man they succeeded in dominating.

Feminism is nothing but to thwart the will of God for man. Bible makes it cleat that man is the head of woman.

For I pray that men out there should have access to this kind of information to be liberated.

Its a pity, whenever I looked back to the days I was simping I felt like crying. Waisted years.

I telling you, redpill is not only being aware of women nature but it makes you to discover yourself as a man.

Nice inputs bro
Cheers!

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:38am On Oct 05, 2020

Pstarogood0100:
I bet you my fellow redpillers, repill will later in the future be revolutionized . By that time all men will be aware of redpill. That is when the bible will be fulfilled " A TIME WILL COME WHEN 7 WOMEN WILL BE MARRIED TO ONE MAN, THEY SHALL SAY, PLEASE LET ME JUST BEAR YOUR NAME. Isaiah 4:1.

What you said is a great prognosis.

However, Lets see how the future unfolds.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:36am On Oct 05, 2020

Newman20:
Dpsychologist

I'm really enjoying reading your thread. You are a great teacher of the redpill philosophy.

Just here to congratulate you on a job well done (and to follow of course )

Thanks bro.

You are highly welcome here.

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:34am On Oct 05, 2020

flyingpig:
shut up. He's saying the truth. Red pill is an awakening. I've been seeing that phrase littering nairaland and ignored it. Out of boredom I decided to request for a link and read it for the first time and I wonder why I haven't read it since 2017 I wouldn't have made serious mistakes I did in handling some private life. Every man must swallow a red pill or keep being a simp and heartbroken.

Yea the truth will always set you free.

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:32am On Oct 05, 2020

Newman20:
A good example of your first and second sentences are the pictures below.

The cartoon has explained it all.
Thanks for that

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Romance › Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Dpsychologist: 10:39pm On Oct 04, 2020

badaoyeyemi:
Couldn't have said it any better

Glad this is coming from a lady.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:19pm On Oct 04, 2020

CosmicPhoenix:
masculinity/femininity in women is beyond looks,some look feminine but when you see the way they behave,nothing feminine about them.

Of course masculinity /femininity in women goes beyond beyond looks. There are women with masculine behaviors For example, angelina jolie.

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Celebrities › Re: Erica's GoFundMe Campaign Ends With A Total Donation Of N33m (Photo) by Dpsychologist: 8:26pm On Oct 04, 2020*

This is the feminine advantage.
Her fame is enough to get her anything she wants.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dpsychologist: 8:24pm On Oct 04, 2020*

Wizpa:
The reason why men choose to be with one woman and sacrifice his last for her even knowing there are a lot of women out there is because he values his hygiene and health very much over exploring many women and ending up with diseases.

Inverse is for women, they really don't care about their hygiene for themselves, men they fvck, their families etc. they are much interested in the money a man has to offer to feed their fantasies and compete with other women.

More reasons women prostitutes (sell their body and health for money) much more than men.
70 % of local/average women are dirty, naturally dirty!! have you ever cohabited with an average campus girl in the uni?

Work your ass out till you're made and choose the woman of your class to be with.
If at all you're to date, be a fvcking alpha and make sure you take your red pills everyday.
And when konji time reach, don't forget to use your protection.

STDs are real and women don't give a fvck if you got it through them, they will just look away.

Women are always shouting upandan that men see them as sex object. However, they also see us as "money objects".

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Romance › Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Dpsychologist: 7:45pm On Oct 04, 2020

ogbonti:
you are a very brilliant soul, yes I said so and may God bless your brains, Amen!!!!

Amen o

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Romance › Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Dpsychologist: 7:42pm On Oct 04, 2020

EdCure:
There was one that followed me home one evening. She called her boyfriend and sent her account number for him to pay for her hair. They guy sent her the money immediately.
When I asked her, she said "how can I have a boyfriend and still spend my own money to make my hair?"

This is a girl that is gainfully employed and spending the weekend with me, cheating on him heavily.

She is eating her cake and the same time having it

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:34pm On Oct 04, 2020

Summary
It is man’s responsibility to lead, and woman’s to follow, for man is drawn to feminine submission in much the way woman is drawn to masculine dominance.

This basic premise is itself the very basic building block on which attraction is formed, and whether knowingly or unknowingly to those involved, all healthy, happy relationships operate upon this very foundation.

To associate masculine dominance with oppression is being ignorant of the functional order between man and woman.
However, it is with the great sadnesses we see such an idea adopted worldwide .

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:33pm On Oct 04, 2020

Moulding a woman

A woman is to be moulded, a man is to mould. If a man is to find a woman when she is young, he can craft her into the woman he wants her to be( young women are pliable).

The man must act upon and mould a woman more than she does him, for if the woman is to act upon and mould the man, she will create something she finds abhorrent.

Simply put, a woman will mould a man into someone she despises, but a man will mould a woman into someone he loves.

Women of quality are made
A good woman is the handiwork of great men, ideally well-raised by a strong father, but at the very least young and receptive to dominant, masculine governance.

A woman cannot, try as she may, become the embodiment of what a man wants without her chosen partner having a hand.

In the absence of a strong male figure in her life, she will in all likelihood fall prey to predacious dogma and destroy herself.

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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:27pm On Oct 04, 2020

Women are like fluid

By now you should be privy to the fact that women are more easily influenced by their nation’s culture, religion, family, and immediate surroundings than are men.

Yes, men are likewise influenced by these things, however, women are on the whole more easily influenced.

What is the reasoning behind this?

It comes down to women’s greater need for approval, a ability to be more fluid in character(section 1) as a form of adaptation and also a diminished capacity / desire to employ logic.

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