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Lmao AJ you are ridiculous

Im just wondering why cultural compatibility matters so much more to us African women while African men have no problem dating Black American females.

I hate the name "fred"

almondjoy:
Because we are culturally compartible! Simple! Nigerian ladies know what "quality" is. The kind you will take to your parents and they will be proud of you. Others here just run to Las vegas or Mexico and just do their thing without any witnesses. No Nigerian girl will get married like that and be satisfied with that marriage!

How come cultural compatibility matters more to African women than the men?

AJ why are exactly ARE we more comfortable with "our kind"

EXPONENT:
Most drive cabs, though.

Don't get it twisted. The ones that do succeed here were already middle-class citizens in their own countries.

First off since we're "primitive" and "rough looking", why re you even on this site? What's wrong with black planet?

Secondly that statement you made about middle class sis quite the lie. Most are NOT middle class citizens, if by getting your church together to help you pray to win the visa lottery then having a donation party to pay for your ticket is what you consider "middle class", have fun with that cos that's how some people leave Nigeria yet they still end up going to another country and do well.
Most third world country citizens ends up doing better in America than even some white people, what the hell is your excuse? Blah blah inner city schools, you should see some of the public schools in Nigeria before you go on to your sob-stories, yet that hasnt stopped most of us, nor has it stopped most immigrants who come here and excel so spare us

and Btw I'd sooner accept the title of yahooze than the reputation of being the most in jail despite being the minority in the country and also the fact that Father's Day is the most confusing day in the life of a black american.

Please go and sit down and let Lurker & hero answer our questions. Lunatic.

because simply walking away would have been too much of a manly thing to do I assume?

Reacting like a demented baby seems to be the "in thing" now.

well southerners have the myth of being quite conservative in comparision to others

3 accounts.

his personal account
her personal account

Then the joint account for the important stuff like bills.

No ko, Non ni.

Happens all the time, forced marriage esp if the girl's family's affluent,, even if it involves jazz, they will do it. Lmao

I suggest you guys be careful of those you go around poking else be sentenced to life time imprisonment known as "shotgun marriage"

bawomolo:
no. so there are many baby mama's in naija now??

Not really since most naija parents are smart enough to make the miserable SOB marry the baby's mother.

sleeping with black american men

hammers:
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One even got to the extent of NO SEX WITH CONDOM

How does that happen unless you allow it?

Are these women getting pregnant by themselves? Everyone's carrying a Jesus jnr all of a sudden?

Lmao stillwater, they are known for only liking black women as their mistresses

DeNiro excluded  

*yawns* Thank you.

Back to topic.

lol correct wetin

like i said they want to do that so a woman wint have a say in the home. Dont believe the hype

lmao spoilt, wetin upset the apple cart? you sef , might as well have gotten a prenup

hahha yes you have.

do you think they gave you more problems cos you're not from the same tribe as your husband(cant even remember which) or they were just merely trying to be busybodies in general

you didnt answer the question about issues with in-laws amsky dear? 

I cant meet anymore people cos someone made me bald

Frankies, get over her.

Blatant, why do you constantly feel the need to respond to my comments? Is it by force

In case you havent noticed, I usually ignore you on purpose as all you ever direct towards me is snide and juvenile comments that frankly I don't care for. I don't refer anything to you so it'd be nice if you could do the same

Who the hell said anything about complete independence? Unless you're blind, i believe I made it clear that I believe when it come sto family situations, bills should be split. The same oyb I was agreeing with, I don't see you bothering him.

There's a reason some guys want complete control with such things. It's because if they decide to waste the money that should be for the family on something stupid and irrelevant, they can say to their wives "well it's MY money, so you have no right to speak". Bills and such should be split so the marriage is more of a partnership and husband and wife can then make decisions TOGETHER. I know that's such a foreign/"westernized" concept for some control freaks.

Seriously leave me be. Thank You.

rumor-mongering? You'd have to be pretty important for me to care enough for such.

Everything's according to the posts/thereads you've made here. No more. No less.

oyb:
my fellow men and their pursuit of 'control' - anyway to each is own - some women obviously like to be under control. . .

Lol exactly. It's pretty sick.

Lurker,

I opersonally found the movie mediocre. Anyway I didnt say black americans didnt/done like it. What im saying is that such a subject should be something black directors and actors should be interested in doing, instead of obnoxious movies that constantly make them look like hood rats.

You Nigerians have a twisted view of marriage. It's quite disgusting.

^ Beware of psychos.

[quote author=Ms. Lurker link=topic=119436.msg2052332#msg2052332 date=1205415125]You can do both.[/quote]But they dont. and my gripe with the coonery isnt really the music, it's their way with films.

Lurker, the sagging of the pants thing comes from imitating the way prisoners dress. Prisoners are not allowed to own belts so they have an excuse, why people outside feel the need to do the same is beyond me

will deal with the others later

Why are Black american women so hateful to other black women? Where's the sense of loyalty?

What the hell is the point of "youknowImean" when they didnt even say anything in the first place so how the hell am i supposed to know what they mean?

Why dont black people ever get out of slave mentality, why the hell do they still eat theb remnants of pig parts which was left to them when they were house slaves? Chitlins and all that FATTENING nonsense was given to them cos they were consider to be the lowest of the low yet they still continue the tradition of eating that garbage, why?

I would also like an anwer to 4Hi's question of BAs being condecending to Africans, you all now claim to be from the "motherland" thinking by wearing kente cloth you are one of us but that doesnt stop you from still making fun of us behind our backs by calling us "unciviklized" or "white washed"

Why are BAs so fond of COONERY? Movies and acts that rely on their obnoxious stereotypes instead of trying to strive for better? I would think a movie like Blood Diamond would be something a black american director wouyld be interested in making since you people like to claim that you care so much about Africa

This last one is to you Hero, why after having children havent you married this Igbo  "fiancee" of yours? Do you enjoy the whole "baby daddy" thing or what's the problem?