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ipobarethieves:
Let dem insult U/call U mumu but pls,dnt abandon that girl now.If u must discard her, let her give birth first and u can do the needful after 6 months , she'll understand.If u can't maintain her,pls,PM me her WhatsApp,.I'll take responsibility

The insults made me type about discarding her....

It's not a big deal supporting her just that i needed someone to put me through on the sexual aspect.......

smallsmall:
Thunder fire you for not taking your time to come up with a good story.
When you asked her to keep the Pregnancy, you did not ask anybody, it is now you want to ask us how to become a father of an unknown child?You carry Pregnant Hustler put for house, come dey disturb our peace here
Amadioha join thunder to scatter your head.

Smallsmall bro she no dey my house.....


Na her working place i know her from.....


Na based on say we both na from SS dats why she dey clear me everything.....

Roseey0:
Love as a friend.
Keep away the romance she will get the msg. But always show up for her. Preggy is not leprosy. She deserves all the love and care she can get. Call and care.
Don't talk people out of decisions. Let them make decisions they can handle per time.
As you wan jappa now, after you don convince am say you dey for her, who go come help her?

Thanks dear.... i no go japa again make person pikin no go commit suicide because of me....


I will try my best for the sake that she opened up....

TGM2015:
Give her necessary support for the sake of the unborn child and her life. The more mentally and emotionally stable she is the better her health and the child. The likelihood her thinking of committing suicide, killing or abandoning the child after will either be eliminated or tends to zero.

Three months after birth, you can have a one on one discussion with to declare to stand of relationship with her. Anyway, not loving her after she opened up to you shows you never genuinely love her in the first place and her getting lost from the time you met means she is not that wayward.

I love her and i still loves her just that i dont want to do anything that i would regret later.....


We recently discussed alot and she told me it's her first time of getting pregnant and the guy responsible happened to be the one that deflowered her....


Am just trying my best with encouraging words to make sure she doesn't fall into depression.....

geesilver:
them never beat am him don dey cry and na him dey initiate person..... na wa ooooo. see his safe like who drink laxative.

Asin crying bird�

Asin Kalejaiye been wan cornerbam kolapo na im ekelebe nap dem.....


Some pple never still wan get sense...

Shun Cultism and live a free life.......

samuel900:
I don't know what I will do to my own issue now....am in debt of over 400k now, and police may come for me, I can't stand the harrasment.....the best way to go now is what thinking, if it is suicide.

Hold on bro.....


Better days ahead.....

salford1:
Not surprised. It's OAU. The university tests ones limit.

My year one at OAU back in 2001, 88 students matriculated. Only 12 of us graduated. 8 had extras. 68 were expelled or willingly dropped out due to failing grades.

Nawaooo.....


Serious wahala for Crises!!!.....

jieta:
When that ghanian guy posted about his school i was blown away, here you are spoiling my mood.

20/01/2021 thread hitting FP today.......


NL mods i hail oooooooo

The environment no neat Abegggggg......
Mtcheeewww.......

Naija all the way!!!.....

Saintmary:
Bros you're wicked.
Why are you doing this to the confused lady?
She wants to terminate a pregnancy, you are talking her out of it, do you plan to take responsibility for the baby?

You're not helping anyone with that hypocritical advice of yours when you are already thinking of how to abandon her.

Let her know she's on her own, so that she can make her decisions with a clearer mind.


And don't tell me she's to blame, she and her ex are to blame so she shouldn't carry it alone.

please How am i wicked?....

Ok u expect me to assist her in terminating almost 4months pregnancy that i know nothing about?......

The worst part is that her Boss have known that she usually come to my side.. of which if anything should happen to her i am the prime suspect.....

I thank God i never slept with her and i still thank God that i never helped her with the abortion...

She is under her Boss care presently and i pray she delivers safely....

kunle75:
So are you telling us she is not aware that she was pregnant before she meet you?
Wake up someone is about to rope you with emotional liability.
Are you Jesus christ ni

She was aware but didn't know how to tell me until i persuaded her to know what's bothering her... cos she always look lost in thought wen ever we are togeda....

TheEnygma:
You can be friends with her but don't get close to her anymore.... Move on with your life, the guy that got her pregnant is probably broke or irresponsible and she's looking for a man to hang responsibilities on.....Find another girl and move on and don't let her emotionally blackmail you into taking up responsibility for a pregnancy that isn't yours because it's very obvious that's what she wants to do.

Hmmmm... thanks alot bro i really appreciate...

Will do as you said.....

