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jaybee3:
The terms would only benefit you and why would you bring a child into the world so you can be an absentee father?

Your quest is a very selfish one Sir

there's a misconception here,I never said I'm bringing a child for me to be absent,No o, am doing it incase anything happened

People pay for life insurance,are they planning to die? They did that incase anything happens

I'm coming back in few years but for the fact that everything is possible so I think very big

funlord:



What kind of early morning labe orun request plus story is this abeg? Drake abi? Not lil wayne sef! My friend go and shower, eat and then look 4 your daily bread abeg! This your pattern no be am! Lmfao!!!

is what am asking a big deal to you?

jaybee3:
You can always preserve your sperm if your worries are centred around leaving a legacy behind in the likely outcome of you not making it out of the drug game.

when I can actually make a woman pregnant and father a child

SAMBARRY:
I over recognise am




all this ritualists pretending like gentlemen sef ehenn

my dear I beg you in the name of God not to spoil this thread with your wrong assumption

SAMBARRY:
e change im Monica and storyline and think say some people go still fall maga



modamo ju

mr.am not the person you are talking about,I've opened something like this b4,not that one you talk about

moreeni:
drake!

Next time, don't scare your prospects by stating in the open that the father of the child is likely to die young doing bad business! Who wants that kind of bloodline? Whew! Anyways what u want isn't out of ordinary, older women wouldn't mind( ladies in their forties) .Now think demographic...

no ,I only stated that here,I don't say it in real life, the reason I give them is that I'll spend time in abroad and I need a child that'll be grown whem am back

SAMBARRY:



.weren't you the guy looking for a woman to get pregnant and then you'll pay her for getting pregnant and delivering.





so mischievous nairaladers flopped your plan and you've restrategized




all this ritualist looking for mumus online sef hennn



didn't the elders tell you that every body don wise up for nigeria including monkeys

please am not the one

sweettease:
As carefully thought out as this plan seems, some things don't add up. You'll take care of the child, Life and death, etc. Who will take care of the child if you die?


There should be a lady out there that just want a baby without the men drama, hopefully, you two will meet each other.

I have family who can take care of my child if anything happens

Where likely can I see this lady that may want a baby without the men drama

jrhymez:
U no get girl friend?

no

Good morning friends, I wish you all can see through my heart and know how important this issue is for me

I opened this thread sometime last year but I was slandered so I gave up,now I'm here again hoping to get a better solution

My name is drake,I'll be 32 in december,there's something eating me up which is how to get a girl who can give me a child,this sounds immoral but I know its possible,I don't want to do it in a crook way,which is impregnate a girl and refuse marrying her,I'm religious and I know that curse do work if she utter them bitterly

So I need someone I can have a chat with,agreed on it and I promise to take care of her through out her pregnant days and I promise to keep sending money for her and the child's upkeep

I know you may be wondering why I'm taking this path,well the reason is that I have a loooooong way to go in this life and marriage may be a stumbling block for me,am leaving this country next year to brazil and I'll spend a lot of time hustling, so I need a child now so I won't get old before having one,because I've vowed not to marry a white woman

If I said ok let me marry now before leaving,it'll be very bad for her and myself,because we'll feel emotionally indebted to each other,I'll always feel she's lonely and that'll lead her astray,all these may affect my sailing in this ocean of struggle,or if I said ok let me go and marry when am back,that means I maybe thinking of marriage when am over 40 years

I've spoken to few girls and they are all interested in marriage,one of them told me that she can live with my parents and wait till am back which is not what I want,infact I've come to realize that I can't see anyone here in igbo land because marriage is so valued to igbos

Now my aim of opening this thread is not to ask if this is something I should,I opened it to ask where,I mean which town or tribe can I see women that are not so keen about marriage,who can give me a child,bayelsa?warri? Calabar?uyo? Where?

Note:this child will be hers forever,because he/she will grow up in her custody,I can even marry her if things work well and I came back early,I'm only planning this because tomorrow is unpredictable

Mod pls help me push this to FP,this issue is for mature mind pls

tyconcepts:
How can you contemplate leaving certainty for uncertainty......??

