xxxtedyxxx:

I understand..I ave been down dat road before.

# the basic concept of what happend is dat..dat unique attraction she used to feel for u has waned. And u didn't make any effort to spike it up.

I will say its ur fault..#sorry I don't mean to be hard on u. But wen a girl is feeling u..dats d time to act. Or make a move. Attraction with girls wanes easily wen u don't make any move, kiss dem, hug dem, s****x dem! It just reduces wit time..and before u know it..u. Av become just a normal friend wit her


#i will adived u..to call....and just talk abt wen u guys met.ow it used to be..and..all..bring back dose dead memories in her head.

#dont give up..on her yet..and relax..ur composure and confidence matters..if she can feel u before..she can feel u again.

So..relax..and focus on the little tins u r gona be doin from now.

Send her dis message...

"Hey hi.missed u..just a little note to let u know...I stil care"

Leave it like dat
Den call her late...

Getting topics with babes is simple wen u alrdy know what's on ur mind. U don't av to fidget..dats y we all need to practise everyday.

Focus on light calls..and messages for now..preferably..sms. Mornin texts...den call..nite text..den do it..again..don't call for a while, den text again. Just remix it. Den ask for a date.or meet.

drjoebond080:
yap I feel u bro .d simple truth is u asking open ended question .u are asking question dat brings on one answers which is bad .wen u ask open ender questions u transition frm dere e.g
you:hy are u frm around here
her:yes
you:I'm kinda new yr is dere is dere ny fun place were one can have fun
her:mayb d beach
you:u look lik the fun type wat was ur last experience dere .u can also ask wat do u like doin fr fun
(may b she says swimming)
u can tell her a story of wen u or sumone went to swim nd u can form nytn jst to kip convo not lookin like interview.
and also u must b a good listerner to b a good talker wen u listen u get point u hook on to get her talking e.g she says:I'm dis kind of indoor person dat dnt go out
.the hook I'm gonna pick here is indoor
me:u stay guess wat do u do wen u alone
she:well I chat watch films.
hook I'm gonna pick is film
me:so tell me do u lik home made or foriegn .she:foriegn.
me;so tell me wat ur favorite.nd on nd on
the clue is u listenin nd pickin hooks.

xxxtedyxxx: Never ever ask a girl if she has a bf.. Becos she alredy knows what u r tryna elicit.. If she is cute n hot..she wil most likely reply wit yes...if if she doesn't av..she will still say yes. No babe wants to be considered a chick without a bf. Assuming she says yes..den what next?..u gona reply..oh...dts cool..which makes u appear weak and not manly. If she says no..she alredy knows u wana propose. Let her bring up d topic her sef..she will most likely bring it wen she is getting attracted to u. And wen she doest..just act like its nothing..ignore it. Or just laf and say..u r not d jealous type. D point is..don't stay on d bf topic. Move to sth else. She is only teling u she has a bf..herself..so u don't think she is cheap or easy. Dats d psychology. The quicker u grrab it..d better.



#Attraction is not Logical. Its Emotional.

medexico:
Den u can..call..just to check..on her later..
Please how do I stir attraction?
and I already act bothered, I have already sent some messages and she apologized but continue afterwards.
A friend told me she is hooked up is that a full stop for me or can I still win her over?

tocynajani: Umm, my problem is that after meeting a girl, might be online or other wise, everything gets to a point where it's just stagnant... no excitement or promise for something more

D4V1D~D4:



Thanks ... another problem I have is shyness. I'm shy and I once tried this drug popularly known as "rochi" Omo this thing boost my confidence die.. I chyke more than enough babes, made em smile n laugh wella, but I no follow up sha, phone spoilt! now I'm thinking of taking this everyday to boost my confidence. I know it can't be a good way. so any advice on how to boost my confidence please?

tocynajani: Umm, my problem is that after meeting a girl, might be online or other wise, everything gets to a point where it's just stagnant... no excitement or promise for something more

xxxtedyxxx: More stuffs coming up..right away...u can post ur dating issues or sticking points.

