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I am glad to see that this generation is finally speaking openly about what marriage truly is and it’s certainly not fairy tales.

Personally, I believe that marriage should be taught as a formal subject in schools. Without early education, how can we expect young women who have grown up all their lives seeing themselves as equals to their male peers to suddenly adopt a secondary role simply because they are married? That expectation is neither natural nor fair.

Likewise, it is unrealistic to assume a marriage is an equal partnership when one partner, most likely the males, shoulders all the responsibilities.

Marriage should not be about hierarchy, it should be about partnership, shared growth, and balanced contirbutions. Preparing the next generation to understand this truth in a formal setting is not just wise, it’s necessary.

PigTormentor:
It's ok. It might be perfect to you but trashy to others. You are entitled to your own opinion and others are also entitled to theirs.

Well said

Ouch

luminouz:
You are learned but this is disappointing coming from you. You have no idea who or what he is yet you already gave your judgement based on aura? Is aura what you use to decipher/diagnose diseases in the hospital where you work? I could say the same about you too.
Learn to be logical and let the cops or people in charge of stuffs like that handle it.

I understand. I am disappointed in myself as well but that's what I feel and that's that

Hmmm. I don't know Ubi Franklin personally. Never met the man but I am inclined to believe this piece of news because he gives off that aura.

Unortunately, that counts for naught since one must first prove another's guilt. On that note, Ubi Franklin is innocent and infact can sue for defamation, unless of course the story is true.

Noooooooo

This is not surprising hence there is no need for the "mixed reactions sparking across the political landscape".

We have always known where his support lies.

Depends on my income.

Hmmm. I have always felt that she was there as some kind of prop. The chemistry is simply not there.

@op, please learn to ignore people who evoke negativity. It never really ends well. On that note, I enjoyed your posts and originality. Occasionally, I detected that chatgpt helped out in some areas and almost stopped reading because of that but the comments kept me going.

My advice is this. This thread is interesting because of your unique voice and positivity which are very engaging. Please don't lose that to naysayers and AI. I wish you the very best in your journey.

Don't bother. I don't need the money because I know that I will be dead in less than a minute.

MarkNsukkaBread:
They're not unhappy they're just stressed out,as you can see they're both pregnant

This makes it much worse

If they look this unhappy on their wedding day, I wonder what will become of them when the kids start coming

I equally denounce it on his behalf and blame detractors, AI and Canva

And yet Nnamdi Kanu remains locked up

Much ado about nothing

Thst sounds about right.

So nuclear fusion uding hydrogen molecules in water? What's next, time travel hole cooking with air?

It's the strangest thing

Softmirror:
You will lose so much if not your life sef if you don't cooperate and give them that 1k. Dey there de drag untop 1k. Don't you know what these people are capable of. Hmmm......? Sit down there dey do calculation. If you think they are making a lot of money you better go and join them. There are some things you just close eye and do to be at peace with people.

Give unto Ceaser...

Blackman101:
That is how it will start in not addressed now, soon the money will get to 3-5k monthly

I very much agree with this. No thanks to our failed government. Impunity thrives in the land when the needful is not done.

And I ask you, what is the next best alternative? Because from where I am sitting, the only answer is to engage these private security outfits.

OfficialSam:
The disturbing issue here is not compliance with respect to the payment of security fee, but the threat of illegal arrest and detention. That is so unlawful, and any enlightened victim can sue.

Again, restricting people's movement because they are not complying is another infringement of the right to freedom of movement.

It is the discretion of the residents to pay or not to. It is only voluntary, and not compulsory.

I totally agree but in sane climes. To quote our dear leaders, we live in a jungle and thus, WE MUST ADAPT. Someone earlier mentioned paying for literally everything, water, electricity poles etc despite paying tax. What does that tell you?

The insecurity in this country is so bad that our government is clueless on how best to address this. In the interim, what do you expect us all to do? Wait for the government to man up or be proactive and work together as a community to solve the issue? Your guess is as good as mine.

And why will you refuse to pay?

If you are uncomfortable with the amount, then call the community head and ask him what they intend to use the money for.

I don't know of any security personnel that will accept 15k per month as their salary. Their lives are literally on the line and they spend some of their nights on duty as well. We live in a country where we can't trust our local police and government to do the needful, so engaging these security outfits is non-negotiable or do you have a better alternative?

As for arresting people who won't pay, that's going a little bit overboard. In my residential area, what they do is to prevent defaulters from leaving the gated area with their personal vehicles until proof of payment is shown.

To those insisting that this is all wrong, I ask you all, WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE? This initiative is not perfect and can potentially breed and foster fraudulent acts, but then again, WHAT BETTER ALTERNATIVE DO WE ALL HAVE? If we truly want to address this head on, we should start by holding our government accountable. In the interim, your politicians, bishops, national/local pastors, MDs, CEOs and privileged classmates are all moving around with private security outfits.


@Op Pay the security fee.

Risky business. How much money is worth your life?

Rabble rouser. What a terrible way to live

I can tell easily when a content is generated by AI. It is completely souless

The key word here is pledge. Poor woman may never see the money

Not healthy in any form and way and yes you will gain it all back

Mirasteel:
All because he want people attention to shift from epstein list, what is Donald Trump afraid of? We all he's in the list and very guilty that's why he's doing everything to shift people's attention.

Thank you for reminding us. I almost fell victim to the plot. Bunch of wussies

Well, that settles it. Do take care. One can only hope that with this, she will stop her incessant attacks on Nigeria and her citizens.

Pretty sure some house officers and residents are crying noooooooooo now.

When we tried telling him, he failed to listen. Ego, Pride, Arrogance. Now, no one respects or fears America.