Freestainworld:
She's not somebody's wife, she's just an expectant baby Mama, sleeping with her wouldn't cause any trouble but I will strongly advise against that, you need to get to know her more, even if you have something for her, it shouldn't be now till you finalize your investigations on her, like I said previously, just support her in any way you can till she puts to bed, let her stay with her people not in your house ooo, only call or visit her once in awhile.

Thanks alot bro....

Am now kind of relieved... have been thinking weda i don enter one chance by having a romantic affair with an expectant mum the moment she broke the news to me.... I thank God the sex never happened.....

She is new in town and staying with her Boss....

Thanks once again na everyday person dey learn....

Donjazzy go use the collabo collect HEADIES next year.......

Freestainworld:
I know lots of guys will give you negative advice, firstly, it is good you advised her against terminating the pregnancy, you can just continue in giving her moral support so her brain can calm down, but I wouldn't advise you to continue the dating aspect, you barely know her too well, one week isn't enough to conclude that she's madly in love with you before somebody use your head play ludo, neither am I advising you to run away from her.

@bolded is exactly what she needs presently...

Someone told me back then never to sleep with somebody's wife... I have also been thinking weda it's part of it playing out....

Freestainworld wat ya say?....

indodon:
Oga leave the bitch.. Make she suffer the consequences of her own actions






































































Or help her out with another man's child then after the birth watch her leave.. Don't ask me how I know

E be things.......

chrisblack:
did you ever loved her?

Yea before her confession...

BiggyB242:
Brother, she doesn't love you. She just manipulating you to pin the child on you. Run as far as your legs can take you.

You don't know women, they are damn great actor. They can change emotion in split seconds and it will look so real.

Why will you want her to keep the child, would you take care of the child after birth? Cut her off and let her take her own decision. Some guys una go just carry people problem.

Why i even asked her to keep it is because she wanted me to refer her to where she can abort it of which if anything happens to her i will be held responsible......

Her boss volunteered to take care of her and the child....

Na only money matter i carry for head bro...

femi4:
Leave her if you don't have self control

Thanks bro...

Seems you are the only one that understood wat i wrote..

kunle75:
Are you the father or her mother?

Why are you taking up someone else's responsibility, are you a mugu?

Lolsss,,,, read to understand bro.....


She is not a Liability...

Am only asking whether i should ditch her or still be friend with her after all she told me....

femi4:
You mean you can't control yourself around her...smh. She's preggy with another man's child. It's an abomination to sleep with a preggy lady that's not carrying your child

@bolded...is the reason for this thread.....

I can't just do that...

Was contemplating on ghosting her to avoid stories that touch...

TheEnygma:
Op, if what you are saying is true then you are the most SIMPish guy I've ever met..... It's very obvious the girl got pregnant before you got close to her and be grateful to God for not banging her that day because she would have pinned another guy's pregnancy on you.
What you need is an overdose of the RED PILL.

She told me how it all happened...

I observe bfr having sex so loose guarding because of punna aint part of me.....


Summary of the whole write up:Thinking of still been around her as a friend till she give birth or to just cut her off totally......

femi4:
Be around her till she have the baby, after that you can decide

But that can only be possible to me if no sex is involved...

Ajibade123:
in summary she want you to accept the pregnancy and love her unconditionally and you are actually considering it
Mr Yemi my lover e gbadun sir

@Bolded...Not at all bro.... .

I am not considering anything... she only opened up to me so that i wouldn't get to find out on the long run from outsiders...

Am only thinking she agreed to date me so i could help her flush it but.. u know all dos kind fast game nah..... But since i have talked her out of it and her Boss have also agreed to take care of her so i think we are done......

jimmychang:
Drop your location boss.....if you get mind ... what breed of werey is this one

He don play you the tape?. ..

Abi na thesame werey dey disguise?....

chatinent:
Ditch am

Done and Dusted!!!.....

chatinent:
This talk pain me sha

Boss man no vex Abegggggg.....

But assuming it happens to you, what would you do?

lkillbrokehoes:
Lolz nah Calabar the jobless kid dey? that boy suppose chop better beating to reset his brain to default.

i dey tell you......


Las Las e go still be..........

RiyadhGoddess:
She can't be pregnant for another guy and still be in love with you, that's not love huh.
Love isn't confused...

After narrating every thing to me she told me that she have moved on which is one of the reasons she accepted my proposal... but after every every local man weak.....

chatinent:
Even the person the matter happened to is still what the guy said he is.

Lolsss,,, ur matter no be here oooo....

Na who no sabi you dis ur post go choke.....