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ekineme:
The anonymous person is the 23 years old girl, he is cheating with, this is not rocket science. She either want the family separated so that she can have the man to herself or she felt hurt and cheated.

The woman is just too busy trying to be a good(house) wife that's she neglected noticing the changes on time.

I pray they find a way around it though, she seems a good woman but it takes more than that, she is not sexually attractive to him anymore, though he still loves her housewife roles.

The other side chick is sexually attracted to him but broke and a leach. I don't see them living happily either should his marriage crash.

The man best bet is to kneel and apologize, do whatever he can to appease the wife, thereafter discuss his feelings towards her. Communication can sort this out, but only after this kind of incidence because before now nothing can tame a man that has lost interest. His eyes will always be outside.

1000angstroms:
THey have His drug files to implicate him hence he must do their bidding.

Stiflersammy:
Done. Check your email.

VeeDee22:
I really can't thank you less for this well detailed explanation. I appreciate your time VeeDee22.. I would also appreciate you link me up with the person you know. Actually, I belive it doesnt matter who am getting married too. Its the same process for all. So pls kindly help me ask. Thank you so much


To answer your questions, to the best of my knowledge
1. Can’t say if you will be made to pay verification fee again, so it’s best to just go with it anyways, along with your verification documents and forms. If they don’t need it, they’ll tell you that day, or return them later.

2. In any case, except your spouse is a blue card holder or researcher, you’ll need A1. If you haven’t already prepared for it, they will give you time to submit it later. So it’s best to just prepare for it. Even if you’re getting married to a full-blooded German, you’re still required to submit A1. Except maybe because in your case, you’re getting married outside the country. You can probably ask the consular on the day of your interview.

3. The documents you need are on the website. Nigeria.diplo.de

4. I read somewhere that it’s about 68k now. But please go with more cash if you can, you might have to pay for some unplanned expenses like photocopies, print outs etc.

5. I do know someone (not personally, and not gay), who got his visa via the engagement/ license to marry route. Can help you ask him if he would be able to help you better.