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D4V1D~D4:
Thanks ... another problem I have is shyness. I'm shy and I once tried this drug popularly known as "rochi" Omo this thing boost my confidence die.. I chyke more than enough babes, made em smile n laugh wella, but I no follow up sha, phone spoilt! now I'm thinking of taking this everyday to boost my confidence. I know it can't be a good way. so any advice on how to boost my confidence please?

sorry been veri busy .
u shud stop cos it gonna affect u not gonna move forward .to b confident is jst in ur head u have to act confident den ppl wud see u as confident .u have too av dis mindset dat u are grt nd u are unique nd u are d best this world have to offer .u walk up tall ,u av to tell urself dat u the boss nd act lik it dnt over do it sha .wen u wake up in the moni tell urself all dis .look ppl in the eyes dnt b scared wen u do it ppl wud tak away dia eyes b bold nd kip tellin u a star act lik it nd ppl wud bliv u are.add dis wit wat my boss the op has said.

D4V1D~D4:
xxxteddyxxx, my own problem is mainly convos. I don't really know how to keep up convos. Yes, a normal answer would be get to know a girl. So I ask questions. And there was this girl that ended up asking if this (our convo) was an interview. Yeah, cuz most girls give straight annoying answers to a stranger, no mattter how open the question is.

E.g
Me: Have you ever traveled abroad?
Girl: Yes
Me: Cool, where?
Girl: Blah blah
Me: Okay, me I have (or haven't), I enjoyed the place, good food, this that, especially the blah blah (If i've been there before) OR I would like to go there one day tho, how was it, what do you miss about blah blah?
Girl: Cool/okay.. it was nice. Everything

And no matter the question, na so straight answers go dey fly in, or worse ignoring/snubbing (if na texting or bbm) as for face to face talking. their face shows it all and demoralizes you. no matter how you smile pass.

Yeah, bringing up a joke might lighten things, i guess, but i'm very bad at that, I'm not a funny person. and it's worse whenever I try to be!

yap I feel u bro .d simple truth is u asking open ended question .u are asking question dat brings on one answers which is bad .wen u ask open ender questions u transition frm dere e.g
you:hy are u frm around here
her:yes
you:I'm kinda new yr is dere is dere ny fun place were one can have fun
her:mayb d beach
you:u look lik the fun type wat was ur last experience dere .u can also ask wat do u like doin fr fun
(may b she says swimming)
u can tell her a story of wen u or sumone went to swim nd u can form nytn jst to kip convo not lookin like interview.
and also u must b a good listerner to b a good talker wen u listen u get point u hook on to get her talking e.g she says:I'm dis kind of indoor person dat dnt go out
.the hook I'm gonna pick here is indoor
me:u stay guess wat do u do wen u alone
she:well I chat watch films.
hook I'm gonna pick is film
me:so tell me do u lik home made or foriegn .she:foriegn.
me;so tell me wat ur favorite.nd on nd on
the clue is u listenin nd pickin hooks.

usmanspihn: Hy OP I met a girl in ma skul and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ minors from ma dept recently and we got chatting. I get to click with a lady I like immediately. It seems we got off right den I asked for her digits and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ said NO. I just told her I would nt stop till I get it and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ said LET'S WAIT AND SEE. What can I do

well u made a mistake here u shudnt have said dat u av made her wnt to prove to u u cnt get her number nd trust me dat not good .wat u shud do is ,wen u see her tell her she has won nd dnt ask fr her digit .start again frm the beginning by trying to create rapport nd dis time take it slow after creating rapport u might wanna end by saying we catch up lata .anoda time u meet u try knwing wat she lik doin best nd suggezt wen u both can do it togeda .den u tell her u wud call her assuming u had her number so u guys can meet nd request fr her numb again.

Blain: @ xxxtedxxx
Watt do I do,to kip ma reltnship funfull*i'm nt d intrestn kinda guy,wah do I do?10ks man

simple u add sum fun.
u can add suprise to ur relationship.always suprise her.u dnt nid money to av fun wit a grl u love .u can get a mat sum fruits nd mayb 5aliv wit two cups .one evenin tak her to a cool place be it field were ppl are not much .u guys can sit dere play nd have fun.lik wise go out on a walk .u can invite her to ur awse cook fr her b it indomie get a nice movie probly best seller nd watch wit her while cuddlin nd stuff.I advise u buy romantic movie nd start watchin

drjoebond080: u shudnt let dat stop u .wen u proud of ur flaws ppl wud learn to take u the way u are nd wud lik u fr dat .shake dem nd wen they call u on it u joke about it or laugh wit dem let dem knw u dnt care.

and dey shud learn to accpt u fr wo u are

dan_weezy: Xxxtedyxxx....I av to sae ur rilli doin a gud job..kip it up.. meslf get bottleneck for dating issues o...people always flatter me (both boiz and gals) DAT I am cute..sum even say ..I luk lyk wizkid...i often use DAT 2 get gals attention Buh d problem is dat I av a dry skin..and this has made my palms rough ..to d extent that people always complain wen I shake dem DAT my hands r 2 rough...so am always scared to shake gals to avoid dis comments..even tho sum pretend..wn I shake dm..I get uncomfortable wn a gal is lukin @ my hands or feets..dis has made me so insecure..shud I go 4 a surgery or try creams(av used many BT day didn't work)..dunno wat to do abt it ..really appreciate if u cud hlp

u shudnt let dat stop u .wen u proud of ur flaws ppl wud learn to take u the way u are nd wud lik u fr dat .shake dem nd wen they call u on it u joke about it or laugh wit dem let dem knw u dnt care.

nice one op .well ive read all the previous post nd now I'm here .well I'm gona b helpin out wit sum of the question in my own opinion.

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wat we nid is enuf time to prep for our exam

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ok.exam is nxt

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pls guys why is fifa 12 not playing on dis phone

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now wey dis babe don gree .una wan kan scatter me and she

Olly barbie219: lwkmd...me sef go add.
*Lands wit my private jet on top ofrima building...catwalks down,sights screenager.*
Ollybarbie:screenager wat r u doing here?
Screenager: *kneels down* ah! Madam i come giv my wife ashley money 4 soup!
Ollybarbie:Ehen...okay oh where d helicopter i say make u wash?
Screenager:madam i don wash am!
Ollybarbie: okay gud. Nw goan prepare it for my nxt outing. Those of u here for d post ume..oya to d left!
Hehehe:p:p:p

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me self go add my own
screenager :madam were u dey go ?
ollybarbie:I dey go see the president of nigeria
screenager:dat nl guy wey no dey comment ,wey jst dey ff d thread "drjoebond"?
ollybarbie:yes

a friend of mine wenever he unirates for the past 3 days it is yellow wat the problm

ftc

Pls guys were can i get football manager 2013 or 14 to download on my andriod phone wud b glad if i can get the torrent file

Chelsea wud win arsenal lose to man u. dats all

saw mine

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na so

any MLS direct entry u going to b my class mate holla@ me

u b idiot