MARKone:

I will assume your ogbomosho / ibadan trip did not work out.

am happy you traced my threads to see what I've been through, it didn't work out, I've been through a lot, I've lost my faith in God, am heading to a different path right now

fuckshit: e be like say d guy dey find sugar mommy wey im go dey fvck 4 money :p

no be sugar mummy bro, people who understand the language go know exactly what am talking about

MARKone:

Mr drake where r u now

am in calabar

derrick333: Men @work?? Trow more ligt plz ,we novice cud b of hlp2u,

that's why I said few will understand the language and offer help as soon as possible

But is it not possible for someone to ask for something here and get it,even if its a rope to hang my self is what am asking for,pls y'all should provide it

I'm about giving up on life,all hope almost lost,graduated with a good degree but has nothing to show for it

Prayed but God refused to answer,family members see me as a liability,dad calls me a looser,I'm almost on my own now,I think its time to do whatever I see,am tired of praying waiting for a better day, its high time i look for a better way

Am searching for "MEN AT WORK" most people won't understand this language,the few that understands,hook me up asap,I got my mind made up

I'm about giving up on life,all hope almost lost,graduated with a good degree but has nothing to show for it

Prayed but God refused to answer,family members see me as a liability,dad calls me a looser,I'm almost on my own now,I think its time to do whatever I see,am tired of praying waiting for a better day, its high time i look for a better way

Am searching for "MEN AT WORK" most people won't understand this language,the few that understands,hook me up asap,I got my mind made up

no girl wants 2 date me,even wen i offerd money,am nt ugly,som1 said its spiritual wife problem,could it be true?

i'm a true son of my father,a man who treked from anambra to owerri after the civil war in 1970 on bare foot but return home on a 504 brand new car,ibadan was my destination but i found my self in a town called ogbomosho,living in a free house,i always knw dat my destiny is in my hand,people fail because they dont try,am still watching to see what this will be

souleymon: what's chasing you from your state.
Are you paying for visa to go to ibadan
why compare to outside the country.
am sure this is a fiction mission

this no leave no transfer mentality u hav is why some people remain poor,nothing is wrong with trying somewhere else my bro

chaircover: Ibadan is cheap compared to some other cities, but you really must have something in mind ie plans.

I wish you all the best.

thanks, but if people must have plans b4 they travel then no1 will go to europe,people go there to take what they see

fittty: Ummm that money no be am oh.. But u go see guest house for 2k per night, discount of 7nights deyy included. Try enter beer parlor for the guest house or any other bar wey dey close make u paddy with any guy(igbo)for there. The one wey look like say e get house wey fit accommodate oh! But try buy am shayo one or two times before you chip the issue in. As e be like say u be igbo boy, na sunday b d best time to meet other igbo boyz wey come flex for beer palor. From there you fit dey help dem hustle for dem shops and make small small money till you get your ground.... Best of luck. Lol

thanks bro,dis is encouraging,am heading 2 the park right nw

pls how much is the cheapest hotel in ibadan? I want 2 pay 4 a week,b4 the week ends i must hook up with somone by his grace

Screwface: I stay in Ibadan, and depending on what your aims are, #38k can be ok for you to survive on for a month. Survive?
By survival, I mean, the basic things like food and cost of transportation basically. The foodstuffs are relatively cheap. The cost of transportation is the cheapest in all the state capital I've been to. Sachet water is still sold for #5 naira here. Unlike in some places in the west that I've been to.

Again, what are your intentions in the town? If you are thinking of starting up here, as in, accomodation and all that, then I'm afraid, you are on a long thing...38k sounds like child play, seriously!

