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exponent, you've still yet to answer our questions. You're boring me.

well David my time in Nigeria, I've never SEEN or heard of such EVER.

money for what?

Everyone should be paranoid.

doyin, seriously she's pretty gross.

Guess it's a lesson for people like me. I'm always tired. Like my mom, I can sleep wherever, however Im a light sleeper.

Would have definitely known if some weirdo decided to sit next to me out of the blue.

Lmao AJ, the man sounds like a deprived lunatic. How do you get up from your seat and go harrass some woman in another seat completely away from you. He couldnt deal with himself in his own original seat? Were.

I think I'd cut my hair after that. seriously, imagining psycho secretions in my hair makes me sick.

[quote author=Ms. Lurker link=topic=119436.msg2065331#msg2065331 date=1205780530]I have question for you D. Purely out of curiousity. If people in Africa are watching what we do, and you see how careless some people are about AIDS? Wouldn't that want you all to educate each other more in that arena to prevent you guys from having our issues?[/quote]Like I said Lurker, I'll be the first to tell you Africans are hypocrites. I even have "enemies here cos I have no problem saying this and Im called 'american wannabe" which is fine with me. Just saying in Africa andffor example Nigeria, most parents rather hide their head in the sand in regards to things like sex, etc. They want to live in the dream land where everyone is a virgin and gets married as virgins. they rather not believe otherwise so they dont bother educating their children, you're right, you'd think by now they'll learn but they dont. They rather stick to their Conservative denial ways and "pray for the best", you'll hardly see people passing out pamphlets or condoms telling you to protect yourself , instead they rather just scream abstinence which most people OBVIOUSLY dont follow but they dont care. They rather preach that and pray you listen, never the alternative. they believe telling people about condoms and such will make them become promiscuous.

It's different in the States, yes in SOME ways the US is conservative however this doesnt stop them from spreading information about this, sex education classes, absence classes, various options, you have planned parenting, various clinics, everything that can help people rather than just leave them in the dark so I have a problem that in a country where all these things exist, all these info is being pushed on us, black americans STILL rank high. condoms are bloody free in planned parenthood, what is stopping them from using it, even if the dude is on the d/l, i pose the same comments towards the high % of teen pregnancies in the black community as well. What exactly is their problem and I dont wanna freaking hear anything about inner city youths like exponent/hero like to throw at people. Dont care how poor you are, condoms are given out like bloody candy here.

You can never see anyone do such in Nigeria due to shame.

abi? I doubt the OP has even been back to NL

iwo man yi,. stop looking for trouble with Busta o.

she's responding to the topic at hand. Not that hard to see,

Lol if that's the quality of "women of virtue", I'll pass.

you can still add yours diva. Im interested

18 eh? small boy. I'll introduce you to morenike alagolo.

they are blamed cos they dont protect themselves better like their counterparts, Lurker

At least if you guys wanna dio the whole Africa comparison which doesnt make sense cos most countrie sin Africa are in denial of education about the diease, being ultra conservative and against sex education.


Seeing that the States constantly throws such information down our throats, what's stopping BAs from listening? After all the same info is being exposed to ALL americans. what's their excuse. i understand the down-ow thing but why are black women that foolish to take on such risk thus making them the highest on the bloody list

Good  

anywhere I see you mention Yorubas, i'll expose you. Oloshi. Have a nice day.  

Is the thread titled Igbos only?

Liars.

what an odd number

you're too old

reality4us:
My sister just be very careful with this relationship. You must have read what many of them testified here that adultry is a very serious offense in their place but they failed to tell you that it is only for the women. While the men are allowed by their traditions to indulge in as many adultrous relationships as possible any attempt by their wives is always tragic. So will you love to marry a man whose traditiion allows him to misbehave any how he wants while caging the wives?.

Is it true that it's only for the women? If so that is bloody lame

Cant believe people are still asking such dumb questions in this day and age.

Not your fault, let's see someone who isnt a millionaire try to run a one income household in the States and see if they can barely stay afloat.

Home and CAREER exist, gosh wake the hell up. Your friend is an idiot if she quits. Tell her I said so.

unfortunately it's the crap that is now popular

and yes I am aware but that doesnt stop black people from calling those who DONT listen to the "hippity hop" as being 'white washed" therefore, THEY must not know they are also behind the so called "whitey" music

Btw, stay on topic.

One group still has it higher than the others despite them ALL being exposed to the same "trashy tv and violent degrading music", this DEGRADING music made by YOUR people Btw.

Niyi, Im done with that woman

I'll stick to making fun of Gamine instead.

you dey mind am? Everyone is entitled to confidentality unless like you said it's a diease of interest

Either way it's still a lame excuse, the whole "well white people have it too!" doesnt answer the question

lucrabusi. go away please. I have nothing more to say to you. Not even gonna bother reading your garbage.

all I said is "hmm typho", if that's enough for you to continue to whine and write lengthy replies filled with rubbish na your own problem. Someone pointed out an error in a phrase NOT a typo, you corrected the person's typo, I pointed out YOUR typo and instead of accepting your mistake like a MAN, you rather whine for hrs.

apparently I have successfully gotten under your skin, hence the fact that you continue to respond to me despite saying you wont.

Anyway

Gamine, if you would only stop being so hasty and excited, maybe you wouldnt still be making such silly mistakes

dude, you don't have to mention my name. The act of passive aggression is one I'm an expert at spotting. Btw it's a female trait, so I suggest you find some other way to deal with situations

as for "figuring out" your phrase, I'll pass.

who knew "hmm typho" would cause 4 sermons when he just easily could have said "oops my mistake" 

Exactly.

whites having better "cover-up" doesnt change the fact that blacks esp black women are leading on the STD polls. so instead of the "well whites have STDs too" how about we focus on the black community for the moment

I think she's suing cos they didnt quickly attend to her.

Perosnally I would have mangled that thing the first time I realized it was "whipped out"

What kind of aim is that sef for it to have reached her hair just like that, lmao I swear too many loonies in this country.

In other words, you detest yourself?

more like classic garbage

anyway I like Wes Anderson.