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He want to leave as a free agent so Napoli will not benefit from his clause contract, and it's paining Napoli because they won't get shishi as his contact will expire January next year I think

Is it the work of the nurse to bring the patient out from the car?
The man is just chasing clout abeg

Which kind nonsense write up you use cover the video

Same issue here

So na only one TV they get for that complex? He's actually a bad man then

saintbillion:
Eat this one

Xking:
please people things are hard o, i will appreciate anything
fcmb
sylvester 6657975017 thanks

It's everywhere, hunger doesn't kill. You will be fine.

They need to be paid asap.

Why not go to the hospital

angelEmade:
I think you are a very ungrateful person. Sorry OP but I have to be blunt. If she loves you naturally so much as you claim and willing to stay with you even after knowing your status...then you don't even deserve her.

she have her down side which I don't like, her truthfulness is questionable and have no reservations for harsh words, like you're useless, heartless,(for things that don't warrant such) and I've big turn off for ladies like that.

Previous threads! https://www.nairaland.com/6533924/hiv-positive-it-right-time

Hello everyone! So told her about my status, she didn't believed, she said I just want to use that as an excuse, because when I told her the reason I've been treating her like nobody is because of my status since she said she can't have anything to do with one that is positive.

However she denied saying such things and that even though, am I not going to marry? Well she have done the the test several times and she's negative, like I said earlier, I can't infect her because I'm undetectable.

She's still willing to stay despite that, but the challenge is I don't have feelings for her I just wished for us to be friends. Note: I don't have money oo, I don't buy her things o, she just love me naturally.

Can I grow to love her in future, or should I just look for someone that I love that loves me back and can I find that easily with my status?
Meanwhile I'm in my early 30s and I looked younger than my age

takeit123:
Read Section (24) (1) (b)

It's left for the court of public opinion and the law court to decide if you're a bad person. I won't comment again on this your action justifying your act. You felt bad that someone infected you intentionally. Didn't you?

yes I felt bad, because the person knows she's undetectable and yet nevr said anything about non condomise sex. whereas I know I'm undetectable and I condomise

takeit123:
Do you know you committed a despicable crime? It's sad Nigeria is not a sane country, if it were to be a sane clime, your account should have been tracked by now and law enforcement agencies ought to have arrested you. FYI Check this link below




https://www.hivjustice.net/news/nigeria-senate-passes-law-criminalising-hiv-non-disclosure-exposure-and-transmission-with-vague-and-overly-broad-statutes-in-the-sexual-offences-bill/

tell me where I did wrong

39. (1) An act is intentional and unlawful if it is committed. b) under false pretences or by fraudulent means.

(3) False pretences or fraudulent means, referred to in sub-section (1) (b), include circumstances where a person

(c) intentionally fails to disclose to the person in respect of whom an act which causes penetration is being committed, that he or she is infected by HIV or any other life-threatening sexual transmissible disease.

I did not want to have sex with her, I never force her or hiding my status because of sex,I never saw a relationship but she felt we are dating ,I never infected her. so you see
I was preventing stigma and how far she might go to tell about me.

I'm not justifying my actions, because if I told her she might not want sex, neither do I need it , for over 5month I never touched her, she felt somwhort and came, I also ensure I protect her for what she dont know. try understand me , and stop making me feel like a bad person

I wonder the way some of you reason, I never said I went for her and I want to marry her , I can only disclose my status to her if only I initiated the love. so any lady that shows interest on me I should just tell them my status? oh.... if they go out telling people , do you guys know what that means? All the sex she initiated it and I'm not the sex type as she thinks that will make me to love her was it and moreover knowing my status I protected her in all ways from it . I cant go out and be telling people that want me to date them that I'm positive, that's nonsense. despite keeping my distance, not wanting her to come she's still there and I think this one meant well that's why I said should I inform her now because I think she is real despite my love for her is less than 40.

tpapi:
so if u do a test today, d result wil be positive or negative

will be positive because the antigen is In my blood but the virus is not. and you can only infect someone if you have the virus in your system

takeit123:
"HIV is real. If for anything use condom that person you see healthy you don't know what he/she is battling inside. Also know that this world we leave in is evil I became positive because a positive person intentionally pass it to me, but I told my self I can't do such evil to anyone not for any reason. Being positive is not the END but living positive is the goal"
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Op, those were your words. You're pathetic and evil. You know you're positive and you never disclosed your status to the hapless lady. You should be locked behind bars.

Seems you are just pain, we used protection despite I'm undetectable, I cant infect her, Do your research. HIV positive can marry HIV negative person and the partner will not be infected if the positive person takes his or her drugs well and also undetectable, which I am.

takeit123:
The way out is for you to beg God for forgiveness. Report yourself to the nearest police station and allow the law take is course. I just don't know why folks like you are selfish and evil. If she was your sister or your daughter, would you be happy if a guy did that to her?

I went to your previous thread and copied the exact words you used. I pray God has mercy on you. You've literally pulled the trigger on the innocent lady. You claimed you love the lady like 40 percent. In my opinion you had no iota of ove for her. If you truly loves someone, even as little as 2 percent...you'd still care about their health and wellbeing.

listen to me I did her no wrong, I never said I infected her ,because I can't , and she is not positive. Read very well .

uboma:
You should have informed her about your HIV status before initiating sex with her....

What's the way out now.

yanabasee1:
Yeah, just end it and ask her to go run test for HIV.

I cant infect her, I'm undetectable.

yanabasee1:
Why would you even have sex with her in the first place without telling her that you're positive...

Using condom isn't even sure or certain... It'd be he decision to screw you, knowing what she's into...

If it were in a sane country, you'd be sued for keeping such a secret....

So is better I dont tell her and end the relationship ? which I have been hoping to end since ,because of the attitude I've portrayed so far but she's tolerating it.

Hello everyone , please I need advice on this.
my previous thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5454328/hiv-positive-journey

https://www.nairaland.com/6150729/hiv-positive-journey-part-2

This is another account I forgot my password.

I will be brief on this, We've been together for 6month now, hard sex, she's very very nice, caring despite me not offering anything to her and she never asked. Because of my status, I never took the relationship serious because before we started I jokingly asked her about her opinion on HIV persons and she said she cant do anything with such persons.

Despite my non challant attitude toward the relationship she still hold on, sometimes I go a week without calling her , treat her like nobody but she's still there, even got me stuff. Meanwhile, I dont have money, my excuse of treating her like trash was because I dont have money and I don't feel happy not doing things for her(which is also true, ) her responds was she dont love me because of money.

she's always bitter about me not showing her love and I do feel her pain and not that I'm that ladies guy self, rating my ladies guyness, I'm less than 40% while her type she's above 60% when it comes to guys likeness.. Should I tell her my status. Meanwhile, I'm undetectable meaning I cant infect her.

Note: And my love for her is less than 40, her love for me is over 80. I did not asked her out ,it just started like that as she brought to my awareness we are dating.

edited. The way she loves me is priceless, but I want it to end because i dont have that love feelings for her or can I build it as I've never been into any serious relationship and I'm above 25 below 33, the fear is that i might not have someone that loves me like her,

Lalasticlala help for more opinion