Goodluck though

yes i think of starting up there,is there no possibility of standing with #38,000?

wasak: what are ur plans? looking for a job? starting a business or what? we need more

my going to ibadan is like the same way people travel to europe,america or asia to look 4 a greener pastures ,they don't have any particular thing in mind,all they want is to be there and take what they see in order to survive

y'all should talk to me

fubbyy: thats the spirit bro,move on,God is with u

thanks

wake up and decided to enter ibadan and try my luck,a town that i don't know any1,no friend no relative,i don't even know why i choose ibadan,i'm only following my heart,going to the far south west all the way from owerri,i know my destiny is in my hands so i want 2 control it,am leaving 2morrow morning but i have only #38,000(including my transport)how can survive?ibadan residents pls help

fubbyy: I'm a strong hiphop head but I can't remember the last time I went to the market to buy cd,its either I get from a friend and transfer to my phone through bluetooth or I surf the net and download it

Infact I have sites book marked in my phone that I can find any music that am looking for And I'm sure am not the only one like this,many people are

So my question,is invention of internet,phones & ipods affecting record sells?

yes it does affect it but the truth is the money artists make is never from record sells,its from shows and endorsement deals and some other things

We went for a picnic while in school,while we were swimming me and one chick got into a romance,as we were kissing I quickly took my finger down below to get some, to my biggest surprise,I touched pad, I asked she said it was empty,damn.. That killed my mojo immediately,girls do plenty things o

But poster o,there's nothing romantic about this topic,its too disgusting to be here,mod please move this to health section

fubbyy: My cousin is living in the usa for about 6 years now and I'm planning to travel to usa after my nysc next year but the stories coming from him is not encouraging at all

Anytime we have a chat all he tells me is how much he miss and wish coming back to nigeria, he said life in the usa is not what they seems to be,he advice me to stay back since I'm already sure of a good job after service

These are his complains

1... Everybody minds his/her own business unlike naija where you mingle and make friends easily,therefore he's more lonely there than nigeria

2.... He's not as free as he is in nigeria,freedom in the usa is limited while naija freedom is unlimited

3... He get girls easily in nigeria,in nigeria he talk to a girl anywhere,inside bus,church,street,class,market,in the usa you can't just stop a girl anyhow and talk to her,if you do you might get arrested for a sexual harassment

4... You can work and make money but you hardly get rich,he asked me a question which I consider as a fact, he asked me if I've ever seen an american returnee whom is rich,which I've never seen
ETC....

Sometimes I just feel like this guy is just discouraging me,is he?

he's actually telling you the truth,especially that no 4

fubbyy: In every blog I come across online I keep seeing my romance topics I created in nairaland,if I google my nairaland topic I see them in different blogs with no edition, the person do copy and paste

Last week I saw my pic on som1's tattoo site,he's flaunting my tattoos as one of his works,he even used it as a front page pic,I mailed him,he said a friend got it on facebook and sent it to him,he apologized and I let him use it

today I just googled the topic I opened yesterday and I found it in naijapals.com, are my topics that interesting or what? And the person always claim he's the one those things are happening to and takes all the glory(and sometimes insults)

Is this a kind of joke or what? I know am a celebrity here but that doesn't mean people will copy what ever that's going on in my life and put it on there neck, on a very serious note, if you are responsible for this please stop it, am not against copy and paste, after all the news we post here are copied from other blogs but please not things about my personal life, abeg abeg ageg I don't like it

fubbyy again

Lol.. @ this poster, all your threads are controversial, I admire your confidence shaa, I've seen your pic, you be fine boy (no doubt) but sorry to tell you that you are a bit childish( no harm o)

billyG: Picture 1st b4 i give an advice.

you know I can't post my pic on a public forum like this

You know how it is for som1's face to look skinny, you can advice without seeing my pic

am 28 years old, my body weight is average but my problem is my cheek bones, they are too visible that makes me look so skinny, I just don't like the looks

Is there anyway to add weight only on my face and get rid of this cheek bones

fubbyy: The media has made being slim a super look every girl must have which has made some girls starve themselves in the name of looking for slim fit

I keep asking my self why do we(not all though) want pretty slim girls but always get attracted to bbw(big beautiful women)especially the ones with big hips and big boobs, every time you hear and read about how super hot slim girls are but in real life bbw gets all the attention

Where I work presently we have many clients that are slim pretty girls but there is a new bbw in the house and guess what? All attention goes to her,even slim girls observe this too,one slim fit chick was thinking out loud why men chase bbw around but praise slim ones on media and internet

When I was dating a slim chick she comes around with all her friends except one chubby one,she never wanted me talking to see the girl,one day she opened up that men so much admire chubby girls so for that she's too careful

