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tRoOE:

If she leaves than she has to vacate the house and other properties too
How are we sure when she leaves him, the next man that comes along will not be 2 times worst than him or will she has to stay single for the rest of her life.

and why would God provide the woman with someone worse than a husband that caused a miscarriage and didnt care for his sick wife?

Why settle for garbage when she could end up with way better? People really need to think more positively when it comes to stuff like this instead of just accepting trash cos of fear.

people look for my trouble, ozii

what did they work for? She said he husband wasnt there for her when she had a miscarriage AND cancer. Why would anyone suggets she stays with someone like that?

senetee:
@D-reloaded
Nope, women can study whatever they like and enjoy doingbe it biohemistry, architecture, engineering, whatever. I have friends who had full time jobs when they were single, resigned when they started having kids and picked up jobs after some years of parenting. So if a system is flexible, they can always resume at something related to what they enjoy doing.

Ah an is studying business administration bull**** now? As long as managing a business is a needed skill, it certainly does not sound like a useless study path.

Not everyone can afford to just rely on one person for income. Dont know why it's always the "mother/wife" that has to give up something. In the midst of leaving her job with the excuse of raising children and the husband dies or loses the job, what happens? What if she can't get that old job back? What happens then? The children starve? what?

Not saying that those who decide not to work are evil, that is their business. I think it's a stupid idea but na their own but for people to EXPECT women to do this? Um No. Doesnt work that way and i don't know why people keep claiming that those with parents who work are raised by strangers, don't know what kind of family set up you people might have but some of us have good extended family members if the need for help arises

senetee:
Anyways, I believe in a societal system which allows outsourced jobs which allows women to start 9 - 5 jobs when they anticipate more idle time as they are educated and skilled plus with growing internet penetration, what stops a woman from working from home e.g writing articles, research, mentorship etc.

So women should only study certain types of majors so they can get "stay at home" jobs?

No wonder 95% of Nigerian females that live in Nigeria study bullshit like "Business Administration", to appease men like you eh?

oh cool. All The shitty movies are availible

wendymanda:
Has anyone watched the movie made from "Kite Runner"?

Read the book, loved it

However missed the movie when it was in theatres

Verty unlike me

why would you refer to your hair as "kaffir"

you sure you're nigerian?

Now that is what you call hairy woman. look at the chest. Um ew.

I dont know why the estranged wife is complaining. She should be happy

She's now healthy and she can leave this malcious man. Why would she wanna stay with a man like this

explained he left me when I had cancer. He caused my miscarriage when I was carrying his child. I heard he got two other women pregnant

She should wish them both well and move on with her life/

well im not exactly syaing dump him. . . .yet

Just make it clear to him that you dont appreciate his behavior and that it's not helping out the situation. Also suggest that he takes your resume to places for you so you two can both be looking for your behalf

Have you check the job sectiopn here on NL actually? Not sure how reliable they are but it wouldnt hurt to try.

Radiant:
Rofl. . . Tiffy, you never cease to make my days

I do what I can

1) Your boyfriend's looking for a reason to leave you.

This is usually what it really translates to.

Maybe im insane but dont most bfs who have jobs help their women by helping them send out their resumes too or t5elling friends to help them be on the lookout instead of making bloody threats?

That aside I hope you arent just relying on "fasting and prayer"

Up Chelsea!

the homosexuals are out in full force

lol is this the same 4Play following alagolo around like a depraved dog?

Lmao. Better provide him with so much needed milk, alagolo

what sane person marries those nazis??Austrians? Ugh

Did the family even know about the wedding, how could they have thought she was dead for almost 20 years?? So sad and the dude isnt even locked up

kellyp:
Being a house wife is good sometimes. Of course one can never go without education, but if im married n my husband is rich,why bother working,as far as he gives me money without my asking everytime

What a ridiculous question. What if he loses his job?

It's women that rely on others for good that end up being trapped if the marriage becomes hell.

lol no. I just think it's funny that sjhe's asking for you to keep on topic when your post is right there.

tpia:
@D reloaded

oh, how did you find this song?

I discovered it the other day and wanted to keep it for myself only.

This song puts Madonna waaaayyyy over the top.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERNzfLJWWIY

lol for yourself abi? Crazy person.

Im a huge Madonna fan

It's such a lovely song isnt it? Such great lyrics IMO and the video is beautiful.

were you blind to her original post?

Yet you leave these same white women with children and run back to marry these horrible Nigerian women in the end anyway

so give us a break

Zandra, can you really blame those who are rude? There's a thread here, if I had time I'd look for it for you, where a guy was complaining that this girl he met at a party was "cheap" cos she gave him her number after they were talking for 2 hrs. He said she didnt resist eniough so she must be cheap and was asking Nlanders whether he should throw away her number. If I hadnt read the thread myself, I wouldnt believe it.

I ask you, are these people human beings or retarded animals? Who wont bloody be rude when you have such imbeciles roaming the streets? Abegi.

Aerosole have the ugliest shoes jare

which one is Nordstorm rack? Never heard of that before.

I'd sooner do NineWest than DSW.

they are nothing but weak and insecure jerks, putting on a SHOW,

There you go

You havent even heard where she should jab sef, cuteass