Lordsocrates: hello boss, ur really awesome in wht u r doing, pls op, there's his gal i luv, she's a frend sista, i dnt kwn hw to be forwad wit her, she is alwys very open wit me, wil tel me much about herself, wud be happy 2 see me, n wen theres no 1 at dia place, we wud jus sit there chatin, i once told her hw i felt about her n asked her if i shud kil d feeling, n she said yes, bt i cant, she wudnt cal me, bt wen i cal n she isnt there, she wud gv me 5 or more missed calls, pls hw do i get her to invest in us, or hw do i kill my luv feelings for her, tanx

afdynamic: nice job bro... I hv a girl dat who i met 2ru her frd. I hvnt seen dis girl physicaly n she hasnt seen me 2. I saw her pics and ask frd 2 cal 2 huk us up. She gave her permision 2 give me her numba and we started flowin very wel. I hv succeded in wooin her and we talk often (though i do d calin most times) like we r in a relasionship cos i decode she doesnt hv a bf bt lately. Tins aint workin as b4 again. She doesnt pick 2l again always give an excuse of bein busy always. I stoped calin her again 4 a while bt i realised i can stil do sumtin. Pls help.

baggylips: Nice work op,all these ur advices here will really make a best seller book ,bk 2 d topic.There is dis gal I have a crush on in my church but the problem is dat I haven't had the privilege of talking to her because she always leaves with her family immediately after service,d only day I confronted her ,d fear in her eyes made me ask her only when she left high skl and she replied that it was dis year and from wat I saw she is not up to 18.All I want is just to be in talking terms with her while waiting for the right tym to date her fully.so pls op,any advice for me?

Olatimide: Hello boss, I'll really want you to help me, my problem is making the first move weneva i c someone i ll like to date nd even any strangers. And also I av dis mentality that I would neva date anybody around my area.. Any help?

xxxtedyxxx:


Yes lots of help.so many tins u can do.. Ur problem is ur inner game..which has to do with ur beliefs and ur self esteem. Keep all ur anxiety aside...brush it aside. Dats what making d first move is all about...


#as per girls in ur area.. Use my clasic line

# ""hey hi, I av seen u arnd a few times,..but we avent met..I am <insert ur name here> and u?


From dere...follow up with d convo.

Don't limit ur sef.
Just do it.

ife-wise:
I need serious help,There is this girl am damn sure she likes me because she flirts with seriously frm body language,serious eye contact,smiles one on one conv but seriously I Ignored her for the 1st few mnths because I wsn't sure of my feelings for here.But now she knows I like her but she seriously playing hard to get and playing games but when ever I step back and act distant she gets angry but she still flirts with me but doesn't want to commit herself but claims we are good friends.she wants to friend zone me but I insisted on dating because the body language till date shows she's trying to hide her feeling.

xxxtedyxxx:


Yea I get...av u gotten her fone nbr?...cos dats important.. Dat myt prove to be ur only means of contact..since she always leaves quick wit her family

baggylips: nope....dats what I don't know how to do cos no matter what I still put d fact that she z underage to question cos I wouldn't want her parents to embarass me publicly in the church.i don't want to be addressed as a pervert abeg

ife-wise:
But bro,I asked her to hangout with me today but she rejected but I sense because I don't call her often and I don't give her much attention.But she ws polite and said she wants to be with her friends.

Incrizz: xxxtedyxxx great job
But I beg to differ on one of your points:
I don't know why and I can't help it but once some dude who seems to be interested in and is chyking me begins to upload pictures of him and other girls, my whole system just friendzones him.
And like you earlier mentioned, once a gurl friendzones you, you can hardly be rescued from that
friendzoneocean. And yeah..he should move on to other fishes in the ocean.

Incrizz: xxxtedyxxx great job
But I beg to differ on one of your points:
I don't know why and I can't help it but once some dude who seems to be interested in and is chyking me begins to upload pictures of him and other girls, my whole system just friendzones him.
And like you earlier mentioned, once a gurl friendzones you, you can hardly be rescued from that
friendzoneocean. And yeah..he should move on to other fishes in the ocean.

D4V1D~D4:



Thanks ... another problem I have is shyness. I'm shy and I once tried this drug popularly known as "rochi" Omo this thing boost my confidence die.. I chyke more than enough babes, made em smile n laugh wella, but I no follow up sha, phone spoilt! now I'm thinking of taking this everyday to boost my confidence. I know it can't be a good way. so any advice on how to boost my confidence please?

xxxtedyxxx:

Nice..u r making progrss
Send her a txt later tonite maybe arnd 11

#hey,hi..hope u ad fun and lots of laughter wit ur friends today..nite dear...sleep sweet'

Den call her d next day...and ask for wen she is gona be chanced.once she tells u..make her comit..n let her know u r serious abt meeting up wit her.

xxxtedyxxx:

Nice..u r making progrss
Send her a txt later tonite maybe arnd 11

#hey,hi..hope u ad fun and lots of laughter wit ur friends today..nite dear...sleep sweet'

Den call her d next day...and ask for wen she is gona be chanced.once she tells u..make her comit..n let her know u r serious abt meeting up wit her.