Bbw wins slim girls any day any time(no offence to slim girls o) I might not be correct but am just writing out my observance,I know some slim chicks will hate me for this thread,una fine o but bbw are finer, I can't just help it but say it

The aim of writing this thread is to let all the bbw know how hot they are and to also ask why men(not all)like slim girls only online but always chase bbw in real life

Has any1 ever notice this? Am not generalizing but keep a pretty slim girl and a bbw, 70% men will go for the bbw

so true

fubbyy: The media has made being slim a super look every girl must have which has made some girls starve themselves in the name of looking for slim fit

I keep asking my self why do we(not all though) want pretty slim girls but always get attracted to bbw(big beautiful women)especially the ones with big hips and big boobs, every time you hear and read about how super hot slim girls are but in real life bbw gets all the attention

Where I work presently we have many clients that are slim pretty girls but there is a new bbw in the house and guess what? All attention goes to her,even slim girls observe this too,one slim fit chick was thinking out loud why men chase bbw around but praise slim ones on media and internet

When I was dating a slim chick she comes around with all her friends except one chubby one,she never wanted me talking to see the girl,one day she opened up that men so much admire chubby girls so for that she's too careful

Bbw wins slim girls any day any time(no offence to slim girls o) I might not be correct but am just writing out my observance,I know some slim chicks will hate me for this thread,una fine o but bbw are finer, I can't just help it but say it

The aim of writing this thread is to let all the bbw know how hot they are and to also ask why men(not all)like slim girls only online but always chase bbw in real life

Has any1 ever notice this? Am not generalizing but keep a pretty slim girl and a bbw, 70% men will go for the bbw

so true

Me sef I dey ask this same question, but I think its a sin because bible commented on it (can't remember the verse shaa) but my question is the same as yours, if its a sin how can a human get rid of the thought totally which is not possible

Anyway we have pastors here whom can give us the answer

Put more effort in working out, especially pushing weight

Okiki_Oluwa: @drake99, it's a spiritual problem. It once happen to one man in a village, near the stream, along the farm, close to the village square, beside the King's Palace, near the banana tree.
Consult the great herbalist, Okija_juju in his Nairaland Shrine for a solution.
Did you mention that the small girl's mother @ your Aunt's place also got a crush on you. Then you are not attracted to under ages alone.
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Last Bullet: Make sure you PM Okija_juju or visit his shrine for solution. (O lewu gan, Odikwa risky, it's dangerous).

yes the mother does but such happens ones in a while, but these gals issue is almost on a daily basis

fubbyy: My friend just ask me to tell him the truth if his new chick fine or not, he kept saying no guy dey send the chick, he was expecting some rivals but seeing none

I told him he's lucky but dude never liked it that way

,Is there any1 here feeling the same way

Chicks also how do you feel when no girl eyeing your guy?

Lol... Anyway some girls over frowning could lead to that

This is something that I keep wondering, first of all, am not small in size, I don't have babyface, I got full beards but I wonder why small girls always got crush on me

Despite my harshness yet every small girl that sees me automatically start dreaming of having me, one once tuck a "I love you" written note inside matches I came to buy @ their store and gave it to me

The other one keep opening her legs while sitting in front of me @ the compound

Another one stole my pic from face book and save it in her phone and her elder sister saw it which caused trouble

Currently am in enugu to visit my aunt, their flatmate daughter has started behaving funny, wearing mini skirts, go down stirs to fetch water whenever I'm goint to fetch water, always feel shy when she sees me, yesterday because my aunt's kids went to school for their result she refused going to market because she knew I will be home alone

I had to lock my self up watching merlin, she kept entering to take a film every now and then, this is a girl in ss2 o

Through out last night and this morning her attitude has made her mum(whom also got crush but that's a thread 4 another day) noticed and start following her up with harassment, the mum kept giving me a warning looks whch has made my stay their so uncomfortable

Her mum slapped her this morning to change her short skirt to something normal, I pray my aunt doesn't notice this too(I know her mum won't tell cause she's also guilty)

My point is, mature girls don't have this crush on me,though it happen once in a while but I think the one coming from small girls(under 18) is unbearable

I don't really know why things I don't like is always what I got, some dude will be happy to be in my shoes but I detest small girls

How can I control this