Some musicians who has been in the scene for long now hasn't even blown even with a bomb tied to their chest.

many people have spent over 10 years in the music industry and nobody knew them before wizkid came and blew,things don't work that way,life is not first come first serve

@ op,its better to be @ the bottom of a ladder you want to climb than being ontop ladder you never wanted

If you didn't follow this music thing,if u like be dangote you'll always feel unfulfilled and depressed,follow your heart,even if you fail,you won't regret much

My cousin left football for school,he graduated and found a good job but he's always depressed when ever he see obinna nwaneri(former super eagle player) on tv because they were playing together @ school road league back then in aba






Guy follow your heart

Goovo:
Alright

is this "alright" a space booking or what?

psychologist:
For some posters above me Stop mistaking spiritual growth for salvation

In a nutshell the man is still save if he had once believe Nofsaid

please explain better

I believe that sometimes our pastors make mistakes while teaching/preaching but because we so much believe in them that we can't see their wrong teaching

my pastor was preaching today about spirit of alcohol,he told us a story about a young woman who was in a bondage of demonic spirit of alcohol,that she was a strong member in a particular church,instead of seeking for help she was on her own praying against the spirit and the spirit kept damaging her

he ended his sermon by advising us to pray and ask God to show and lead us to a place of our deliverance

I got confused,I thought we should pray and ask God to deliver us,I've been arguing this with my dad,he said the pastor was right,that one can't deliver himself

I thought God gave all of us the power,or am I wrong?

edwife:
I don't understand what's hot with these pastors?

Why are women so gullible when it comes to these men of "God"?what is it that they see in them?

All these pastors,one day one day.....

anybody that appears as a leader,church,school teacher(lecturer) ,political position, women easily fall for them

Rute:
There is also Rooibos Tea I don't know if u have it in Nigeria u can check the big supermarkets it's made in South Africa.
U can google maybe they export there as well

is it caffeine free?

tforever:
hello there is the great tea called aloe blossom tea and also caffeine free.

do you have the pic and how can I get it?

Last year I was having some issues with my stomach and imbalance breathing,early this year I found an information online about what could be the cause

They called it "Gastroesophageal reflux disease"(gerd) the symptoms they explained on the site was 100% what I was experiencing

Their remedy is to quit anything tea, chocolate or coffee which I did and miraculously the imbalance breathing normalized and my stomach and heart burn stopped

Since this year I've not tasted bournvita,milo or ovaltea ,what I use is only lipton and I don't like it

I made a further research and discovered that there are some powdered tea that I can use as someone who has "gerd" because it doesn't contain caffeine But my problem is that they are foreign

Please is there any nigerian product similar to bournvita,milo or ovaltea that I can use that is caffeine free?

Thanks

Cutehector:
Just gv her d fone and dnt call her anymore...

so if na you na this thing you go do

For real?

jpphilips:
@op
For you to get yourself in an oil company you must have made very good grades.

To make good grades, you must have a high level of discipline so I have no doubt you traded your social life for good grades except if you are a genius, then you can combine both.

Most of the things you wrote are laughable, your money gives you a kind of power you don't seem to know how to use.
You lack the pernaphenalia of social panache due to your academic indulgeance not any fault of urs though.
You lack what it takes to allow your persona outshine your status.

By what you wrote, I can tell you a few things about yourself, you are a shy person and you are definitely not attractive.

You said you spend more on women than average guys, well, most rich guys hardly do that except when they are socially disadvantaged.


A married man will definitely spend more on women than a bachelor for obvious reasons, as a wealthy bachelor, you are on a social advantage but you seem not to have the social skills to make it count.
And why do you alienate yourself socially? you should take a walk often in ur hood to know who is out there.
In an expensive car you can collect number in traffic na ur liver kill am. there is no limitation to how far a rich dude can get.

know when to be nice to women and know when to be ruthless it is a very thin line, if you lack the former, chances are that you will end up a mugu.

A man with a good job is serendipitous, you will never understand who you are till you meet your ilks who made money on the street.

I have been there done that and I have been everywhere, you are really wasting.

You need a coach to brush you up a bit.

Get a rich friend who made money on the street and learn his ways, your obvious challenge is your source of income.
Sorry bro!!

its obvious you don't understand what the op is talking about,from your respond you are describing how to get a girl which is not what the poster is talking about,he's talking about getting a woman who'll love him